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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As much as this is a sex site I would love nothing more than to wine and dine a girl of here too .. To me its all about chemistry too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As much as this is a sex site I would love nothing more than to wine and dine a girl of here too .. To me its all about chemistry too!"

Is a swingers site is it not? Lol

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As much as this is a sex site I would love nothing more than to wine and dine a girl of here too .. To me its all about chemistry too!"
its a dating site with a sex bias for the singles ,the couples are just sex addicts

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's not just sex.....its swinging, which for me at least means socials too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A sex site, dating site or swinging site, People use it in many different ways, Just arrange socials if you would like to wine an dine a Woman

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I use it to pick my lottery numbers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its whatever you want it to be...

wine 'em, dine 'em, 69 'em

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

its a swingers site the clue is in the name just because some people use it as an easy way to get their leg over doesn't change the point of the site.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Many of us having sex here believe it's about chemistry too - it's largely not about shagging those we don't find attractive etc.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As much as this is a sex site I would love nothing more than to wine and dine a girl of here too .. To me its all about chemistry too!its a dating site with a sex bias for the singles ,the couples are just sex addicts "

Yes couples are sex addicts

Single men are desperate and needy

Single women are too fussy

As to wining and dining I can assure you that isn't the way to get a girlfriend and keep one

Dates that involve bowling darts pool pub quizzes are usually a safer bet

And when it comes to wining and dining you offer them to your home

I used to always say can't meet before. 7 pm as cooking dinner for my son and myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use it to pick my lottery numbers"

Share please

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Try Miss CC's dating thread then OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's nice to socialise and have sex meets .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As much as this is a sex site I would love nothing more than to wine and dine a girl of here too .. To me its all about chemistry too!"

f a b S W I N G E R S.....the clue as to what this site is about is in the name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a site with everything on offer . Dating yes, Some marry some just have sex some just chat .. its what ever your looking for really FAB.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love having a drink and a chat before the sex. I don't ever claim to be a swinger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Singles aren't swingers though,they can do as they please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its a swingers site the clue is in the name just because some people use it as an easy way to get their leg over doesn't change the point of the site."

Might be the name but if you tap in to google nsa sex, Fabs pops up.

OP, the site can be whatever you want it to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As much as this is a sex site I would love nothing more than to wine and dine a girl of here too .. To me its all about chemistry too!its a dating site with a sex bias for the singles ,the couples are just sex addicts

Yes couples are sex addicts

Single men are desperate and needy

Single women are too fussy

As to wining and dining I can assure you that isn't the way to get a girlfriend and keep one

Dates that involve bowling darts pool pub quizzes are usually a safer bet

And when it comes to wining and dining you offer them to your home

I used to always say can't meet before. 7 pm as cooking dinner for my son and myself "

Sorry but I'd rather be wined and dined on a date than play bloody darts in a pub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm of on a date in 10 minutes. I've know the lady for years on here. We go out now and then , have a meal or go to the movies and then back to either my place or her's. We both enjoy each others company but do not want a relationship. Tonight it's dinner out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As much as this is a sex site I would love nothing more than to wine and dine a girl of here too .. To me its all about chemistry too!its a dating site with a sex bias for the singles ,the couples are just sex addicts

Yes couples are sex addicts

Single men are desperate and needy

Single women are too fussy

As to wining and dining I can assure you that isn't the way to get a girlfriend and keep one

Dates that involve bowling darts pool pub quizzes are usually a safer bet

And when it comes to wining and dining you offer them to your home

I used to always say can't meet before. 7 pm as cooking dinner for my son and myself

Sorry but I'd rather be wined and dined on a date than play bloody darts in a pub "

So you think a man should buy you food and wine in return for your company

I am presuming the op means he is paying and have based my reply on that

I am also presuming that the op was offering wine and dine in a attempt to get a date on his financial ability rather than anything else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some look for more then cold sex ...... its boring after a time .

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"As much as this is a sex site I would love nothing more than to wine and dine a girl of here too .. To me its all about chemistry too!"

Do it! I've had way more socialising on this site than I ever had on dating sites - they only ever wanted a shag!! Oh the irony!

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

Plenty of ladies here like a meet that involves dinner, or something else social as well as the sex;

It's not " paying for sex" ; indeed usually they are wanting to go halves anyway...

But some of us like to have a proper social experience and interaction and not just a shag and go .

