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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi

So I am since recent a Ts..still a long way to go but so far so good...

What I'm wondering is, why it is so hard to find a partner who isn't ashamed of being with a Ts woman and being seen out and proud, I mean most on here will never be eligible to become prime minister or are definitely not movie stars that might loose their following so... What is stopping you guys if it is what you really would want?( not a thread to tell me I'm ugly or get my head out my arse, I genuinely want to know )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're probably just insecure and worried about what other people will think of them. In that case they're probably not worth dating lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They're probably just insecure and worried about what other people will think of them. In that case they're probably not worth dating lol "

I'd go with this, society and insecurity about what others would think. The right person will come along when you least expect it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people are looking for a ts I dont see why they should be ashamed.Its not what im looking for but if somebody is looking for a ts I don't see why they should hide it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'd be better off moving to a big city, where people are more liberal and don't give a shit. I'm sure you'd have plenty of takers in London/Brighton/Manchester or wherever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

So I am since recent a Ts..still a long way to go but so far so good...

What I'm wondering is, why it is so hard to find a partner who isn't ashamed of being with a Ts woman and being seen out and proud, I mean most on here will never be eligible to become prime minister or are definitely not movie stars that might loose their following so... What is stopping you guys if it is what you really would want?( not a thread to tell me I'm ugly or get my head out my arse, I genuinely want to know ) "

I had the opportunity to date a ts lady once. The deal breaker for me was that she wanted to go all the way with her surgery and have a vagina. It wouldn't have bother me what anyone thought or said though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its far easier for a Trans person to go out in public and cope with the stares, etc, after all the Tran is in disguise , his male personna is hidden behind cosmetics, a wig and so forth...

For a guy to walk in broad daylite with a Tran is a harder thing to do as he has nothing to hide behind...has to face the public with no disguise...

One has to respect the guys in this aspect, more so the few that dare to be seen in public with a Tran...

Also remember that 99 per cent of guys that like Trans are middle aged married guys with a great need for discretion..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've dated a couple of guys Jaimie, who were quite happy to be seen out with me. However when it came to the crunch, like introducing me to friends or family...no chance!

I'm sure that there are guys who will treat you properly, but don't hold your breath. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha

Sorry not responding individually

Don't want my down stairs renovating...i have seen the vids,no thanks lol

And I for example wouldn't be in disguise as I live like this full time...I get what you're saying though.

And don't think I am looking actively , just wondered why we seem to be regarded as a night time fetish when there are plenty of women about that are tall, have big hands or noses etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems to me that you fall for the person. Regardless of who or what they are. That relationship, like any other, can be built on proper foundations of respect and appreciation or one of lust and carnal pleasure alone.

Being used by someone is the same regardless of sexuality. If you're loved and accepted then that's it. If not then it's obviously not right.

As for acceptance in the wider world it's more difficult. We have moved forward a long way and acceptance is higher than ever but there is this inbuilt instinct to mark out those that are different. Staring, mocking and ridiculing are still commonplace for many minorities.

Things will move forward given time. But id like to think if I was confident and comforted by the one holding my hand I could walk anywhere with my head held high.

Perhaps I'm just a silly old romantic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its far easier for a Trans person to go out in public and cope with the stares, etc, after all the Tran is in disguise , his male personna is hidden behind cosmetics, a wig and so forth...

For a guy to walk in broad daylite with a Tran is a harder thing to do as he has nothing to hide behind...has to face the public with no disguise...

One has to respect the guys in this aspect, more so the few that dare to be seen in public with a Tran...

Also remember that 99 per cent of guys that like Trans are middle aged married guys with a great need for discretion..

"

HIS male persona?

I Don't think the 99% figure is that accurate either.

What holds most back is that people might think they are gay, and they can't handle it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Seems to me that you fall for the person. Regardless of who or what they are. That relationship, like any other, can be built on proper foundations of respect and appreciation or one of lust and carnal pleasure alone.

Wish this post could be liked x

Being used by someone is the same regardless of sexuality. If you're loved and accepted then that's it. If not then it's obviously not right.

As for acceptance in the wider world it's more difficult. We have moved forward a long way and acceptance is higher than ever but there is this inbuilt instinct to mark out those that are different. Staring, mocking and ridiculing are still commonplace for many minorities.

Things will move forward given time. But id like to think if I was confident and comforted by the one holding my hand I could walk anywhere with my head held high.

Perhaps I'm just a silly old romantic?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its far easier for a Trans person to go out in public and cope with the stares, etc, after all the Tran is in disguise , his male personna is hidden behind cosmetics, a wig and so forth...

For a guy to walk in broad daylite with a Tran is a harder thing to do as he has nothing to hide behind...has to face the public with no disguise...

One has to respect the guys in this aspect, more so the few that dare to be seen in public with a Tran...

Also remember that 99 per cent of guys that like Trans are middle aged married guys with a great need for discretion..

"

that's not true

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its far easier for a Trans person to go out in public and cope with the stares, etc, after all the Tran is in disguise , his male personna is hidden behind cosmetics, a wig and so forth...

For a guy to walk in broad daylite with a Tran is a harder thing to do as he has nothing to hide behind...has to face the public with no disguise...

One has to respect the guys in this aspect, more so the few that dare to be seen in public with a Tran...

Also remember that 99 per cent of guys that like Trans are middle aged married guys with a great need for discretion..

that's not true"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its far easier for a Trans person to go out in public and cope with the stares, etc, after all the Tran is in disguise , his male personna is hidden behind cosmetics, a wig and so forth...

For a guy to walk in broad daylite with a Tran is a harder thing to do as he has nothing to hide behind...has to face the public with no disguise...

One has to respect the guys in this aspect, more so the few that dare to be seen in public with a Tran...

Also remember that 99 per cent of guys that like Trans are middle aged married guys with a great need for discretion..

that's not true"

Nope. It's not. My inbox gets filled by lots of young guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its far easier for a Trans person to go out in public and cope with the stares, etc, after all the Tran is in disguise , his male personna is hidden behind cosmetics, a wig and so forth...

For a guy to walk in broad daylite with a Tran is a harder thing to do as he has nothing to hide behind...has to face the public with no disguise...

One has to respect the guys in this aspect, more so the few that dare to be seen in public with a Tran...

Also remember that 99 per cent of guys that like Trans are middle aged married guys with a great need for discretion..

that's not true

Nope. It's not. My inbox gets filled by lots of young guys. "

yeap,,but I don't just mean in cyber world

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

I'd be more than happy to date a Trans lady as would several others. Unfortunately, even chasers worry more about what others think than what makes them happy.

Tip hun, might want to change your sexuality if it's chaps you're after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its far easier for a Trans person to go out in public and cope with the stares, etc, after all the Tran is in disguise , his male personna is hidden behind cosmetics, a wig and so forth...

For a guy to walk in broad daylite with a Tran is a harder thing to do as he has nothing to hide behind...has to face the public with no disguise...

One has to respect the guys in this aspect, more so the few that dare to be seen in public with a Tran...

Also remember that 99 per cent of guys that like Trans are middle aged married guys with a great need for discretion..

that's not true"

I speak from experience, something you dont have ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd be more than happy to date a Trans lady as would several others. Unfortunately, even chasers worry more about what others think than what makes them happy.

Tip hun, might want to change your sexuality if it's chaps you're after"

Lol

Never thought of that haha

But I'm not looking I just wanted to know why its so hard for men to admit to their real feelings I guess...

So should I change my sexuality to unicorn?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its far easier for a Trans person to go out in public and cope with the stares, etc, after all the Tran is in disguise , his male personna is hidden behind cosmetics, a wig and so forth...

For a guy to walk in broad daylite with a Tran is a harder thing to do as he has nothing to hide behind...has to face the public with no disguise...

One has to respect the guys in this aspect, more so the few that dare to be seen in public with a Tran...

Also remember that 99 per cent of guys that like Trans are middle aged married guys with a great need for discretion..

that's not true

I speak from experience, something you dont have ...."

Are you tv or ts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its far easier for a Trans person to go out in public and cope with the stares, etc, after all the Tran is in disguise , his male personna is hidden behind cosmetics, a wig and so forth...

For a guy to walk in broad daylite with a Tran is a harder thing to do as he has nothing to hide behind...has to face the public with no disguise...

One has to respect the guys in this aspect, more so the few that dare to be seen in public with a Tran...

Also remember that 99 per cent of guys that like Trans are middle aged married guys with a great need for discretion..

that's not true

I speak from experience, something you dont have ...."

lol,,oh ok,,i bow to your "experience"

all I,ll say is my experience is totally different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have taken hormones,etc, happily dress in public, but simply consider myself a Man in a Frock...Nothing more ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have taken hormones,etc, happily dress in public, but simply consider myself a Man in a Frock...Nothing more ...."

Cool,,but don't presume to talk for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its far easier for a Trans person to go out in public and cope with the stares, etc, after all the Tran is in disguise , his male personna is hidden behind cosmetics, a wig and so forth...

For a guy to walk in broad daylite with a Tran is a harder thing to do as he has nothing to hide behind...has to face the public with no disguise...

One has to respect the guys in this aspect, more so the few that dare to be seen in public with a Tran...

Also remember that 99 per cent of guys that like Trans are middle aged married guys with a great need for discretion..

that's not true

I speak from experience, something you dont have ....

lol,,oh ok,,i bow to your "experience"

all I,ll say is my experience is totally different "

Am dubious you have any experience at all,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have taken hormones,etc, happily dress in public, but simply consider myself a Man in a Frock...Nothing more ...."

Ok.. Only nosey

So do you think for example and I don't know how you dress normally but that you attract those guys because you dress like ultra sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its far easier for a Trans person to go out in public and cope with the stares, etc, after all the Tran is in disguise , his male personna is hidden behind cosmetics, a wig and so forth...

For a guy to walk in broad daylite with a Tran is a harder thing to do as he has nothing to hide behind...has to face the public with no disguise...

One has to respect the guys in this aspect, more so the few that dare to be seen in public with a Tran...

Also remember that 99 per cent of guys that like Trans are middle aged married guys with a great need for discretion..

that's not true

I speak from experience, something you dont have ....

lol,,oh ok,,i bow to your "experience"

all I,ll say is my experience is totally different

Am dubious you have any experience at all,"

are you really,,,like I give a fuck,,,i think you talk crap bout trans people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

experience= meeting tranny shaggers online,,,,no thanks,,yer only gonna meet one type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"experience= meeting tranny shaggers online,,,,no thanks,,yer only gonna meet one type"

What type might that be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Am dubious you have any experience at all,"

Why would you be dubious of that? She's hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"experience= meeting tranny shaggers online,,,,no thanks,,yer only gonna meet one type

What type might that be? "

Closeted,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have taken hormones,etc, happily dress in public, but simply consider myself a Man in a Frock...Nothing more ....

