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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So, yes I'm new, I'm young, naive and all the other things that like to get pointed out to young men on here. But how can I get verified unless you're willing to meet someone who is verified? It's like a boss asking an intern to already have experience! Rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attend a social... Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put your cam on in the chat room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been on a couple of meets now and asked for them to veri me but still waiting lol just one of those things they have said they will so just got to wait on them

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante


"Attend a social... Simples "

.....or a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely attend a club even just socially... You'll get chatting and be able to verify them and in turn they hopefully will verify you.

Or cam in chat rooms xx

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By *jj46Man
over a year ago

rhyl

I'm comming up to my 3rd week I've been on another site in the past but admit I buzz off all the people on here there pretty cool but still and a laugh so far and came across quite a few scammers so I'm still trying to suss this fab out .I've already declined meeting 4 people only because they are not my preference.but if you meet some one what's that classed as

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've declined 4 people already and you are straight... So that's like half the female population of fab right?

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By *kgeminiMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Meet someone and verify them.

And they will verify in response.

What is annoying is when they leave and the verification disappears

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meet someone and verify them.

And they will verify in response.

What is annoying is when they leave and the verification disappears"

You need to be verified to verify. That's kinda the point of this (and many other) verify problem posts.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"So, yes I'm new, I'm young, naive and all the other things that like to get pointed out to young men on here. But how can I get verified unless you're willing to meet someone who is verified? It's like a boss asking an intern to already have experience! Rant over"

Don't get hung up on verifications: not everyone needs the opinions of total strangers when deciding who to get naked with.

Your main stumbling block will be your age, but there are those that prefer younger men.

Just because you're young, be selective and don't jump through hoops. You can pull on a Friday night, see Fab as an occasional treat don't make it your primary source of sex. Some forumites offer social meets to provide verifications: look out for them.

Every pot has its lid, as the saying goes, someone for everyone here.

Relax, join in, get yourself noticed and you'll be balls deep in pum pum before you know it!

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By *jj46Man
over a year ago

rhyl


"You've declined 4 people already and you are straight... So that's like half the female population of fab right?

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only because she wasn't my type my ex was bbw but this was a big girl plus the other 3 were tvs/cd not In my preference another has recently asked me would I go the townhouse in the wirral she told me that's were a few meet so probably go that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've declined 4 people already and you are straight... So that's like half the female population of fab right?

only because she wasn't my type my ex was bbw but this was a big girl plus the other 3 were tvs/cd not In my preference another has recently asked me would I go the townhouse in the wirral she told me that's were a few meet so probably go that way "

Turning down ts/tv so you actually ARE straight. Welcome to a very exclusive club....there are many more on here who are "fab" straight. But don't worry....as you spend more time on here you will get to realise the nuances of the fab game lol!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Not everyone insists on people being verified before they'll meet.

I've arranged meets with unverified guys before. (Of course, most of them let me down, but that's beside the point! )

Organised socials are another possibility.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications are hugely overrated and a lot of people get hung up on getting them and then keeping them...

I never intentionally verify anyone and will only do so if asked... And I'm definitely not bothered if someone i met doesn't verify me

I think it's because I'm not particularly interested in what other people think of that person... I'd rather find out for myself

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By *jj46Man
over a year ago

rhyl


"You've declined 4 people already and you are straight... So that's like half the female population of fab right?

only because she wasn't my type my ex was bbw but this was a big girl plus the other 3 were tvs/cd not In my preference another has recently asked me would I go the townhouse in the wirral she told me that's were a few meet so probably go that way

Turning down ts/tv so you actually ARE straight. Welcome to a very exclusive club....there are many more on here who are "fab" straight. But don't worry....as you spend more time on here you will get to realise the nuances of the fab game lol!"
il have to b careful I'm becomING a tranny magnet lol so far I've got along with everyone an I have patience but 2 yrs ago on aff I turned down the coordinator from the swingers party but split from the wife then so I here to stay and see what happens lol thanks dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, yes I'm new, I'm young, naive and all the other things that like to get pointed out to young men on here. But how can I get verified unless you're willing to meet someone who is verified? It's like a boss asking an intern to already have experience! Rant over this

Don't get hung up on verifications: not everyone needs the opinions of total strangers when deciding who to get naked with.

Your main stumbling block will be your age, but there are those that prefer younger men.

Just because you're young, be selective and don't jump through hoops. You can pull on a Friday night, see Fab as an occasional treat don't make it your primary source of sex. Some forumites offer social meets to provide verifications: look out for them.

Every pot has its lid, as the saying goes, someone for everyone here.

Relax, join in, get yourself noticed and you'll be balls deep in pum pum before you know it! "
this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, yes I'm new, I'm young, naive and all the other things that like to get pointed out to young men on here. But how can I get verified unless you're willing to meet someone who is verified? It's like a boss asking an intern to already have experience! Rant over"

You have plenty pics up, so if the pics are you; start with getting photo verified just write your user name and fab swingers on a card, take a pic, and that's you photo verified

and if you are meeting, then don't worry, as long as you get meets who cares if you are verified or not

many see a huge amount of verifications as a huge turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, yes I'm new, I'm young, naive and all the other things that like to get pointed out to young men on here. But how can I get verified unless you're willing to meet someone who is verified? It's like a boss asking an intern to already have experience! Rant over"

I suspect your problem is that you think being unverified is what's holding you back

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"So, yes I'm new, I'm young, naive and all the other things that like to get pointed out to young men on here. But how can I get verified unless you're willing to meet someone who is verified? It's like a boss asking an intern to already have experience! Rant over

Don't get hung up on verifications: not everyone needs the opinions of total strangers when deciding who to get naked with.

Your main stumbling block will be your age, but there are those that prefer younger men.

Just because you're young, be selective and don't jump through hoops. You can pull on a Friday night, see Fab as an occasional treat don't make it your primary source of sex. Some forumites offer social meets to provide verifications: look out for them.

Every pot has its lid, as the saying goes, someone for everyone here.

Relax, join in, get yourself noticed and you'll be balls deep in pum pum before you know it! "

*adds pum pum to my list of new words*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So, yes I'm new, I'm young, naive and all the other things that like to get pointed out to young men on here. But how can I get verified unless you're willing to meet someone who is verified? It's like a boss asking an intern to already have experience! Rant over"
go on cam and get someone to verify if you go to a social at a club it may cost a fortune and unless your chatty you may still end up without a veri and out of pocket to xx

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

There are plenty of people who don't give a shit about verifications;

They are able to make up their own minds;

Forget the verifications; meets will happen .

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