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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm just a tad pissed off today.

IDS wants to rob yet more middle-income money and slosh it out to the poor like some sort of modern day Robin Hood.

He says that the poorest will benefit by £25 more in their pockets each week with his new reforms and extra funding will be found to initiate new drugs-free programmes.

What's wrong with that, you say?

He then went on to say that after we've chucked loadsa money at the poor and the druggies he'll off them a job.

Great! Excellent even... but..

If they don't take it they will have their benefits cut ..

..which will leave them poor once again and probably shooting up outside the benefits office the very next day.

My question is this:

Will I get my £25 back?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" No "

What about my other £25? My wife is a middle income earner too. They gonna rob us of £50 to dish out to some poor people we don't even know?

That £50 could buy us 5 large tins of formula milk for our baby. They're taking food of out my son's mouth to give some lazy bone idle druggie!

Drive 'em all into the sea, I say!

Leave the country for us priviledged ones!

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By *edhotminxWoman
over a year ago

Turn left at the Singing Ringing Tree


"My question is this:

Will I get my £25 back? "

Well I think they will tell you that you could be entitled to it back. However before deciding whether you are or not entitled, you'll have to go down to the government offices and fill in dozens of forms, in triplicate, provide them with all your financial records, go back for an interview, then wait for a phone call from a supervisor and, if the rubber stampers in the back office say yes, wait 12 weeks to receive it.

But most probably not.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Kind of funny that this was announced the day after the unemployment figures rose by the highest monthly increase since 1993....

All very well coming out with these schemes and brainwaves....but where are the jobs going to come from?

There is absolutely no incentive for small to medium businesses to employ more staff at the moment....quite why this bungling government hasn't tied this in with tax breaks for businesses is anyones guess.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My question is this:

Will I get my £25 back?

Well I think they will tell you that you could be entitled to it back. However before deciding whether you are or not entitled, you'll have to go down to the government offices and fill in dozens of forms, in triplicate, provide them with all your financial records, go back for an interview, then wait for a phone call from a supervisor and, if the rubber stampers in the back office say yes, wait 12 weeks to receive it.

But most probably not. "

I could, of course, sell all my possessions, find the local scally drug dealer, spend everything I've got on Class A Heroin, lose my house, car, wife & job and take to mugging random strangers.

I bet I'd get my £25 back then.. with interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

where are these jobs coming from ...its great to see our government can conjure up jobs from nothing.

more hot air from the parties that like you to hear what they think you want to hear!

the only way to get people off benefits is not to pay them cash into thier accounts, after a year on benefits they should recieve tokens for budget stores to buy groceries and nothing else,

those that dont work should be moved to low grade accomodation .

We think most people hate the benefit scroungers but you have to hate the governments for creating this problem in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all are druggies, ive had to go on benefits a couple of times with health issues.

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By *edhotminxWoman
over a year ago

Turn left at the Singing Ringing Tree


"I could, of course, sell all my possessions, find the local scally drug dealer, spend everything I've got on Class A Heroin, lose my house, car, wife & job and take to mugging random strangers.

I bet I'd get my £25 back then.. with interest."

Exactly - unfortunately the only interest would be by some Government Drug Csar doing a survey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"where are these jobs coming from ...its great to see our government can conjure up jobs from nothing.

more hot air from the parties that like you to hear what they think you want to hear!"

Good point. I was just watching Andrew Neil excoriate a New Labour shadow minister over their pathetic record in power. At least 70% of new jobs went to foreign nationals whilst they swept this country's underclass under the carpet, helping to (almost) bankrupt the state in the process. They should have been training the unemployed in this country to fill the jobs that were available rather than simply signing blank cheques for benefit.

And so now we have one million 18-24 year olds out of work, graduates fighting over unpaid internships, and the Tories rubbing their hands in glee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This new mechanism is a massive change and it's going to be very interesting to see how the detail of it drips out over the coming weeks and months. Change is necessary to help balance the nations books and I actually think Labour are relieved they are not having to reform this system.

I must say though that I hope we are not going to constantly be fed political sound bites and tabloid hysteria about the very small minority of 'wasters and cheats' out there. The overwhelming majority of people on benefits are in the middle of the 'bell curve', they want a job, but the jobs on a full time living wage are not out there. I can't help but be concerned for many of these who will fall further below the poverty line because of changes announced today. That said I do believe change is necessary, but lets not allow the very small minority that abuse the system to rob us of our humanity.

My view on the Ops post is I don't care about the £25 (not certain where that figure comes from) if it helps get the system right, in fact I would pay more.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"I'm just a tad pissed off today."

... *stops reading and wanders off* ...

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By *iceguydaveMan
over a year ago

Monmouth


"I must say though that I hope we are not going to constantly be fed political sound bites and tabloid hysteria about the very small minority of 'wasters and cheats' out there. "

We are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting to note that the proposal for a 10% cut to housing benefit for anyone on jobseekers' allowance for more than a year has been unceremoniously dumped.

Another Tory u turn

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Interesting to note that the proposal for a 10% cut to housing benefit for anyone on jobseekers' allowance for more than a year has been unceremoniously dumped.

Another Tory u turn "

I would hope that these lazy fuckers who should be working will be given an unceremonious kick up the arse, found a job and ordered to work thus reducing their benefits by 100%!

But that's just what I'd do if I was in the Big Chair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kind of funny that this was announced the day after the unemployment figures rose by the highest monthly increase since 1993....

All very well coming out with these schemes and brainwaves....but where are the jobs going to come from?

There is absolutely no incentive for small to medium businesses to employ more staff at the moment....quite why this bungling government hasn't tied this in with tax breaks for businesses is anyones guess.

"

There's no need for incentives for anyone to employ anyone because there's no great demand for staff in just about any sector of the economy because there's no strategy for growth and little export led demand.

The first sign of any upturn will see some of the many part-time employees looking to full-time employment. Once that reservoir has dried up and IF, a big if, there's growth in the economy some inroads might be made into unemployment.

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By *erekduvallCouple
over a year ago

swansea


"I'm just a tad pissed off today.

IDS wants to rob yet more middle-income money and slosh it out to the poor like some sort of modern day Robin Hood.

He says that the poorest will benefit by £25 more in their pockets each week with his new reforms and extra funding will be found to initiate new drugs-free programmes.

What's wrong with that, you say?

He then went on to say that after we've chucked loadsa money at the poor and the druggies he'll off them a job.

Great! Excellent even... but..

If they don't take it they will have their benefits cut ..

..which will leave them poor once again and probably shooting up outside the benefits office the very next day.

My question is this:

Will I get my £25 back? "

Dont believe a word of it, its all about cutting money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kind of funny that this was announced the day after the unemployment figures rose by the highest monthly increase since 1993....

All very well coming out with these schemes and brainwaves....but where are the jobs going to come from?

There is absolutely no incentive for small to medium businesses to employ more staff at the moment....quite why this bungling government hasn't tied this in with tax breaks for businesses is anyones guess.

There's no need for incentives for anyone to employ anyone because there's no great demand for staff in just about any sector of the economy because there's no strategy for growth and little export led demand.

The first sign of any upturn will see some of the many part-time employees looking to full-time employment. Once that reservoir has dried up and IF, a big if, there's growth in the economy some inroads might be made into unemployment.

"

Wise words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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There's no need for incentives for anyone to employ anyone because there's no great demand for staff in just about any sector of the economy because there's no strategy for growth and little export led demand.

The first sign of any upturn will see some of the many part-time employees looking to full-time employment. Once that reservoir has dried up and IF, a big if, there's growth in the economy some inroads might be made into unemployment.

Wise words"

Thank you. I'd love to say it's just basic post neoclassical endogenous growth theory but Gordon would think I'm taking the piss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally think this government has done a good job so far by cutting the sick etc George Osborne has it spot on sick notes and scroungers will have to fine work soon or no luxury befits no more there is work for everyone if they get of their arse why should we pay taxes for people that don’t want to work, no body job is safe but I would never would want to sign on I rather work for buttons if my job went today. Next election I will vote for the Tories at first I did not like them but they have done what they say they are going to do mobility cars will be next to be scrapped cutting the spending is working so far

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sssshh.. you're not supposed to tell anyone you support what the govt are doing, the jocks don't like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I personally think this government has done a good job so far by cutting the sick etc George Osborne has it spot on sick notes and scroungers will have to fine work soon or no luxury befits no more there is work for everyone if they get of their arse why should we pay taxes for people that don’t want to work, no body job is safe but I would never would want to sign on I rather work for buttons if my job went today. Next election I will vote for the Tories at first I did not like them but they have done what they say they are going to do mobility cars will be next to be scrapped cutting the spending is working so far "

i have to agree

whoever got it was going to find they faced a tough job and lots of things need a damn good shake up the welfare system being just one and i hope it does le out the fraudsters and idle scroungers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sssshh.. you're not supposed to tell anyone you support what the govt are doing, the jocks don't like it. "

Now, now. It isn't that we don't like it (even though we don't) - it's simply that we don't do it. One Tory MP returned from the whole of Scotland.

People talk about the West Lothain question but where's the reciprocal 'fairness' in one Tory MP from Scotland and the Tory-led coalition gets to shut one (for sure) and maybe another RAF base in Scotland?

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By *im halpertMan
over a year ago

redditch

I work in a bank and you wouldnt believe the amount of benefits some people get ii seems wrong that there are generations of families where no one works!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since you work in a bank you'll be well aware there's two columns on a statement.

Check the income by all means but look at the outgoings too. Rent/ mortgage, Council Tax, heating and lighting, food clothes for the kids and so on.

See how much is left at the end of the month.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"I work in a bank and you wouldnt believe the amount of benefits some people get ii seems wrong that there are generations of families where no one works!!"

Nothing like a bit of customer confidentiality......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sssshh.. you're not supposed to tell anyone you support what the govt are doing, the jocks don't like it.

Now, now. It isn't that we don't like it (even though we don't) - it's simply that we don't do it. One Tory MP returned from the whole of Scotland.

People talk about the West Lothain question but where's the reciprocal 'fairness' in one Tory MP from Scotland and the Tory-led coalition gets to shut one (for sure) and maybe another RAF base in Scotland?"

Shut all the RAF bases in Scotland, and the Army bases, and the Navy ones too. Then build up the wall by another dozen feet, tell ya to take yer bloody flag and go on ya merry way.

Then we here in England will never have to endure another Labour government.

(and we won't have to support your mob financially from Westminster either.)

..and ya can have ya oil fields back cos we won't need them in 10-15 years time when we're all on electric cars. Ta.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I work in a bank and you wouldnt believe the amount of benefits some people get ii seems wrong that there are generations of families where no one works!!

Nothing like a bit of customer confidentiality......"

...and that, as they say, is nothing like customer confidentiality.

Seriously thought, where would the Torygraph get all the dirt on benefit 'scroungers' if it weren't for people like bank employees?

They'd have to make it up

I suppose, given all that's gone on recently, and when bank employees are only one rung up the ladder from child abusers they have to find ways of feeling good about themselves.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I work in a bank and you wouldnt believe the amount of benefits some people get ii seems wrong that there are generations of families where no one works!!

Nothing like a bit of customer confidentiality......"

Who's confidentiality has been broken?

No names have been mentioned, nor any specifics about any account.

I work for a telecoms company and we often listen in on calls whilst repairing lines. I've heard people arranging secret trysts without the husband knowing about it (it's usually married women playing away when I've listened in, I assume married men come on here ), and I've heard drug dealer's setting up drops.

Oops - I've just broken a confidentiality agreement huh?

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale


"Sssshh.. you're not supposed to tell anyone you support what the govt are doing, the jocks don't like it.

Now, now. It isn't that we don't like it (even though we don't) - it's simply that we don't do it. One Tory MP returned from the whole of Scotland.

