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"Do own a mother of all secrets that would change the lives and the very reality for those you keep it from...? What would be the implications of the secret getting out.....? "I have a secret, but it is someone else's I have kept this secret for over 20 years!!!! Would cause family uproar it it ever got out!!!!!! | |||
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"I have posters of this guy all over my living room, it's not like I'm obsessed or anything.... But do you fancy a nice cup of tea!" Oh c'om that's hardly a world shattering scenario unless of course you stalk this man and sleep with a collection of his toenail clippings hidden in your pillow case ...... Do ya,,,,, | |||
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"Do own a mother of all secrets that would change the lives and the very reality for those you keep it from...? What would be the implications of the secret getting out.....?
I have a secret, but it is someone else's
I have kept this secret for over 20 years!!!!
Would cause family uproar it it ever got out!!!!!!
"Yikes..... 20 years,,,,,, you must be very trustworthy person.... good-on you....  | |||
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"Yes. I have a few secrets. They're staying that way." But what would be the implications of them getting out.....?  | |||
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"I have posters of this guy all over my living room, it's not like I'm obsessed or anything.... But do you fancy a nice cup of tea! Oh c'om that's hardly a world shattering scenario unless of course you stalk this man and sleep with a collection of his toenail clippings hidden in your pillow case ...... Do ya,,,,, ". A pillow case! Don't be crazy, I keep them in a little tin on the mantle piece | |||
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"I thought a Moa was an extinct flightless bird?" Was that your secret,,,,,? Not quite the earth shattering revelation I'd hoped for... But hey..... you've done well to keep it until now,,, | |||
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"I had the mother of all secrets but it all came out and was my world that changed for ever. Tbf. Feel so much freedom now I have none haha " Oo'er a life changer eh!,,, | |||
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"I thought a Moa was an extinct flightless bird? Was that your secret,,,,,? Not quite the earth shattering revelation I'd hoped for... But hey..... you've done well to keep it until now,,, "My old Norwegian caseworking partner used to say: "Two men can keep a secret if one of them is dead." | |||
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"I thought a Moa was an extinct flightless bird? Was that your secret,,,,,? Not quite the earth shattering revelation I'd hoped for... But hey..... you've done well to keep it until now,,,
My old Norwegian caseworking partner used to say:
"Two men can keep a secret if one of them is dead.""I like it...... | |||
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"I thought a Moa was an extinct flightless bird? Was that your secret,,,,,? Not quite the earth shattering revelation I'd hoped for... But hey..... you've done well to keep it until now,,,
My old Norwegian caseworking partner used to say:
"Two men can keep a secret if one of them is dead."
I like it...... "Of that original team, one was fired, one's dead and the Norwegian went mad. I survived | |||
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"I had the mother of all secrets but it all came out and was my world that changed for ever. Tbf. Feel so much freedom now I have none haha Oo'er a life changer eh!,,, "Yup new job new area of the country and new relationships/ friends  | |||
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"I thought a Moa was an extinct flightless bird? Was that your secret,,,,,? Not quite the earth shattering revelation I'd hoped for... But hey..... you've done well to keep it until now,,,
My old Norwegian caseworking partner used to say:
"Two men can keep a secret if one of them is dead."
I like it......
Of that original team, one was fired, one's dead and the Norwegian went mad.
I survived "Yikes......  | |||
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"I thought a Moa was an extinct flightless bird? Was that your secret,,,,,? Not quite the earth shattering revelation I'd hoped for... But hey..... you've done well to keep it until now,,,
My old Norwegian caseworking partner used to say:
"Two men can keep a secret if one of them is dead."
I like it......
Of that original team, one was fired, one's dead and the Norwegian went mad.
I survived
Yikes...... "Yep. I should get a t-shirt or something | |||
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"A friend told me his secret years ago! Has gone no further than me since and never will. If it got out his marriage would be over and quite likely it would end his career aswell "That's a heavy duty secret.... | |||
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"Yes. I have a few secrets. They're staying that way. But what would be the implications of them getting out.....? "Shit. Fan. Hit | |||
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 Now she is still carrying on that secret six years later, it would destroy so many people and children if it came out, I must be honest though and say it hurts my heart and I don't like myself too much when I spend time around the people that the secret would destroy, but a rock and a hard place is where I find myself, I really wish I never knew Mrs cmy  | |||
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"I have kept a secret for a friend for the last six years, when that secret started out it was supposed to be a short secret Now she is still carrying on that secret six years later, it would destroy so many people and children if it came out, I must be honest though and say it hurts my heart and I don't like myself too much when I spend time around the people that the secret would destroy, but a rock and a hard place is where I find myself, I really wish I never knew Mrs cmy "Ouch,,,,,, another really heavy duty secret...... Sounds like a no-win situation.... | |||
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"I have kept a secret for a friend for the last six years, when that secret started out it was supposed to be a short secret Now she is still carrying on that secret six years later, it would destroy so many people and children if it came out, I must be honest though and say it hurts my heart and I don't like myself too much when I spend time around the people that the secret would destroy, but a rock and a hard place is where I find myself, I really wish I never knew Mrs cmy
Ouch,,,,,, another really heavy duty secret......