Ok.. Only nosey

So do you think for example and I don't know how you dress normally but that you attract those guys because you dress like ultra sexy"

You ask good questions darling, its obviously a subject that troubles you and rightly so, seeing that you are full time and living a life as a female...

In public dressed femme I dress to fit in with society, I look at the women of my age group and the fashions and copy them, for instance I wear flat heels, leggings, long tops, all which are in vogue with young and old...

Getting back to the guys, there are guys that are happy to be seen with Trans, even with a view for a long term relationship, but they are few in number, but like others have said, be patient, try other dating websites that cater for transgendered

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have taken hormones,etc, happily dress in public, but simply consider myself a Man in a Frock...Nothing more ....

Ok.. Only nosey

So do you think for example and I don't know how you dress normally but that you attract those guys because you dress like ultra sexy

You ask good questions darling, its obviously a subject that troubles you and rightly so, seeing that you are full time and living a life as a female...

In public dressed femme I dress to fit in with society, I look at the women of my age group and the fashions and copy them, for instance I wear flat heels, leggings, long tops, all which are in vogue with young and old...

Getting back to the guys, there are guys that are happy to be seen with Trans, even with a view for a long term relationship, but they are few in number, but like others have said, be patient, try other dating websites that cater for transgendered"

Are there any good sites? Lolll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have taken hormones,etc, happily dress in public, but simply consider myself a Man in a Frock...Nothing more ....

Ok.. Only nosey

So do you think for example and I don't know how you dress normally but that you attract those guys because you dress like ultra sexy

You ask good questions darling, its obviously a subject that troubles you and rightly so, seeing that you are full time and living a life as a female...

In public dressed femme I dress to fit in with society, I look at the women of my age group and the fashions and copy them, for instance I wear flat heels, leggings, long tops, all which are in vogue with young and old...

Getting back to the guys, there are guys that are happy to be seen with Trans, even with a view for a long term relationship, but they are few in number, but like others have said, be patient, try other dating websites that cater for transgendered

Are there any good sites? Lolll"

try going out,people can surprise you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its far easier for a Trans person to go out in public and cope with the stares, etc, after all the Tran is in disguise , his male personna is hidden behind cosmetics, a wig and so forth...

For a guy to walk in broad daylite with a Tran is a harder thing to do as he has nothing to hide behind...has to face the public with no disguise...

One has to respect the guys in this aspect, more so the few that dare to be seen in public with a Tran...

Also remember that 99 per cent of guys that like Trans are middle aged married guys with a great need for discretion..

that's not true

I speak from experience, something you dont have ....

lol,,oh ok,,i bow to your "experience"

all I,ll say is my experience is totally different

Am dubious you have any experience at all,

are you really,,,like I give a fuck,,,i think you talk crap bout trans people"

Digital fiction, nothing more

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

MK

to be honest i have dated a ladyboy before, i had no issue with telling people that she is a ladyboy, some were even saying how good looking she was. but i wouldnt have dated someone who looks like a man, only if they do pretty much look female. i would feel insecure if they did and probably wouldnt have even dated them. but thats just my opinion, some will say different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its far easier for a Trans person to go out in public and cope with the stares, etc, after all the Tran is in disguise , his male personna is hidden behind cosmetics, a wig and so forth...

For a guy to walk in broad daylite with a Tran is a harder thing to do as he has nothing to hide behind...has to face the public with no disguise...

One has to respect the guys in this aspect, more so the few that dare to be seen in public with a Tran...

Also remember that 99 per cent of guys that like Trans are middle aged married guys with a great need for discretion..

that's not true

I speak from experience, something you dont have ....

lol,,oh ok,,i bow to your "experience"

all I,ll say is my experience is totally different

Am dubious you have any experience at all,

are you really,,,like I give a fuck,,,i think you talk crap bout trans people

Digital fiction, nothing more"

yea you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"to be honest i have dated a ladyboy before, i had no issue with telling people that she is a ladyboy, some were even saying how good looking she was. but i wouldnt have dated someone who looks like a man, only if they do pretty much look female. i would feel insecure if they did and probably wouldnt have even dated them. but thats just my opinion, some will say different "

Thats a good, honest and forthright answer darling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wouldn't bother me to go out in public with anyone. if a choose someone to be company for me then i like them and am not ashamed of them or who they are, what they do, etc.

i think this site isn't for anyone who wants much more than a fuck with no effort, although a few guys have surprised me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its far easier for a Trans person to go out in public and cope with the stares, etc, after all the Tran is in disguise , his male personna is hidden behind cosmetics, a wig and so forth...

For a guy to walk in broad daylite with a Tran is a harder thing to do as he has nothing to hide behind...has to face the public with no disguise...

One has to respect the guys in this aspect, more so the few that dare to be seen in public with a Tran...

Also remember that 99 per cent of guys that like Trans are middle aged married guys with a great need for discretion..

that's not true

I speak from experience, something you dont have ....

lol,,oh ok,,i bow to your "experience"

all I,ll say is my experience is totally different

Am dubious you have any experience at all,

are you really,,,like I give a fuck,,,i think you talk crap bout trans people

Digital fiction, nothing more

yea you are"

Meet me for a public photoshoot, let me post the images here so members can see for themselves...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find this fascinating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its far easier for a Trans person to go out in public and cope with the stares, etc, after all the Tran is in disguise , his male personna is hidden behind cosmetics, a wig and so forth...

For a guy to walk in broad daylite with a Tran is a harder thing to do as he has nothing to hide behind...has to face the public with no disguise...

One has to respect the guys in this aspect, more so the few that dare to be seen in public with a Tran...

Also remember that 99 per cent of guys that like Trans are middle aged married guys with a great need for discretion..

that's not true

I speak from experience, something you dont have ....

lol,,oh ok,,i bow to your "experience"

all I,ll say is my experience is totally different

Am dubious you have any experience at all,

are you really,,,like I give a fuck,,,i think you talk crap bout trans people

Digital fiction, nothing more

yea you are

Meet me for a public photoshoot, let me post the images here so members can see for themselves..."

lol,,why,,i don't need to,nor do I want too,,no need

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find this fascinating "

Waiting for bloodshed haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"wouldn't bother me to go out in public with anyone. if a choose someone to be company for me then i like them and am not ashamed of them or who they are, what they do, etc.

i think this site isn't for anyone who wants much more than a fuck with no effort, although a few guys have surprised me."

Oh again I don't mean my post to be a want ad

I'm Just nosey lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're all gorge xx

I'm interested in making friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its far easier for a Trans person to go out in public and cope with the stares, etc, after all the Tran is in disguise , his male personna is hidden behind cosmetics, a wig and so forth...

For a guy to walk in broad daylite with a Tran is a harder thing to do as he has nothing to hide behind...has to face the public with no disguise...

One has to respect the guys in this aspect, more so the few that dare to be seen in public with a Tran...

Also remember that 99 per cent of guys that like Trans are middle aged married guys with a great need for discretion..

that's not true

Nope. It's not. My inbox gets filled by lots of young guys. "

We all get young guys mailing us, but they are vastly outnumbered by your typical Trannyshagger,the middle aged married guy....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its far easier for a Trans person to go out in public and cope with the stares, etc, after all the Tran is in disguise , his male personna is hidden behind cosmetics, a wig and so forth...

For a guy to walk in broad daylite with a Tran is a harder thing to do as he has nothing to hide behind...has to face the public with no disguise...

One has to respect the guys in this aspect, more so the few that dare to be seen in public with a Tran...

Also remember that 99 per cent of guys that like Trans are middle aged married guys with a great need for discretion..

that's not true

Nope. It's not. My inbox gets filled by lots of young guys.

We all get young guys mailing us, but they are vastly outnumbered by your typical Trannyshagger,the middle aged married guy...."

how do you know her inbox,,,if you,ll pardon the expression.

presuming again

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

The better perspective might be to consider how to get to know people that could be good matches, should you be ready for dating. As others say, there's no magical moment when we're suddenly perfectly ready.

If people know us as individuals then they feel for the person, not the label. The more people I get to know, the greater the chances that there can be matches for friendship or dating. We could focus on specialist sites or places or just be out there in sections of the wider world. There's limited point in pursuit of anything at this point other than developing your life so that you're more satisfied now, based on current needs.

The quick answer to why people aren't dating someone in a minority group - and being open about it - is that many lack the confidence to set themselves out as different to most people. So their inhibition is stifling them from starting something. And possibly even letting themselves be aware of something about themselves and the options open to them.

I think it's too big a task to change all of the world. So just accept the seeming unfairness for now as it is. As you may become closer to wanting to date, set forth and work out how to make your needs become realised at that point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wouldn't bother me to go out in public with anyone. if a choose someone to be company for me then i like them and am not ashamed of them or who they are, what they do, etc.

i think this site isn't for anyone who wants much more than a fuck with no effort, although a few guys have surprised me.

Oh again I don't mean my post to be a want ad

I'm Just nosey lol"

no worries, was just saying on here men don't tend to want to do anything much.

i used to offer GFE coz i wanted romancing, was dead excited when a guy i'd been chatting to said he wanted the same, turned out he wanted to stay in watching DVDs...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"wouldn't bother me to go out in public with anyone. if a choose someone to be company for me then i like them and am not ashamed of them or who they are, what they do, etc.

i think this site isn't for anyone who wants much more than a fuck with no effort, although a few guys have surprised me.

Oh again I don't mean my post to be a want ad

I'm Just nosey lol

no worries, was just saying on here men don't tend to want to do anything much.

i used to offer GFE coz i wanted romancing, was dead excited when a guy i'd been chatting to said he wanted the same, turned out he wanted to stay in watching DVDs... "

at least he didn't make you clean hos house

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wouldn't bother me to go out in public with anyone. if a choose someone to be company for me then i like them and am not ashamed of them or who they are, what they do, etc.

i think this site isn't for anyone who wants much more than a fuck with no effort, although a few guys have surprised me.

Oh again I don't mean my post to be a want ad

I'm Just nosey lol

no worries, was just saying on here men don't tend to want to do anything much.

i used to offer GFE coz i wanted romancing, was dead excited when a guy i'd been chatting to said he wanted the same, turned out he wanted to stay in watching DVDs... at least he didn't make you clean hos house"

hahaha, never looked at it that way before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wouldn't bother me to go out in public with anyone. if a choose someone to be company for me then i like them and am not ashamed of them or who they are, what they do, etc.

i think this site isn't for anyone who wants much more than a fuck with no effort, although a few guys have surprised me.