People talk about the West Lothain question but where's the reciprocal 'fairness' in one Tory MP from Scotland and the Tory-led coalition gets to shut one (for sure) and maybe another RAF base in Scotland?

Shut all the RAF bases in Scotland, and the Army bases, and the Navy ones too. Then build up the wall by another dozen feet, tell ya to take yer bloody flag and go on ya merry way.

Then we here in England will never have to endure another Labour government.

(and we won't have to support your mob financially from Westminster either.)

..and ya can have ya oil fields back cos we won't need them in 10-15 years time when we're all on electric cars. Ta. "

I do hope Wishy is merely trolling for effect. If not then he really does make me ashamed to be English.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do hope Wishy is merely trolling for effect. If not then he really does make me ashamed to be English. "

I have no control over your feelings. I am entitled to an opinion regardless of whether it coincides with yours or not.

If you feel shame about a certain topic then that's a matter between you and your own conscience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sssshh.. you're not supposed to tell anyone you support what the govt are doing, the jocks don't like it.

Now, now. It isn't that we don't like it (even though we don't) - it's simply that we don't do it. One Tory MP returned from the whole of Scotland.

People talk about the West Lothain question but where's the reciprocal 'fairness' in one Tory MP from Scotland and the Tory-led coalition gets to shut one (for sure) and maybe another RAF base in Scotland?

Shut all the RAF bases in Scotland, and the Army bases, and the Navy ones too. Then build up the wall by another dozen feet, tell ya to take yer bloody flag and go on ya merry way.

Then we here in England will never have to endure another Labour government.

(and we won't have to support your mob financially from Westminster either.)

..and ya can have ya oil fields back cos we won't need them in 10-15 years time when we're all on electric cars. Ta.

I do hope Wishy is merely trolling for effect. If not then he really does make me ashamed to be English. "

could be worse...you could also be ashamed to be an english voting conservative

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale


"I do hope Wishy is merely trolling for effect. If not then he really does make me ashamed to be English.

I have no control over your feelings. I am entitled to an opinion regardless of whether it coincides with yours or not.

If you feel shame about a certain topic then that's a matter between you and your own conscience."

It is true thst you have no control over my emotions and yes, you are entitled to an opinion, no matter how repulsive that opinion may be.

However, i am entitled to feel shame for the silly, offensive and ignorant views held by a supposed 'fellow-countryman'.

The UK is what it is because of the efforts and actions of English, Scots, Welsh & Irish people, to denigrate a constituent Nation is to denigrate us all.

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale


"Sssshh.. you're not supposed to tell anyone you support what the govt are doing, the jocks don't like it.

Now, now. It isn't that we don't like it (even though we don't) - it's simply that we don't do it. One Tory MP returned from the whole of Scotland.

People talk about the West Lothain question but where's the reciprocal 'fairness' in one Tory MP from Scotland and the Tory-led coalition gets to shut one (for sure) and maybe another RAF base in Scotland?

Shut all the RAF bases in Scotland, and the Army bases, and the Navy ones too. Then build up the wall by another dozen feet, tell ya to take yer bloody flag and go on ya merry way.

Then we here in England will never have to endure another Labour government.

(and we won't have to support your mob financially from Westminster either.)

..and ya can have ya oil fields back cos we won't need them in 10-15 years time when we're all on electric cars. Ta.

I do hope Wishy is merely trolling for effect. If not then he really does make me ashamed to be English.

could be worse...you could also be ashamed to be an english voting conservative

"

Unlikely - i don't get my thoughts streamed from Richard Littlejohn.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'll just go out on the streets and mug unemployed drugggies and general layabouts and we'll steal their Mercs, Porsches and BMW's. Lets face it, eventually they'll end up with more money that us, but hang on, they'll be unemployed and we'll be out working 23hrs a day to keep a roof over our head, maybe we won't have the time or energy to go out and mug them

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"I work in a bank and you wouldnt believe the amount of benefits some people get ii seems wrong that there are generations of families where no one works!!

Nothing like a bit of customer confidentiality......

Who's confidentiality has been broken?

No names have been mentioned, nor any specifics about any account.

I work for a telecoms company and we often listen in on calls whilst repairing lines. I've heard people arranging secret trysts without the husband knowing about it (it's usually married women playing away when I've listened in, I assume married men come on here ), and I've heard drug dealer's setting up drops.

Oops - I've just broken a confidentiality agreement huh?

"

Having someone in a position of trust crawling over someones private bank details then talking about it on a swingers site, regardless of whether individuals names have been detailed or not, is a breach of customer confidentiality....trying to score brownie points on a swingers forum by moaning about how much benefits a bank customer receives and is recorded on a private bank statement is shameful for a person in a position of trust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I work in a bank and you wouldnt believe the amount of benefits some people get ii seems wrong that there are generations of families where no one works!!

Nothing like a bit of customer confidentiality......

Who's confidentiality has been broken?

No names have been mentioned, nor any specifics about any account.

I work for a telecoms company and we often listen in on calls whilst repairing lines. I've heard people arranging secret trysts without the husband knowing about it (it's usually married women playing away when I've listened in, I assume married men come on here ), and I've heard drug dealer's setting up drops.

Oops - I've just broken a confidentiality agreement huh? "

You been listening in on your Buttinski again have you ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You been listening in on your Buttinski again have you ? "

My trusty old yellow brick. Yup.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You been listening in on your Buttinski again have you ?

My trusty old yellow brick. Yup. "

Oh I have the maroon one, can be dropped from a million feet apparantly and won't break, waterproof, oh and has a hands free facility, LNR, TB/R, polarity indication and a high impedance monitor - swanky or what - that allows me to listen to more important calls than you ner ner na ner ner

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do hope Wishy is merely trolling for effect. If not then he really does make me ashamed to be English.

I have no control over your feelings. I am entitled to an opinion regardless of whether it coincides with yours or not.

If you feel shame about a certain topic then that's a matter between you and your own conscience.

It is true thst you have no control over my emotions and yes, you are entitled to an opinion, no matter how repulsive that opinion may be.

However, i am entitled to feel shame for the silly, offensive and ignorant views held by a supposed 'fellow-countryman'.

The UK is what it is because of the efforts and actions of English, Scots, Welsh & Irish people, to denigrate a constituent Nation is to denigrate us all."

There are anti-royalists in the UK yet I don't label them as you have just labelled me. It is their opinion and they are entitled to it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You been listening in on your Buttinski again have you ?

My trusty old yellow brick. Yup.

Oh I have the maroon one, can be dropped from a million feet apparantly and won't break, waterproof, oh and has a hands free facility, LNR, TB/R, polarity indication and a high impedance monitor - swanky or what - that allows me to listen to more important calls than you ner ner na ner ner "

Yeah, that maybe, but not much happens in ya quaint old mining village in Northumberland, you wanna get yerself down to London for the real meat n bones - or Leeds, thems wierd buggers too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aye the best you'll here in this neck of the woods is the woman over the road ordering her bag of corn for the chickens - exciting stuff. I'm not sying things are outdated here or anything like that, but I'm still using a candlestick telephone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You been listening in on your Buttinski again have you ?

My trusty old yellow brick. Yup.

Oh I have the maroon one, can be dropped from a million feet apparantly and won't break, waterproof, oh and has a hands free facility, LNR, TB/R, polarity indication and a high impedance monitor - swanky or what - that allows me to listen to more important calls than you ner ner na ner ner

Yeah, that maybe, but not much happens in ya quaint old mining village in Northumberland, you wanna get yerself down to London for the real meat n bones - or Leeds, thems wierd buggers too. "

Quite a lot used to happen in a quaint old mining village in Co Durham and in nearby Sedgefield.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You been listening in on your Buttinski again have you ?

My trusty old yellow brick. Yup. "

well being on my redundancy notice at the grand old age of 45 i could be joining the massed ranks of the unemployed for my stint

more than likely tho i will return to being self employed and work when i can,most people claiming benefits only get enough to live on and we know a few,but its hard enough for people out of work through no fault of their own to have to go and claim benefits without some condescending idiot labeling them lazy..scroungers...or even worse scottish...which of course one of us is!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Quite a lot used to happen in a quaint old mining village in Co Durham and in nearby Sedgefield."

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It still does, apparently.

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Headline figures for December 2010

Job Seekers Allowance (JSA) - (Rate, claimant count, change since last month)

County Durham - 3.8%, 12,658 people, rise of 136 people.

Sedgefield 2.6%, 2,294 people, fall of 31 people

North East - 4.7%, 79,409 people, rise of 924 people.

Great Britain - 3.5%, 1,368,300 people, rise of 12,000 people.

Source: durham.gov.uk

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale


"You been listening in on your Buttinski again have you ?

My trusty old yellow brick. Yup.

well being on my redundancy notice at the grand old age of 45 i could be joining the massed ranks of the unemployed for my stint

more than likely tho i will return to being self employed and work when i can,most people claiming benefits only get enough to live on and we know a few,but its hard enough for people out of work through no fault of their own to have to go and claim benefits without some condescending idiot labeling them lazy..scroungers...or even worse scottish...which of course one of us is! "

I worked for the same firm for 23yrs, it went bust in July '09. I was out of work for 7 months then found my current job. I was fortunate in that A) i had mortgage insurance & B) my mortgage is small enough to be managable.

I love how the ignorant Daily Mail readers demonise those who are out of work without ever bothering to understand the reasons why.

It's so nice to be called scum for being made unemployed, so lovely to be labelled a scrounger for needing a hand from a State you have financially supported for a quarter century.

Still, it's nice to see that the Thatcherite philosophy of there being 'no such thing as society' is alive and well in the minds of the Littlejohnesque Little Englanders...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Next time you post read the blurb of text just above the box you type your message in. Specifically, the line that says 'Dont badmouth other members'.

Nobody has mentioned the scum on this thread except you.

Nobody has mentioned Little Englanders except you.

This thread has trundled on nicely before you arrived with your offensive and personal remarks. Maybe it can continue along the vein it had been happily pursuing prior to your arrival.

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale


" No

What about my other £25? My wife is a middle income earner too. They gonna rob us of £50 to dish out to some poor people we don't even know?

That £50 could buy us 5 large tins of formula milk for our baby. They're taking food of out my son's mouth to give some lazy bone idle druggie!

Drive 'em all into the sea, I say!

Leave the country for us priviledged ones! "

What's that you say?

Either stand by your comments or be adult enough to admit your mistakes.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


" No

What about my other £25? My wife is a middle income earner too. They gonna rob us of £50 to dish out to some poor people we don't even know?

That £50 could buy us 5 large tins of formula milk for our baby. They're taking food of out my son's mouth to give some lazy bone idle druggie!

Drive 'em all into the sea, I say!

Leave the country for us priviledged ones!

What's that you say?

Either stand by your comments or be adult enough to admit your mistakes."

i read that as tongue in cheek

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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Really?

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over a year ago


" No

What about my other £25? My wife is a middle income earner too. They gonna rob us of £50 to dish out to some poor people we don't even know?

That £50 could buy us 5 large tins of formula milk for our baby. They're taking food of out my son's mouth to give some lazy bone idle druggie!

Drive 'em all into the sea, I say!

Leave the country for us priviledged ones!

What's that you say?

Either stand by your comments or be adult enough to admit your mistakes."

Does it say 'scum' in there anywhere?

Little Englander?

Nope, don't think so. And most read it for exactly what it was - tongue in cheek.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Really?

So are all your posts tongue in cheek ? especially the one against scottish people?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Really?"
as i read it yes

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale


" No

What about my other £25? My wife is a middle income earner too. They gonna rob us of £50 to dish out to some poor people we don't even know?

That £50 could buy us 5 large tins of formula milk for our baby. They're taking food of out my son's mouth to give some lazy bone idle druggie!

Drive 'em all into the sea, I say!

