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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it just me, do does anyone else out there think that the Chatroom monitor is a bit too quick to throw people out of the chatroom - after all, we're all adults aren't we????

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By *resh freddieMan
over a year ago

Penistone

donno depends what you are doing in there!!!

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By *edhot4blkCouple
over a year ago

York/London/Crantock

i think if a person breaks the rules and knows he/she is breaking the rules of the chatroom they shouldnt just be kicked out the chatroom but should also be kicked off the site and their ip addy banned for life..rules are there for a reason and should be obeyed at all times otherwise whats the reason for having the rules in the first place..??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the rules are in black and white......and they come up automatically in room every few mins........also room warnings were put in the room........pretty simple really.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ouch, harsh!!! Maybe you're right, depending on the severity. But to paraphrase the conversation, I asked if "the hot weather makes the lady horny." to which she replied "yes very." And I replied, "yes me too, would love to see you in less" and then I was banned???? It's not directing and there is a lot worse being said and that is clearly directing. It is nothing more than harmless fun, isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the directing rule is a fairly simple rule thou...

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By *edhot4blkCouple
over a year ago

York/London/Crantock

when im in the chatroom i keep to the rules at all times, if i didnt and was to break one of the site rules no matter how tiny or simple the rule was i would expect to be banned from the room and the site...xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ouch, harsh!!! Maybe you're right, depending on the severity. But to paraphrase the conversation, I asked if "the hot weather makes the lady horny." to which she replied "yes very." And I replied, "yes me too, would love to see you in less" and then I was banned???? It's not directing and there is a lot worse being said and that is clearly directing. It is nothing more than harmless fun, isn't it?

"

Totaly agree guys... Its harsh but there ya go, its pointless saying anything in here, this lot will just eat you alive then spit the pieces out, there are known to be meanies..

Far better off popping over here.. we'll have a few cold ones and discuss what went wrong, maybe a better discription of what you mean by hot and less etc.. then we'd be far far better placed to make a valid judgment..

Ohh Bring the wife too though lol...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"when im in the chatroom i keep to the rules at all times, if i didnt and was to break one of the site rules no matter how tiny or simple the rule was i would expect to be banned from the room and the site...xxxxx"

I agree, but how is what I said directing and tell me that there is not a lot worse being said, that clearly is directing? And not getting banned - infantile yes, offensive possibly if the other party wasn't partaking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why does everyone who gets booted from the chat room then moan thier bollox off in the forums?

Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when im in the chatroom i keep to the rules at all times, if i didnt and was to break one of the site rules no matter how tiny or simple the rule was i would expect to be banned from the room and the site...xxxxx

I agree, but how is what I said directing and tell me that there is not a lot worse being said, that clearly is directing? And not getting banned - infantile yes, offensive possibly if the other party wasn't partaking.

"

Just come and get laid... Relax!!

To warm to moan guys... Mwah x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when im in the chatroom i keep to the rules at all times, if i didnt and was to break one of the site rules no matter how tiny or simple the rule was i would expect to be banned from the room and the site...xxxxx

I agree, but how is what I said directing and tell me that there is not a lot worse being said, that clearly is directing? And not getting banned - infantile yes, offensive possibly if the other party wasn't partaking.

Just come and get laid... Relax!!

To warm to moan guys... Mwah x "

Mmmmm make me moan baby

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ouch, harsh!!! Maybe you're right, depending on the severity. But to paraphrase the conversation, I asked if "the hot weather makes the lady horny." to which she replied "yes very." And I replied, "yes me too, would love to see you in less" and then I was banned???? It's not directing and there is a lot worse being said and that is clearly directing. It is nothing more than harmless fun, isn't it?

Totaly agree guys... Its harsh but there ya go, its pointless saying anything in here, this lot will just eat you alive then spit the pieces out, there are known to be meanies..

Far better off popping over here.. we'll have a few cold ones and discuss what went wrong, maybe a better discription of what you mean by hot and less etc.. then we'd be far far better placed to make a valid judgment..

Ohh Bring the wife too though lol... "

Thanks, yeah a tough crowd, but genuinely want to know what people think - we're new to this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when im in the chatroom i keep to the rules at all times, if i didnt and was to break one of the site rules no matter how tiny or simple the rule was i would expect to be banned from the room and the site...xxxxx

I agree, but how is what I said directing and tell me that there is not a lot worse being said, that clearly is directing? And not getting banned - infantile yes, offensive possibly if the other party wasn't partaking.