Others don't . Whatever floats your boat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As much as this is a sex site I would love nothing more than to wine and dine a girl of here too .. To me its all about chemistry too!

Is a swingers site is it not? Lol"

I've been out for dinner with quite a few meets! In essence they ARE dates. The only discernible difference between that and a 'normal ' date is that you KNOW you'll have great sex after dinner if you click! What's not to like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As much as this is a sex site I would love nothing more than to wine and dine a girl of here too .. To me its all about chemistry too!

Is a swingers site is it not? Lol

I've been out for dinner with quite a few meets! In essence they ARE dates. The only discernible difference between that and a 'normal ' date is that you KNOW you'll have great sex after dinner if you click! What's not to like? "
unless you eat to much and as soon as you hit pillow fall asleep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive upped my search to marriage.

people should have got to me when i was only looking for a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive upped my search to marriage.

people should have got to me when i was only looking for a relationship."
will you marry me ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's called "fabswingers" the clue is in the name....maybe you could google "fabsex" or "fab dating"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's called "fabswingers" the clue is in the name....maybe you could google "fabsex" or "fab dating"?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As much as this is a sex site I would love nothing more than to wine and dine a girl of here too .. To me its all about chemistry too!

Is a swingers site is it not? Lol

I've been out for dinner with quite a few meets! In essence they ARE dates. The only discernible difference between that and a 'normal ' date is that you KNOW you'll have great sex after dinner if you click! What's not to like? "

Despite my previous (tongue in cheek) post....I too have done this. I have made a number of really good friends along the way. I have prepared and cooked meals for a few. I have introduced more than one or two to family members etc. with one in particular I have spent many, many weekends in her caravan, been out (and in) for can't count how many meals etc.... But none of this has been with any ties (yet!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Google what is swinging, Wikipedia & every other site will tell you it's about sex so this site is a sex site. Swinging was created to wife swap "for sex" yes there is a social side to it but swinging is for couples to swap partners for sex. Singles are here for sex.

Say what you want but everyone knows what swinging is so it's more a sex site than anything else becuase that's exactly what swinging is. Loom it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Google what is swinging, Wikipedia & every other site will tell you it's about sex so this site is a sex site. Swinging was created to wife swap "for sex" yes there is a social side to it but swinging is for couples to swap partners for sex. Singles are here for sex.

Say what you want but everyone knows what swinging is so it's more a sex site than anything else becuase that's exactly what swinging is. Loom it up"
look it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive upped my search to marriage.

people should have got to me when i was only looking for a relationship. will you marry me ? "

aw, only one smiley so i am very tempted indeed.

yes, i will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some look for more then cold sex ...... its boring after a time ."
cold sex is boring fullstop my nipples get sore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not looking to wine and dine anybody and I'm not sure many of the women are on here to find someone to wine and dine them anyway.

You'd go on Tinder if you were looking for that kind of dynamic, surely? Or is it just a white knight post?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

worst marriage ever. i want a divorce already. :poop:

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I'm not looking to wine and dine anybody and I'm not sure many of the women are on here to find someone to wine and dine them anyway.

You'd go on Tinder if you were looking for that kind of dynamic, surely? Or is it just a white knight post?"

Because it's not what you want and not how you see the site, nobody should want it?

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

all these look at me posts

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Because it's not what you want and not how you see the site, nobody should want it?"

No, people can want whatever they like, it's just a bizarre place to look for that kind of thing.

It's irrelevant anyway because it was only said as a form of white knighting and isn't really what the guy is here for at all.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


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Because it's not what you want and not how you see the site, nobody should want it?

No, people can want whatever they like, it's just a bizarre place to look for that kind of thing.

It's irrelevant anyway because it was only said as a form of white knighting and isn't really what the guy is here for at all."

People use this place in all sorts of ways. Many of those will differ to what you do and some won't make sense to you. It doesn't make it wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i joined for baking recipes and advice on cushion arranging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm here for some fun but if I met someone I wanted to date I wouldn't say no, its not what I'm "looking" for on here though.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"I use it to pick my lottery numbers"

Hold on to those; PM me on Friday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

People use this place in all sorts of ways. Many of those will differ to what you do and some won't make sense to you. It doesn't make it wrong."

I dont disagree, but as I've just said, its an irrelevant debate to have as in this case, it has been written because the OP thinks it's what women want to hear, in the hope of receiving "awww what a nice guy" responses... also known as 'white knighting".