Leave the country for us priviledged ones!

What's that you say?

Either stand by your comments or be adult enough to admit your mistakes.

Does it say 'scum' in there anywhere?

Little Englander?

Nope, don't think so. And most read it for exactly what it was - tongue in cheek.

"

Ah, the old 'i was only joking' retreat.

Patriotism may be the last refuge of the scoundrel, but questionable comedy is indeed the last refuge of the ignorant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yup, the West Loathian Question has been raised on here quite a few times as it probably will quite a few more. I don't dislike the Scots (there's quite a few I wouldn't nipping over the border for actually), I do dislike the politics between the two countries that mean citizens of one or the other are governed by different rules than the other yet we're supposed to be the same nation. That's what irks me about it, and as this is a political thread I recognise that opinions are aired and the debate can get heated but I've not called anyone 'silly' 'repulsive' 'ignorant' or 'stupid' - I know better than that.

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over a year ago

so why do some of these bankers in the city wonna do plumbing courses all of a sudden - because theres more money in it - what i say to that is -f..k.ff bankers - stick to the banking

there are kids coming out of school with minimal qualifications - and so the only way they will have a chance of earning a decent living - by doing a trade ie like plumbing,etc

those places are being taken up by bankers - who have by the way - have had an excellent education to get where they are

talk about - not fair

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

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The Moral of the story...

I know of a guy who had a nice independent carpet firm, at our village pub he would sit on his barstool, drinking out of his personal pewter tankard, holding court to anyone that would listen to his ramblings about the 'dirty, scummy unemployed people' that were like leeches according to him.

Then he overstretched himself, expanded his business too quickly.....and went bust.

He has been unemployed himself since last autumn, all he knows is carpets and carpet fitting....no one will employ him as he knows too much and is over qualified.

Does he moan about the unemployed scum in the pub now?

Nah.....he sits there staring into his pewter tankard not uttering more than the occasional word.

Life can turn around and bite you on the bum.....

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over a year ago


"so why do some of these bankers in the city wonna do plumbing courses all of a sudden - because theres more money in it - what i say to that is -f..k.ff bankers - stick to the banking

there are kids coming out of school with minimal qualifications - and so the only way they will have a chance of earning a decent living - by doing a trade ie like plumbing,etc

those places are being taken up by bankers - who have by the way - have had an excellent education to get where they are

talk about - not fair

"

Siren and I were dicsussing this last night and I can remember 15-20 years ago when the housing market collapsed and nobody wanted ot work in the city and there was an influx of new trainees for electicians, plumbers, gas engineers etc.. The result was the rates of pay for those skills dropped. Then again with the dotcom bubble, everyone jumped on the web bandwagon and rates of pay for tradesmen rose because there was a shortage of them. And it's happening again now.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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"Yup, the West Loathian Question has been raised on here quite a few times as it probably will quite a few more. I don't dislike the Scots (there's quite a few I wouldn't nipping over the border for actually), I do dislike the politics between the two countries that mean citizens of one or the other are governed by different rules than the other yet we're supposed to be the same nation. That's what irks me about it, and as this is a political thread I recognise that opinions are aired and the debate can get heated but I've not called anyone 'silly' 'repulsive' 'ignorant' or 'stupid' - I know better than that."

No you havn't, but it could be said you have been offensive on posts to our Scottish friends.....but as you have now have explained the comments were tongue in cheek , hopefully people will just ignore them or any future ones.

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over a year ago


"The Moral of the story...

I know of a guy who had a nice independent carpet firm, at our village pub he would sit on his barstool, drinking out of his personal pewter tankard, holding court to anyone that would listen to his ramblings about the 'dirty, scummy unemployed people' that were like leeches according to him.

Then he overstretched himself, expanded his business too quickly.....and went bust.

He has been unemployed himself since last autumn, all he knows is carpets and carpet fitting....no one will employ him as he knows too much and is over qualified.

Does he moan about the unemployed scum in the pub now?

Nah.....he sits there staring into his pewter tankard not uttering more than the occasional word.

Life can turn around and bite you on the bum....."

He wouldn't be the first 'businessman' to conduct his 'business' in the pub where he has his own personal stool/tankard etc.. only to find his 'business' was built on wobbly legs.

The Moral of the Story?

Earn your millions THEN sit in the pub all day.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

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No Wishy the moral of the story is

There but for the grace of god....

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O o O oo


"No Wishy the moral of the story is

There but for the grace of god....

"

* nods *

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No Wishy the moral of the story is

There but for the grace of god....

"

I'm actually hoping for redundancy cos they'll have to give me a pretty good settlement which I'll use to retrain as a Cisco engineer, which is something I've decided to do anyway but I'm not using my own money to do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" ......Earn your millions THEN sit in the pub all day. "

The best way is to do what you want with your early life, inherit family money and then not sit in the pub much at all.

A good measure a man is not by how he gains his money but by how he disposes of it. I don't intend to be the guy who dies with the most toys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just a tad pissed off today.

... *stops reading and wanders off* ..."

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By *ertnbeckyCouple
over a year ago

oldham


"

I personally think this government has done a good job so far by cutting the sick etc George Osborne has it spot on sick notes and scroungers will have to fine work soon or no luxury befits no more there is work for everyone if they get of their arse why should we pay taxes for people that don’t want to work, no body job is safe but I would never would want to sign on I rather work for buttons if my job went today. Next election I will vote for the Tories at first I did not like them but they have done what they say they are going to do mobility cars will be next to be scrapped cutting the spending is working so far "

i hope to god you never get ill and need these benefits to support you and your family. speaking as a disabled person myself and at my age with one leg off last july am still far from well enough to work and when i am will have to try and retrain as i was a kerber/block paver its unlikely i will find employment very easily. until my operation iv,e never claimed a penny in my life i am 47 yet you say im a scrounger and your glad my benefits will be cut and by the way i dont get anywhere near the money amounts getting thrown about in the press.

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over a year ago

I think maybe some clarification is needed here about who is being referred to by the term 'scrounger'.

The media run stories frequently about mothers who have 8 kids with 8 different fathers who pay not one penny towards the upkeep of their offspring preferring instead to abscond and set up a genetic franchise somewhere else with yet another hapless woman who doesn't understand what contraception is. Or the 'refugees' that arrive here with an already large family that is so big they need a £2m house in leafy suburbia to house them, and all at the taxpayers expense.

Or maybe the young couple who left school without a GCSE between them, have never worked and declare in national newspapers quite glibly that they have no intention of working when the state gives them everything they need.

Then we have the long term unemployed who deem every job offered to them to be beneath them and then carry on claiming benefits whilst moonlighting on a building site on a cash in hand basis evading the taxman at every turn.

Or the long term 'ill' who get a compassionate doctor (or maybe one so disillusioned he basically doesn't give a fuck and signs off ill anyone who asks him to) to place them on the disabled register so they can claim yet more money from the taxpayer only to find them to be quite ably refereeing Sunday league football, or entering popular TV talent shows.

Those are the scroungers we commonly refer to, and we all feel outrage that they continue to milk the public purse without a shred of remorse.

Not people who, through no fault of their own and to their utmost frustration, find themselves unable to work through incapacity.

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over a year ago


"

I personally think this government has done a good job so far by cutting the sick etc George Osborne has it spot on sick notes and scroungers will have to fine work soon or no luxury befits no more there is work for everyone if they get of their arse why should we pay taxes for people that don’t want to work, no body job is safe but I would never would want to sign on I rather work for buttons if my job went today. Next election I will vote for the Tories at first I did not like them but they have done what they say they are going to do mobility cars will be next to be scrapped cutting the spending is working so far

i hope to god you never get ill and need these benefits to support you and your family. speaking as a disabled person myself and at my age with one leg off last july am still far from well enough to work and when i am will have to try and retrain as i was a kerber/block paver its unlikely i will find employment very easily. until my operation iv,e never claimed a penny in my life i am 47 yet you say im a scrounger and your glad my benefits will be cut and by the way i dont get anywhere near the money amounts getting thrown about in the press."

The problem is the press fuels things with stories of £1000 a week and all sorts being claimed. There are many genuine cases for claiming and most get very little paid. But I bet your the same as many including me who get sick of a small minority claiming because they are just lazy but are good at working the system.

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over a year ago

Excuse me but I'm on benefit and can't work as I am nearly blind, I get £65 a week to pay food, cleaning products, electric, gas, water and a top up on my rent as housing Benefit does not cover all my rent, I do not take drugs or beg for more hand outs, so don't tar all of us POOR with the same brush

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By *ornyandnymphoCouple
over a year ago

poole


"The Moral of the story...

I know of a guy who had a nice independent carpet firm, at our village pub he would sit on his barstool, drinking out of his personal pewter tankard, holding court to anyone that would listen to his ramblings about the 'dirty, scummy unemployed people' that were like leeches according to him.

Then he overstretched himself, expanded his business too quickly.....and went bust.

He has been unemployed himself since last autumn, all he knows is carpets and carpet fitting....no one will employ him as he knows too much and is over qualified.

Does he moan about the unemployed scum in the pub now?

Nah.....he sits there staring into his pewter tankard not uttering more than the occasional word.

Life can turn around and bite you on the bum....."

Totally agree. It's a long way too fall from your hight horse, as this man found out.

We lost our house and business through health. First me,diagnosed with life limiting illness, and ten years later hubby who had an accident. We struggle every week to make ends meet. We would both love to be back at work more than anything, but it is impossible for us. Emloyers run a mile when they know hubbys limitations, even for part time work. Not fussy, willing to do anything his ability allows him to.

One of our sons studied hard for 3years at college, worked weekends to earn money to help him through his courses. Found a full time job, only to be made redundant. It has taken him 7 months spending several hours every day to find a job. He starts next month, you would think he'd won the lottery he was so pleased to finally find work.

So everybody on benefits is not a scrounger. Like you said Jane, life can turn around and bite you on the bum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have worked all my life since leaving school 25 years ago.

i had a choice of going to golledge or learning a trade.

i chose to become a welder as i've always been good with my hands and enjoyed making things but now manufatoring has died in this country.

during that time i was suffering with an undiagonsed illness that left me in total angony for the majority of the time.

i had to have a 3year break due to illness while they tried to sort what was wrong with me.

once i had surgery to cure the symtoms i was straight back to work.

i have had 3 operations since then as each one is a temporary fix but i have always worked.

last year i was made unemployed and for no lack of effort on my side i simply seem to have no luck in finding a suitable job let alone getting a reply to my applications and now it seems my symptoms are returning.

i'm faced with the prospect of another operation and at 41 i feel that i'm already on the scrapheap.

i've worked and paid my taxes and dues.

its just that a feel as though all these sweeping statements about the unemployed are unfair.

i know people that have lived most of their lives on benefits but please dont tar us all with the same brush.

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By *im halpertMan
over a year ago

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ive not named names so no confidentiality has been broken,so you are talking rubbish

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over a year ago


"Excuse me but I'm on benefit and can't work as I am nearly blind, ......... .........."

I'm not sure that'll be sufficient reason not to be able to work in Cameron's La La Land.

Some Tory will point to PC Rathband (mentioned elsewhere on Fab) or to David Blunkett and ask 'if they can work when they're blind, why can't every blind person?'

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"I think maybe some clarification is needed here about who is being referred to by the term 'scrounger'.

The media run stories frequently about mothers who have 8 kids with 8 different fathers who pay not one penny towards the upkeep of their offspring preferring instead to abscond and set up a genetic franchise somewhere else with yet another hapless woman who doesn't understand what contraception is. Or the 'refugees' that arrive here with an already large family that is so big they need a £2m house in leafy suburbia to house them, and all at the taxpayers expense.

Or maybe the young couple who left school without a GCSE between them, have never worked and declare in national newspapers quite glibly that they have no intention of working when the state gives them everything they need.

