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Why couples have single profile and if you message them they say, I will meet with my husband?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I realised some couples have single profile and if you message them they always say I will not meet without my husband..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report the message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems an odd way to do things. I only have a single profile because i was meeting by myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I realised some couples have single profile and if you message them they always say I will not meet without my husband.. "

Maybe it's for their safety?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes... report as it contravenes the rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I realised some couples have single profile and if you message them they always say I will not meet without my husband..

Maybe it's for their safety?"

Well they need a couples profile then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I realised some couples have single profile and if you message them they always say I will not meet without my husband.. "

Your profile says your looking for couples so what's the problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes they only meet certain people alone. For example, some women will meet other women alone, but will only meet men or couples with their husband. Did you read the profile before messaging and if so, did it specify?

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes they only meet certain people alone. For example, some women will meet other women alone, but will only meet men or couples with their husband. Did you read the profile before messaging and if so, did it specify?

-Courtney "

Then they should be using a couples profile then surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes they only meet certain people alone. For example, some women will meet other women alone, but will only meet men or couples with their husband. Did you read the profile before messaging and if so, did it specify?

-Courtney

Then they should be using a couples profile then surely?"

Why? If a woman will meet women alone then why not have a single woman profile for contacting women? If a guy messages then she could say the profile is only for meeting women, no? Filters would be best but the single profile would still be valid if her husband isn't going to be at meets with women. Maybe I don't get it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its something I would like to do, Meet a Woman who is part of a couple alone, It doesn't have to be totally away from her partner maybe at a hotel where they are staying like I mentioned on the choosing a meet for your partner thread,

I find it a turn on knowing he is waiting for her to return and tell him all about it or even phoning her during the meet

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover

Bothered about nothing.

We have two profiles and one was originally a single one. We still use it for occasional single meets but if someone mails us on it and do we would like to meet them as a couple should we say "sorry, you need to mail us on the other profile"

That's daft. You can just say your not meeting as a single at the moment but are meeting with your partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes they only meet certain people alone. For example, some women will meet other women alone, but will only meet men or couples with their husband. Did you read the profile before messaging and if so, did it specify?

-Courtney

Then they should be using a couples profile then surely?

Why? If a woman will meet women alone then why not have a single woman profile for contacting women? If a guy messages then she could say the profile is only for meeting women, no? Filters would be best but the single profile would still be valid if her husband isn't going to be at meets with women. Maybe I don't get it..."

If that is what they are doing then they should block single guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes they only meet certain people alone. For example, some women will meet other women alone, but will only meet men or couples with their husband. Did you read the profile before messaging and if so, did it specify?

-Courtney

Then they should be using a couples profile then surely?

Why? If a woman will meet women alone then why not have a single woman profile for contacting women? If a guy messages then she could say the profile is only for meeting women, no? Filters would be best but the single profile would still be valid if her husband isn't going to be at meets with women. Maybe I don't get it..."

You dont.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes they only meet certain people alone. For example, some women will meet other women alone, but will only meet men or couples with their husband. Did you read the profile before messaging and if so, did it specify?

-Courtney

Then they should be using a couples profile then surely?

Why? If a woman will meet women alone then why not have a single woman profile for contacting women? If a guy messages then she could say the profile is only for meeting women, no? Filters would be best but the single profile would still be valid if her husband isn't going to be at meets with women. Maybe I don't get it...

If that is what they are doing then they should block single guys."

Agreed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think cos they know they are cheating behind their hubbys back, so to make it sound legit they are not, they say not without hubby lol.

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By *kgeminiMan
over a year ago

Southampton

Maybe she's just not that into you.

Or maybe on a first meet she wants to bring a friend/other half along to make sure that you aren't a weirdo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe she's just not that into you.

Or maybe on a first meet she wants to bring a friend/other half along to make sure that you aren't a weirdo"

Really???

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

Torbay


"I realised some couples have single profile and if you message them they always say I will not meet without my husband.. "

loads of couples have two profiles enables them to be both in the chatrooms, usually the women's has a link to their couples profile..connie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes they only meet certain people alone. For example, some women will meet other women alone, but will only meet men or couples with their husband. Did you read the profile before messaging and if so, did it specify?

-Courtney

Then they should be using a couples profile then surely?

Why? If a woman will meet women alone then why not have a single woman profile for contacting women? If a guy messages then she could say the profile is only for meeting women, no? Filters would be best but the single profile would still be valid if her husband isn't going to be at meets with women. Maybe I don't get it..."

Then they wouldn't be saying I only meet with my husband,which is what the OP was regarding

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think ladies who got single profile and they have couple profile should specify on their single profile that they have a couple profile and they don't meet on their own... I always read profile before sending messages and I hope most guys will do the same like me... I think those who have single profile and are part of a couple profile should be honest to say so... No offend to anybody who has both profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sometimes they only meet certain people alone. For example, some women will meet other women alone, but will only meet men or couples with their husband. Did you read the profile before messaging and if so, did it specify?

-Courtney

Then they should be using a couples profile then surely?

Why? If a woman will meet women alone then why not have a single woman profile for contacting women? If a guy messages then she could say the profile is only for meeting women, no? Filters would be best but the single profile would still be valid if her husband isn't going to be at meets with women. Maybe I don't get it...

Then they wouldn't be saying I only meet with my husband,which is what the OP was regarding "

Right. I was just suggesting in the context of a single guy messaging a woman that it might be that they don't meet single men without their husband. I'm not saying it's the best way to run a profile or even that that is what the women are doing, I was just offering a suggestion for such actions as we've gotten that explanation before....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sometimes they only meet certain people alone. For example, some women will meet other women alone, but will only meet men or couples with their husband. Did you read the profile before messaging and if so, did it specify?

-Courtney

Then they should be using a couples profile then surely?

Why? If a woman will meet women alone then why not have a single woman profile for contacting women? If a guy messages then she could say the profile is only for meeting women, no? Filters would be best but the single profile would still be valid if her husband isn't going to be at meets with women. Maybe I don't get it...

If that is what they are doing then they should block single guys.

Agreed. "

I totally agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm part of a couple but we don't have a couples profile...just single ones because for the most part we meet alone.

We mention each other briefly on our profiles as on occasion it works out we meet together.

I don't want a couples profile...it's far better on here for me as a single guy who very occasionally meets with his Mrs than being a single guy looking to meet alone from a couples profile..

I've been part of a couples profile and I really didn't like it...so much harder to be part of a couples profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe she's just not that into you.

Or maybe on a first meet she wants to bring a friend/other half along to make sure that you aren't a weirdo"

No matter who you are be honest.. It makes things easy for all the side user

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I realised some couples have single profile and if you message them they always say I will not meet without my husband..

Maybe it's for their safety?

Well they need a couples profile then "
yes they sure do

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