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


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People use this place in all sorts of ways. Many of those will differ to what you do and some won't make sense to you. It doesn't make it wrong.

I dont disagree, but as I've just said, its an irrelevant debate to have as in this case, it has been written because the OP thinks it's what women want to hear, in the hope of receiving "awww what a nice guy" responses... also known as 'white knighting"."

We are not all that naive; honestly

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"

People use this place in all sorts of ways. Many of those will differ to what you do and some won't make sense to you. It doesn't make it wrong.

I dont disagree, but as I've just said, its an irrelevant debate to have as in this case, it has been written because the OP thinks it's what women want to hear, in the hope of receiving "awww what a nice guy" responses... also known as 'white knighting".

We are not all that naive; honestly "

^this

What is the term for men trying to protect us gullible, vulnerable women from white knights?

Double white knights? Platinum knights?

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By *ortland51Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Regardless of what the site is or isn't, if you find someone you are attracted to physically, are compatible with sexually and you like them as a person and enjoy their company, then for me, I want to see that person again and again, like dating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Regardless of what the site is or isn't, if you find someone you are attracted to physically, are compatible with sexually and you like them as a person and enjoy their company, then for me, I want to see that person again and again, like dating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

What is the term for men trying to protect us gullible, vulnerable women from white knights?

Double white knights? Platinum knights?"

I wasn't trying to protect YOU from anything, infact, I hadn't even acknowledged you, but you seem to be spoiling for a row, its really weird. I'll make this my last response and let someone else suffer you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

People use this place in all sorts of ways. Many of those will differ to what you do and some won't make sense to you. It doesn't make it wrong.

I dont disagree, but as I've just said, its an irrelevant debate to have as in this case, it has been written because the OP thinks it's what women want to hear, in the hope of receiving "awww what a nice guy" responses... also known as 'white knighting"."

That's your opinion. Everyone else took it to mean the OP wanted to start a discussion and have decided to do just that, therefore it is not "irrelevant"

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"

What is the term for men trying to protect us gullible, vulnerable women from white knights?

Double white knights? Platinum knights?

I wasn't trying to protect YOU from anything, infact, I hadn't even acknowledged you, but you seem to be spoiling for a row, its really weird. I'll make this my last response and let someone else suffer you."

I didn't say you had addressed me and actually, the response you quote wasn't directed at you either

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"

People use this place in all sorts of ways. Many of those will differ to what you do and some won't make sense to you. It doesn't make it wrong.

I dont disagree, but as I've just said, its an irrelevant debate to have as in this case, it has been written because the OP thinks it's what women want to hear, in the hope of receiving "awww what a nice guy" responses... also known as 'white knighting".

That's your opinion. Everyone else took it to mean the OP wanted to start a discussion and have decided to do just that, therefore it is not "irrelevant""

Some always think the way they see the site and the way they use the site is the right way and everyone else is doing it wrong though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

What is the term for men trying to protect us gullible, vulnerable women from white knights?

Double white knights? Platinum knights?

I wasn't trying to protect YOU from anything, infact, I hadn't even acknowledged you, but you seem to be spoiling for a row, its really weird. I'll make this my last response and let someone else suffer you."

some post in the hope of a row

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"

What is the term for men trying to protect us gullible, vulnerable women from white knights?

Double white knights? Platinum knights?

I wasn't trying to protect YOU from anything, infact, I hadn't even acknowledged you, but you seem to be spoiling for a row, its really weird. I'll make this my last response and let someone else suffer you."

Now, now; don't get into a huff

She has a point; some of us have been knocking around 'ere for a while and have 'seen it all'. You may not personally have had those intentions but many here do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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some post in the hope of a row "

I've noticed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm here to meet people in clubs for NSA safe sex, in fact if the clubs got a dark room I don't even need to see their face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

some post in the hope of a row

I've noticed. "
and you instigate them lol

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"

What is the term for men trying to protect us gullible, vulnerable women from white knights?

Double white knights? Platinum knights?

I wasn't trying to protect YOU from anything, infact, I hadn't even acknowledged you, but you seem to be spoiling for a row, its really weird. I'll make this my last response and let someone else suffer you.

some post in the hope of a row "

And some just say what they think without worrying whether others will get in a huff and chuck their toys out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

What is the term for men trying to protect us gullible, vulnerable women from white knights?

