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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

how many of you insist on a pre meet phone call?

I've seen profiles where it states that there has to be a fem to fem chat before actually meeting otherwise the deal's off (or words to that effect)

personally I don't see the point and would rather not meet anyone who did insist on it just because...

thoughts please?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

It's not a deal breaker.

I insist on meeting in public for a first time but that's just sensible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand why some people do it... But I hate talking on the phone so I won't.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I won't give my phone number out until a meet is arranged, and even then its for emergencies only. I don't need a phone call and prefer I don't get millions of texts. Just one before the meet to check its still going ahead.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

I refuse to do the phone call thing. I have enough veris on this and my couples profile so that I shouldn't have to prove that I am female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't give my phone number out, except for very rare occasions, so it wouldn't happen.

I'm happy to go on Skype, though.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand why some people do it... But I hate talking on the phone so I won't. "

Same for me...hate phones.x

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I'm happy to chat on the phone*

*As long as I have nothing better to do that evening.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I won't give my phone number out until a meet is arranged, and even then its for emergencies only. I don't need a phone call and prefer I don't get millions of texts. Just one before the meet to check its still going ahead."

This

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I don't mind proving there is a female half in the couple, but only if we have already decided we are going to meet up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we ask for a fem to fem chat before we meet- but its not a deal breaker - we find its a good ice breaker especially if time is short when we meet up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've backed out of a social meet before because they were insisting on a phone chat even though I'm verified (and they weren't!)

But then on the flip side I was recently persuaded to have a quick call with someone and it turned into a very nice chat indeed so I guess it all depends on who is asking, how they ask, and how horny I am haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand why anyone meeting a couple would insist on here. Else you could well end up meeting just the male half who's partner is all of a sudden not available that night

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I like to speak on the phone first as it helps develop the relationship above and beyond just written text.

It is more fully interactive m, with real time answering of questions and you can negotiate the finer points of a meet.

It's also a way of filtering out unsuitable meets that may have otherwise wasted someone's time.

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"I understand why some people do it... But I hate talking on the phone so I won't.

Same for me...hate phones.x"

Me too. I meet at clubs so no need. If they turn up great, if not great

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I insist on a phone call, if they don't turn up I have cards printed with their number on and whack them into phone boxes

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I used to insist on it but now as i do a social first im not that bothered, plus can just keep in touch with them on here up to the meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some are greatcwithvenaiks and text ....

I prefer a phone chat ....

To see if there is any ...chemistry

Saves a heap of time with socials ...

Then I can meet someone I have already rapport with ....

Mwah x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree. I've learned from experience always to speak on the phone before agreeing to meet. It does help to separate the men from the boys.

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By *JcouplemidlandsCouple
over a year ago

Peak District

We think its a good idea, we chatted on the phone with a lovely couple from on here, It was a good icebreaker and put both couples at ease to know that we were both genuine couples. Thought it would of been a bit awkward but both females were chatting for ages x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No can't say I've never insisted on a pre meet phone call,well maybe just the one but that's because I wanted to hear his sexy accent

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

I insist on swapping numbers before a meet and will usually send a text but it's usually just to keep in touch on the day of the meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree. I've learned from experience always to speak on the phone before agreeing to meet. It does help to separate the men from the boys."

This

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Personally I can completely understand why couples would insist upon it, so many single guys pose as couples on here (so I hear) Plus I could understand why a single bloke may want to speak beforehand and I have obliged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand why some people do it... But I hate talking on the phone so I won't. "

Same Here

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I just use fab mainly. I think only my fuckbuddya have my mobile and they never contact me on that anyway.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I always like a pre meet phone call...I don't think it's an unreasonable request

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont do it. Dont mind doing it but usually always meet for coffee first anyway so wouldnt ask for one xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give Paula's number out she can have the thousand texts a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not a deal breaker.

I insist on meeting in public for a first time but that's just sensible "

This!

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By *AA123Couple
over a year ago

Lichfield

I'm not sure what it's meant to achieve other than confirming something that the verification does already (or should do).

The messages on fab should be enough to discuss likes and dislikes for both parties without having to have a potentially awkward additional chat on the phone.

Break the ice and have the chat at the meet or at worst have a social beforehand and decide then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't give out our phone numbers because they're also used for work. I suppose we could get a burner, but Kik/Skype/Group Chat/etc are just as effective

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