Oh again I don't mean my post to be a want ad

I'm Just nosey lol

no worries, was just saying on here men don't tend to want to do anything much.

i used to offer GFE coz i wanted romancing, was dead excited when a guy i'd been chatting to said he wanted the same, turned out he wanted to stay in watching DVDs... at least he didn't make you clean hos house"

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By *heOwlMan
over a year ago

Altrincham


"Hi

So I am since recent a Ts..still a long way to go but so far so good...

What I'm wondering is, why it is so hard to find a partner who isn't ashamed of being with a Ts woman and being seen out and proud, I mean most on here will never be eligible to become prime minister or are definitely not movie stars that might loose their following so... What is stopping you guys if it is what you really would want?( not a thread to tell me I'm ugly or get my head out my arse, I genuinely want to know ) "

I would have guessed that in a lot of cases, it is simply fear of society's perception. However there are some people that society regards as wierd or odd, but who simply don't give a shit about what society think.

Of course chances are they are not the ones you would be interested in. lol

Owl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm happy to have sex with someone, I'm happy to be seen in public with them. I wouldn't have sex with people I wasn't happy to be seen with.

If I have a relationship with someone, I'm happy to introduce them to my family.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They're probably just insecure and worried about what other people will think of them. In that case they're probably not worth dating lol

I'd go with this, society and insecurity about what others would think. The right person will come along when you least expect it "

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover

Fascinating thread.

For the record, the majority of guys interested in us in here and when out clubbing are under 35.

I think often the problem with TS finding a date is that, as said above, there are not many guys confident enough to feel comfortable with others knowing the situation. Me? I love it. Have no issue with it at all and if only guys spent some time getting to know a few people from the trans community they would soon how limiting it is worrying about what others think.

Get out to some trans clubs. I think you would have better luck finding relationship material there than on Fab.

Erika and I met in Costa Coffee, by the way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fascinating thread.

For the record, the majority of guys interested in us in here and when out clubbing are under 35.

I think often the problem with TS finding a date is that, as said above, there are not many guys confident enough to feel comfortable with others knowing the situation. Me? I love it. Have no issue with it at all and if only guys spent some time getting to know a few people from the trans community they would soon how limiting it is worrying about what others think.

Get out to some trans clubs. I think you would have better luck finding relationship material there than on Fab.

Erika and I met in Costa Coffee, by the way. "

Damn I always go Starbucks

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales


"Its far easier for a Trans person to go out in public and cope with the stares, etc, after all the Tran is in disguise , his male personna is hidden behind cosmetics, a wig and so forth...

For a guy to walk in broad daylite with a Tran is a harder thing to do as he has nothing to hide behind...has to face the public with no disguise...

One has to respect the guys in this aspect, more so the few that dare to be seen in public with a Tran...

Also remember that 99 per cent of guys that like Trans are middle aged married guys with a great need for discretion..

"

I don't want to be a pain in the ass but surely a transgender person lives the live they are happy with be it male or female? They are not in disguise and 'he' has no male persona, she is living life... Don't get me wrong, it's not something I'd like to do myself (basically cos I'm a bit ugly and wrinkled) but I think most people are jealous because they don't have the guts to share time with a very attractive, intelligent and interesting person.

It takes balls to be a tranny, as the old saying goes.

On the downside, I am middle aged... so who am I to comment.

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By *heOwlMan
over a year ago

Altrincham


"Fascinating thread.

For the record, the majority of guys interested in us in here and when out clubbing are under 35.

I think often the problem with TS finding a date is that, as said above, there are not many guys confident enough to feel comfortable with others knowing the situation. Me? I love it. Have no issue with it at all and if only guys spent some time getting to know a few people from the trans community they would soon how limiting it is worrying about what others think.

Get out to some trans clubs. I think you would have better luck finding relationship material there than on Fab.

Erika and I met in Costa Coffee, by the way.

Damn I always go Starbucks "

Time to move upmarket perhaps :P

Owl

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its far easier for a Trans person to go out in public and cope with the stares, etc, after all the Tran is in disguise , his male personna is hidden behind cosmetics, a wig and so forth...

For a guy to walk in broad daylite with a Tran is a harder thing to do as he has nothing to hide behind...has to face the public with no disguise...

One has to respect the guys in this aspect, more so the few that dare to be seen in public with a Tran...

Also remember that 99 per cent of guys that like Trans are middle aged married guys with a great need for discretion..

I don't want to be a pain in the ass but surely a transgender person lives the live they are happy with be it male or female? They are not in disguise and 'he' has no male persona, she is living life... Don't get me wrong, it's not something I'd like to do myself (basically cos I'm a bit ugly and wrinkled) but I think most people are jealous because they don't have the guts to share time with a very attractive, intelligent and interesting person.

It takes balls to be a tranny, as the old saying goes.

On the downside, I am middle aged... so who am I to comment. "

Well I'm middle aged too as am 39 lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fascinating thread.

For the record, the majority of guys interested in us in here and when out clubbing are under 35.

I think often the problem with TS finding a date is that, as said above, there are not many guys confident enough to feel comfortable with others knowing the situation. Me? I love it. Have no issue with it at all and if only guys spent some time getting to know a few people from the trans community they would soon how limiting it is worrying about what others think.

Get out to some trans clubs. I think you would have better luck finding relationship material there than on Fab.

Erika and I met in Costa Coffee, by the way.

Damn I always go Starbucks

Time to move upmarket perhaps :P

Owl"

Want to meet for coffee at Altrincham markethall? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i was a single straight man looking for a long term relationship etc etc I'd be Looking for chance to procreate with the object of my desires..

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By *heOwlMan
over a year ago

Altrincham


"Fascinating thread.

For the record, the majority of guys interested in us in here and when out clubbing are under 35.

I think often the problem with TS finding a date is that, as said above, there are not many guys confident enough to feel comfortable with others knowing the situation. Me? I love it. Have no issue with it at all and if only guys spent some time getting to know a few people from the trans community they would soon how limiting it is worrying about what others think.

Get out to some trans clubs. I think you would have better luck finding relationship material there than on Fab.

Erika and I met in Costa Coffee, by the way.

Damn I always go Starbucks

Time to move upmarket perhaps :P

Owl

Want to meet for coffee at Altrincham markethall? Lol "

Guess one would need to find out where the markethall is first. lol

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover


"

Damn I always go Starbucks "

Oh baby, and we could have been so good together! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its far easier for a Trans person to go out in public and cope with the stares, etc, after all the Tran is in disguise , his male personna is hidden behind cosmetics, a wig and so forth...

For a guy to walk in broad daylite with a Tran is a harder thing to do as he has nothing to hide behind...has to face the public with no disguise...

One has to respect the guys in this aspect, more so the few that dare to be seen in public with a Tran...

Also remember that 99 per cent of guys that like Trans are middle aged married guys with a great need for discretion..

that's not true

Nope. It's not. My inbox gets filled by lots of young guys.

We all get young guys mailing us, but they are vastly outnumbered by your typical Trannyshagger,the middle aged married guy...."

Speak for your own inbox honey. Mines an even spread of all ages.

I meet a variety of ages. I like them young and muscular. I also like an older guy if he's looked after himself.

No one age group 'vastly' outnumbers any other.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"If i was a single straight man looking for a long term relationship etc etc I'd be Looking for chance to procreate with the object of my desires.."

What? Like as in,,,,, bareback? Russian Roulette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If i was a single straight man looking for a long term relationship etc etc I'd be Looking for chance to procreate with the object of my desires..

What? Like as in,,,,, bareback? Russian Roulette "

lol

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales


"Its far easier for a Trans person to go out in public and cope with the stares, etc, after all the Tran is in disguise , his male personna is hidden behind cosmetics, a wig and so forth...

For a guy to walk in broad daylite with a Tran is a harder thing to do as he has nothing to hide behind...has to face the public with no disguise...

One has to respect the guys in this aspect, more so the few that dare to be seen in public with a Tran...

Also remember that 99 per cent of guys that like Trans are middle aged married guys with a great need for discretion..

I don't want to be a pain in the ass but surely a transgender person lives the live they are happy with be it male or female? They are not in disguise and 'he' has no male persona, she is living life... Don't get me wrong, it's not something I'd like to do myself (basically cos I'm a bit ugly and wrinkled) but I think most people are jealous because they don't have the guts to share time with a very attractive, intelligent and interesting person.

It takes balls to be a tranny, as the old saying goes.

On the downside, I am middle aged... so who am I to comment.

Well I'm middle aged too as am 39 lol"

39 middle aged? If it is, I'm a pensioner... no remarks please!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its far easier for a Trans person to go out in public and cope with the stares, etc, after all the Tran is in disguise , his male personna is hidden behind cosmetics, a wig and so forth...

For a guy to walk in broad daylite with a Tran is a harder thing to do as he has nothing to hide behind...has to face the public with no disguise...

One has to respect the guys in this aspect, more so the few that dare to be seen in public with a Tran...

Also remember that 99 per cent of guys that like Trans are middle aged married guys with a great need for discretion..

that's not true

Nope. It's not. My inbox gets filled by lots of young guys.

We all get young guys mailing us, but they are vastly outnumbered by your typical Trannyshagger,the middle aged married guy....

Speak for your own inbox honey. Mines an even spread of all ages.

I meet a variety of ages. I like them young and muscular. I also like an older guy if he's looked after himself.

No one age group 'vastly' outnumbers any other. "

I speak from long experience, you and others may seek to romantisize the Life of the sexually active Tran, but I speak about it as it really is....

The vast bulk of Trannyshaggers are middle aged married guys...

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales


"Its far easier for a Trans person to go out in public and cope with the stares, etc, after all the Tran is in disguise , his male personna is hidden behind cosmetics, a wig and so forth...

For a guy to walk in broad daylite with a Tran is a harder thing to do as he has nothing to hide behind...has to face the public with no disguise...

One has to respect the guys in this aspect, more so the few that dare to be seen in public with a Tran...

Also remember that 99 per cent of guys that like Trans are middle aged married guys with a great need for discretion..

that's not true

Nope. It's not. My inbox gets filled by lots of young guys.

We all get young guys mailing us, but they are vastly outnumbered by your typical Trannyshagger,the middle aged married guy....

Speak for your own inbox honey. Mines an even spread of all ages.

I meet a variety of ages. I like them young and muscular. I also like an older guy if he's looked after himself.