"

Its not exactly hard to grasp the fact you should not direct in the room....its stated in black and white and warnings were given in the room........also another 2 people were banned within this time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"why does everyone who gets booted from the chat room then moan thier bollox off in the forums?

Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzz"

If it's boring, why look and why answer???????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ouch, harsh!!! Maybe you're right, depending on the severity. But to paraphrase the conversation, I asked if "the hot weather makes the lady horny." to which she replied "yes very." And I replied, "yes me too, would love to see you in less" and then I was banned???? It's not directing and there is a lot worse being said and that is clearly directing. It is nothing more than harmless fun, isn't it?

"

It does appear that some of the chatroom monitors need to have a clearer understanding of the English language in order to effectively moderate a room based 100% upon English text.

The above quotation is not a direction, if anything it is a rhetoric statement that doesn't require an answer.

"I would love to see you in less" is an expression, and therefore not in contradiction of any rule regarding directing.

Like I said, if they can't understand basic English then they shouldn't be doing the job.

Big fish, small pond springs to mind as I've seen some of them in there and they have let a little power go to their heads.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why does everyone who gets booted from the chat room then moan thier bollox off in the forums?

Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

If it's boring, why look and why answer???????"

because its less boring than what im doing and i will run amok wherever i fucking like thank you xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ouch, harsh!!! Maybe you're right, depending on the severity. But to paraphrase the conversation, I asked if "the hot weather makes the lady horny." to which she replied "yes very." And I replied, "yes me too, would love to see you in less" and then I was banned???? It's not directing and there is a lot worse being said and that is clearly directing. It is nothing more than harmless fun, isn't it?

Totaly agree guys... Its harsh but there ya go, its pointless saying anything in here, this lot will just eat you alive then spit the pieces out, there are known to be meanies..

Far better off popping over here.. we'll have a few cold ones and discuss what went wrong, maybe a better discription of what you mean by hot and less etc.. then we'd be far far better placed to make a valid judgment..

Ohh Bring the wife too though lol...

Thanks, yeah a tough crowd, but genuinely want to know what people think - we're new to this."

Ok... Honest to god, take or leave it lol.. No one but no one loves a moaner! Not unless getting seriously nailed at the time anyways lol...

All you'll do is pee peeps off..

Advice is free........ so is the beer lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"when im in the chatroom i keep to the rules at all times, if i didnt and was to break one of the site rules no matter how tiny or simple the rule was i would expect to be banned from the room and the site...xxxxx

I agree, but how is what I said directing and tell me that there is not a lot worse being said, that clearly is directing? And not getting banned - infantile yes, offensive possibly if the other party wasn't partaking.

Its not exactly hard to grasp the fact you should not direct in the room....its stated in black and white and warnings were given in the room........also another 2 people were banned within this time."

Okay, fine slapped wrist, must try harder in future, no double EnTender intended.

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By *edhot4blkCouple
over a year ago

York/London/Crantock

DandL...

i couldnt really comment on what u did in the chatroom as i wasnt there and so it would be wrong for me to do so, but if u think u have been misstreated or wrongly judged then complain to the site admin, after all they would be the ones to chat to and they will have the transcripts of the room conversation so will be able to take the required action...xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ouch, harsh!!! Maybe you're right, depending on the severity. But to paraphrase the conversation, I asked if "the hot weather makes the lady horny." to which she replied "yes very." And I replied, "yes me too, would love to see you in less" and then I was banned???? It's not directing and there is a lot worse being said and that is clearly directing. It is nothing more than harmless fun, isn't it?

Totaly agree guys... Its harsh but there ya go, its pointless saying anything in here, this lot will just eat you alive then spit the pieces out, there are known to be meanies..

Far better off popping over here.. we'll have a few cold ones and discuss what went wrong, maybe a better discription of what you mean by hot and less etc.. then we'd be far far better placed to make a valid judgment..

Ohh Bring the wife too though lol...

Thanks, yeah a tough crowd, but genuinely want to know what people think - we're new to this.

Ok... Honest to god, take or leave it lol.. No one but no one loves a moaner! Not unless getting seriously nailed at the time anyways lol...

All you'll do is pee peeps off..

Advice is free........ so is the beer lol."

cool, rant over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personaly... don't think it was a wrong thing to say...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good now come play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ouch, harsh!!! Maybe you're right, depending on the severity. But to paraphrase the conversation, I asked if "the hot weather makes the lady horny." to which she replied "yes very." And I replied, "yes me too, would love to see you in less" and then I was banned???? It's not directing and there is a lot worse being said and that is clearly directing. It is nothing more than harmless fun, isn't it?