Double white knights? Platinum knights?

I wasn't trying to protect YOU from anything, infact, I hadn't even acknowledged you, but you seem to be spoiling for a row, its really weird. I'll make this my last response and let someone else suffer you."
she does it to everyone don't feel you've been singled out ,your opinion is as valid as anyones not least because its your opinion and we all have one

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"

What is the term for men trying to protect us gullible, vulnerable women from white knights?

Double white knights? Platinum knights?

I wasn't trying to protect YOU from anything, infact, I hadn't even acknowledged you, but you seem to be spoiling for a row, its really weird. I'll make this my last response and let someone else suffer you. she does it to everyone don't feel you've been singled out ,your opinion is as valid as anyones not least because its your opinion and we all have one"

I disagree with people I disagree with? Go figure. Shame on me

That's his definition of wanting a fight, apparently, disagreeing with him. Because clearly he's always right, so everyone else must be wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"she does it to everyone don't feel you've been singled out ,your opinion is as valid as anyones not least because its your opinion and we all have one "

I had actually noticed her doing it to someone else in another thread. It's a shame that people are that unhappy. Hey ho!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

And funny, since everyone has an opinion and they're all valid, that would include mine.

Don't like it? Too bad.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"she does it to everyone don't feel you've been singled out ,your opinion is as valid as anyones not least because its your opinion and we all have one

I had actually noticed her doing it to someone else in another thread. It's a shame that people are that unhappy. Hey ho!"

Says the person who got uppity and tried to start a row because someone disagreed with him over cuckqueening

Shame some people are so unhappy

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By *ink magnolia s yorksWoman
over a year ago

south yorkshire


"As much as this is a sex site I would love nothing more than to wine and dine a girl of here too .. To me its all about chemistry too!

Is a swingers site is it not? Lol"

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Good Lord; one week here and he already thinks he knows everything and everyone

Unlike some knuckle dragging clowns, she normally comes up with incisive comments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sport a tattoo that says; if you don't agree with me you're an idiot

That's not to say that people are idiots, just that they should agree

Each to their own I'd say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forums are about opinions and debating them in an informative friendly manner ,some like to judge and get personal ,some like to joke ,some like to state the statistics and some have had personal experiences that have tainted their _iew of life but still we are allowed our opinion so if you state it prepare to defend it hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good Lord; one week here and he already thinks he knows everything and everyone

Unlike some knuckle dragging clowns, she normally comes up with incisive comments"

It doesn't take a week to see the same person following people around the threads, trying to argue and then look at their profile and realise where the bitterness and angst comes from. It takes minutes.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Good Lord; one week here and he already thinks he knows everything and everyone

Unlike some knuckle dragging clowns, she normally comes up with incisive comments

It doesn't take a week to see the same person following people around the threads, trying to argue and then look at their profile and realise where the bitterness and angst comes from. It takes minutes."

Yeah, tell us again what cuckqueening is oh font of all knowledge

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

It also amuses me that someone who intentionally tries to wind others up with every post accuses others of trying to upset people Some pots are a hell of a lot blacker than anyone else's kettles.

I'm perfectly happy to defend my _iew. It's not me spitting my dummy when people disagree with me

It's people with their heads so far up their arses, a firm belief they are always right and know everything, and a heaped measure of insecurity that have a problem with people disagreeing with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It also amuses me that someone who intentionally tries to wind others up with every post accuses others of trying to upset people Some pots are a hell of a lot blacker than anyone else's kettles.

I'm perfectly happy to defend my _iew. It's not me spitting my dummy when people disagree with me

It's people with their heads so far up their arses, a firm belief they are always right and know everything, and a heaped measure of insecurity that have a problem with people disagreeing with them."

Have a breather lovely, you're both arguing over nothing! xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I closed the matter when I stopped replying to her and she still keeps going on. So much anger.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I closed the matter when I stopped replying to her and she still keeps going on. So much anger. "

Oh yes, I can see you've stopped replying

So desperate to be right and to get the last word.

Carry on, I've got all night

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"It also amuses me that someone who intentionally tries to wind others up with every post accuses others of trying to upset people Some pots are a hell of a lot blacker than anyone else's kettles.

I'm perfectly happy to defend my _iew. It's not me spitting my dummy when people disagree with me

It's people with their heads so far up their arses, a firm belief they are always right and know everything, and a heaped measure of insecurity that have a problem with people disagreeing with them.