No one age group 'vastly' outnumbers any other.

I speak from long experience, you and others may seek to romantisize the Life of the sexually active Tran, but I speak about it as it really is....

The vast bulk of Trannyshaggers are middle aged married guys...

"

Quite true.

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

I'm fucked up cos I'm a guy that likes living as a guy, I've got a guy job and I do guy things but I also like to be a girl at times!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its far easier for a Trans person to go out in public and cope with the stares, etc, after all the Tran is in disguise , his male personna is hidden behind cosmetics, a wig and so forth...

For a guy to walk in broad daylite with a Tran is a harder thing to do as he has nothing to hide behind...has to face the public with no disguise...

One has to respect the guys in this aspect, more so the few that dare to be seen in public with a Tran...

Also remember that 99 per cent of guys that like Trans are middle aged married guys with a great need for discretion..

I don't want to be a pain in the ass but surely a transgender person lives the live they are happy with be it male or female? They are not in disguise and 'he' has no male persona, she is living life... Don't get me wrong, it's not something I'd like to do myself (basically cos I'm a bit ugly and wrinkled) but I think most people are jealous because they don't have the guts to share time with a very attractive, intelligent and interesting person.

It takes balls to be a tranny, as the old saying goes.

On the downside, I am middle aged... so who am I to comment.

Well I'm middle aged too as am 39 lol

39 middle aged? If it is, I'm a pensioner... no remarks please!"

well yea thought 70 isca nice age to go so in that case I'm well over the middle of my life lol

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales


"Its far easier for a Trans person to go out in public and cope with the stares, etc, after all the Tran is in disguise , his male personna is hidden behind cosmetics, a wig and so forth...

For a guy to walk in broad daylite with a Tran is a harder thing to do as he has nothing to hide behind...has to face the public with no disguise...

One has to respect the guys in this aspect, more so the few that dare to be seen in public with a Tran...

Also remember that 99 per cent of guys that like Trans are middle aged married guys with a great need for discretion..

I don't want to be a pain in the ass but surely a transgender person lives the live they are happy with be it male or female? They are not in disguise and 'he' has no male persona, she is living life... Don't get me wrong, it's not something I'd like to do myself (basically cos I'm a bit ugly and wrinkled) but I think most people are jealous because they don't have the guts to share time with a very attractive, intelligent and interesting person.

It takes balls to be a tranny, as the old saying goes.

On the downside, I am middle aged... so who am I to comment.

Well I'm middle aged too as am 39 lol

39 middle aged? If it is, I'm a pensioner... no remarks please!well yea thought 70 isca nice age to go so in that case I'm well over the middle of my life lol"

Thanks for that little gem... I've got just under 13 years left!

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales


"Its far easier for a Trans person to go out in public and cope with the stares, etc, after all the Tran is in disguise , his male personna is hidden behind cosmetics, a wig and so forth...

For a guy to walk in broad daylite with a Tran is a harder thing to do as he has nothing to hide behind...has to face the public with no disguise...

One has to respect the guys in this aspect, more so the few that dare to be seen in public with a Tran...

Also remember that 99 per cent of guys that like Trans are middle aged married guys with a great need for discretion..

I don't want to be a pain in the ass but surely a transgender person lives the live they are happy with be it male or female? They are not in disguise and 'he' has no male persona, she is living life... Don't get me wrong, it's not something I'd like to do myself (basically cos I'm a bit ugly and wrinkled) but I think most people are jealous because they don't have the guts to share time with a very attractive, intelligent and interesting person.

It takes balls to be a tranny, as the old saying goes.

On the downside, I am middle aged... so who am I to comment.

Well I'm middle aged too as am 39 lol

39 middle aged? If it is, I'm a pensioner... no remarks please!well yea thought 70 isca nice age to go so in that case I'm well over the middle of my life lol

Thanks for that little gem... I've got just under 13 years left! "

Sorry, 17 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its far easier for a Trans person to go out in public and cope with the stares, etc, after all the Tran is in disguise , his male personna is hidden behind cosmetics, a wig and so forth...

For a guy to walk in broad daylite with a Tran is a harder thing to do as he has nothing to hide behind...has to face the public with no disguise...

One has to respect the guys in this aspect, more so the few that dare to be seen in public with a Tran...

Also remember that 99 per cent of guys that like Trans are middle aged married guys with a great need for discretion..

that's not true

Nope. It's not. My inbox gets filled by lots of young guys.

We all get young guys mailing us, but they are vastly outnumbered by your typical Trannyshagger,the middle aged married guy....

Speak for your own inbox honey. Mines an even spread of all ages.

I meet a variety of ages. I like them young and muscular. I also like an older guy if he's looked after himself.

No one age group 'vastly' outnumbers any other.

I speak from long experience, you and others may seek to romantisize the Life of the sexually active Tran, but I speak about it as it really is....

The vast bulk of Trannyshaggers are middle aged married guys...

"

Of all the guys I have met or dated only one was a married middle aged man. All the others were single middle aged men lol.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

That most TS women are straight is a cause of sadness for me. There are many beautiful, interesting women on here that I'd love to meet.

I've never had a problem with being seen out with trans- women, both TV and TS. I've been out in public for drinks with TVs on numerous occasions.

The amusing thing for me is that a lot of men are concerned about the gay stigma, when actually it's me, not them, that is "gay" (or bi, actually) for being attracted to trans- women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its far easier for a Trans person to go out in public and cope with the stares, etc, after all the Tran is in disguise , his male personna is hidden behind cosmetics, a wig and so forth...

For a guy to walk in broad daylite with a Tran is a harder thing to do as he has nothing to hide behind...has to face the public with no disguise...

One has to respect the guys in this aspect, more so the few that dare to be seen in public with a Tran...

Also remember that 99 per cent of guys that like Trans are middle aged married guys with a great need for discretion..

that's not true

Nope. It's not. My inbox gets filled by lots of young guys.

We all get young guys mailing us, but they are vastly outnumbered by your typical Trannyshagger,the middle aged married guy....

Speak for your own inbox honey. Mines an even spread of all ages.

I meet a variety of ages. I like them young and muscular. I also like an older guy if he's looked after himself.

No one age group 'vastly' outnumbers any other.

I speak from long experience, you and others may seek to romantisize the Life of the sexually active Tran, but I speak about it as it really is....

The vast bulk of Trannyshaggers are middle aged married guys...

Of all the guys I have met or dated only one was a married middle aged man. All the others were single middle aged men lol."

So they tell you darling... As soon as they have shot their load, they cannot get their trousers back on quick enough and are running out the door back to wifey...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That most TS women are straight is a cause of sadness for me. There are many beautiful, interesting women on here that I'd love to meet.

I've never had a problem with being seen out with trans- women, both TV and TS. I've been out in public for drinks with TVs on numerous occasions.

The amusing thing for me is that a lot of men are concerned about the gay stigma, when actually it's me, not them, that is "gay" (or bi, actually) for being attracted to trans- women."

You could always try dressing as a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its far easier for a Trans person to go out in public and cope with the stares, etc, after all the Tran is in disguise , his male personna is hidden behind cosmetics, a wig and so forth...

For a guy to walk in broad daylite with a Tran is a harder thing to do as he has nothing to hide behind...has to face the public with no disguise...

One has to respect the guys in this aspect, more so the few that dare to be seen in public with a Tran...

Also remember that 99 per cent of guys that like Trans are middle aged married guys with a great need for discretion..

that's not true

Nope. It's not. My inbox gets filled by lots of young guys.

We all get young guys mailing us, but they are vastly outnumbered by your typical Trannyshagger,the middle aged married guy....

Speak for your own inbox honey. Mines an even spread of all ages.

I meet a variety of ages. I like them young and muscular. I also like an older guy if he's looked after himself.

No one age group 'vastly' outnumbers any other.

I speak from long experience, you and others may seek to romantisize the Life of the sexually active Tran, but I speak about it as it really is....

The vast bulk of Trannyshaggers are middle aged married guys...

Of all the guys I have met or dated only one was a married middle aged man. All the others were single middle aged men lol.

So they tell you darling... As soon as they have shot their load, they cannot get their trousers back on quick enough and are running out the door back to wifey..."

I've met most of them at their homes, they weren't married.

I'm not saying that what you've posted isn't true to an extent, but it isn't a majority.

We're not all naive you know.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"That most TS women are straight is a cause of sadness for me. There are many beautiful, interesting women on here that I'd love to meet.

I've never had a problem with being seen out with trans- women, both TV and TS. I've been out in public for drinks with TVs on numerous occasions.

The amusing thing for me is that a lot of men are concerned about the gay stigma, when actually it's me, not them, that is "gay" (or bi, actually) for being attracted to trans- women.

You could always try dressing as a man. "

I could but my boobs would probably give the game away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its far easier for a Trans person to go out in public and cope with the stares, etc, after all the Tran is in disguise , his male personna is hidden behind cosmetics, a wig and so forth...

For a guy to walk in broad daylite with a Tran is a harder thing to do as he has nothing to hide behind...has to face the public with no disguise...

One has to respect the guys in this aspect, more so the few that dare to be seen in public with a Tran...

Also remember that 99 per cent of guys that like Trans are middle aged married guys with a great need for discretion..

that's not true

Nope. It's not. My inbox gets filled by lots of young guys.

We all get young guys mailing us, but they are vastly outnumbered by your typical Trannyshagger,the middle aged married guy....

Speak for your own inbox honey. Mines an even spread of all ages.

I meet a variety of ages. I like them young and muscular. I also like an older guy if he's looked after himself.

No one age group 'vastly' outnumbers any other.

I speak from long experience, you and others may seek to romantisize the Life of the sexually active Tran, but I speak about it as it really is....

The vast bulk of Trannyshaggers are middle aged married guys...

"

I'm so glad we attract different people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its far easier for a Trans person to go out in public and cope with the stares, etc, after all the Tran is in disguise , his male personna is hidden behind cosmetics, a wig and so forth...

For a guy to walk in broad daylite with a Tran is a harder thing to do as he has nothing to hide behind...has to face the public with no disguise...

One has to respect the guys in this aspect, more so the few that dare to be seen in public with a Tran...

Also remember that 99 per cent of guys that like Trans are middle aged married guys with a great need for discretion..

that's not true

Nope. It's not. My inbox gets filled by lots of young guys.

We all get young guys mailing us, but they are vastly outnumbered by your typical Trannyshagger,the middle aged married guy....

Speak for your own inbox honey. Mines an even spread of all ages.