Then we have the long term unemployed who deem every job offered to them to be beneath them and then carry on claiming benefits whilst moonlighting on a building site on a cash in hand basis evading the taxman at every turn.

Or the long term 'ill' who get a compassionate doctor (or maybe one so disillusioned he basically doesn't give a fuck and signs off ill anyone who asks him to) to place them on the disabled register so they can claim yet more money from the taxpayer only to find them to be quite ably refereeing Sunday league football, or entering popular TV talent shows.

Those are the scroungers we commonly refer to, and we all feel outrage that they continue to milk the public purse without a shred of remorse.

Not people who, through no fault of their own and to their utmost frustration, find themselves unable to work through incapacity."

Your clarification misses the point in my opinion. The concern many of us have is that by concentrating debate on the 'scroungers' who are an extremely small minority, policy is made that penalises the majority. The constant propaganda bombarding the public about the few who do milk the system warps public opinion.

It's only when brave individuals, like some of the posters on this thread, stand up and tell their personal story of how they are impacted by unemployment that balance comes back into play.

Someone said earlier, 'there but for the grace of god go i', i'm trying to understand how balanced educated adults sometimes appear to so easily put this aside and allow themselves to be dominated by the 'scrounger' debate.

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over a year ago


" ......Or the 'refugees' that arrive here with an already large family that is so big they need a £2m house in leafy suburbia to house them, and all at the taxpayers expense.

.............."

I've expressed my disapproval of too many kids elsewhere on the forums but even in the few instances where this example actually happens we have to remember that the huge and unacceptable sum in Housing Benefit being paid to keep a roof over the head of a family of 8 doesn't actually end up in the pockets of that family of 8.

It goes to the owner of the house, the landlord, who has decided that's the amount of rent s/he wants to charge for a house they don't want to live in themselves.

The cynics amongst us might well wonder if the recent Tory party u turn on reducing Housing Benefit after 1 year was done so after some encouragement from Tory supporters who realised how much rental income they'd lose if the proposed change went ahead.

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over a year ago


"I think maybe some clarification is needed here about who is being referred to by the term 'scrounger'.

The media run stories frequently about mothers who have 8 kids with 8 different fathers who pay not one penny towards the upkeep of their offspring preferring instead to abscond and set up a genetic franchise somewhere else with yet another hapless woman who doesn't understand what contraception is. Or the 'refugees' that arrive here with an already large family that is so big they need a £2m house in leafy suburbia to house them, and all at the taxpayers expense.

Or maybe the young couple who left school without a GCSE between them, have never worked and declare in national newspapers quite glibly that they have no intention of working when the state gives them everything they need.

Then we have the long term unemployed who deem every job offered to them to be beneath them and then carry on claiming benefits whilst moonlighting on a building site on a cash in hand basis evading the taxman at every turn.

Or the long term 'ill' who get a compassionate doctor (or maybe one so disillusioned he basically doesn't give a fuck and signs off ill anyone who asks him to) to place them on the disabled register so they can claim yet more money from the taxpayer only to find them to be quite ably refereeing Sunday league football, or entering popular TV talent shows.

Those are the scroungers we commonly refer to, and we all feel outrage that they continue to milk the public purse without a shred of remorse.

Not people who, through no fault of their own and to their utmost frustration, find themselves unable to work through incapacity.

Your clarification misses the point in my opinion. The concern many of us have is that by concentrating debate on the 'scroungers' who are an extremely small minority, policy is made that penalises the majority. The constant propaganda bombarding the public about the few who do milk the system warps public opinion.

It's only when brave individuals, like some of the posters on this thread, stand up and tell their personal story of how they are impacted by unemployment that balance comes back into play.

Someone said earlier, 'there but for the grace of god go i', i'm trying to understand how balanced educated adults sometimes appear to so easily put this aside and allow themselves to be dominated by the 'scrounger' debate. "

IMO,Mostly, it makes them feel superior

People soon choose to ignore that the system is and has been plundered for many years by all authorities.

Our country is riddled with inept dishonest people, Income tax, VAT, MOD, Government etc.

Yet, reducing the benefit cheats will save the country ? It will do as others have said, victimise those that need help the most, leaving those that know how to cheat the system to move onto yet another area that can be exploited.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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O o O oo

Ok lets not get personal.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"

Your clarification misses the point in my opinion. The concern many of us have is that by concentrating debate on the 'scroungers' who are an extremely small minority, policy is made that penalises the majority. The constant propaganda bombarding the public about the few who do milk the system warps public opinion.

It's only when brave individuals, like some of the posters on this thread, stand up and tell their personal story of how they are impacted by unemployment that balance comes back into play.

Someone said earlier, 'there but for the grace of god go i', i'm trying to understand how balanced educated adults sometimes appear to so easily put this aside and allow themselves to be dominated by the 'scrounger' debate. "

You said exactly what I was thinking but couldn't get the words right.

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven`t contributedto this thread thus far, as I had a hunch which way it would go ...."outraged from somewhere" knocking the benefit system..trotting out well worn examples of scroungers etc...making generalisations and vapid claims...

And peeps with a legimate claim to benefit feeling abit insulted to be lumped in with the scroungers ....and defending their dignity....thats a shame ...

Whilst we all know that some abuse the system, its a myopic viewpoint ...ordinarily spawned by propoganda by the press and wealthy....not putting to one side all understandable and natural anger at those that do abuse the system ..mine included...

My eyes however focus on the other cheats and fraudsters ...its a question of scale ...

Benefit fraud costs this country approx 1.5 billion

Tax evasion and tax avoidence cost this country approx 95 billion ...

Yet the government spend 663 times more on official figures advertising benefit fraud....than it does tax avoidance and tax evasion ....somewhat disproportionate I would tender fer thought ...

The choice o lingo is worth a mention ....fraud fer benefit cheats ...and in the daily scuttlebut press often adorned with other words like scum ...scroungers ...and a focus on extreme examples to illuminate their spiel ..

Yet...multi nationals who use tax loopholes..ie ...holding compaies in the Channel Islands to sometimes avoid paying any tax at all, are treated in entirely different ways ....glossed over by the press and politians ( bear in mind the advertising expenditure spent on both issues)...no words like scum or language that equates their behaviour to rapists or junkies..

Yesterday we saw Barclays reveal its tax bill ....113 million hahahaha thats creative to say the least hahaha...laugh or cry time ....yeah ...thats contributing to this country, a fine moral and ethical situation ...but we accept it ...its the game isn`t it ? Fiddle yer expenses and tax returns ..hire a creatitive accountant so you don`t have to contribute so much and rationalise and feel smug ...let those honest folk and PAYE do their bit .....theres so much hypocrisy I`ve learn`t to control my gag reflex ...

Anyway ...there tis ...divide and rule ....spin well worn propoganda and focus poples attention on each other and red herrings ...

Exactly whats happening here ...ignorant fools doing masters dirty work ..

Its apparent to me what the game is ....its called the money trick ..

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"ive not named names so no confidentiality has been broken,so you are talking rubbish"

So what gives you the right to discuss the personal bank details of any of your banks customers on a swinging site?

I think you are all too aware that your employers have put you in a position of trust....now start earning that privilage.

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By *im halpertMan
over a year ago

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By *im halpertMan
over a year ago

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mr sexy here as far as i am aware this is a fucking swingers website not some bollocks politics forum go to them 4 politics not here and stop bad mouthing mrs sexy just cos she works part time at a bank 4 probably less money than she could get if she didnt work at all. at no point has she said if she thought the ammount ppl were getting into their account was high or low or mentioned anyone at all its completly generic ppl have just intepreted what she said to suit themselves . personally i am too busy arranging shagging meets to worry about what goes on in these forums but felt i had to say something now . thought the shagging not slagging each other off was what this was all about . love and peace oh and blues 4 the carling cup k.r.o xx

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"mr sexy here as far as i am aware this is a fucking swingers website not some bollocks politics forum go to them 4 politics not here and stop bad mouthing mrs sexy just cos she works part time at a bank 4 probably less money than she could get if she didnt work at all. at no point has she said if she thought the ammount ppl were getting into their account was high or low or mentioned anyone at all its completly generic ppl have just intepreted what she said to suit themselves . personally i am too busy arranging shagging meets to worry about what goes on in these forums but felt i had to say something now . thought the shagging not slagging each other off was what this was all about . love and peace oh and blues 4 the carling cup k.r.o xx"

Yeah tis a swinging site with a discussion lounge ....

And yer right tis about shagging and erm ...choices ...

Tho I understand anyones need to feel protective of those around us...it would be only right that you`re reminded that no one forced yer partner to post on a contentious political thread....

I ain`t got a view on yer partners post...but I do have one on yer day ...happy searching and swinging ...

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"mr sexy here as far as i am aware this is a fucking swingers website not some bollocks politics forum go to them 4 politics not here and stop bad mouthing mrs sexy just cos she works part time at a bank 4 probably less money than she could get if she didnt work at all. at no point has she said if she thought the ammount ppl were getting into their account was high or low or mentioned anyone at all its completly generic ppl have just intepreted what she said to suit themselves . personally i am too busy arranging shagging meets to worry about what goes on in these forums but felt i had to say something now . thought the shagging not slagging each other off was what this was all about . love and peace oh and blues 4 the carling cup k.r.o xx"

This thread is in the Lounge section of a discussion forum designed to chat about any subject, as you can see lots of people enjoy coming on here to share points of view, including your wife!

Read your wifes post, she makes her view clear and others have the right to make observations and then offer their views. I don't accept that anyone has bad mouthed her. The point seems to me to be a valid one.

Your desire to come on here and defend your wife is admirable, but may I suggest you do it with reason? Maybe attacking the website or forum is not the way.

Just my personal opinion........

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over a year ago


"I think maybe some clarification is needed here about who is being referred to by the term 'scrounger'.

The media run stories frequently about mothers who have 8 kids with 8 different fathers who pay not one penny towards the upkeep of their offspring preferring instead to abscond and set up a genetic franchise somewhere else with yet another hapless woman who doesn't understand what contraception is. Or the 'refugees' that arrive here with an already large family that is so big they need a £2m house in leafy suburbia to house them, and all at the taxpayers expense.

Or maybe the young couple who left school without a GCSE between them, have never worked and declare in national newspapers quite glibly that they have no intention of working when the state gives them everything they need.

Then we have the long term unemployed who deem every job offered to them to be beneath them and then carry on claiming benefits whilst moonlighting on a building site on a cash in hand basis evading the taxman at every turn.

Or the long term 'ill' who get a compassionate doctor (or maybe one so disillusioned he basically doesn't give a fuck and signs off ill anyone who asks him to) to place them on the disabled register so they can claim yet more money from the taxpayer only to find them to be quite ably refereeing Sunday league football, or entering popular TV talent shows.

Those are the scroungers we commonly refer to, and we all feel outrage that they continue to milk the public purse without a shred of remorse.

Not people who, through no fault of their own and to their utmost frustration, find themselves unable to

work through incapacity."

we think you need to form your own views and stop reading the sun too much.

like one op has said 1.5 billion is being fiddled by people claiming benefits they are not entitled too which your obviously quite agrieved about.this is highlighted by the scrawny tabloid press who fail to see any harm in the richest of this country avoiding to pay over 90 billion in taxes.

this is where the real crime is

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over a year ago

work or dont get paid benfits fantastic idea stop the housing benefit too would be better if the laszy bastards dont want to work throw them onto the streets in this world you dont get nothing for free tories all the way

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over a year ago

work or dont get paid benfits fantastic idea stop the housing benefit too would be better if the lazy bastards dont want to work throw them onto the streets in this world you dont get nothing for free tories all the way

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over a year ago


"I think maybe some clarification is needed here about who is being referred to by the term 'scrounger'.

