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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Like much younger,20-28 and get a fair amount of offers.However after a while a pattern has emerged,

We are contacted from someone seemingly keen messages fly back and forth for a few days and it seems like it's a goer.Then they disappear,not all i have to add but 90%,any idea's why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they're young, think they can fuck someone good but know they probably can't really, so daren't meet.

my worst meets have been with sexual braggarts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like much younger,20-28 and get a fair amount of offers.However after a while a pattern has emerged,

We are contacted from someone seemingly keen messages fly back and forth for a few days and it seems like it's a goer.Then they disappear,not all i have to add but 90%,any idea's why?"

They got lucky elsewhere - "keen" is to be taken with a pinch of salt here, they're not necessarily keen to meet you, just keen to get a shag.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"they're young, think they can fuck someone good but know they probably can't really, so daren't meet.

my worst meets have been with sexual braggarts."

Yes haha

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Like much younger,20-28 and get a fair amount of offers.However after a while a pattern has emerged,

We are contacted from someone seemingly keen messages fly back and forth for a few days and it seems like it's a goer.Then they disappear,not all i have to add but 90%,any idea's why?"

Ha! You're doing something wrong!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Like much younger,20-28 and get a fair amount of offers.However after a while a pattern has emerged,

We are contacted from someone seemingly keen messages fly back and forth for a few days and it seems like it's a goer.Then they disappear,not all i have to add but 90%,any idea's why?

They got lucky elsewhere - "keen" is to be taken with a pinch of salt here, they're not necessarily keen to meet you, just keen to get a shag."

bee's are where the honey is thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Behind those fit,handsome,young man their could be a fat,ugly old man who can't meet because you don't want fat,old and ugly

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K


"Behind those fit,handsome,young men there could be a fat,ugly old man who can't meet because you don't want fat,old and ugly "

That made me giggle in agreement..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a 28 year old and know a lot of 20-28 year old swingers dare I say it has nothing to do with age - it's to do with maturity.

There's been plenty of older men AND women who have flaked on us. Nothing to do with age at all but the person and unfortunately on fab there's a lot of people who want the fantasy but are too chicken to go through with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Behind those fit,handsome,young man their could be a fat,ugly old man who can't meet because you don't want fat,old and ugly "

oh yeah. i forgot about this.

there's a hot young guy on here who turned old on skype.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Behind those fit,handsome,young man their could be a fat,ugly old man who can't meet because you don't want fat,old and ugly "

Hahahahaha i'm way too trusting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Behind those fit,handsome,young man their could be a fat,ugly old man who can't meet because you don't want fat,old and ugly

oh yeah. i forgot about this.

there's a hot young guy on here who turned old on skype. "

They get more wanking material from women if they pretend to be young men. They hit the couples and men want women with young,hot,female profiles.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Being a 28 year old and know a lot of 20-28 year old swingers dare I say it has nothing to do with age - it's to do with maturity.

There's been plenty of older men AND women who have flaked on us. Nothing to do with age at all but the person and unfortunately on fab there's a lot of people who want the fantasy but are too chicken to go through with it. "

Yeah had a bottler or two

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Like much younger,20-28 and get a fair amount of offers.However after a while a pattern has emerged,

We are contacted from someone seemingly keen messages fly back and forth for a few days and it seems like it's a goer.Then they disappear,not all i have to add but 90%,any idea's why?

They got lucky elsewhere - "keen" is to be taken with a pinch of salt here, they're not necessarily keen to meet you, just keen to get a shag."

Well that was on offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say I've had this with a few age categories.. But have had it more from the 20-30s bracket a lot just want to exchange Skype, Kik, WhatsApp etc details. They just seem to want a wank or a meet at that very minute so stop messaging when they realise they won't be getting it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Behind those fit,handsome,young man their could be a fat,ugly old man who can't meet because you don't want fat,old and ugly

Hahahahaha i'm way too trusting"

I used to search on gay websites before I found reverse image search. I found a lot of fakes out that way. Also search for hung guys,ab pics,hot men and they turn up on Google images too. Trust no one!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Behind those fit,handsome,young man their could be a fat,ugly old man who can't meet because you don't want fat,old and ugly

oh yeah. i forgot about this.

there's a hot young guy on here who turned old on skype. "

why would he thnk that could work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to say I've had this with a few age categories.. But have had it more from the 20-30s bracket a lot just want to exchange Skype, Kik, WhatsApp etc details. They just seem to want a wank or a meet at that very minute so stop messaging when they realise they won't be getting it "

This too. I don't bother with Kik much as most just want to wank on it. As she said,don't give them anything to wank over and they get bored and give up.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Like much younger,20-28 and get a fair amount of offers.However after a while a pattern has emerged,

We are contacted from someone seemingly keen messages fly back and forth for a few days and it seems like it's a goer.Then they disappear,not all i have to add but 90%,any idea's why?