I meet a variety of ages. I like them young and muscular. I also like an older guy if he's looked after himself.

No one age group 'vastly' outnumbers any other.

I speak from long experience, you and others may seek to romantisize the Life of the sexually active Tran, but I speak about it as it really is....

The vast bulk of Trannyshaggers are middle aged married guys...

I'm so glad we attract different people. "

Aye, Different types of middle aged married Trannyshaggers...Our staple diet

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Its far easier for a Trans person to go out in public and cope with the stares, etc, after all the Tran is in disguise , his male personna is hidden behind cosmetics, a wig and so forth...

For a guy to walk in broad daylite with a Tran is a harder thing to do as he has nothing to hide behind...has to face the public with no disguise...

One has to respect the guys in this aspect, more so the few that dare to be seen in public with a Tran...

Also remember that 99 per cent of guys that like Trans are middle aged married guys with a great need for discretion..

that's not true

Nope. It's not. My inbox gets filled by lots of young guys.

We all get young guys mailing us, but they are vastly outnumbered by your typical Trannyshagger,the middle aged married guy....

Speak for your own inbox honey. Mines an even spread of all ages.

I meet a variety of ages. I like them young and muscular. I also like an older guy if he's looked after himself.

No one age group 'vastly' outnumbers any other.

I speak from long experience, you and others may seek to romantisize the Life of the sexually active Tran, but I speak about it as it really is....

The vast bulk of Trannyshaggers are middle aged married guys...

I'm so glad we attract different people.

Aye, Different types of middle aged married Trannyshaggers...Our staple diet"

It's quite presumptuous to assume everyone's experience will be the same as yours and, I suspect, not correct.

What on Earth do you have invested in this that it's essential to you that all trans- women have the same experiences you do?

I really can't see why you're going to such lengths to insist other MtF TV/TS all have the same experiences you do. You can't possibly know that.

There's not one main type of woman that shags men or one main type of man that shags women. Given that MtF TVs/TSs are also all different, it stands to reason there won't be one main type that shags TVs/TSs.

I also don't get why you care so much. Do you suspect you're getting a raw deal and need to insist to yourself that everyone else gets the same as you do?

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Aye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its far easier for a Trans person to go out in public and cope with the stares, etc, after all the Tran is in disguise , his male personna is hidden behind cosmetics, a wig and so forth...

For a guy to walk in broad daylite with a Tran is a harder thing to do as he has nothing to hide behind...has to face the public with no disguise...

One has to respect the guys in this aspect, more so the few that dare to be seen in public with a Tran...

Also remember that 99 per cent of guys that like Trans are middle aged married guys with a great need for discretion..

that's not true

Nope. It's not. My inbox gets filled by lots of young guys.

We all get young guys mailing us, but they are vastly outnumbered by your typical Trannyshagger,the middle aged married guy....

Speak for your own inbox honey. Mines an even spread of all ages.

I meet a variety of ages. I like them young and muscular. I also like an older guy if he's looked after himself.

No one age group 'vastly' outnumbers any other.

I speak from long experience, you and others may seek to romantisize the Life of the sexually active Tran, but I speak about it as it really is....

The vast bulk of Trannyshaggers are middle aged married guys...

I'm so glad we attract different people.

Aye, Different types of middle aged married Trannyshaggers...Our staple diet

It's quite presumptuous to assume everyone's experience will be the same as yours and, I suspect, not correct.

What on Earth do you have invested in this that it's essential to you that all trans- women have the same experiences you do?

I really can't see why you're going to such lengths to insist other MtF TV/TS all have the same experiences you do. You can't possibly know that.

There's not one main type of woman that shags men or one main type of man that shags women. Given that MtF TVs/TSs are also all different, it stands to reason there won't be one main type that shags TVs/TSs.

I also don't get why you care so much. Do you suspect you're getting a raw deal and need to insist to yourself that everyone else gets the same as you do?"

Its obvious you know bugger all about Trannydom

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London


"Its far easier for a Trans person to go out in public and cope with the stares, etc, after all the Tran is in disguise , his male personna is hidden behind cosmetics, a wig and so forth...

For a guy to walk in broad daylite with a Tran is a harder thing to do as he has nothing to hide behind...has to face the public with no disguise...

One has to respect the guys in this aspect, more so the few that dare to be seen in public with a Tran...

Also remember that 99 per cent of guys that like Trans are middle aged married guys with a great need for discretion..

that's not true

Nope. It's not. My inbox gets filled by lots of young guys.

We all get young guys mailing us, but they are vastly outnumbered by your typical Trannyshagger,the middle aged married guy....

Speak for your own inbox honey. Mines an even spread of all ages.

I meet a variety of ages. I like them young and muscular. I also like an older guy if he's looked after himself.

No one age group 'vastly' outnumbers any other.

I speak from long experience, you and others may seek to romantisize the Life of the sexually active Tran, but I speak about it as it really is....

The vast bulk of Trannyshaggers are middle aged married guys...

I'm so glad we attract different people.

Aye, Different types of middle aged married Trannyshaggers...Our staple diet

It's quite presumptuous to assume everyone's experience will be the same as yours and, I suspect, not correct.

What on Earth do you have invested in this that it's essential to you that all trans- women have the same experiences you do?

I really can't see why you're going to such lengths to insist other MtF TV/TS all have the same experiences you do. You can't possibly know that.

There's not one main type of woman that shags men or one main type of man that shags women. Given that MtF TVs/TSs are also all different, it stands to reason there won't be one main type that shags TVs/TSs.

I also don't get why you care so much. Do you suspect you're getting a raw deal and need to insist to yourself that everyone else gets the same as you do?"

I go to a few TGirl clubs in London. Most of the chassers are under 40. You get a clutch of middle age chaps but generally in the minority.

Everyones experience is different. With everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its far easier for a Trans person to go out in public and cope with the stares, etc, after all the Tran is in disguise , his male personna is hidden behind cosmetics, a wig and so forth...

For a guy to walk in broad daylite with a Tran is a harder thing to do as he has nothing to hide behind...has to face the public with no disguise...

One has to respect the guys in this aspect, more so the few that dare to be seen in public with a Tran...

Also remember that 99 per cent of guys that like Trans are middle aged married guys with a great need for discretion..

that's not true

Nope. It's not. My inbox gets filled by lots of young guys.

We all get young guys mailing us, but they are vastly outnumbered by your typical Trannyshagger,the middle aged married guy....

Speak for your own inbox honey. Mines an even spread of all ages.

I meet a variety of ages. I like them young and muscular. I also like an older guy if he's looked after himself.

No one age group 'vastly' outnumbers any other.

I speak from long experience, you and others may seek to romantisize the Life of the sexually active Tran, but I speak about it as it really is....

The vast bulk of Trannyshaggers are middle aged married guys...

I'm so glad we attract different people.

Aye, Different types of middle aged married Trannyshaggers...Our staple diet

It's quite presumptuous to assume everyone's experience will be the same as yours and, I suspect, not correct.

What on Earth do you have invested in this that it's essential to you that all trans- women have the same experiences you do?

I really can't see why you're going to such lengths to insist other MtF TV/TS all have the same experiences you do. You can't possibly know that.

There's not one main type of woman that shags men or one main type of man that shags women. Given that MtF TVs/TSs are also all different, it stands to reason there won't be one main type that shags TVs/TSs.

I also don't get why you care so much. Do you suspect you're getting a raw deal and need to insist to yourself that everyone else gets the same as you do?

I go to a few TGirl clubs in London. Most of the chassers are under 40. You get a clutch of middle age chaps but generally in the minority.

Everyones experience is different. With everything."

Another that knows bugger all about Trannydom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its far easier for a Trans person to go out in public and cope with the stares, etc, after all the Tran is in disguise , his male personna is hidden behind cosmetics, a wig and so forth...

For a guy to walk in broad daylite with a Tran is a harder thing to do as he has nothing to hide behind...has to face the public with no disguise...

One has to respect the guys in this aspect, more so the few that dare to be seen in public with a Tran...

Also remember that 99 per cent of guys that like Trans are middle aged married guys with a great need for discretion..

that's not true

Nope. It's not. My inbox gets filled by lots of young guys.

We all get young guys mailing us, but they are vastly outnumbered by your typical Trannyshagger,the middle aged married guy....

Speak for your own inbox honey. Mines an even spread of all ages.

I meet a variety of ages. I like them young and muscular. I also like an older guy if he's looked after himself.

No one age group 'vastly' outnumbers any other.

I speak from long experience, you and others may seek to romantisize the Life of the sexually active Tran, but I speak about it as it really is....

The vast bulk of Trannyshaggers are middle aged married guys...

I'm so glad we attract different people.

Aye, Different types of middle aged married Trannyshaggers...Our staple diet"

I really don't know why you're so insistent that my experience is like yours. You clearly attract middle aged tranny shaggers. I, however, sleep with lots of young guys and a few middle aged.

My veris aren't much to go by as an example of my lovers as I never ask if they're on fab and never ask for veris. My last club experience was three weeks ago. I slept with six guys, ranging from 24 to 33 years old.

My regular partners are all around 30 apart from two who are the same age as me.

I leave the tranny shaggers to people like you.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Its far easier for a Trans person to go out in public and cope with the stares, etc, after all the Tran is in disguise , his male personna is hidden behind cosmetics, a wig and so forth...

For a guy to walk in broad daylite with a Tran is a harder thing to do as he has nothing to hide behind...has to face the public with no disguise...

One has to respect the guys in this aspect, more so the few that dare to be seen in public with a Tran...

Also remember that 99 per cent of guys that like Trans are middle aged married guys with a great need for discretion..

that's not true

Nope. It's not. My inbox gets filled by lots of young guys.

We all get young guys mailing us, but they are vastly outnumbered by your typical Trannyshagger,the middle aged married guy....

Speak for your own inbox honey. Mines an even spread of all ages.

I meet a variety of ages. I like them young and muscular. I also like an older guy if he's looked after himself.

No one age group 'vastly' outnumbers any other.

I speak from long experience, you and others may seek to romantisize the Life of the sexually active Tran, but I speak about it as it really is....

The vast bulk of Trannyshaggers are middle aged married guys...

I'm so glad we attract different people.

Aye, Different types of middle aged married Trannyshaggers...Our staple diet

It's quite presumptuous to assume everyone's experience will be the same as yours and, I suspect, not correct.

What on Earth do you have invested in this that it's essential to you that all trans- women have the same experiences you do?

I really can't see why you're going to such lengths to insist other MtF TV/TS all have the same experiences you do. You can't possibly know that.