The media run stories frequently about mothers who have 8 kids with 8 different fathers who pay not one penny towards the upkeep of their offspring preferring instead to abscond and set up a genetic franchise somewhere else with yet another hapless woman who doesn't understand what contraception is. Or the 'refugees' that arrive here with an already large family that is so big they need a £2m house in leafy suburbia to house them, and all at the taxpayers expense.

Or maybe the young couple who left school without a GCSE between them, have never worked and declare in national newspapers quite glibly that they have no intention of working when the state gives them everything they need.

Then we have the long term unemployed who deem every job offered to them to be beneath them and then carry on claiming benefits whilst moonlighting on a building site on a cash in hand basis evading the taxman at every turn.

Or the long term 'ill' who get a compassionate doctor (or maybe one so disillusioned he basically doesn't give a fuck and signs off ill anyone who asks him to) to place them on the disabled register so they can claim yet more money from the taxpayer only to find them to be quite ably refereeing Sunday league football, or entering popular TV talent shows.

Those are the scroungers we commonly refer to, and we all feel outrage that they continue to milk the public purse without a shred of remorse.

Not people who, through no fault of their own and to their utmost frustration, find themselves unable to

work through incapacity.

we think you need to form your own views and stop reading the sun too much.

like one op has said 1.5 billion is being fiddled by people claiming benefits they are not entitled too which your obviously quite agrieved about.this is highlighted by the scrawny tabloid press who fail to see any harm in the richest of this country avoiding to pay over 90 billion in taxes.

this is where the real crime is"

so people who scrounge are ok then ?

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By *im halpertMan
over a year ago

redditch

incidentally I feel I have been bad mouthed by being classed as 'one rung up from a child abuser'for for working at a bank!!!!

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

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"incidentally I feel I have been bad mouthed by being classed as 'one rung up from a child abuser'for for working at a bank!!!!"

Who classed you as one rung up from being a child abuser for working at a bank?

If that has been said it is outrageous, and if that has been said on here you should report it at once to Admin.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

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"work or dont get paid benfits fantastic idea stop the housing benefit too would be better if the lazy bastards dont want to work throw them onto the streets in this world you dont get nothing for free tories all the way"

So you would have children of people who don't work living on the streets with no money?....Have you even begun to think about the consequences?

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over a year ago

* considers if this thread is a microcosm of British Society in general thinks about moving to the remotest place imaginable*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if they don't work why should we pay taxes and if your not working you should not have children etc sick of scroungers thank f****cameron is on there case no work no dole

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

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"if they don't work why should we pay taxes and if your not working you should not have children etc sick of scroungers thank f****cameron is on there case no work no dole"

So if you have a job and lose it and can't get one as you live in an area of massive unemployment, but have already had three children?....

You really haven't thought this out have you?

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over a year ago


"if they don't work why should we pay taxes and if your not working you should not have children etc sick of scroungers thank f****cameron is on there case no work no dole

So if you have a job and lose it and can't get one as you live in an area of massive unemployment, but have already had three children?....

You really haven't thought this out have you?

"

oh i have i lost my job 4 weeks ago never even signed for the rotten dole i found good job with more pay than my last job if you look there is jobs some people will not work as they think having 6 kids etc they get more on state benefits

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over a year ago


"* considers if this thread is a microcosm of British Society in general thinks about moving to the remotest place imaginable* "

Joins you guys before the death squads start roaming, seeking to eradicate the weak and helpless whilst protecting the rich lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if they don't work why should we pay taxes and if your not working you should not have children etc sick of scroungers thank f****cameron is on there case no work no dole"

A cunning stunt ...thats a spoonerism fer soup kitchens by the way....

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

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"if they don't work why should we pay taxes and if your not working you should not have children etc sick of scroungers thank f****cameron is on there case no work no dole

So if you have a job and lose it and can't get one as you live in an area of massive unemployment, but have already had three children?....

You really haven't thought this out have you?

oh i have i lost my job 4 weeks ago never even signed for the rotten dole i found good job with more pay than my last job if you look there is jobs some people will not work as they think having 6 kids etc they get more on state benefits "

You are wrong to assume that there are enough jobs for every person in this country who is unemployed....in December 2010 there were circa 2,400,000 people registered as unemployed in the UK....with circa 63,500 advertised job vacancies. The figures for vacancies are for all jobs of Ten hours or more per week advertised by employers.

That's around 40 people unemployed for every Job vacancy available....still think there are plenty of jobs available?

Unemployment is expected to rise by another 200,000 by April 2012.

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By *im halpertMan
over a year ago

redditch

basically thats why reform is needed-nobody should be better of not working than those in work-the original idea behind benefits was surely a temporary helping hand for people?and it isnt all tall tales bandied about by the press -yes there are large families living in big houses paid for by the taxpayers!and yes there are generations of families where not one person has ever had a job!!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"work or dont get paid benfits fantastic idea stop the housing benefit too would be better if the laszy bastards dont want to work throw them onto the streets in this world you dont get nothing for free tories all the way"

as someone who on thurs afternoon found out they were going to be made redundant after 11 years and our jobs being transferred to india thru no fault of ours... I really really really do hope you were being flippant, and not being serious... as if you were I find that to be really really offensive....

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

So a family has Eight children and lives in a house paid for by the government....not nice at all, but what is your solution?

Put the children into care and make the parents live on the streets?

It's ok having all these concerns but without having the solutions all you are doing is winding yourselves up...

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By *im halpertMan
over a year ago

redditch

ive been made redundant in the past ...its horrible... good luck x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its only a matter of time before someone on here suggests the reintroduction of workhouses.

and rickets.

and child chimney sweeps

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"ive been made redundant in the past ...its horrible... good luck x"

thanks.... govt owned company thinking they are doing the best for the "taxpayer" by giving the contracts we had to another company who "offshores" those jobs to india... and in the process 200 damn good "taxpayers" lose jobs in the process.......

so to say i am angry is quite an understatement, and i would love to see a lot of people look me in the eye right now..... we bent over backwards and did everything asked... we took pay freezes for the last 3 years.... and then for in effect for a govt company to do this galls me.....

I would love someone to come in and talk to us but that won't happen, they don't want to see faces of the lives they are impacting!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if they don't work why should we pay taxes and if your not working you should not have children etc sick of scroungers thank f****cameron is on there case no work no dole"

Cameron?...bless your ignorance!!

Its Ian Duncan Smith ...its mentioned in the OP!!

The policy stems from a centre right policy think tank..that he chairs called ...brace yourself...

The Centre for Social Justice....

That hurt I can tell ...you may need to find another nail to hang yer hat on ...

Somewhat of a battle behind the scenes between that and other Conservative think tanks..that reflect the unrest in the ranks ..ahem!!! The others are...

Conservatives for change..

Respublica..

Policy Exchange..David Camerons favourite...

But we got I`ll repeat ..the Centre for Social Justice .....try saying those words ....very slowly ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think maybe some clarification is needed here about who is being referred to by the term 'scrounger'.

The media run stories frequently about mothers who have 8 kids with 8 different fathers who pay not one penny towards the upkeep of their offspring preferring instead to abscond and set up a genetic franchise somewhere else with yet another hapless woman who doesn't understand what contraception is. Or the 'refugees' that arrive here with an already large family that is so big they need a £2m house in leafy suburbia to house them, and all at the taxpayers expense.

Or maybe the young couple who left school without a GCSE between them, have never worked and declare in national newspapers quite glibly that they have no intention of working when the state gives them everything they need.

Then we have the long term unemployed who deem every job offered to them to be beneath them and then carry on claiming benefits whilst moonlighting on a building site on a cash in hand basis evading the taxman at every turn.

Or the long term 'ill' who get a compassionate doctor (or maybe one so disillusioned he basically doesn't give a fuck and signs off ill anyone who asks him to) to place them on the disabled register so they can claim yet more money from the taxpayer only to find them to be quite ably refereeing Sunday league football, or entering popular TV talent shows.

Those are the scroungers we commonly refer to, and we all feel outrage that they continue to milk the public purse without a shred of remorse.

Not people who, through no fault of their own and to their utmost frustration, find themselves unable to

work through incapacity.

we think you need to form your own views and stop reading the sun too much.

like one op has said 1.5 billion is being fiddled by people claiming benefits they are not entitled too which your obviously quite agrieved about.this is highlighted by the scrawny tabloid press who fail to see any harm in the richest of this country avoiding to pay over 90 billion in taxes.

this is where the real crime is so people who scrounge are ok then ?"

we would class people on benefits as needing help not scrounging and i think we would all have more respect for a beggar than some billionaire twat who pays nothing into the country through tax avoidance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think maybe some clarification is needed here about who is being referred to by the term 'scrounger'.

The media run stories frequently about mothers who have 8 kids with 8 different fathers who pay not one penny towards the upkeep of their offspring preferring instead to abscond and set up a genetic franchise somewhere else with yet another hapless woman who doesn't understand what contraception is. Or the 'refugees' that arrive here with an already large family that is so big they need a £2m house in leafy suburbia to house them, and all at the taxpayers expense.

Or maybe the young couple who left school without a GCSE between them, have never worked and declare in national newspapers quite glibly that they have no intention of working when the state gives them everything they need.

Then we have the long term unemployed who deem every job offered to them to be beneath them and then carry on claiming benefits whilst moonlighting on a building site on a cash in hand basis evading the taxman at every turn.

Or the long term 'ill' who get a compassionate doctor (or maybe one so disillusioned he basically doesn't give a fuck and signs off ill anyone who asks him to) to place them on the disabled register so they can claim yet more money from the taxpayer only to find them to be quite ably refereeing Sunday league football, or entering popular TV talent shows.

Those are the scroungers we commonly refer to, and we all feel outrage that they continue to milk the public purse without a shred of remorse.

Not people who, through no fault of their own and to their utmost frustration, find themselves unable to

work through incapacity.

we think you need to form your own views and stop reading the sun too much.

like one op has said 1.5 billion is being fiddled by people claiming benefits they are not entitled too which your obviously quite agrieved about.this is highlighted by the scrawny tabloid press who fail to see any harm in the richest of this country avoiding to pay over 90 billion in taxes.

this is where the real crime is so people who scrounge are ok then ?

we would class people on benefits as needing help not scrounging and i think we would all have more respect for a beggar than some billionaire twat who pays nothing into the country through tax avoidance"

then again the tories have never ever minded the latter...some people have short and selective memories

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its only a matter of time before someone on here suggests the reintroduction of workhouses.

and rickets.

and child chimney sweeps

"

Rickets has never gone away, nor has TB.

I suspect the only reason the Tories haven't tried to change child employment legislation to send weans up lums is because there ain't that many chimneys left.

Workhouses? They may come.

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By *plpxp2Couple
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

So you earn more than 35K and pay 40% tax, earn 11.6 bn and pay 1% corporation tax, increase it to 40% and they can increase benefits payments for those that need them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you earn more than 35K and pay 40% tax, earn 11.6 bn and pay 1% corporation tax, increase it to 40% and they can increase benefits payments for those that need them "

there are loopholes for the mega rich which will never be plugged by any government ruling our country because they know that one day at the end of their political careers they will be joining the gravy train.

remember the tories selling off the utillities.

when the last tory government fell all the outed politicians then went to take up their highly paid directors jobs on the boards of the newly privatised utility companys. tories will never shit on the rich but gone are the days too when they used to try to look after the middle classes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"we think you need to form your own views and stop reading the sun too much.

like one op has said 1.5 billion is being fiddled by people claiming benefits they are not entitled too which your obviously quite agrieved about.this is highlighted by the scrawny tabloid press who fail to see any harm in the richest of this country avoiding to pay over 90 billion in taxes.

this is where the real crime is"

Hey, feel free to get off your arse, get clued up to corporate finances and shut down international tax loopholes where British companies register for corporate tax shelters.