Ha! You're doing something wrong! "

wish i knew what

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Behind those fit,handsome,young man their could be a fat,ugly old man who can't meet because you don't want fat,old and ugly

oh yeah. i forgot about this.

there's a hot young guy on here who turned old on skype.

why would he thnk that could work"

Might think the woman would be so horny she wouldn't care. Or hope she doesn't notice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like much younger,20-28 and get a fair amount of offers.However after a while a pattern has emerged,

We are contacted from someone seemingly keen messages fly back and forth for a few days and it seems like it's a goer.Then they disappear,not all i have to add but 90%,any idea's why?

They got lucky elsewhere - "keen" is to be taken with a pinch of salt here, they're not necessarily keen to meet you, just keen to get a shag.

Well that was on offer "

Perhaps they preferred the other offer. Our view is that people are allowed to change their minds, or decide as a conversation progresses that the other is not what they are seeking, so long as they're not standing us up on an actual meet, so what?

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By *ichaelxx11Man
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Behind those fit,handsome,young man their could be a fat,ugly old man who can't meet because you don't want fat,old and ugly "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Behind those fit,handsome,young man their could be a fat,ugly old man who can't meet because you don't want fat,old and ugly

oh yeah. i forgot about this.

there's a hot young guy on here who turned old on skype.

why would he thnk that could work

Might think the woman would be so horny she wouldn't care. Or hope she doesn't notice "

i notice.

i just kept saying i'm gonna block you now, then left him panicking and trying to talk me out of blocking him for while (am sure he was wanking while doing this too hahaha).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those pesky yooves are at it again!

*shakes fist*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like much younger,20-28 and get a fair amount of offers.However after a while a pattern has emerged,

We are contacted from someone seemingly keen messages fly back and forth for a few days and it seems like it's a goer.Then they disappear,not all i have to add but 90%,any idea's why?"

oooo fantasists... always down to hoping that person doesn't do a runner but happens to all of us Iam afraid xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never one to flake out on a meet xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Behind those fit,handsome,young man their could be a fat,ugly old man who can't meet because you don't want fat,old and ugly

Hahahahaha i'm way too trusting

I used to search on gay websites before I found reverse image search. I found a lot of fakes out that way. Also search for hung guys,ab pics,hot men and they turn up on Google images too. Trust no one!! Lol "

god i've got a lot to learn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had the opposite experience. I'm honest about not been the best in bed lol. It's the couples and the women who've messed me around. But sometimes I'm too polite to say I'm not interested and end up just not talking to them again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love the pleasures of a younger lady but alas all it ends up in is chatting then the contact stops after a few days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id guess its a power trip.

Prove they can do it and then chicken out when it all gets a bit real.

As with many things in life - their imaginations are far more active than they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *aturelover2016Man
over a year ago

London


"[Removed by poster at 18/03/16 15:24:39]"

Blimey, is that the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 18/03/16 15:24:39]

Blimey, is that the time"
lol yes it is, clicked to quick there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They could also just be too nervous for the meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im young I dont dissappear and after genuine older/mature women for nsa fun maybe regular meets and im only 23 but all are surprised xx try me I mark my word xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the pics look too good to be true then always do an image search on them. Real shame you have had people drop out on you though.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Reality dawns.

Their partners can suddenly become hard to escape from, without being caught out.

It's easy to talk and big yourself up, when sitting at a keyboard - rather than chatting in a club or bar. I'm guessing that the majority of people who end up here are unlikely to become reliable fbs for a range of other people here, for many reasons.

Improve your selection and vetting criteria, particularly doing what you can to out people who don't have the freedom to meet in general, because a partner is in existence.

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