Totaly agree guys... Its harsh but there ya go, its pointless saying anything in here, this lot will just eat you alive then spit the pieces out, there are known to be meanies..

Far better off popping over here.. we'll have a few cold ones and discuss what went wrong, maybe a better discription of what you mean by hot and less etc.. then we'd be far far better placed to make a valid judgment..

Ohh Bring the wife too though lol...

Thanks, yeah a tough crowd, but genuinely want to know what people think - we're new to this.

Ok... Honest to god, take or leave it lol.. No one but no one loves a moaner! Not unless getting seriously nailed at the time anyways lol...

All you'll do is pee peeps off..

Advice is free........ so is the beer lol.

cool, rant over.

"

Well done... Now do ya fancy that shag the pair of ya's before we go and get banned lol.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" good now come play"

I'm first lol.. so fook off pmsl..xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" good now come play

I'm first lol.. so fook off pmsl..xx "

will arm wrestle ya...cos i dont hit a guy with glasses

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys, no hard feelings I hope?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hard feelings I hope?"

Smoothy you....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" good now come play

I'm first lol.. so fook off pmsl..xx

will arm wrestle ya...cos i dont hit a guy with glasses"

Told ya.. they are for close up work only.... Grrrr....

Wanna find out how close ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks guys, no hard feelings I hope?"

well no lol i dont get hard.........but ma hubby does lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"hard feelings I hope?

Smoothy you.... "

Thanks Notts, really like your profile by the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hard feelings I hope?

Smoothy you.... "

Notts you slut lol

Dont worry newbies you will get used to us, its much more fun in here anyway, chatrooms are full of rules and bollox, here you can run wild and flirt ya asses off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks guys, no hard feelings I hope?

well no lol i dont get hard.........but ma hubby does lol"

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hard feelings I hope?

Smoothy you....

Thanks Notts, really like your profile by the way."

Were better in the flesh..... Dare ya find out??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"hard feelings I hope?

Smoothy you....

Notts you slut lol

Dont worry newbies you will get used to us, its much more fun in here anyway, chatrooms are full of rules and bollox, here you can run wild and flirt ya asses off"

Too right, You're a tough bunch, but you're fair and it's been fun. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

then stay

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"hard feelings I hope?

Smoothy you....

Thanks Notts, really like your profile by the way.

Were better in the flesh..... Dare ya find out??"

I dare, but you know how it goes, ...gotta get the bosses permission. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hard feelings I hope?

Smoothy you....

Notts you slut lol

Dont worry newbies you will get used to us, its much more fun in here anyway, chatrooms are full of rules and bollox, here you can run wild and flirt ya asses off"

Its hot.... What can I say lol.

We have needs...

And did we mention we got blown out last weekend???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"then stay "

Cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hard feelings I hope?

Smoothy you....

Notts you slut lol

Dont worry newbies you will get used to us, its much more fun in here anyway, chatrooms are full of rules and bollox, here you can run wild and flirt ya asses off

Its hot.... What can I say lol.

We have needs...

And did we mention we got blown out last weekend??? "

Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz yeap once or twice lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hard feelings I hope?

Smoothy you....

Thanks Notts, really like your profile by the way.

Were better in the flesh..... Dare ya find out??

I dare, but you know how it goes, ...gotta get the bosses permission. lol

"

Ohhhh you gotta ask ya Mum... ff's, always a catch eh!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"hard feelings I hope?

Smoothy you....

Notts you slut lol

Dont worry newbies you will get used to us, its much more fun in here anyway, chatrooms are full of rules and bollox, here you can run wild and flirt ya asses off

Its hot.... What can I say lol.

We have needs...

And did we mention we got blown out last weekend??? "

Talk about double entenders, you naughty girl.

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By *eviousLiasonsCouple
over a year ago

Travelling

A point we would like to make here is that chat moserators can only place temporary bans, either an hour for directing, or four hours for abuse / spamming websites / posting phone numbers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hard feelings I hope?

Smoothy you....

Notts you slut lol

Dont worry newbies you will get used to us, its much more fun in here anyway, chatrooms are full of rules and bollox, here you can run wild and flirt ya asses off

Its hot.... What can I say lol.

We have needs...

And did we mention we got blown out last weekend???

Talk about double entenders, you naughty girl."

hehehehehehe its Mr Notts, we dont think Mrs Notts really exists, its his multiple personalities lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"hard feelings I hope?

Smoothy you....

Thanks Notts, really like your profile by the way.

Were better in the flesh..... Dare ya find out??