Or maybe you can leave us Sun readers to form our own opinions whilst you enlightened few educate us as to what we SHOULD be thinking.... eh?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So you earn more than 35K and pay 40% tax, earn 11.6 bn and pay 1% corporation tax, increase it to 40% and they can increase benefits payments for those that need them

there are loopholes for the mega rich which will never be plugged by any government ruling our country because they know that one day at the end of their political careers they will be joining the gravy train.

remember the tories selling off the utillities.

when the last tory government fell all the outed politicians then went to take up their highly paid directors jobs on the boards of the newly privatised utility companys. tories will never shit on the rich but gone are the days too when they used to try to look after the middle classes.

"

..and former Labour cabinet ministers from the past 13 years are where, exactly?

Middle East Envoy?

Strictly Come Dancing?

Shagging 21y/o nymphettes (again)

In prison?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we think you need to form your own views and stop reading the sun too much.

like one op has said 1.5 billion is being fiddled by people claiming benefits they are not entitled too which your obviously quite agrieved about.this is highlighted by the scrawny tabloid press who fail to see any harm in the richest of this country avoiding to pay over 90 billion in taxes.

this is where the real crime is

Hey, feel free to get off your arse, get clued up to corporate finances and shut down international tax loopholes where British companies register for corporate tax shelters.

Or maybe you can leave us Sun readers to form our own opinions whilst you enlightened few educate us as to what we SHOULD be thinking.... eh? "

How about telling these people 'start practising what they are preaching' to the benefit fraudsters and be

HONEST - quite simple eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we think you need to form your own views and stop reading the sun too much.

like one op has said 1.5 billion is being fiddled by people claiming benefits they are not entitled too which your obviously quite agrieved about.this is highlighted by the scrawny tabloid press who fail to see any harm in the richest of this country avoiding to pay over 90 billion in taxes.

this is where the real crime is

Hey, feel free to get off your arse, get clued up to corporate finances and shut down international tax loopholes where British companies register for corporate tax shelters.

Or maybe you can leave us Sun readers to form our own opinions whilst you enlightened few educate us as to what we SHOULD be thinking.... eh?

How about telling these people 'start practising what they are preaching' to the benefit fraudsters and be

HONEST - quite simple eh "

one is fraud and the other could be argued is a legal loophole......legal being the difference between the two scenarios

not saying it is right but in the eyes of the law it is!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" ...........

Or maybe you can leave us Sun readers to form our own opinions whilst you enlightened few educate us as to what we SHOULD be thinking.... eh? "

If only Sun readers did think it'd be a start. Most just do what Murdoch tells them.

Remember Yes, Minister?

"Sun readers don't care who runs the country, as long as she's got big tits."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" ...........

Or maybe you can leave us Sun readers to form our own opinions whilst you enlightened few educate us as to what we SHOULD be thinking.... eh?

If only Sun readers did think it'd be a start. Most just do what Murdoch tells them.

Remember Yes, Minister?

"Sun readers don't care who runs the country, as long as she's got big tits."

"

Do? What the fuck are you talking about? Do?

Is there some sort of subliminal message hidden in the text of the Sun's articles that tell it's reader's to go out and 'do' something Murdoch wants done?

I buy the Sun for it's sports coverage which industry-recognised (y'know, the folks in the media industry who know a tad more about it than you do) as having the best sports scoops, info and backroom staff in the British press.

I'm dreadfully sorry we can't be all New Statesmen Trotskyists like you but hey ho, nothing beats a nice pair of boobies to gawp at on the way into work of a morning.

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over a year ago

Benefits should only be paid for the lads who was fighting in Afghanistan for this country war hero’s should have top benefits and a long rest and enjoy the luxury life like so called people who has never done a fucking days work in there bastard lives make me sick spongers scroungers claiming everything and refusing to work as for genuine claimants i.e. people who had strokes and other illness should be able to stay on top benefits, and people claim they have stress well I say no more as that is bollocks being on sickness for stress . Bring in the soap kitchens for the scroungers and give them tokens for a bar of soap lol, John

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over a year ago


"Benefits should only be paid for the lads who was fighting in Afghanistan for this country war hero’s should have top benefits and a long rest and enjoy the luxury life like so called people who has never done a fucking days work in there bastard lives make me sick spongers scroungers claiming everything and refusing to work as for genuine claimants i.e. people who had strokes and other illness should be able to stay on top benefits, and people claim they have stress well I say no more as that is bollocks being on sickness for stress . Bring in the soap kitchens for the scroungers and give them tokens for a bar of soap lol, John"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" ...........

I'm dreadfully sorry we can't be all New Statesmen Trotskyists like you but hey ho, nothing beats a nice pair of boobies to gawp at on the way into work of a morning."

WTF's a 'New Statesmen'? D'ye mean New Statesman - the magazine? No Trot would be seen dead doing anything with the NS other than using it as emergency bogroll - a bit like The Sun.

For my part - nothing beats the joy of lying in my bed in the morning whilst others have to scurry off in the cold and dark with no more than a bit of Murdoch wank fodder to keep them warm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Benefits should only be paid for the lads who was fighting in Afghanistan for this country war hero’s should have top benefits and a long rest and enjoy the luxury life like so called people who has never done a fucking days work in there bastard lives make me sick spongers scroungers claiming everything and refusing to work as for genuine claimants i.e. people who had strokes and other illness should be able to stay on top benefits, and people claim they have stress well I say no more as that is bollocks being on sickness for stress . Bring in the soap kitchens for the scroungers and give them tokens for a bar of soap lol, John"

Are you including Combat Street amongst the illnesses you reckon don't actually exist?

Maybe it depends on who's suffering from stress Is it just OK for people you approve of?

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over a year ago

The Welfare State was created in order to help people in their hour of need. The problem is that successive governments have been responsible for creating conditions in which it is a lifestyle choice rather than a safety net.

Of course there are scroungers but most people are simply trapped in the system. Look at housing benefit in London; some people are getting £40,000 in that alone which is patently ridiculous when many people are working full-time for less than half that. But because governments have sold off council houses, failed to replace them by rebuilding sufficient social housing, and artifically bumped up housing prices by keeping interest rates low, it means that these people are far worse off working than not.

That's crazy but benefit culture is only a small part of the macroeconomic craziness of the UK. As somebody mentioned above, if you fail to pay your tax bill you'll have the Revenue on your back but companies can avoid paying billions in tax 'legally' with some adroit accountancy.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

These moves are nothing more than ideological changes, where people will be ever more controlled and our society will become poorer for it.

They know there are going to be people worse off after the changes, and these millionaires, who have never had tough lives like most of the rest of us, really do not care. Most of them have little real life experience, having gone from silver spoon upbringing, via public school and university, to very little working life. Most of their income/jobs will have been gained via connections/networks that are established.

They don't want to ensure that the £billions in unpaid and avoided tax are collected: this would likely affect too many of their chums. However, any chance to lower wages, diminish employment security and punish the poor, well just for being poor really, and they'll take it.

The very rich usually assume that the poor are poor because they've made insufficient efforts in life. So it's their fault.

Joining up the dots in their thinking - not something they're very accomplished at - and accepting that children will starve, as benefits are cut from families, isn't something that they'll spend a moment dwelling on. This is unlike the many thousands who will have sleepless nights, whilst they're worrying about how to pay their bills, and feed their kids etc. There are towns with thousands of unemployed, next to no jobs, almost no public transport, and yet some of these dimwits will shout 'get on your bikes', as if it will just allow jobs to suddenly exist by magic, and that huge journeys, for minimum wage, short contract part time jobs is the right thing for people to have to do.

We have the wrong type of people who get into government. Benefit reforms should ensure that people are motivated to gain employment but we should also create the culture where employment rights and conditions are much stronger than they currently are. Other European countries have better welfare systems, such as Germany, where those losing jobs are paid a high percentage of their former salaries, and some Scandinavian countries where people's needs are not viewed with scorn, but concern.

Forgotten what the key question was now, but - are the welform reforms appropriate? In short, no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In some ways I see that the welfare system needs a good overhaul ....

The welfare system is a burgeoning beast, wildly out of control..open to misuse...thats been said far to often, so I won`t labour that point ...

Another fact fer consideration fer those that seem to focus entirely on the claimant, rather than take a macro viewpoint ...

Is although benefit fraud costs 1.5 billion .....approx 4.1 billlion of waste is accumulated thru errors made by the Department of Works and Pension ....this rarely gets reported ...especially in soundbites from leading politians ala Dave Cameron and George Osborne looking for a hurrah from voters easily swayed by such soundbites....deliberate obscufication and unfortunately it works ...I hear people articulating the same untruths..

Its the gross deceit and manipulation that I object to..the real agenda is cutting the size and cost of the welfare state...Tories have an aversion to it ....fair enough ...just don`t lie to me ....

And inform me that you`re tackling the real issues ...and examples of the reform that is most benficial ....if cost is yer motivator ..it is isn`t it ?( given the tenor of soundbites to middle England ...we`re tackling the appaling cost of scroungers) then ergo ...cut the fucking waste...

Advertise the cost of waste ...highlight the incompetent beaurocracy...set up inquires into procurement of computer systems that don`t work ....tackle the real issues ...

Not penalise the most vunerable for crass reasons...using the most vunerable in our society as a political football is abhorrent, and goes against the values that make up a civilised society ...

Fer balance Labour was fucking awful at manipulation as well ...

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

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"Benefits should only be paid for the lads who was fighting in Afghanistan for this country war hero’s should have top benefits and a long rest and enjoy the luxury life like so called people who has never done a fucking days work in there bastard lives make me sick spongers scroungers claiming everything and refusing to work as for genuine claimants i.e. people who had strokes and other illness should be able to stay on top benefits, and people claim they have stress well I say no more as that is bollocks being on sickness for stress . Bring in the soap kitchens for the scroungers and give them tokens for a bar of soap lol, John"

Another thing you haven't thought through before typing....you seem to do a lot of this....So when our Afghan 'Heroes' are having this rest on benefits exactly who is going to undertake the role of the army?

When 3 Para come back from Afghanistan this spring do we send them all on indefinite leave with benefits?

If so what happens the next time we have an international incident?....do we send the unemployed to fight for us?

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over a year ago


"Another thing you haven't thought through before typing....you seem to do a lot of this....So when our Afghan 'Heroes' are having this rest on benefits exactly who is going to undertake the role of the army?

When 3 Para come back from Afghanistan this spring do we send them all on indefinite leave with benefits?

If so what happens the next time we have an international incident?....do we send the unemployed to fight for us?

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Reinstating national service would go a very long way to fixing a lot of the problems in our society.

Give youngsters a sense of national identity with a common uniform they're all required to wear sometime before their 25th birthday and a lot of our social problems would disappear in one generation. National service would also teach them the value in contributing to our society rather than tasking from it without ever putting something back in.

I'd love to see some form of national service brought back to this country.

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over a year ago

In all honesty National Service would have probably done me the world of good

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

We have a modern professional army, ask any serving soldier who has been on an Afghanistan tour, I have....they say the last thing they need is someone they have to carry because he doesn't want to be there in the first place.

They need to be 100% certain that the man fighting alongside them is as dedicated as they are....not some spotty faced oik who has been forced to sign up.

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over a year ago


"We have a modern professional army, ask any serving soldier who has been on an Afghanistan tour, I have....they say the last thing they need is someone they have to carry because he doesn't want to be there in the first place.

They need to be 100% certain that the man fighting alongside them is as dedicated as they are....not some spotty faced oik who has been forced to sign up."

A professional soldier would never belittle his chosen career by admitting that national service personnel in non-combative roles would actually assist those front line troops. I'd also wage that given a taste of army life some national service recruits would choose to become a professional soldier at the end of their N.S. period.

I just don't believe the idea of a form of National Service should be discounted so quickly when there are obvious benefits to it.