Have a breather lovely, you're both arguing over nothing! xxx"

Just expressing my opinion. Apparently we're all entitled to one.

As long as it doesn't disagree with certain people who think they know it all after a day here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site is like any other internet based social site I've been on ,some are here to find like minded people to have relationships with ,couples are mostly here to have NSA sex until it all goes tits up but some relationships get stronger with their common bond of sex addiction and social skills ,some are here solely for sex any hole will do ,some are here to meet people and have mini relationships but on a very friendly arms length basis ,some are married and playing away without permission these people are normally frowned upon but some especially forumites have survived that stigma and flourish ,some don't want to know your name or what you do they just want your sex ,some are just lonely and want a chat ,some are thick and want to share their sexual perversions with others in the hope it makes them feel normal but we are all free to do as we like as long as we stay within the rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It also amuses me that someone who intentionally tries to wind others up with every post accuses others of trying to upset people Some pots are a hell of a lot blacker than anyone else's kettles.

I'm perfectly happy to defend my _iew. It's not me spitting my dummy when people disagree with me

It's people with their heads so far up their arses, a firm belief they are always right and know everything, and a heaped measure of insecurity that have a problem with people disagreeing with them.

Have a breather lovely, you're both arguing over nothing! xxx

Just expressing my opinion. Apparently we're all entitled to one.

As long as it doesn't disagree with certain people who think they know it all after a day here "

It genuinely upsets me to see a woman of your age as unhappy with life as you appear to be. My mother is only 6 years older than you and she has 3 adult sons, a husband and lives in Italy... You are sat on here as a singleton, trying to channel your rage by attacking strangers on a forum who have no interest in speaking to you. I find it heartbreaking.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London


"It also amuses me that someone who intentionally tries to wind others up with every post accuses others of trying to upset people Some pots are a hell of a lot blacker than anyone else's kettles.

I'm perfectly happy to defend my _iew. It's not me spitting my dummy when people disagree with me

It's people with their heads so far up their arses, a firm belief they are always right and know everything, and a heaped measure of insecurity that have a problem with people disagreeing with them.

Have a breather lovely, you're both arguing over nothing! xxx

Just expressing my opinion. Apparently we're all entitled to one.

As long as it doesn't disagree with certain people who think they know it all after a day here

It genuinely upsets me to see a woman of your age as unhappy with life as you appear to be. My mother is only 6 years older than you and she has 3 adult sons, a husband and lives in Italy... You are sat on here as a singleton, trying to channel your rage by attacking strangers on a forum who have no interest in speaking to you. I find it heartbreaking.

"

OK. Too far!! Could you be anymore patronising and rude?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"It also amuses me that someone who intentionally tries to wind others up with every post accuses others of trying to upset people Some pots are a hell of a lot blacker than anyone else's kettles.

I'm perfectly happy to defend my _iew. It's not me spitting my dummy when people disagree with me

It's people with their heads so far up their arses, a firm belief they are always right and know everything, and a heaped measure of insecurity that have a problem with people disagreeing with them.

Have a breather lovely, you're both arguing over nothing! xxx

Just expressing my opinion. Apparently we're all entitled to one.

As long as it doesn't disagree with certain people who think they know it all after a day here

It genuinely upsets me to see a woman of your age as unhappy with life as you appear to be. My mother is only 6 years older than you and she has 3 adult sons, a husband and lives in Italy... You are sat on here as a singleton, trying to channel your rage by attacking strangers on a forum who have no interest in speaking to you. I find it heartbreaking.

"

You have no idea how I think or feel. I know you think you are an expert on the world and, after being here a week, this site, but you have an awful lot to learn.

The only one angry and unhappy is you because you don't like people disagreeing with you.

As I've pointed out, your angry, defensive, completely out of proportion reaction to someone calmly and perfectly reasonably disagreeing with you on the cuckqueening thread is clear evidence of that. (She was right incidentally and you have demonstrated you don't understand the concept of cuckolding or cuckqueening at all).

When you eventually grow up a bit and get a bit more life experience, you'll realise you didn't actually know it all.

For now, carry on the tin pot psychology if you like. It won't work because you haven't got a clue. You're quite funny though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You take care now. Stay charming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It also amuses me that someone who intentionally tries to wind others up with every post accuses others of trying to upset people Some pots are a hell of a lot blacker than anyone else's kettles.

