FabSwingers.com forum: can someone be so ugly that actually makes them so sexy?

By *amjoyce OP Man
over a year ago

london

I am just thinking... Am I the only one thinking someone can be so ugly they actually turn you on?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fingers crossed there's hope for us all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ugly ?

It's subjective isn't it

I don't like the word ugly ...

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

i think thats called desperation

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

No because if once they get to the stage of you wanting them they are then attractive to you

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By *anchestercubMan
over a year ago

manchester & NI

I don't believe ugly exists - just people being attracted to different attributes, some more common than others.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"I am just thinking... Am I the only one thinking someone can be so ugly they actually turn you on? "

Interesting concept.... personally I go with the view that beauty (or ugly) is in the eye of the beholder.... and it is very much skin deep. There are many things which make someone attractive to me both physical and in their character.

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is such a thing as unconventional beauty.....

But no-one should ever use the term Ugly to describe someone's appearance....

How we look is in most part an accident of birth and doesn't warrant celebration or condemnation....

Ugly is a term to describe what goes on inside the heads of nasty people,,,

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I used to work with an 'ugly' lady and I recall a really good looking lady ask why this lady was so popular (she always had a few guys round at her desk chatting and flirting and laughing) and the good looking one hardly ever had that level of popularity and I said 'she's got a good personality'.

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By *amjoyce OP Man
over a year ago

london

Well... Maybe not "ugly" then... But for me it's the internal naughtiness that's a huge turn on... Oh... And blue/green eyes make me weak at the knees...

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Are we talking like rugby player / Vin Diesel type ugly? I like that ugly if so

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By *jj46Man
over a year ago

rhyl

I got called ugly the other day but I'm proud of who I am and ive done well for an ugly bloke lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think anyone is ugly.

Some appeal to me physically, others don't and I'm sure that's the same for me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ugly is a descriptor the same as beautiful; if we use one we use the other. They are both subjective. I can feel strongly attracted to a man who the general public would call ugly,because how beautiful someone is deemed to be isn't a factor when I talk to someone. I can determine whether others will see ugly,handsome or beautiful but it matters not to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Peter Beardsley, what a sexy little fooker he was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would explain why people find Benedict Cumbersnatch attractive

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

its all subjective... and nobody is "ugly" to everyone..... the numbers of people who might like you may be smaller.... but there are still going to be people out there that will.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would explain why people find Benedict Cumbersnatch attractive "

His huge cock.....?

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By *jj46Man
over a year ago

rhyl

"Are we talking like rugby player / Vin Diesel type ugly? I like that ugly if so

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so there's some hope for bald and ugly guys like me lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been hoping this my whole life but no it doesn't seem so

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"Peter Beardsley, what a sexy little fooker he was

...and Quasimodo the most beautiful bell ringer that ever lived.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

If Glos S. see this it'll set em off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is such a thing as unconventional beauty.....

But no-one should ever use the term Ugly to describe someone's appearance....

How we look is in most part an accident of birth and doesn't warrant celebration or condemnation....

Ugly is a term to describe what goes on inside the heads of nasty people,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always reminds me of a very old (very, very old) episode of The Liver Birds when the two girls spoke about a fella who was "ugly-handsome". I did sort of get that concept.

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By *ighty1969Man
over a year ago

st helens

Jimmy Nail ?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I don't think ugliness can make someone sexy, but the two can be very separate. I remember in the days of Bohemian Rhapsody being really hacked off because I found Freddie Mercury totally unnattactive, and yet he had a sexual charisma which drew me inspite of the fact! How dare he!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am just thinking... Am I the only one thinking someone can be so ugly they actually turn you on? "

I get what you mean OP - it's a bit like real ugly cats - they are cute because of it !

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By *amjoyce OP Man
over a year ago

london

"I am just thinking... Am I the only one thinking someone can be so ugly they actually turn you on?

I get what you mean OP - it's a bit like real ugly cats - they are cute because of it !"

Exactly that... Do you have ugly cats?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people are often far more ugly on the inside than they are on the outside

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Those that are comfortable in their own skin have confidence, confidence is a very powerful sexual attribute.

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By *woforone2025Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Dublin

"Those that are comfortable in their own skin have confidence, confidence is a very powerful sexual attribute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"people are often far more ugly on the inside than they are on the outside

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

If it's the personality that is ugly then no they will never become attractive no matter how they look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to reallllly fancy a guy who others called 'ugly', he had a long scar down one side of his face..and he grew his hair and used it to hide himself.

Kissing him was just amazing..this shy looking guy, who had been taunted about his scar was just the most adorable attractive man to me...

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"people are often far more ugly on the inside than they are on the outside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fairly certain my insides are pretty ugly.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I'm fairly certain my insides are pretty ugly."

They could be art.

I know someone who has a stage act making his wife bleed and creating paintings with her blood. I don't know if I'd call them pretty but some certainly consider them art.

If someone cut you in half and pickled you, that could be art too.

Can art be ugly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can art be ugly?"

Of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm fairly certain my insides are pretty ugly.

They could be art.

I know someone who has a stage act making his wife bleed and creating paintings with her blood. I don't know if I'd call them pretty but some certainly consider them art.

If someone cut you in half and pickled you, that could be art too.

Can art be ugly?"

Art is subjective... If you think it's ugly then it's ugly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people probably have found it kinky tbh.

Like searched something they thought would make gross porn coz of the appearance of the people making it, then had that turn them on instead because doing naughty things, or things they find disgusting, is a turn on. Loads of people like scat for some reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am just thinking... Am I the only one thinking someone can be so ugly they actually turn you on? "

What's ugly to some is attractive to others.

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