There's not one main type of woman that shags men or one main type of man that shags women. Given that MtF TVs/TSs are also all different, it stands to reason there won't be one main type that shags TVs/TSs.

I also don't get why you care so much. Do you suspect you're getting a raw deal and need to insist to yourself that everyone else gets the same as you do?

Its obvious you know bugger all about Trannydom"

And it's obvious you think you know everything. You only know what your experiences are. You can't speak for anyone else because you don't know.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Its far easier for a Trans person to go out in public and cope with the stares, etc, after all the Tran is in disguise , his male personna is hidden behind cosmetics, a wig and so forth...

For a guy to walk in broad daylite with a Tran is a harder thing to do as he has nothing to hide behind...has to face the public with no disguise...

One has to respect the guys in this aspect, more so the few that dare to be seen in public with a Tran...

Also remember that 99 per cent of guys that like Trans are middle aged married guys with a great need for discretion..

that's not true

Nope. It's not. My inbox gets filled by lots of young guys.

We all get young guys mailing us, but they are vastly outnumbered by your typical Trannyshagger,the middle aged married guy....

Speak for your own inbox honey. Mines an even spread of all ages.

I meet a variety of ages. I like them young and muscular. I also like an older guy if he's looked after himself.

No one age group 'vastly' outnumbers any other.

I speak from long experience, you and others may seek to romantisize the Life of the sexually active Tran, but I speak about it as it really is....

The vast bulk of Trannyshaggers are middle aged married guys...

I'm so glad we attract different people.

Aye, Different types of middle aged married Trannyshaggers...Our staple diet

I really don't know why you're so insistent that my experience is like yours. You clearly attract middle aged tranny shaggers. I, however, sleep with lots of young guys and a few middle aged.

My veris aren't much to go by as an example of my lovers as I never ask if they're on fab and never ask for veris. My last club experience was three weeks ago. I slept with six guys, ranging from 24 to 33 years old.

My regular partners are all around 30 apart from two who are the same age as me.

I leave the tranny shaggers to people like you. "

Another that knows bugger all about Trannydom

I thought I'd save that person the trouble

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Another that knows bugger all about Trannydom

I thought I'd save that person the trouble "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its far easier for a Trans person to go out in public and cope with the stares, etc, after all the Tran is in disguise , his male personna is hidden behind cosmetics, a wig and so forth...

For a guy to walk in broad daylite with a Tran is a harder thing to do as he has nothing to hide behind...has to face the public with no disguise...

One has to respect the guys in this aspect, more so the few that dare to be seen in public with a Tran...

Also remember that 99 per cent of guys that like Trans are middle aged married guys with a great need for discretion..

that's not true

Nope. It's not. My inbox gets filled by lots of young guys.

We all get young guys mailing us, but they are vastly outnumbered by your typical Trannyshagger,the middle aged married guy....

Speak for your own inbox honey. Mines an even spread of all ages.

I meet a variety of ages. I like them young and muscular. I also like an older guy if he's looked after himself.

No one age group 'vastly' outnumbers any other.

I speak from long experience, you and others may seek to romantisize the Life of the sexually active Tran, but I speak about it as it really is....

The vast bulk of Trannyshaggers are middle aged married guys...

I'm so glad we attract different people.

Aye, Different types of middle aged married Trannyshaggers...Our staple diet

It's quite presumptuous to assume everyone's experience will be the same as yours and, I suspect, not correct.

What on Earth do you have invested in this that it's essential to you that all trans- women have the same experiences you do?

I really can't see why you're going to such lengths to insist other MtF TV/TS all have the same experiences you do. You can't possibly know that.

There's not one main type of woman that shags men or one main type of man that shags women. Given that MtF TVs/TSs are also all different, it stands to reason there won't be one main type that shags TVs/TSs.

I also don't get why you care so much. Do you suspect you're getting a raw deal and need to insist to yourself that everyone else gets the same as you do?

Its obvious you know bugger all about Trannydom

And it's obvious you think you know everything. You only know what your experiences are. You can't speak for anyone else because you don't know."

I know the staple diet of we Trans is middle aged married men,

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London


"Its far easier for a Trans person to go out in public and cope with the stares, etc, after all the Tran is in disguise , his male personna is hidden behind cosmetics, a wig and so forth...

For a guy to walk in broad daylite with a Tran is a harder thing to do as he has nothing to hide behind...has to face the public with no disguise...

One has to respect the guys in this aspect, more so the few that dare to be seen in public with a Tran...

Also remember that 99 per cent of guys that like Trans are middle aged married guys with a great need for discretion..

that's not true

Nope. It's not. My inbox gets filled by lots of young guys.

We all get young guys mailing us, but they are vastly outnumbered by your typical Trannyshagger,the middle aged married guy....

Speak for your own inbox honey. Mines an even spread of all ages.

I meet a variety of ages. I like them young and muscular. I also like an older guy if he's looked after himself.

No one age group 'vastly' outnumbers any other.

I speak from long experience, you and others may seek to romantisize the Life of the sexually active Tran, but I speak about it as it really is....

The vast bulk of Trannyshaggers are middle aged married guys...

I'm so glad we attract different people.

Aye, Different types of middle aged married Trannyshaggers...Our staple diet

It's quite presumptuous to assume everyone's experience will be the same as yours and, I suspect, not correct.

What on Earth do you have invested in this that it's essential to you that all trans- women have the same experiences you do?

I really can't see why you're going to such lengths to insist other MtF TV/TS all have the same experiences you do. You can't possibly know that.

There's not one main type of woman that shags men or one main type of man that shags women. Given that MtF TVs/TSs are also all different, it stands to reason there won't be one main type that shags TVs/TSs.

I also don't get why you care so much. Do you suspect you're getting a raw deal and need to insist to yourself that everyone else gets the same as you do?

I go to a few TGirl clubs in London. Most of the chassers are under 40. You get a clutch of middle age chaps but generally in the minority.

Everyones experience is different. With everything.

Another that knows bugger all about Trannydom"

Hmmm let's see. I've performed as a female drag queen for over 13 years. Most of my friends run the gender gauntlet from drag queen, gender queer, CD, sissy, TV and TS. My maid is TS.

I play with quite a few Tgirls in private and professionaly.

Life and experience isn't a competition hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its far easier for a Trans person to go out in public and cope with the stares, etc, after all the Tran is in disguise , his male personna is hidden behind cosmetics, a wig and so forth...

For a guy to walk in broad daylite with a Tran is a harder thing to do as he has nothing to hide behind...has to face the public with no disguise...

One has to respect the guys in this aspect, more so the few that dare to be seen in public with a Tran...

Also remember that 99 per cent of guys that like Trans are middle aged married guys with a great need for discretion..

that's not true

Nope. It's not. My inbox gets filled by lots of young guys.

We all get young guys mailing us, but they are vastly outnumbered by your typical Trannyshagger,the middle aged married guy....

Speak for your own inbox honey. Mines an even spread of all ages.

I meet a variety of ages. I like them young and muscular. I also like an older guy if he's looked after himself.

No one age group 'vastly' outnumbers any other.

I speak from long experience, you and others may seek to romantisize the Life of the sexually active Tran, but I speak about it as it really is....

The vast bulk of Trannyshaggers are middle aged married guys...

I'm so glad we attract different people.

Aye, Different types of middle aged married Trannyshaggers...Our staple diet

It's quite presumptuous to assume everyone's experience will be the same as yours and, I suspect, not correct.

What on Earth do you have invested in this that it's essential to you that all trans- women have the same experiences you do?

I really can't see why you're going to such lengths to insist other MtF TV/TS all have the same experiences you do. You can't possibly know that.

There's not one main type of woman that shags men or one main type of man that shags women. Given that MtF TVs/TSs are also all different, it stands to reason there won't be one main type that shags TVs/TSs.

I also don't get why you care so much. Do you suspect you're getting a raw deal and need to insist to yourself that everyone else gets the same as you do?

I go to a few TGirl clubs in London. Most of the chassers are under 40. You get a clutch of middle age chaps but generally in the minority.

Everyones experience is different. With everything.

Another that knows bugger all about Trannydom

Hmmm let's see. I've performed as a female drag queen for over 13 years. Most of my friends run the gender gauntlet from drag queen, gender queer, CD, sissy, TV and TS. My maid is TS.

I play with quite a few Tgirls in private and professionaly.

Life and experience isn't a competition hun"

So you say, never heard of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its far easier for a Trans person to go out in public and cope with the stares, etc, after all the Tran is in disguise , his male personna is hidden behind cosmetics, a wig and so forth...

For a guy to walk in broad daylite with a Tran is a harder thing to do as he has nothing to hide behind...has to face the public with no disguise...

One has to respect the guys in this aspect, more so the few that dare to be seen in public with a Tran...

Also remember that 99 per cent of guys that like Trans are middle aged married guys with a great need for discretion..

that's not true

Nope. It's not. My inbox gets filled by lots of young guys.

We all get young guys mailing us, but they are vastly outnumbered by your typical Trannyshagger,the middle aged married guy....

Speak for your own inbox honey. Mines an even spread of all ages.

I meet a variety of ages. I like them young and muscular. I also like an older guy if he's looked after himself.

No one age group 'vastly' outnumbers any other.

I speak from long experience, you and others may seek to romantisize the Life of the sexually active Tran, but I speak about it as it really is....

The vast bulk of Trannyshaggers are middle aged married guys...

I'm so glad we attract different people.

Aye, Different types of middle aged married Trannyshaggers...Our staple diet

I really don't know why you're so insistent that my experience is like yours. You clearly attract middle aged tranny shaggers. I, however, sleep with lots of young guys and a few middle aged.

My veris aren't much to go by as an example of my lovers as I never ask if they're on fab and never ask for veris. My last club experience was three weeks ago. I slept with six guys, ranging from 24 to 33 years old.

My regular partners are all around 30 apart from two who are the same age as me.

I leave the tranny shaggers to people like you.

Another that knows bugger all about Trannydom

I thought I'd save that person the trouble "

It's true; I know bigger all about trannydom. It's not a world I care to know anything about.

I like my world. The world of Rachael. Out and proud to be me. Happily enjoying living my life doing the things I enjoy as me. I also enjoy the attention of hot, gym fit, young men. They are secondary though to living my life as a transgender person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You'd be better off moving to a big city, where people are more liberal and don't give a shit. I'm sure you'd have plenty of takers in London/Brighton/Manchester or wherever."

Worsley IS Manchester!?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I know the staple diet of we Trans is middle aged married men,

"

You know that's your experience. I've no idea why you want it to be the experience of every other trans- woman so badly that you won't listen to multiple other trans- women telling you their experience is different.