I dare, but you know how it goes, ...gotta get the bosses permission. lol

Ohhhh you gotta ask ya Mum... ff's, always a catch eh! "

They don't say life's a bitch for nothing!!!! lol - joking, she's wonderful REALLY.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" A point we would like to make here is that chat moserators can only place temporary bans, either an hour for directing, or four hours for abuse / spamming websites / posting phone numbers

"

can i be a moserator...please please please mwah xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"hard feelings I hope?

Smoothy you....

Notts you slut lol

Dont worry newbies you will get used to us, its much more fun in here anyway, chatrooms are full of rules and bollox, here you can run wild and flirt ya asses off

Its hot.... What can I say lol.

We have needs...

And did we mention we got blown out last weekend???

Talk about double entenders, you naughty girl.

hehehehehehe its Mr Notts, we dont think Mrs Notts really exists, its his multiple personalities lol"

Well, judging by the pic, he's a fine fure of a man then!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" A point we would like to make here is that chat moserators can only place temporary bans, either an hour for directing, or four hours for abuse / spamming websites / posting phone numbers

can i be a moserator...please please please mwah xxxx"

moserator on hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its those bloody Moobs... Confuse anyone those would...

Oh well....... I'm a naughty girl then, just for today mind.

Ohhhhhh and if anyone ever wants to speak with Mrs Notts, just ask pmsl..

She'll happily phone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

... and not bad yourself too. True Pheonix

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I rarely go in as they are all like mini hitlers, one person got warned not to use caps when it appeared half through a word. Now most people with an ounce of sense would of seen it was a typo. I Have never been on a site where so many complaints have been made about chat monitors/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" A point we would like to make here is that chat moserators can only place temporary bans, either an hour for directing, or four hours for abuse / spamming websites / posting phone numbers

can i be a moserator...please please please mwah xxxx

moserator on hehe "

**sits quietly in the corner till they stop looking** tum de dum hehehehehehe

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" A point we would like to make here is that chat moserators can only place temporary bans, either an hour for directing, or four hours for abuse / spamming websites / posting phone numbers

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Thanks guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... and not bad yourself too. True Pheonix "

why thank you, was thinking the same about you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ouch, harsh!!! Maybe you're right, depending on the severity. But to paraphrase the conversation, I asked if "the hot weather makes the lady horny." to which she replied "yes very." And I replied, "yes me too, would love to see you in less" and then I was banned???? It's not directing and there is a lot worse being said and that is clearly directing. It is nothing more than harmless fun, isn't it?

It does appear that some of the chatroom monitors need to have a clearer understanding of the English language in order to effectively moderate a room based 100% upon English text.

The above quotation is not a direction, if anything it is a rhetoric statement that doesn't require an answer.

"I would love to see you in less" is an expression, and therefore not in contradiction of any rule regarding directing.

Like I said, if they can't understand basic English then they shouldn't be doing the job.

Big fish, small pond springs to mind as I've seen some of them in there and they have let a little power go to their heads. "

Cooooooool. What a wonderful way you have with words - it does it for me!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhh I see.... I warm em up and Miss No Knickers moves in and steals the kill...

Oh well.... Can I have seconds then??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"... and not bad yourself too. True Pheonix

why thank you, was thinking the same about you "

no, no no, thank you, Miss Pheonix. The pleasure is all mine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anybody think we've strayed off the topic? ...not that I'm complaining mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens alot round here....

Its half past 2 mate..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ohhh I see.... I warm em up and Miss No Knickers moves in and steals the kill...

Oh well.... Can I have seconds then?? "

Darling as if i would

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Gotta go and do some work now guys. It's been much more fun that the other room.

Speak again soon I hope. D xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have fun, see you about, we are usually loitering around with our roll ups swapping porn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah........ Washed the car and everything..

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

fucking chat rooms ....its so quick it brings on a epileptic fit and ya fall over quivering ....too much hello ...hello ...waaa meet ....blah bla blah and guys doing synchronistic wanking ...you set it to music at 60 bpm sometime you can get the couples fucking on to the off beat .....

apart from that

crap ..

luv from grumpy bastard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"fucking chat rooms ....its so quick it brings on a epileptic fit and ya fall over quivering ....too much hello ...hello ...waaa meet ....blah bla blah and guys doing synchronistic wanking ...you set it to music at 60 bpm sometime you can get the couples fucking on to the off beat .....

apart from that

crap ..

luv from grumpy bastard "

hello grumpy bastard (never a truer word said out of your lips)

well i have to admit to being kicked off the chat room and it wasnt for directing or giving out addies or tel no

i was just being naughty

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