I'm perfectly happy to defend my _iew. It's not me spitting my dummy when people disagree with me

It's people with their heads so far up their arses, a firm belief they are always right and know everything, and a heaped measure of insecurity that have a problem with people disagreeing with them.

Have a breather lovely, you're both arguing over nothing! xxx

Just expressing my opinion. Apparently we're all entitled to one.

As long as it doesn't disagree with certain people who think they know it all after a day here

It genuinely upsets me to see a woman of your age as unhappy with life as you appear to be. My mother is only 6 years older than you and she has 3 adult sons, a husband and lives in Italy... You are sat on here as a singleton, trying to channel your rage by attacking strangers on a forum who have no interest in speaking to you. I find it heartbreaking.

"

That was uncalled for and really rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone want to see my puppy.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Lemme see... I have numerous veris from social meets with forum members and others. A couple of weeks ago I was in Sheffield for a big social meet and having a whale of a time. I stayed with a forum member who is a good friend and spoke to many site members.

The one that's been here a week, knows nobody, isn't old enough to have any real life experience and has no verifications is qualified, from a few words on a forum to decide I sit at home, alone and unhappy...

Brilliant.

Looks to me like it's not me that doesn't have any sort of life on here...

Let's not let facts get in the way though. As you were

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuckholding and cuckqueening hehe hey I don't have a clue what they are what they mean and have no desire to even google them ,am sure whoever is into it loves it good on them ,enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone want to see my puppy."
is it a real puppy can I borrow it tomorrow ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So...is anyone going to take up the offer from the OP to have a nice meal and wine...hope he realises that a nice social doesn't always mean wild sex.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"So...is anyone going to take up the offer from the OP to have a nice meal and wine...hope he realises that a nice social doesn't always mean wild sex."

I think we're generally doubtful of the legitimacy of his offer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this thread has been another outstanding success I see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone want to see my puppy. is it a real puppy can I borrow it tomorrow ? "

One of my dogs pulls more women than I do.They are like putty in his paws.It must be his wild scruffy looks..I just get shoved out of the way...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone want to see my puppy. is it a real puppy can I borrow it tomorrow ?

One of my dogs pulls more women than I do.They are like putty in his paws.It must be his wild scruffy looks..I just get shoved out of the way..."
that's why I wanted to borrow it hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So...is anyone going to take up the offer from the OP to have a nice meal and wine...hope he realises that a nice social doesn't always mean wild sex.

I think we're generally doubtful of the legitimacy of his offer."

Is he bi....I'm starving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its meet and fuk or social meet and fuck what ever people use it for..the thing is to many males messaging the same girl..by time your waiting for a replie I would of had a one night stand al ready with out being on here lol not much of a fuk sight ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So...is anyone going to take up the offer from the OP to have a nice meal and wine...hope he realises that a nice social doesn't always mean wild sex.

I think we're generally doubtful of the legitimacy of his offer.

Is he bi....I'm starving"
send him a cock pic and find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So...is anyone going to take up the offer from the OP to have a nice meal and wine...hope he realises that a nice social doesn't always mean wild sex.

I think we're generally doubtful of the legitimacy of his offer.

Is he bi....I'm starving send him a cock pic and find out "

Says he's straight...but that means bugger all on here.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"It also amuses me that someone who intentionally tries to wind others up with every post accuses others of trying to upset people Some pots are a hell of a lot blacker than anyone else's kettles.

I'm perfectly happy to defend my _iew. It's not me spitting my dummy when people disagree with me

It's people with their heads so far up their arses, a firm belief they are always right and know everything, and a heaped measure of insecurity that have a problem with people disagreeing with them.

Have a breather lovely, you're both arguing over nothing! xxx

Just expressing my opinion. Apparently we're all entitled to one.

As long as it doesn't disagree with certain people who think they know it all after a day here

It genuinely upsets me to see a woman of your age as unhappy with life as you appear to be. My mother is only 6 years older than you and she has 3 adult sons, a husband and lives in Italy... You are sat on here as a singleton, trying to channel your rage by attacking strangers on a forum who have no interest in speaking to you. I find it heartbreaking.

"

What utter nonsense!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its whatever you want it to be...

wine 'em, dine 'em, 69 'em "
ha ha

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Morning smiley people

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Morning smiley people "

Good morning Cheeky, how are you this fine morning?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As much as this is a sex site I would love nothing more than to wine and dine a girl of here too .. To me its all about chemistry too!