Your argument sounds unlikely but when considered along with the comments of other MtF TVs/TSs, it's pretty clear you're wrong.

And I still don't understand why you're so invested in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bugger! My iPad doesn't like bugger. Bugger bugger bugger! There you go. It's learnt bugger now

Anyone want a G&T while I'm getting one?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Bugger! My iPad doesn't like bugger. Bugger bugger bugger! There you go. It's learnt bugger now

Anyone want a G&T while I'm getting one? "

No ta. I fancied pretending I'm on a tropical beach. Malibu and limeade was as close as I could manage. It's an alarming colour but tastes ok.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"I know the staple diet of we Trans is middle aged married men,

You know that's your experience. I've no idea why you want it to be the experience of every other trans- woman so badly that you won't listen to multiple other trans- women telling you their experience is different.

Your argument sounds unlikely but when considered along with the comments of other MtF TVs/TSs, it's pretty clear you're wrong.

And I still don't understand why you're so invested in it."

Jealousy? Sounds very much like it

But I know bugger all about 'trannydom'. This must be what Brexit is all about?

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London


"Its far easier for a Trans person to go out in public and cope with the stares, etc, after all the Tran is in disguise , his male personna is hidden behind cosmetics, a wig and so forth...

For a guy to walk in broad daylite with a Tran is a harder thing to do as he has nothing to hide behind...has to face the public with no disguise...

One has to respect the guys in this aspect, more so the few that dare to be seen in public with a Tran...

Also remember that 99 per cent of guys that like Trans are middle aged married guys with a great need for discretion..

that's not true

Nope. It's not. My inbox gets filled by lots of young guys.

We all get young guys mailing us, but they are vastly outnumbered by your typical Trannyshagger,the middle aged married guy....

Speak for your own inbox honey. Mines an even spread of all ages.

I meet a variety of ages. I like them young and muscular. I also like an older guy if he's looked after himself.

No one age group 'vastly' outnumbers any other.

I speak from long experience, you and others may seek to romantisize the Life of the sexually active Tran, but I speak about it as it really is....

The vast bulk of Trannyshaggers are middle aged married guys...

I'm so glad we attract different people.

Aye, Different types of middle aged married Trannyshaggers...Our staple diet

It's quite presumptuous to assume everyone's experience will be the same as yours and, I suspect, not correct.

What on Earth do you have invested in this that it's essential to you that all trans- women have the same experiences you do?

I really can't see why you're going to such lengths to insist other MtF TV/TS all have the same experiences you do. You can't possibly know that.

There's not one main type of woman that shags men or one main type of man that shags women. Given that MtF TVs/TSs are also all different, it stands to reason there won't be one main type that shags TVs/TSs.

I also don't get why you care so much. Do you suspect you're getting a raw deal and need to insist to yourself that everyone else gets the same as you do?

I go to a few TGirl clubs in London. Most of the chassers are under 40. You get a clutch of middle age chaps but generally in the minority.

Everyones experience is different. With everything.

Another that knows bugger all about Trannydom

Hmmm let's see. I've performed as a female drag queen for over 13 years. Most of my friends run the gender gauntlet from drag queen, gender queer, CD, sissy, TV and TS. My maid is TS.

I play with quite a few Tgirls in private and professionaly.

Life and experience isn't a competition hun

So you say, never heard of you"

And why would you?

You clearly know better than anyone so good luck with that

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I know the staple diet of we Trans is middle aged married men,

You know that's your experience. I've no idea why you want it to be the experience of every other trans- woman so badly that you won't listen to multiple other trans- women telling you their experience is different.

Your argument sounds unlikely but when considered along with the comments of other MtF TVs/TSs, it's pretty clear you're wrong.

And I still don't understand why you're so invested in it.

Jealousy? Sounds very much like it

But I know bugger all about 'trannydom'. This must be what Brexit is all about? "

It sounds rather like denial to me, to be honest. The protestations of someone who isn't happy to get interest only from middle-aged TV chasers and wants to believe that's all anyone else gets.

I can understand it. I'd _like_ to believe that being a fat, average looking woman isn't the reason a lot of the fit hotties aren't interested in me, and that everybody else's experience is the same. I've never quite been able to convince myself though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i find it bizarre that some people pluck these % percentages out of thin air, and also assume what others think or dont think

truly bizzarre.

unable to add any more as i like my happy zone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You'd be better off moving to a big city, where people are more liberal and don't give a shit. I'm sure you'd have plenty of takers in London/Brighton/Manchester or wherever."

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"I know the staple diet of we Trans is middle aged married men,

You know that's your experience. I've no idea why you want it to be the experience of every other trans- woman so badly that you won't listen to multiple other trans- women telling you their experience is different.

Your argument sounds unlikely but when considered along with the comments of other MtF TVs/TSs, it's pretty clear you're wrong.

And I still don't understand why you're so invested in it.

Jealousy? Sounds very much like it

But I know bugger all about 'trannydom'. This must be what Brexit is all about?

It sounds rather like denial to me, to be honest. The protestations of someone who isn't happy to get interest only from middle-aged TV chasers and wants to believe that's all anyone else gets.

I can understand it. I'd _like_ to believe that being a fat, average looking woman isn't the reason a lot of the fit hotties aren't interested in me, and that everybody else's experience is the same. I've never quite been able to convince myself though."

I'd like some guys too but who wouldn't give me a second glance. And I have once been passed over for a t-girl. She was younger, fitter, prettier; these things happen

There is no point in me now taking up arms against 'trannydom', whatever that might be

I think you have got it right about this person

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bugger! My iPad doesn't like bugger. Bugger bugger bugger! There you go. It's learnt bugger now

Anyone want a G&T while I'm getting one? "

Ice & slice please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bugger! My iPad doesn't like bugger. Bugger bugger bugger! There you go. It's learnt bugger now

Anyone want a G&T while I'm getting one?

Ice & slice please"

Lime of course xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Bugger! My iPad doesn't like bugger. Bugger bugger bugger! There you go. It's learnt bugger now

Anyone want a G&T while I'm getting one?

Ice & slice please

Lime of course xx"

goes without saying ... Or rum amd with squeeze of lime and a slice..but before you pour the liquid in I would like a sprinkle of cinnamon on the ice cubes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bugger! My iPad doesn't like bugger. Bugger bugger bugger! There you go. It's learnt bugger now

Anyone want a G&T while I'm getting one?

Ice & slice please

Lime of course xx goes without saying ... Or rum amd with squeeze of lime and a slice..but before you pour the liquid in I would like a sprinkle of cinnamon on the ice cubes"

I have gin. Tonic. Fresh limes and ice. I actually have a choice of three different gin. I worry about me sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do I get initiated in the ways of trannydom? Do I need to dress up as a woman? Cause that would be kind of meta.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a woman? No. As a tranny, yes.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"How do I get initiated in the ways of trannydom? Do I need to dress up as a woman? Cause that would be kind of meta."

Ask the expert. Aye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do I get initiated in the ways of trannydom? Do I need to dress up as a woman? Cause that would be kind of meta.

Ask the expert. Aye "

I wonder if the expert realises there is a world outside the one she lives in.

I don't much fancy visiting trannydom. It sound dull and overrun with middle aged shaggers.

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom

Getting out of inboxes for a minute. The problem is that it's more acceptable in this day and age to walk hand in hand with your same sex gay friend, partner, lover, then it is to be seen with a transgendered person no matter how convincing they look.

Girls can wear guy clothes no problem. But if it's the other way around you'd think the the universe was about to be sucked into its own special hell...reserved for deviants.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Getting out of inboxes for a minute. The problem is that it's more acceptable in this day and age to walk hand in hand with your same sex gay friend, partner, lover, then it is to be seen with a transgendered person no matter how convincing they look.

Girls can wear guy clothes no problem. But if it's the other way around you'd think the the universe was about to be sucked into its own special hell...reserved for deviants.

"

I've never found that, personally.

I went out for an evening with a TV friend in Guildford. She makes a lot of effort and looks great but isn't "convincing" and nobody looked twice at us.

We went to a regular bar, had drinks and munchies and had a great evening.

I don't remember having any problems when out with trans- friends actually.

One of my friends described me as "bold" for going out in public with her but she's a friend; I don't see it as bold to go out with a friend who is just being herself.

And if anyone has a problem with it, bollocks to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi

So I am since recent a Ts..still a long way to go but so far so good...

What I'm wondering is, why it is so hard to find a partner who isn't ashamed of being with a Ts woman and being seen out and proud, I mean most on here will never be eligible to become prime minister or are definitely not movie stars that might loose their following so... What is stopping you guys if it is what you really would want?( not a thread to tell me I'm ugly or get my head out my arse, I genuinely want to know ) "

Things are changing all the time it's not so very long ago that men could not be openly gay in public and that goes for lesbians as well.

There will be a time when you can be whatever you want and be with whoever you want without too many problems.

There will always be the fucktard who will take the piss just because it makes them feel uncomfortable or they feel threatened by it.

I do hope you find what you need no matter what it is or who with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go out by day or by night and it's rare I see people 'noticing' me.

If they do they never make a point of saying anything or pointing at the wierdo.

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom


"I go out by day or by night and it's rare I see people 'noticing' me.

If they do they never make a point of saying anything or pointing at the wierdo. "

And fair play to you, I decided to go back to my room after a night out dressed, for once I stayed fully dressed and have to say it was not the best of experiences. I thought London was more liberal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I go out by day or by night and it's rare I see people 'noticing' me.

If they do they never make a point of saying anything or pointing at the wierdo.

And fair play to you, I decided to go back to my room after a night out dressed, for once I stayed fully dressed and have to say it was not the best of experiences. I thought London was more liberal. "

It usually is,ive never had a problem.

Although I have heard a few horror story's.

In saying that shit can happen to anyone on a night out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I go out by day or by night and it's rare I see people 'noticing' me.

If they do they never make a point of saying anything or pointing at the wierdo.

And fair play to you, I decided to go back to my room after a night out dressed, for once I stayed fully dressed and have to say it was not the best of experiences. I thought London was more liberal.

It usually is,ive never had a problem.

Although I have heard a few horror story's.

In saying that shit can happen to anyone on a night out."

