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By *eneral Hysteria OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Whilst perving profiles I've just seen reference to one person not playing because of having an operation.

I don't think I need to know this stuff.

Would you rather know this stuff or is 'not playing for a while' enough info?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not playing currently, I get messages all the time asking why not, surely you would want to play with me etc. I haven't put my reason up but I can certainly see why others do as it will help stop the questions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's only an operation. but yeah i would like to see this stuff on a profile so that i don't waste my time expecting something that's not going to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im currently not meeting and get asked all the time when i say sorry its not your business then they sometimes get ratty.. one even said ah you must be on you period, he was swiftly told even if i was meeting i wouldnt be meeting him

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

I find it worse when people open threads about Mother Nature stopping there play plans!!!

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Wether or not it is too much information, it would stop the fancy a fuck brigade from asking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not playing at the moment.... I'm a single guy!

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By *eneral Hysteria OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

These replies, I must admit, are an eye-opener for me.

I'd never ask why someone wasn't meeting.

I'd think - What the hell has it to do with anyone, especially some sex-craved random who just wants to get his rocks off? (Others y'know... not me)

Not meeting? Ok. Moving on.

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By *eneral Hysteria OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I find it worse when people open threads about Mother Nature stopping there play plans!!!"

tsk

tsk

tsk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wether or not it is too much information, it would stop the fancy a fuck brigade from asking."

No it wouldn't,as most don't read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wether or not it is too much information, it would stop the fancy a fuck brigade from asking."

You would think lol i get about 10 of those day obviously those 10 cant read lol

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

Profile updates or incessant status updates. Some people like to make sure everyone knows the detail of what they're doing in life good, bad, indifferent, relevant or irrelevant. Just in case the rest of the site is wondering about them

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular


"I'm not playing at the moment.... I'm a single guy! "

I might make that my status update

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By *heBakeOLiteGirlWoman
over a year ago

62 West Wallaby Street (not real address)


"These replies, I must admit, are an eye-opener for me.

I'd never ask why someone wasn't meeting.

I'd think - What the hell has it to do with anyone, especially some sex-craved random who just wants to get his rocks off? (Others y'know... not me)

Not meeting? Ok. Moving on."

Not everyone is like you though. Some people are quite nosy. I recently had a break due to an operation in Jan. Tried putting on my profile why I wasn't meeting and got 20 questions. Would reply to messages saying I wasn't meeting and again would get asked why. Plus I got people asking if I would keep them in mind when I was back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"These replies, I must admit, are an eye-opener for me.

I'd never ask why someone wasn't meeting.

I'd think - What the hell has it to do with anyone, especially some sex-craved random who just wants to get his rocks off? (Others y'know... not me)

Not meeting? Ok. Moving on."

i agree with that, not really anyone's business. but if they wanna say why i think it's fine.

as for the period thing, i do look for sex while on and mention it in my status. only met one guy i think, the rest want anal or expect bjs so yeah TMI can backfire.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Whilst perving profiles I've just seen reference to one person not playing because of having an operation.

I don't think I need to know this stuff.

Would you rather know this stuff or is 'not playing for a while' enough info?

"

I don't need to know why someone is taking time out but equally it doesn't really bother me if they put the reason why, unless it's really graphic.

I sometimes wonder why some people announce on their status update to all that they're on their period, only its not so nicely phrased. That's puts me off at times.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

It is for attention, people ask why, they can talk about their ailments. something I would avoid.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

A profile is the user's tool to let others know whatever they feel is pertinent. They probably aren't actively encouraging profile views of people wanting meets, if they aren't meeting themselves. It's a case of there being no guarantees whenever you visit anyone's profile.

Many here have regular social and fb friends. Adding into that's personal and possibly intimate would inform them about their friend's life. Seems perfectly reasonable to me.

We are here as real people, warts and all, rather than as fantasy objects that don't ever take a shit, or get out of our erotic play wear and high heels.

That's probably the difference to people who swing, compared to just singles on instantshag sites.

And many of us have affection for and care for others here - and I'm glad we do. People often say they feel more accepted here than on other sites they've used before - that's reflective of how great Fab is.

Elsewhere I'm a sex kitten, always pouting and appreciative of attention. Here I'm moody, in my worn out stockings and hungover, not really giving a damn about what some nobody thinks - I'm always respectful of everyone and look out for them as well as myself.

But we are more than just a collection of people on an internet site for sex, presenting our superficial shells only, whilst seeking to hide our more personal selves from others. I don't speak for everyone - to generalise would be crass and hopelessly inaccurate.

Ignore peoples' profiles, unless you are open to discovering how others are different to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's really simple when not meeting...

Either hide the profile,

Or delete everything (men!) off the Looking For list, and replace the profile text with 2 words: "not meeting".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is for attention, people ask why, they can talk about their ailments. something I would avoid."

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's really simple when not meeting...

Either hide the profile,

Or delete everything (men!) off the Looking For list, and replace the profile text with 2 words: "not meeting".

"

Mine just talks about cakes and rubber ducks instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I've had that on there before. Stops the messages saying 'but why?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's really simple when not meeting...

Either hide the profile,

Or delete everything (men!) off the Looking For list, and replace the profile text with 2 words: "not meeting".

Mine just talks about cakes and rubber ducks instead "

You tease.

Pick me! Pick me!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I find it worse when people open threads about Mother Nature stopping there play plans!!!"

You too huh?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we rarely put up a status - but could always put up a 'damn that rota' or ' kids eh ' - we just dont bother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we rarely put up a status - but could always put up a 'damn that rota' or ' kids eh ' - we just dont bother "

I think the kids statuses are awful.. imagine your kids having to be put first and ruining a play date.. shocking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we rarely put up a status - but could always put up a 'damn that rota' or ' kids eh ' - we just dont bother

I think the kids statuses are awful.. imagine your kids having to be put first and ruining a play date.. shocking"

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By *eneral Hysteria OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"It's really simple when not meeting...

Either hide the profile,

Or delete everything (men!) off the Looking For list, and replace the profile text with 2 words: "not meeting".

"

This sounds best

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