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over a year ago


"Another thing you haven't thought through before typing....you seem to do a lot of this....So when our Afghan 'Heroes' are having this rest on benefits exactly who is going to undertake the role of the army?

When 3 Para come back from Afghanistan this spring do we send them all on indefinite leave with benefits?

If so what happens the next time we have an international incident?....do we send the unemployed to fight for us?

Reinstating national service would go a very long way to fixing a lot of the problems in our society.

Give youngsters a sense of national identity with a common uniform they're all required to wear sometime before their 25th birthday and a lot of our social problems would disappear in one generation. National service would also teach them the value in contributing to our society rather than tasking from it without ever putting something back in.

I'd love to see some form of national service brought back to this country."

Yes I`d agree....National Service would help instill some good values in our society ..

I ain`t talking the front line tho Lol...

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over a year ago


"Another thing you haven't thought through before typing....you seem to do a lot of this....So when our Afghan 'Heroes' are having this rest on benefits exactly who is going to undertake the role of the army?

When 3 Para come back from Afghanistan this spring do we send them all on indefinite leave with benefits?

If so what happens the next time we have an international incident?....do we send the unemployed to fight for us?

Reinstating national service would go a very long way to fixing a lot of the problems in our society.

Give youngsters a sense of national identity with a common uniform they're all required to wear sometime before their 25th birthday and a lot of our social problems would disappear in one generation. National service would also teach them the value in contributing to our society rather than tasking from it without ever putting something back in.

I'd love to see some form of national service brought back to this country."

Nonsense. The old adage about 'better one volunteer than 10 pressed men' has never been truer.

The last thing the MOD wants is hordes of people who'd rather be somewhere else doing something else and the last thing this Tory-led coalition wants to do is increase the headcount and wage bill for the Armed Forces. They're already laying off soldiers, sailors and airmen - some by email.

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over a year ago


"......... Look at housing benefit in London; some people are getting £40,000 in that alone which is patently ridiculous when many people are working full-time for less than half that. ..........."

As I've pointed out before; the benefit recipient doesn't actually get to KEEP any Housing Benefit they receive.

The DWP gives the money to the tenant and the tenant gives the money to their landlord or they get evicted.

If a family IS getting £40,000 pa in Housing Benefit -there's a landlord doing quite nicely thank you very much.

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over a year ago


"As I've pointed out before; the benefit recipient doesn't actually get to KEEP any Housing Benefit they receive.

The DWP gives the money to the tenant and the tenant gives the money to their landlord or they get evicted.

If a family IS getting £40,000 pa in Housing Benefit -there's a landlord doing quite nicely thank you very much."

That's my point. The whole economic system is skewed. If the government is paying out £40,000 in housing benefit alone then what possible incentive is there for that person to take a £20,000 job?

New Labour were incompetent clowns who built castles in the air.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

So do you think housing benefit was an invention of the Labour government?

If it wasn't for Thatcher selling off all the council houses without using the receipts to build more then there wouldn't be anywhere near as much need for the government to pay private landlords rents.

When I was growing up in South London in the 70's there were several large families local to me (Mainly Irish families), it wasn't unusual for councils to knock two adjoining houses into one for these large families....and for the welfare system to pay the rents for them.

So housing benefit is nothing new....nor are large families.

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over a year ago


"So do you think housing benefit was an invention of the Labour government?

If it wasn't for Thatcher selling off all the council houses without using the receipts to build more then there wouldn't be anywhere near as much need for the government to pay private landlords rents.

When I was growing up in South London in the 70's there were several large families local to me (Mainly Irish families), it wasn't unusual for councils to knock two adjoining houses into one for these large families....and for the welfare system to pay the rents for them.

So housing benefit is nothing new....nor are large families."

Oh I agree about the selling off of council houses and the failure to replace them. I just think that New Labour were responsible for accentuating the problems rather than dealing with them which is what a competent government should do.

They were responsible for creating the conditions that caused the housing price bubble and are therefore also responsible for the concomitant craziness of paying out twice as much as somebody would earn in annual wages in housing benefit alone.

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over a year ago


"As I've pointed out before; the benefit recipient doesn't actually get to KEEP any Housing Benefit they receive.

The DWP gives the money to the tenant and the tenant gives the money to their landlord or they get evicted.

If a family IS getting £40,000 pa in Housing Benefit -there's a landlord doing quite nicely thank you very much.

That's my point. The whole economic system is skewed. If the government is paying out £40,000 in housing benefit alone then what possible incentive is there for that person to take a £20,000 job?

New Labour were incompetent clowns who built castles in the air. "

If the Housing Benefit system is skewed it isn't families in receipt of benefit who are doing it.

The blame, if it lies anywhere, surely lies at the door of the modern day Rachmans who are charging such exorbitant rent.

It doesn't matter whether the landlord owns the property outright or if they have a buy to let mortgage (regardless of the size of that mortgage and the consequential monthly repayments) - the DWP local office has a scale of charges they'll pay for that size of property so that landlord could possibly be pocketing the entire £40,000 - even if his/ her outgoings are £nil.

Who's milking the system?

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

High private rental rates have been attributed to low supply and high demand by the Royal Institution of Chartered Surveyors.

Low supply because the Tories sold off most of the council houses in the 80's and 90's....Low supply because they never used the receipts to build more social housing, instead handing over most of the remainder to Housing Associations.

High demand because the banks have cut mortgage lending to a 40 year low....and that ain't gonna change anytime soon.

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over a year ago


"If the Housing Benefit system is skewed it isn't families in receipt of benefit who are doing it.

The blame, if it lies anywhere, surely lies at the door of the modern day Rachmans who are charging such exorbitant rent.

It doesn't matter whether the landlord owns the property outright or if they have a buy to let mortgage (regardless of the size of that mortgage and the consequential monthly repayments) - the DWP local office has a scale of charges they'll pay for that size of property so that landlord could possibly be pocketing the entire £40,000 - even if his/ her outgoings are £nil.

Who's milking the system?"

Yes, I agree but it was the idiots who were in charge for the last thirteen years that encouraged BTLs. It's too easy to blame the Tories for everything. We all know what their agenda will always be but if New Labour had not been so incompetent they wouldn't now have the opportunity to implement their ideological zeal upon the state.

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over a year ago


" .....Low supply because the Tories sold off most of the council houses in the 80's and 90's................"

A practice perfected by Tory Shirley Porter who sold off many of the council houses in Westminster in order to fiddle the electoral system in her favour - a scam for which she was later fined over £40 million

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over a year ago


" .....Low supply because the Tories sold off most of the council houses in the 80's and 90's................

A practice perfected by Tory Shirley Porter who sold off many of the council houses in Westminster in order to fiddle the electoral system in her favour - a scam for which she was later fined over £40 million "

hmm..did she ever pay that? or is she still in Israel?

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over a year ago


"If the Housing Benefit system is skewed it isn't families in receipt of benefit who are doing it.

The blame, if it lies anywhere, surely lies at the door of the modern day Rachmans who are charging such exorbitant rent.

It doesn't matter whether the landlord owns the property outright or if they have a buy to let mortgage (regardless of the size of that mortgage and the consequential monthly repayments) - the DWP local office has a scale of charges they'll pay for that size of property so that landlord could possibly be pocketing the entire £40,000 - even if his/ her outgoings are £nil.

Who's milking the system?

Yes, I agree but it was the idiots who were in charge for the last thirteen years that encouraged BTLs. It's too easy to blame the Tories for everything. We all know what their agenda will always be but if New Labour had not been so incompetent they wouldn't now have the opportunity to implement their ideological zeal upon the state."

The reality is Labour were as concerned about the fraud and abuse in the Housing benefit as the Tories are now .

Brown was very anxious about it..as a fledgling Chancellor ....as was Darling ...they knew the costs were spiralling out of control ...from something like 10 billion when they took office to the projected 20 billion we have now..

Truth is ..Labour shied away from it cos they were worried it would scare away their core voters ...

Given their majority ...its sucks ....

Party policy won out, rather than the countries welfare ...

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over a year ago


" .....Low supply because the Tories sold off most of the council houses in the 80's and 90's................

A practice perfected by Tory Shirley Porter who sold off many of the council houses in Westminster in order to fiddle the electoral system in her favour - a scam for which she was later fined over £40 million "

Jeez..yes ...thats a reminder ...

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over a year ago


" .....Low supply because the Tories sold off most of the council houses in the 80's and 90's................

A practice perfected by Tory Shirley Porter who sold off many of the council houses in Westminster in order to fiddle the electoral system in her favour - a scam for which she was later fined over £40 million

Jeez..yes ...thats a reminder ..."

Let's hope she's never allowed to forget.

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over a year ago


" .....Low supply because the Tories sold off most of the council houses in the 80's and 90's................

A practice perfected by Tory Shirley Porter who sold off many of the council houses in Westminster in order to fiddle the electoral system in her favour - a scam for which she was later fined over £40 million

Jeez..yes ...thats a reminder ...

Let's hope she's never allowed to forget."

Never a truer word ...

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over a year ago

I seem to remember Porter declaring a bank account that had about 80 quid in it..£80!..it was a Coutts account tho...every little helps

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over a year ago


"Another thing you haven't thought through before typing....you seem to do a lot of this....So when our Afghan 'Heroes' are having this rest on benefits exactly who is going to undertake the role of the army?

When 3 Para come back from Afghanistan this spring do we send them all on indefinite leave with benefits?

If so what happens the next time we have an international incident?....do we send the unemployed to fight for us?

Reinstating national service would go a very long way to fixing a lot of the problems in our society.

Give youngsters a sense of national identity with a common uniform they're all required to wear sometime before their 25th birthday and a lot of our social problems would disappear in one generation. National service would also teach them the value in contributing to our society rather than tasking from it without ever putting something back in.

I'd love to see some form of national service brought back to this country.

Nonsense. The old adage about 'better one volunteer than 10 pressed men' has never been truer.

The last thing the MOD wants is hordes of people who'd rather be somewhere else doing something else and the last thing this Tory-led coalition wants to do is increase the headcount and wage bill for the Armed Forces. They're already laying off soldiers, sailors and airmen - some by email.

"

we (the intelligent folk) are now discussing rebuilding our society. Are you in or our? Or would you prefer sit on your side of the undiluted fence and just scream, "No! It's a Tory policy! We have to say NOOOO! PLEASE!"

Or could you just, for an incy wincy moment stop to think, 'ok, lets give it a shot'.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

We the intelligent folk?

Wishy, you voted for the Tories....doesn't make you an active member of the cabinet....they are discussing NOTHING with you....or anyone else on here.

You really have fallen for this Big Society thing big time haven't you?

You sure you don't mean 'We the gullible'?

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over a year ago


"We the intelligent folk?

Wishy, you voted for the Tories....doesn't make you an active member of the cabinet....they are discussing NOTHING with you....or anyone else on here.

You really have fallen for this Big Society thing big time haven't you?

You sure you don't mean 'We the gullible'?"

Or 'We (who have no principles and will vote for whoever we think will make us a bit better off)????

The suggestion of National Service isn't abour rebuilding society - it's about putting young people out of sight and out of mind for a few years.

I spent over 20 years in the Navy - nearly 30 if you include the two degrees the MOD sponsored me to complete and I know the last thing the Navy or the junior services need is to be tasked to babysit people society doesn't want around and who don't want to be in uniform.

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over a year ago


"Another thing you haven't thought through before typing....you seem to do a lot of this....So when our Afghan 'Heroes' are having this rest on benefits exactly who is going to undertake the role of the army?

When 3 Para come back from Afghanistan this spring do we send them all on indefinite leave with benefits?

If so what happens the next time we have an international incident?....do we send the unemployed to fight for us?

Reinstating national service would go a very long way to fixing a lot of the problems in our society.