Guess ill have to learn to keep my gob shut

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I've never had a problem on a night out, but then I just tend to go to nice places. I'm sure there would be a different reaction if I popped into a WMC or some other rough place. However, I've no interest in going to a place like that. Glamming up, to me is fun, not a lifestyle choice and so I don't go around Tesco glammed up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never had a problem on a night out, but then I just tend to go to nice places. I'm sure there would be a different reaction if I popped into a WMC or some other rough place. However, I've no interest in going to a place like that. Glamming up, to me is fun, not a lifestyle choice and so I don't go around Tesco glammed up. "

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

People with issues can be anywhere. I was in Soho when the bomb exploded - and the guy who did it could have appeared as normal/everyday as the next guy. Overall I think that the people who'll cause problems for others are a diminishing minority.

I like to push a few of my own barriers and generally don't feel comfortable facing restrictions. Something to consider is to have a minder, so that you're not alone when venturing to an unknown place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have at times seen a couple of tv's in Bristol city centre and indeed in my local asda, I notice them but that's about it.

Yes I see peeps giving the odd knowing look at each other and do sometime see the odd giggle, but they are not bothering anyone just going about their own lives so not a problem really.

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By *now white1000Woman
over a year ago

York


"Its far easier for a Trans person to go out in public and cope with the stares, etc, after all the Tran is in disguise , his male personna is hidden behind cosmetics, a wig and so forth...

For a guy to walk in broad daylite with a Tran is a harder thing to do as he has nothing to hide behind...has to face the public with no disguise...

One has to respect the guys in this aspect, more so the few that dare to be seen in public with a Tran...

Also remember that 99 per cent of guys that like Trans are middle aged married guys with a great need for discretion..

"

Err,

what a load of bollox! sorry.

A TS is certainly not hiding their male persona, they are not male to start with.

99% of guys are married and middle aged?

where do you get your duff info from?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I go out by day or by night and it's rare I see people 'noticing' me.

If they do they never make a point of saying anything or pointing at the wierdo.

And fair play to you, I decided to go back to my room after a night out dressed, for once I stayed fully dressed and have to say it was not the best of experiences. I thought London was more liberal.

It usually is,ive never had a problem.

Although I have heard a few horror story's.

In saying that shit can happen to anyone on a night out."

Having come out to everyone in my world now several of them have warned me to be careful. I think they worry more than I do.

New Year's Eve was the first time some of them had been out with me dressed and were surprised at the lack of anything happening out of the ordinary.

I dare say I'll bump into an asshole or two eventually. I've bumped into those every now and then as a guy too though.

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By *now white1000Woman
over a year ago

York


"Hi

So I am since recent a Ts..still a long way to go but so far so good...

What I'm wondering is, why it is so hard to find a partner who isn't ashamed of being with a Ts woman and being seen out and proud, I mean most on here will never be eligible to become prime minister or are definitely not movie stars that might loose their following so... What is stopping you guys if it is what you really would want?( not a thread to tell me I'm ugly or get my head out my arse, I genuinely want to know ) "

There's no short answer unfortunately...

some feel almost ashamed if seen in public with a known transgender female, some fear people will think they are gay if they date a trans woman, some feel fine until it comes to telling friends and family about their girlfriend....

there's still so much stigma attached to being transgender

the right person will come along, and they won't give a f**k what other people think, just hang in there

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover

Mara7, you truly have my most heartfelt sympathy. This is not a wind up or intended to sound condescending, I mean it sincerely.

I have no idea what Trannydom is.

My partner and are have a wide and extensive group of friends within the trans community, all at varying stages of their own journeys and i simply don't recognise the life and situation you desribe.

If what you've described is truly your reality then it most be awe full for you but I can assure you, it is not the reality of myself, my partner or any of our friends.

If your unhappy about the way you are perceived and treated, change it.

If your happy about it, enjoy it.

But why you want to portray it as dreadful and then insist everyone who won't agree with you is deluding themselves is beyond me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread got deep. I suppose that's great in many ways. We're multi layered societies so obviously difference of opinions.

Me, I have, would again and very much enjoyed dating a woman who identified herself as a TS. I didn't feel a need to look at myself or her differently because I like to stick her cock in my mouth. She was stunning and had an amazing body, I loved doing it. I told my family and it had mixed reception. Water. Ducks back. That's it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get more than my fair share of guys, both young and old, I am not portraying a dreadfull picture when I say Middle aged married guys are the staple diet of Trans, thats a fact.

Theres nothing wrong with them most are good looking guys in their prime, experienced, pleasant and respect boundaries ...

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI


"They're probably just insecure and worried about what other people will think of them. In that case they're probably not worth dating lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do I get initiated in the ways of trannydom? Do I need to dress up as a woman? Cause that would be kind of meta.

Ask the expert. Aye

I wonder if the expert realises there is a world outside the one she lives in.

I don't much fancy visiting trannydom. It sound dull and overrun with middle aged shaggers.

Its reality, not the fantasy world you seek to create for yourself on these forums..

You forget that you were begging me for meets a while back, gagging for my middle aged cock ...."

Lmfao.

My youthful memory is very clear ta. I've never been interested in trannys or tgirls. Dressing does nothing for me sexually.

This girl is into young muscular men and the occasional older man who exudes dominance.

Fab isn't a place I often meet from. I can't be arsed with messaging to get laid when I can just walk into any bar or club, be it a sex club or just a nightclub, and be chatted up by hot guys as I approach the bar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mara7, you truly have my most heartfelt sympathy. This is not a wind up or intended to sound condescending, I mean it sincerely.

I have no idea what Trannydom is.

My partner and are have a wide and extensive group of friends within the trans community, all at varying stages of their own journeys and i simply don't recognise the life and situation you desribe.

If what you've described is truly your reality then it most be awe full for you but I can assure you, it is not the reality of myself, my partner or any of our friends.

If your unhappy about the way you are perceived and treated, change it.

If your happy about it, enjoy it.

But why you want to portray it as dreadful and then insist everyone who won't agree with you is deluding themselves is beyond me. "

Well said.

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By *now white1000Woman
over a year ago

York


"I get more than my fair share of guys, both young and old, I am not portraying a dreadfull picture when I say Middle aged married guys are the staple diet of Trans, thats a fact.

"

I'm sorry but just where do you collect your facts from?

middle aged married guys the staple diet of trans? i mean come on please....

if you are going to claim a fact , at least back it up by revealing the exact source of the fact, otherwise it's just yet another 'plucking a fact from thin air to justify a statement' quote

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get more than my fair share of guys, both young and old, I am not portraying a dreadfull picture when I say Middle aged married guys are the staple diet of Trans, thats a fact.

Theres nothing wrong with them most are good looking guys in their prime, experienced, pleasant and respect boundaries ...

"

I don't remember the last time I met or slept with a middle aged married man.

Unless he was with his partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get more than my fair share of guys, both young and old, I am not portraying a dreadfull picture when I say Middle aged married guys are the staple diet of Trans, thats a fact.

Theres nothing wrong with them most are good looking guys in their prime, experienced, pleasant and respect boundaries ...

"

Its a fact for YOU.

Why cant you be open enough to realise everyone has different experiences.

lol its really baffling why you insist on tellin everyone else on here their liars and know nothing.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"

lol its really baffling why you insist on tellin everyone else on here their liars and know nothing."

Jane Snow knows nothing

I find I get a cross section of society wanting a meeting. Old, young, middle aged, slim, not slim, articulate and urbane and those not. I don't think I could single out a single demographic as being more prevalent unless perhaps desperate for a shag counts....

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"

lol its really baffling why you insist on tellin everyone else on here their liars and know nothing.

Jane Snow knows nothing

I find I get a cross section of society wanting a meeting. Old, young, middle aged, slim, not slim, articulate and urbane and those not. I don't think I could single out a single demographic as being more prevalent unless perhaps desperate for a shag counts.... "

How about ones that are experts on climate change?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"

lol its really baffling why you insist on tellin everyone else on here their liars and know nothing.

Jane Snow knows nothing

I find I get a cross section of society wanting a meeting. Old, young, middle aged, slim, not slim, articulate and urbane and those not. I don't think I could single out a single demographic as being more prevalent unless perhaps desperate for a shag counts....

How about ones that are experts on climate change? "

Well

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"How do I get initiated in the ways of trannydom? Do I need to dress up as a woman? Cause that would be kind of meta.

Ask the expert. Aye

I wonder if the expert realises there is a world outside the one she lives in.

I don't much fancy visiting trannydom. It sound dull and overrun with middle aged shaggers. "

Oi; who are you calling middle-aged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do I get initiated in the ways of trannydom? Do I need to dress up as a woman? Cause that would be kind of meta.

Ask the expert. Aye

I wonder if the expert realises there is a world outside the one she lives in.

I don't much fancy visiting trannydom. It sound dull and overrun with middle aged shaggers.

Oi; who are you calling middle-aged "

Pssst. We're the same age now come here and kiss me like you mean it

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"How do I get initiated in the ways of trannydom? Do I need to dress up as a woman? Cause that would be kind of meta.

Ask the expert. Aye

I wonder if the expert realises there is a world outside the one she lives in.

I don't much fancy visiting trannydom. It sound dull and overrun with middle aged shaggers.

Oi; who are you calling middle-aged

Pssst. We're the same age now come here and kiss me like you mean it "

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do I get initiated in the ways of trannydom? Do I need to dress up as a woman? Cause that would be kind of meta.

Ask the expert. Aye

I wonder if the expert realises there is a world outside the one she lives in.

I don't much fancy visiting trannydom. It sound dull and overrun with middle aged shaggers.

Oi; who are you calling middle-aged

Pssst. We're the same age now come here and kiss me like you mean it

xxx "

No; like you REALLY mean it

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"How do I get initiated in the ways of trannydom? Do I need to dress up as a woman? Cause that would be kind of meta.

Ask the expert. Aye

I wonder if the expert realises there is a world outside the one she lives in.

I don't much fancy visiting trannydom. It sound dull and overrun with middle aged shaggers.

Oi; who are you calling middle-aged

Pssst. We're the same age now come here and kiss me like you mean it

xxx

No; like you REALLY mean it "

I never mean anything, Rachael; you should know that by now; I am just an air-head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you don't really love me then

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"So you don't really love me then

"

Ofcourse I do Rachael darling. And I will divorce her soon to be with you forever and ever and ever; believe me; just give me a few more months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Erika and I met in Costa Coffee, by the way. "

I have dated a few women on the trans spectrum.

Whether we went on a road trip to Leeds, by bus or by car, shopping at ASDA, or just a night out in Manchester or Liverpool, I didn't notice any difference. But they got shouted comments at on the odd occasion.

Each of them I had met through friends on nights out.

I am a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you don't really love me then

Ofcourse I do Rachael darling. And I will divorce her soon to be with you forever and ever and ever; believe me; just give me a few more months "

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