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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi im after any tips or advice on surviving fab and how to get the most out of my experience on here.

Thanks everyone

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'd suggest writing a profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile says nothing about you at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lose the pointless warning, create a profile which is personal and interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm guessing the person you're looking for - from what I read - you want to be submissive to them? Unless I'm mis-reading. Maybe write more about what you're looking for exactly.

Sarah

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Write a profile. Be patient and never take it too seriously. Never get arsey if you get knocked back or blocked and have fun.

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

Mad laugh...

Ha ha, Ha ha ha... Ha ha ha ha ha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You must have reallyyyy thick skin to survive on here bud lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lose the pointless warning, create a profile which is personal and interesting. "

Pointless warning gone x thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you guys I'll get making those changes

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Lose the pointless warning, create a profile which is personal and interesting.

Pointless warning gone x thanks"

So has Miss Grey. Don't you want to meet her anymore?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi im after any tips or advice on surviving fab and how to get the most out of my experience on here.

Thanks everyone "

have a read through other guys profiles might help you fatten yours out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lose the kik address aka your entire profile. Give it to people you click with on here. I doubt you would just walk up to a lady and just give them your number and expect results. Engage with them on here first. Despite what you may think there is no guarantees on here. You get out what you put in. As already said write a decent profile. Have patience, expect to be knocked back and ignored. When that happens dont turn into a dick. Move on.

Treat people as actual people. Be yourself, be personable. Dont bullshit or use cut and paste messages.

Dont start sending messages when you are horny and want a meet NOW!! Crack one off (wash your hands) then message. 99% of women dont want to be your random cum receptacle.

Get involved, relax and have fun.

(You did ask!!)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lose the pointless warning, create a profile which is personal and interesting.

Pointless warning gone x thanks

So has Miss Grey. Don't you want to meet her anymore?"

I'm not sure it'll happen lol I'm having my dreams crushed haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lose the kik address aka your entire profile. Give it to people you click with on here. I doubt you would just walk up to a lady and just give them your number and expect results. Engage with them on here first. Despite what you may think there is no guarantees on here. You get out what you put in. As already said write a decent profile. Have patience, expect to be knocked back and ignored. When that happens dont turn into a dick. Move on.

Treat people as actual people. Be yourself, be personable. Dont bullshit or use cut and paste messages.

Dont start sending messages when you are horny and want a meet NOW!! Crack one off (wash your hands) then message. 99% of women dont want to be your random cum receptacle.

Get involved, relax and have fun.

(You did ask!!)

"

Thank you very much. Kik is now gone and thank you for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lose the pointless warning, create a profile which is personal and interesting.

Pointless warning gone x thanks

So has Miss Grey. Don't you want to meet her anymore?

I'm not sure it'll happen lol I'm having my dreams crushed haha"

Steady on fella. Its all constructive...have a nosey round have a look at some male profiles (dont worry you cant catch the ghey from it) and take some inspiration. But dont go nicking someone elses profile..people get upset. Your profile is your shop window. You need to sell yourself. Unfortunately there is a disproportionate amount of guys on here so you need to stand out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lose the pointless warning, create a profile which is personal and interesting.

Pointless warning gone x thanks

So has Miss Grey. Don't you want to meet her anymore?

I'm not sure it'll happen lol I'm having my dreams crushed haha

Steady on fella. Its all constructive...have a nosey round have a look at some male profiles (dont worry you cant catch the ghey from it) and take some inspiration. But dont go nicking someone elses profile..people get upset. Your profile is your shop window. You need to sell yourself. Unfortunately there is a disproportionate amount of guys on here so you need to stand out"

Hahahaha brilliant

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Spellcheck spellcheck spellcheck

Some will tell you spelling doesn't matter. To a lot of people it does. Try not to have anything negative in your profile. A list of fonts is a real turnoff

Be lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps be a little more trusting of people....

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Come up and see me sometime.

Whatever you put in your messages to others you need to consider that -

1. They'll read your profile in preference to the message.

2. They'll have a ton of other messages and profiles to view that day.

So get your profile as great as it can be. No vague statements! Be clear about you and what you offer. Anything ambiguous creates doubt - and this is a killer.

Add a range of photos and have a smiling face pic, even if it's for sending privately.

Search and read other single men's profiles, seeing good and bad approaches.

Always respect others' interests, such as who they want to meet - you're wasting efforts if you don't.

Consider the geographic area you're willing to cover - add to your details too.

Consider bi couples and possibly get more bi experience independently.

Never complain in the forums as people hate it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont write capitals, some may say it as a form of shouting, put some nice things about yourseld, dont put can lick pussy for hours as most women see that as oh another one full of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

go bi more choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Effort in and patience is the key, don't be pushy and be polite always, there are plenty of timewasters on here both male and female but I guess you will come across them, pushy doesn't work on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *lovisMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

1. Expect nothing

2. Dont be a dick.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Lose the pointless warning, create a profile which is personal and interesting.

Pointless warning gone x thanks

So has Miss Grey. Don't you want to meet her anymore?

I'm not sure it'll happen lol I'm having my dreams crushed haha"

If it's something you are interested in, say that. It may not happen but people won't know unless you tell them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lose the pointless warning, create a profile which is personal and interesting.

Pointless warning gone x thanks

So has Miss Grey. Don't you want to meet her anymore?

I'm not sure it'll happen lol I'm having my dreams crushed haha"

There are Miss Greys everywhere ... always hold onto your dream

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you thought of going to a club your not far from eureka's

They always welcome newbies,a place to meet lots of like minded people face to face,saves sitting behind a profile

there's party's all weekend see the eureka parties profile for details

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Be choosy about what advice you decide to use. If you try to please everyone, you'll end up with a bland mosh up of what everyone thinks is a good idea and your profile will reflect them, not you. You'll end up pleasing no one. The way to make your profile stand out is to make it reflect your personality and character. You really really don't want to be back in 6 weeks time asking for profile advice..,,

Go to a social or club

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