Do it! I've had way more socialising on this site than I ever had on dating sites - they only ever wanted a shag!! Oh the irony! "

This ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that took an interesting turn......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well that took an interesting turn...... "

This site does hone your ignore filters...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's whatever people want it to be if it were a sex site only then theirs a lot of pretty disappointed frustrated within the speed limit people here

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Here at least MOST men are brutally honest with their intentions, where as plenty of cod roe and tinder MOST just chat out of their arse and pretend they want a relationship. You can't help where you fall in love or find someone you share the most amazing connection. Some have found that in a traffic jam, frozen pea aisle and fab, who the fuck are we to judge where people wanna look for love...we don't find love, love finds us.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Forgotten what the original question was after all that,give me a minute to scroll back up...

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Oh yeah,yeah sounds great to me

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Forgotten what the original question was after all that,give me a minute to scroll back up..."

Apparently it was only white knighting anyway and the OP should be on Tinder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As much as this is a sex site I would love nothing more than to wine and dine a girl of here too .. To me its all about chemistry too!its a dating site with a sex bias for the singles ,the couples are just sex addicts

Yes couples are sex addicts

Single men are desperate and needy

Single women are too fussy

As to wining and dining I can assure you that isn't the way to get a girlfriend and keep one

Dates that involve bowling darts pool pub quizzes are usually a safer bet

And when it comes to wining and dining you offer them to your home

I used to always say can't meet before. 7 pm as cooking dinner for my son and myself

Sorry but I'd rather be wined and dined on a date than play bloody darts in a pub

So you think a man should buy you food and wine in return for your company

I am presuming the op means he is paying and have based my reply on that

I am also presuming that the op was offering wine and dine in a attempt to get a date on his financial ability rather than anything else "

Oh no, I was talking merely on enjoyment factor, nothing to do with the cost

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I'm gonna go back to old fashioned methods........ Single nights at Asda, looking desperate at the smoochies end of night nightclub or 18-30 holidays (OK might not pass for that one) lol

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Forgotten what the original question was after all that,give me a minute to scroll back up...

Apparently it was only white knighting anyway and the OP should be on Tinder."

Oh right I'm resisting Tinder wonder if it's any good...

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Forgotten what the original question was after all that,give me a minute to scroll back up...

Apparently it was only white knighting anyway and the OP should be on Tinder.

Oh right I'm resisting Tinder wonder if it's any good... "

Tinder is OK but it's turning more into a casual hook up or men having a mid life crisis site...

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Forgotten what the original question was after all that,give me a minute to scroll back up...

Apparently it was only white knighting anyway and the OP should be on Tinder.

Oh right I'm resisting Tinder wonder if it's any good...

Tinder is OK but it's turning more into a casual hook up or men having a mid life crisis site... "

I alway's thought Tinder was just for casual stuff anyway,I'll just stick with here then methinks

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Forgotten what the original question was after all that,give me a minute to scroll back up...

Apparently it was only white knighting anyway and the OP should be on Tinder.

Oh right I'm resisting Tinder wonder if it's any good...

Tinder is OK but it's turning more into a casual hook up or men having a mid life crisis site... "

Yeah I had a look at it a while back - that was my impression, and very thin on profile information too.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Forgotten what the original question was after all that,give me a minute to scroll back up...

Apparently it was only white knighting anyway and the OP should be on Tinder.

Oh right I'm resisting Tinder wonder if it's any good...

Tinder is OK but it's turning more into a casual hook up or men having a mid life crisis site...

I alway's thought Tinder was just for casual stuff anyway,I'll just stick with here then methinks "

No it is a dating app and that was what it was set up as.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come on then u can wine and dine me am up for that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its whatever you want it to be...

wine 'em, dine 'em, 69 'em "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Forgotten what the original question was after all that,give me a minute to scroll back up...

Apparently it was only white knighting anyway and the OP should be on Tinder.

Oh right I'm resisting Tinder wonder if it's any good...

Tinder is OK but it's turning more into a casual hook up or men having a mid life crisis site...

I alway's thought Tinder was just for casual stuff anyway,I'll just stick with here then methinks "

From friends experiences, it's more of a hook up site than dating ~ but I do think it varies depending on age.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Forgotten what the original question was after all that,give me a minute to scroll back up...