Give youngsters a sense of national identity with a common uniform they're all required to wear sometime before their 25th birthday and a lot of our social problems would disappear in one generation. National service would also teach them the value in contributing to our society rather than tasking from it without ever putting something back in.

I'd love to see some form of national service brought back to this country.

Nonsense. The old adage about 'better one volunteer than 10 pressed men' has never been truer.

The last thing the MOD wants is hordes of people who'd rather be somewhere else doing something else and the last thing this Tory-led coalition wants to do is increase the headcount and wage bill for the Armed Forces. They're already laying off soldiers, sailors and airmen - some by email.

we (the intelligent folk) are now discussing rebuilding our society. Are you in or our? Or would you prefer sit on your side of the undiluted fence and just scream, "No! It's a Tory policy! We have to say NOOOO! PLEASE!"

Or could you just, for an incy wincy moment stop to think, 'ok, lets give it a shot'."

deluded comes to mind,

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone


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we (the intelligent folk) are now discussing rebuilding our society. Are you in or our? Or would you prefer sit on your side of the undiluted fence and just scream, "No! It's a Tory policy! We have to say NOOOO! PLEASE!"

Or could you just, for an incy wincy moment stop to think, 'ok, lets give it a shot'."

so what are you going to actually do to support this rebuilding via the Big society. Not the rhetoric or discussion, not the debates about whether it will work or whether its just another cover up for cuts etc .... but personally, what are you going to do to support it ?

( and yes I already know what Im doing despite my personal views on it as a policy )

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By *orestersCouple
over a year ago

The Forest

I love all this arguing and posturing between supporters of the big 2 - it just opens up more opporunities for the BNP to come sauntering along and save the nation from wallowing in it's own crapulence.

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over a year ago

i already work for free within the community, for me , ironically, this is about being an anarchist and shaping my immediate surroundings from the ground up and making a difference where it really counts for my family, in my neighbourhood. The main problem is that any project needs consistency to survive, and that means very dedicated leaders and in reality ensuring projects continue always requires funding.

I find the funding for my project, but its a constant struggle now made worse by all the other community projects who have lost theirs.

For big society to work i think we'd need a complete change of not only the capitalist system but also our perception of what we need to live, not likely id say!

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over a year ago


"

we (the intelligent folk) are now discussing rebuilding our society. Are you in or our? Or would you prefer sit on your side of the undiluted fence and just scream, "No! It's a Tory policy! We have to say NOOOO! PLEASE!"

Or could you just, for an incy wincy moment stop to think, 'ok, lets give it a shot'.

so what are you going to actually do to support this rebuilding via the Big society. Not the rhetoric or discussion, not the debates about whether it will work or whether its just another cover up for cuts etc .... but personally, what are you going to do to support it ?

( and yes I already know what Im doing despite my personal views on it as a policy ) "

Most folk who are enthusiastic about Big Society won't lift a finger to make it work.

Even Nat Wei, the Tory Big Society 'czar', has decided he doesn't have enough time to get involved.

http://www.guardian.co.uk/politics/2011/feb/01/big-society-lord-wei-volunteering

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone


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we (the intelligent folk) are now discussing rebuilding our society. Are you in or our? Or would you prefer sit on your side of the undiluted fence and just scream, "No! It's a Tory policy! We have to say NOOOO! PLEASE!"

Or could you just, for an incy wincy moment stop to think, 'ok, lets give it a shot'.

so what are you going to actually do to support this rebuilding via the Big society. Not the rhetoric or discussion, not the debates about whether it will work or whether its just another cover up for cuts etc .... but personally, what are you going to do to support it ?

( and yes I already know what Im doing despite my personal views on it as a policy )

Most folk who are enthusiastic about Big Society won't lift a finger to make it work.

Even Nat Wei, the Tory Big Society 'czar', has decided he doesn't have enough time to get involved.

http://www.guardian.co.uk/politics/2011/feb/01/big-society-lord-wei-volunteering"

my feeling too ...though it would be great to be proved wrong . Many of those who will get involved in meaningful ways are probably already doing so, like in the post above.

I'm reminded of Care in the Community ...how wonderful it sounded. Lessen dependency on the state, encourage family and community support ... it became, maybe all it ever was, Care by women in the home.

Many many third sector organisations and charities are seeing their funding cut or disappear .. the very organisations that could nurture and mentor fledgeling ideas and projects.

will enough people get involved , in ways that will really make a difference to the people who live in their communities who need it the most ?

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone


"i already work for free within the community, for me , ironically, this is about being an anarchist and shaping my immediate surroundings from the ground up and making a difference where it really counts for my family, in my neighbourhood. The main problem is that any project needs consistency to survive, and that means very dedicated leaders and in reality ensuring projects continue always requires funding.

I find the funding for my project, but its a constant struggle now made worse by all the other community projects who have lost theirs.

For big society to work i think we'd need a complete change of not only the capitalist system but also our perception of what we need to live, not likely id say!"

i share your sense of irony.. I'm a pretty long way from being a tory voter and I don't believe the motives of the promotion of this Big society ...but ethically its something I have supported for many years both in my choice of career and personally in out of work activities. Ive done this under previous tory governments and labour ones. I also encourage my children to undertake voluntary work as i believe it builds their personal sense of achievement, community and ethics.

I dont do this for a pat on the back ( Id be sorely disappointed! ), i dont share it here for the same, Im no saint ...but i really need to be convinced that there is enough of a cultural shift within modern british society to make this work. From some of the comments just on this thread, Im doubtful.

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over a year ago


"

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Many many third sector organisations and charities are seeing their funding cut or disappear .. the very organisations that could nurture and mentor fledgeling ideas and projects.

.......... "

Funding is going to be the biggest challege for the next few years.

It's become the case that it's not about how good or worthwhile your project is but how good you are at filling out grant application forms - to the extent that some groups are relying on paid help from those with expertise in filling out forms to bring in money.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"I work in a bank and you wouldnt believe the amount of benefits some people get ii seems wrong that there are generations of families where no one works!!

Nothing like a bit of customer confidentiality......

Who's confidentiality has been broken?

No names have been mentioned, nor any specifics about any account.

I work for a telecoms company and we often listen in on calls whilst repairing lines. I've heard people arranging secret trysts without the husband knowing about it (it's usually married women playing away when I've listened in, I assume married men come on here ), and I've heard drug dealer's setting up drops.

Oops - I've just broken a confidentiality agreement huh?

Having someone in a position of trust crawling over someones private bank details then talking about it on a swingers site, regardless of whether individuals names have been detailed or not, is a breach of customer confidentiality....trying to score brownie points on a swingers forum by moaning about how much benefits a bank customer receives and is recorded on a private bank statement is shameful for a person in a position of trust.

\jane ur always trying to score points over other users in the forum as for crawling You are a Hypocrite !"

You have made a total of Five posts in these forums in the time you have been a member on here.....Four of which have been about me. Have you got some sort of fixation here?

Bit creepy having a stalker

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over a year ago


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\jane ur always trying to score points over other users in the forum as for crawling You are a Hypocrite !

You have made a total of Five posts in these forums in the time you have been a member on here.....Four of which have been about me. Have you got some sort of fixation here?

Bit creepy having a stalker"

Being described as a "Hypocrite" looks like a personal attack and, as we all know only too well "Personal attacks against other site users aren't allowed, even if you don't name them."

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By *im halpertMan
over a year ago

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By *im halpertMan
over a year ago

redditch

isnt insinuating someone is stalker a personal attack-could the comment be taken personally-and how do you know how many times someone else has commented on a thread -am I missing something here?and voyeur when you talk about personal attacks you have upset me with some of your recent comments

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

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"isnt insinuating someone is stalker a personal attack-could the comment be taken personally-and how do you know how many times someone else has commented on a thread -am I missing something here?and voyeur when you talk about personal attacks you have upset me with some of your recent comments"

If you feel I have made a personal attack on you on this thread (or any other) then I suggest you report the matter to Admin.

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over a year ago

O o O oo


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You have made a total of Five posts in these forums in the time you have been a member on here.....Four of which have been about me. Have you got some sort of fixation here?

Bit creepy having a stalker"

I have just been through this persons old posts and can't see what you are suggesting ....yes, I see people disagreeing on a thread ...but thats totally different. I am not sure ( unless I missed some ) but I think they only disagreed with you the once so I am not sure why you think they could be stalking you just because they disagreed with a post.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We the intelligent folk?

Wishy, you voted for the Tories....doesn't make you an active member of the cabinet....they are discussing NOTHING with you....or anyone else on here.

You really have fallen for this Big Society thing big time haven't you?

You sure you don't mean 'We the gullible'?"

Read the post properly Jane, the 'we' I referred to are the people on this forum discussing it.

There is a big difference between gullible and optimistic.

Ok, so it may not work, but is that a reason to shoot it down before trying it? Or maybe you just want to shoot it down because it's a Tory policy. If it was a Labour one would you be so condemning of it?

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over a year ago


"We the intelligent folk?

Wishy, you voted for the Tories....doesn't make you an active member of the cabinet....they are discussing NOTHING with you....or anyone else on here.

You really have fallen for this Big Society thing big time haven't you?

You sure you don't mean 'We the gullible'?

Or 'We (who have no principles and will vote for whoever we think will make us a bit better off)????

The suggestion of National Service isn't abour rebuilding society - it's about putting young people out of sight and out of mind for a few years.

I spent over 20 years in the Navy - nearly 30 if you include the two degrees the MOD sponsored me to complete and I know the last thing the Navy or the junior services need is to be tasked to babysit people society doesn't want around and who don't want to be in uniform."

Who the fuck are you to suggest I have no principles because I've voted differently in the past?

Each party presents their manifestos at the elections and I make my choice based upon which party seems to be offering the best type of government for this country. I've voted for Labour and been severely disappointed by them. Prior to that I voted Liberal, but something about just doesn't ring true anymore. This time was the first time I have ever voted Conservative and, so far, I see no reason why I won't be voting for them the next time around.

How does that make me a man of no principles. How fucking insulting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We the intelligent folk?

Wishy, you voted for the Tories....doesn't make you an active member of the cabinet....they are discussing NOTHING with you....or anyone else on here.

You really have fallen for this Big Society thing big time haven't you?

You sure you don't mean 'We the gullible'?

Or 'We (who have no principles and will vote for whoever we think will make us a bit better off)????

The suggestion of National Service isn't abour rebuilding society - it's about putting young people out of sight and out of mind for a few years.

I spent over 20 years in the Navy - nearly 30 if you include the two degrees the MOD sponsored me to complete and I know the last thing the Navy or the junior services need is to be tasked to babysit people society doesn't want around and who don't want to be in uniform.

Who the fuck are you to suggest I have no principles because I've voted differently in the past?

Each party presents their manifestos at the elections and I make my choice based upon which party seems to be offering the best type of government for this country. I've voted for Labour and been severely disappointed by them. Prior to that I voted Liberal, but something about just doesn't ring true anymore. This time was the first time I have ever voted Conservative and, so far, I see no reason why I won't be voting for them the next time around.

How does that make me a man of no principles. How fucking insulting."

I have no control over your feelings. I am entitled to an opinion regardless of whether it coincides with yours or not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have no control over your feelings. I am entitled to an opinion regardless of whether it coincides with yours or not.

"

An opinion, yes, an insult, no.

If you can't debate without resorting to playground tactics then I shall withdraw.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Match Point...

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

*the crowd holds it's breath*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New balls please ...

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Quiet please.

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"New balls please ..."

On such a vital match point they will just have to use the balls they were born with!

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Quiet PLEASE.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no control over your feelings. I am entitled to an opinion regardless of whether it coincides with yours or not.

An opinion, yes, an insult, no.

If you can't debate without resorting to playground tactics then I shall withdraw."

I'm 99.9% certain that's what you'll do.

Leave the white flag - others may wish to use it.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Ok, I think this has run it's course now.

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