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How sexually experienced is somebody who has had sex with one person for a decade?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't know what the true or typical average number of sex partners is for a thirty year old guy, but someone who has had twenty one night stands has had nowhere near the sheer amount of hours fucking as someone who fucked every night for years with one person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there anyone in the world who has had sex every night with the same person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there anyone in the world who has had sex every night with the same person?"

yeh its called the middle east

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there anyone in the world who has had sex every night with the same person?"

Does my right palm count, I call her Rosie and she has 5 sisters.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I dont mean literally every night or anything. But someone who lost there virginity and then had a long monogamous relationship with someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had sex with an ex for 11 years, give or take some time off hen sulking when out kids were little and he left everything to me.

Experience isnt time exactly, it's what yu did during that time. Like missionary and no oral wouldn't make you experienced but experimenting and getting up to allsorts would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even if they had sex with the same person for 100 years.. they could try many different sexual things with that 1 person..

It's like saying if you have only ever driven 1 car how much driving experience have you had x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was in a relationship for over 10 years and never strayed. It was only when we broke up then my sexual education really started. I've never been back to a vanilla relationship since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had sex almost every day for over 20 years. Sometimes more than once and a fair bit of it has been downright filthy, kinky stuff.

We also know married couples that barely see each other naked, let alone have sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was in a relationship for over 10 years and never strayed. It was only when we broke up then my sexual education really started. I've never been back to a vanilla relationship since."

Not all long term relationships are vanilla x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was in a relationship for over 10 years and never strayed. It was only when we broke up then my sexual education really started. I've never been back to a vanilla relationship since.

Not all long term relationships are vanilla x"

Yep, but it's hard to find someone who is the same kind of crazy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was in a relationship for over 10 years and never strayed. It was only when we broke up then my sexual education really started. I've never been back to a vanilla relationship since.

Not all long term relationships are vanilla x

Yep, but it's hard to find someone who is the same kind of crazy x"

It's just luck when you do lol xx I found my partner when I wanted guitar lessons n I never went home lol x

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By *rnMrs2017Couple
over a year ago

County Durham

Me! I met my other half, lost my virginity to him, 13 years later still together and I've been faithful the entire time.

I feel I'm pretty experienced,we've done a lot of stuff, I just don't have any frame of reference for things. Like I don't know if my tricks that work on him will work on anyone else that sort of thing.

He'd like me to experience other people and enjoy watching me do so, hence us being here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me! I met my other half, lost my virginity to him, 13 years later still together and I've been faithful the entire time.

I feel I'm pretty experienced,we've done a lot of stuff, I just don't have any frame of reference for things. Like I don't know if my tricks that work on him will work on anyone else that sort of thing.

He'd like me to experience other people and enjoy watching me do so, hence us being here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been with my hubs 11 years but ive sex more in the last 9 months than we did in the last ten years.

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston

If anyone managed to spend 10 years fucking one person I would say:

"WoW! When did you eat and sleep?"!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

credit card increase expenditure balances create more sex, not my thoughts its from mbna research

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oops, another look at me profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was with my ex 21yrs but can honestly say that I've learnt a lot, enjoyed a lot more and tried a lot more in the the last 5yrs since I became single....

So my sexual experience started 5yrs ago for me and now realise what was missing in my life before.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex took my v cherry we were together 15 years . Looking back it was ok but it's me thats changed sexually now i am older I want to try and experience so much more .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I don't know what the true or typical average number of sex partners is for a thirty year old guy, but someone who has had twenty one night stands has had nowhere near the sheer amount of hours fucking as someone who fucked every night for years with one person."
variety is the spice of life ,enough said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 years with one person before joining the shenanigans on here. We haven't had sex daily for over 20 years but certainly plenty of it. Getting to know someone so well does make you sexually more confident in the act but less so with the social part beforehand.

What can I say - duck to water

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexual experience is an entirely subjective term but is pretty much nothing to do with the amount of partners you have or haven't had

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I was with my ex 21yrs but can honestly say that I've learnt a lot, enjoyed a lot more and tried a lot more in the the last 5yrs since I became single....

So my sexual experience started 5yrs ago for me and now realise what was missing in my life before..... "

I was a virgin when I married aged 20. I left my husband after 23 years and started seeing someone when I was 45. It was my awakening: the best sex/time of my life. The two years we were together were incredible: we even joined the mile high club.

I've not looked back but I've yet to equal let alone better those two years.

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By *jj46Man
over a year ago

rhyl


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I don't know what the true or typical average number of sex partners is for a thirty year old guy, but someone who has had twenty one night stands has had nowhere near the sheer amount of hours fucking as someone who fucked every night for years with one person."
I was with my ex for 11 years I met her when I was 33 and split when 44 3 to 4 times a week and alot of experimentation. As for being single, before plenty of flings but obviously more sex while in relationship

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

We got married very young only had been with each other swinging as taught us so much

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

I have been married for 34 years my husband is much older than me and hes been married before.

We used to have sex quite often, tried most things but it was never enough for me, I wanted it all the time.

When he retired he lost interest so he let me see other men.

Have had some good experiences and some bad ones.

Other men I have met do things completely differently, that's when I meet the good ones that I like.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

As long as each new partner is satisfied then that's all that matters. Once you're outside of the virgin category then how much or how many is somewhat immaterial in the no strings world imo.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

It would depend to some extent how adventurous the two monogamous people were.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Before I got married when I was a teenager I had sex with lots of men, mostly quickies, giving blow jobs and fucking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont mean literally every night or anything. But someone who lost there virginity and then had a long monogamous relationship with someone."

That would be me an my Mrs, 25 years together this year, and only started swinging about 13 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I don't know what the true or typical average number of sex partners is for a thirty year old guy, but someone who has had twenty one night stands has had nowhere near the sheer amount of hours fucking as someone who fucked every night for years with one person. variety is the spice of life ,enough said "

Variety is the spice of life and you can have that with the same person as long as both are open to new ideas and trying things differently. This works for us although we have learnt a lot of new tricks from others too! Everyday is a school day

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