Apparently it was only white knighting anyway and the OP should be on Tinder.

Oh right I'm resisting Tinder wonder if it's any good...

Tinder is OK but it's turning more into a casual hook up or men having a mid life crisis site...

I alway's thought Tinder was just for casual stuff anyway,I'll just stick with here then methinks

No it is a dating app and that was what it was set up as. "

Right well I'm going to give it another month on here to find my soul mate then I'm off to Tinder

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Well I'm on various sites I'vd made no secret I'd like something more permanent in my life,

I've had a fair few social meets, I'd be happy to have a social coffee or drinks or a bite to eat ladies ..give me a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how good the sex and personality is id say

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By *rs Robinson999Woman
over a year ago

bristol


"As much as this is a sex site I would love nothing more than to wine and dine a girl of here too .. To me its all about chemistry too!"

I enjoy this too sometimes , fab is what you want it to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the sites are the same although havnt tried match.com its all about meeting meet and find out if you gel we all love sex but you eventually get tired of anything you have too much off especially if you don't want anything other than a non emotional fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As much as this is a sex site I would love nothing more than to wine and dine a girl of here too .. To me its all about chemistry too!"

Absolutely

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"All the sites are the same although havnt tried match.com its all about meeting meet and find out if you gel we all love sex but you eventually get tired of anything you have too much off especially if you don't want anything other than a non emotional fuck "

I tried Match,the few people that were local were on pof anyway. I never met anyone,waste of my blooming money

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By *carlet_heavenWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the sticks


"All the sites are the same although havnt tried match.com its all about meeting meet and find out if you gel we all love sex but you eventually get tired of anything you have too much off especially if you don't want anything other than a non emotional fuck

I tried Match,the few people that were local were on pof anyway. I never met anyone,waste of my blooming money "

Exactly!! At least there's a good chance of members being honest about their intentions here.

It seems bizarre that there appears to be so much venom directed towards others (myself included) if your reasons for being here aren't in line with someone else's-I'm really struggling to understand what makes someone feel they have the right to do that on here

Despite this site being linked to sex, I've had far more meaningful & lovely conversations with people on here (about things other than sex) than I have ever had on so-called 'dating' sites!?!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"All the sites are the same although havnt tried match.com its all about meeting meet and find out if you gel we all love sex but you eventually get tired of anything you have too much off especially if you don't want anything other than a non emotional fuck

I tried Match,the few people that were local were on pof anyway. I never met anyone,waste of my blooming money

Exactly!! At least there's a good chance of members being honest about their intentions here.

It seems bizarre that there appears to be so much venom directed towards others (myself included) if your reasons for being here aren't in line with someone else's-I'm really struggling to understand what makes someone feel they have the right to do that on here

Despite this site being linked to sex, I've had far more meaningful & lovely conversations with people on here (about things other than sex) than I have ever had on so-called 'dating' sites!?! "

Some people really do think their idea of how the site should be used is the right way and nobody else should be here. I don't understand it either.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Do what you like

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Do what you like"

White knight alert! White knight alert! Burn the infidel!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the best place to share my pics, so I'll stick with fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some people "don't understand much"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All the sites are the same although havnt tried match.com its all about meeting meet and find out if you gel we all love sex but you eventually get tired of anything you have too much off especially if you don't want anything other than a non emotional fuck

I tried Match,the few people that were local were on pof anyway. I never met anyone,waste of my blooming money "
yes and you have to pay for it ,what's that all about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well this thread has been another outstanding success I see."

Is that sarcasm I detect? Surely not from you?

Anyway, I use it as a dating site, just no one tell Marc

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well this thread has been another outstanding success I see.

Is that sarcasm I detect? Surely not from you?

Anyway, I use it as a dating site, just no one tell Marc

-Courtney "
too late he's just read it he's at his desk devastated

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Sometimes it is best to just drop it, this is the time

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"As much as this is a sex site I would love nothing more than to wine and dine a girl of here too .. To me its all about chemistry too!"

The first rule of Fab is that there aren't any rules. You can do whatever you and your potential meet fancy. Surely that's the joy of it all.

I have no real interest in just randomly shagging women. That seems to work for some men but to me that would be incredibly boring. I'd rather have a wank than just rock up somewhere, shag and then go home. I need a little socialising beforehand. It adds some depth to the interaction and makes anything else that may happen later much more interesting.

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