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Does sexuality choose you or do you choose it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm bisexual and could t imagine a life where I couldn t indulge both my male and female sides.

I love the feel of a man s physicality as much as a woman s and fortunate enough where I can indulge both, so it got be wondering do we get a taste for a particular sexual preference or are we naturally pre programmed?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Obviously too early for this......thats what insomnia does to you........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have an attraction to both men and women but I cannot imagine ever having a relationship with a woman. I think for me it has always been about the person not the gender when it really comes down to it.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Well I spent 10 yrs at boarding school so the opportunity was always there. Of course most boys experimented at some point or another, some including myself, found out we rather enjoyed it, others decided it wasn't for them although they may have dabbled again later in life.

To answer your question OP, I don't think we're preprogrammed in anything we do in life. Circumstances can dictate what paths we follow and how we react to certain situations.

I used to meet single guys off here and a couple of other sites I'm on, but if I want any man on man fun now, I go to the sauna, there will usually be someone there that floats ma boat

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I was always straight until a bi guy sucked my cock. Why did I let him? I hear the hysterics scream....because I was on my back and his wife was straddling my face when I felt my cock being sucked. It was a case of push her off and tell him to piss off or keep licking her and enjoy the sensation.

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By *omerladyWoman
over a year ago

Taunton

I was hetero, then lesbian and now I feel I have settled comfortably on pansexual (covers all genders including trans and non).

My experience of sexuality has been different to many because of having to live a gender in the past that was mismatched to who I was inside. I believe societal constructs forced me to be hetero because it was the safest way to be. Reassigning my gender led to a liberation of the real me and over time a realisation that for me, sexuality was irrelevant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Obviously too early for this......thats what insomnia does to you........ "
yep it was a tad early although I'm normally up ,I think we choose our sexuality based on influence and other factors also some as they get older in life and relax like to be adventurous and try new things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Goodness knows, but I can't help but picture the Hogwarts Sorting Hat when pondering this question.

I never really labelled myself sexually when growing up (very little sex ed at school or home), I think I'd pretty much worked out I was probably more than a smidge bi when my first orgasm came care of a lovely girl chum at university and haven't looked back since.

Back to chuckling about the Sorting Hat and putting rude twists on the Hogwarts house names. Silly Heels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont know really. I always knew i was bi long before i met a woman i was attracted to. Ive always found women sexier but on average im attracted to more males than females.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"Goodness knows, but I can't help but picture the Hogwarts Sorting Hat when pondering this question.

I never really labelled myself sexually when growing up (very little sex ed at school or home), I think I'd pretty much worked out I was probably more than a smidge bi when my first orgasm came care of a lovely girl chum at university and haven't looked back since.

Back to chuckling about the Sorting Hat and putting rude twists on the Hogwarts house names. Silly Heels. "

You can join my snake in the house of slithering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I spent 48 years assuming I was straight. Although I had two homosexual experiences in my younger days. I passed them off as experiments where I concluded I wasn't interested. I've always been attracted to girls and women since I can remember, but only recently uncovered my bisexuality and recognised that was my orientation. That said I'm not active.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It chooses you.. You choose to act on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It chooses you.. You choose to act on it "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It snuck up on me and

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