Sounds like a no-win situation.... ". Honestly soxy it so is, she says it's not love with the secret it's still just the sex but she can't give it up  I can't believe you could not be in love though She loves her ordinary life, but that's because she has an amazing ordinary life, so she couldn't give that up either I always live in hope that she will stop but in reality that will never undo what I know, I must ask myself on a regular basis what would happen should I ever tell and I know it would be utter devastation all round, if it was happening to me I would want to know, but I'm a very different person to the one it's happening too and there are a million other factors, so can I destroy this family, no, and I hope to god they all go to their graves never knowing, do I feel disgust in myself, yes, and I will take that to my grave, will we ever know that I have done the right thing keeping this secret, I doubt it, because in this situation everything is the wrong thing | |||
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"I have kept a secret for a friend for the last six years, when that secret started out it was supposed to be a short secret Now she is still carrying on that secret six years later, it would destroy so many people and children if it came out, I must be honest though and say it hurts my heart and I don't like myself too much when I spend time around the people that the secret would destroy, but a rock and a hard place is where I find myself, I really wish I never knew Mrs cmy
Ouch,,,,,, another really heavy duty secret......
Sounds like a no-win situation.... . Honestly soxy it so is, she says it's not love with the secret it's still just the sex but she can't give it up I can't believe you could not be in love though She loves her ordinary life, but that's because she has an amazing ordinary life, so she couldn't give that up either I always live in hope that she will stop but in reality that will never undo what I know, I must ask myself on a regular basis what would happen should I ever tell and I know it would be utter devastation all round, if it was happening to me I would want to know, but I'm a very different person to the one it's happening too and there are a million other factors, so can I destroy this family, no, and I hope to god they all go to their graves never knowing, do I feel disgust in myself, yes, and I will take that to my grave, will we ever know that I have done the right thing keeping this secret, I doubt it, because in this situation everything is the wrong thing "Carrying such a secret also creates a situation whereby if it ever came out that you knew about it,,,,, you can find yourself branded a villain by everyone it effects.... It's a real no win situation....... | |||
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"I have kept a secret for a friend for the last six years, when that secret started out it was supposed to be a short secret Now she is still carrying on that secret six years later, it would destroy so many people and children if it came out, I must be honest though and say it hurts my heart and I don't like myself too much when I spend time around the people that the secret would destroy, but a rock and a hard place is where I find myself, I really wish I never knew Mrs cmy
Ouch,,,,,, another really heavy duty secret......
Sounds like a no-win situation.... . Honestly soxy it so is, she says it's not love with the secret it's still just the sex but she can't give it up I can't believe you could not be in love though She loves her ordinary life, but that's because she has an amazing ordinary life, so she couldn't give that up either I always live in hope that she will stop but in reality that will never undo what I know, I must ask myself on a regular basis what would happen should I ever tell and I know it would be utter devastation all round, if it was happening to me I would want to know, but I'm a very different person to the one it's happening too and there are a million other factors, so can I destroy this family, no, and I hope to god they all go to their graves never knowing, do I feel disgust in myself, yes, and I will take that to my grave, will we ever know that I have done the right thing keeping this secret, I doubt it, because in this situation everything is the wrong thing
Carrying such a secret also creates a situation whereby if it ever came out that you knew about it,,,,, you can find yourself branded a villain by everyone it effects....
It's a real no win situation....... ". I know and in reality I would deserve that, how could you not hate someone that knew something for so long and said nothing, they could never understand why And I would never expect them too, I would always respect the hatred of me because it would be no less than I deserve, I am no better that the act itself that is being done and the people doing it  | |||
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"I have kept a secret for a friend for the last six years, when that secret started out it was supposed to be a short secret Now she is still carrying on that secret six years later, it would destroy so many people and children if it came out, I must be honest though and say it hurts my heart and I don't like myself too much when I spend time around the people that the secret would destroy, but a rock and a hard place is where I find myself, I really wish I never knew Mrs cmy
Ouch,,,,,, another really heavy duty secret......
Sounds like a no-win situation.... . Honestly soxy it so is, she says it's not love with the secret it's still just the sex but she can't give it up I can't believe you could not be in love though She loves her ordinary life, but that's because she has an amazing ordinary life, so she couldn't give that up either I always live in hope that she will stop but in reality that will never undo what I know, I must ask myself on a regular basis what would happen should I ever tell and I know it would be utter devastation all round, if it was happening to me I would want to know, but I'm a very different person to the one it's happening too and there are a million other factors, so can I destroy this family, no, and I hope to god they all go to their graves never knowing, do I feel disgust in myself, yes, and I will take that to my grave, will we ever know that I have done the right thing keeping this secret, I doubt it, because in this situation everything is the wrong thing
Carrying such a secret also creates a situation whereby if it ever came out that you knew about it,,,,, you can find yourself branded a villain by everyone it effects....
It's a real no win situation....... . I know and in reality I would deserve that, how could you not hate someone that knew something for so long and said nothing, they could never understand why And I would never expect them too, I would always respect the hatred of me because it would be no less than I deserve, I am no better that the act itself that is being done and the people doing it "Noooo don't beat yourself-up You are just an innocent victim of good-intention.. You are not to blame... | |||
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"I have kept a secret for a friend for the last six years, when that secret started out it was supposed to be a short secret Now she is still carrying on that secret six years later, it would destroy so many people and children if it came out, I must be honest though and say it hurts my heart and I don't like myself too much when I spend time around the people that the secret would destroy, but a rock and a hard place is where I find myself, I really wish I never knew Mrs cmy
Ouch,,,,,, another really heavy duty secret......
Sounds like a no-win situation.... . Honestly soxy it so is, she says it's not love with the secret it's still just the sex but she can't give it up I can't believe you could not be in love though She loves her ordinary life, but that's because she has an amazing ordinary life, so she couldn't give that up either I always live in hope that she will stop but in reality that will never undo what I know, I must ask myself on a regular basis what would happen should I ever tell and I know it would be utter devastation all round, if it was happening to me I would want to know, but I'm a very different person to the one it's happening too and there are a million other factors, so can I destroy this family, no, and I hope to god they all go to their graves never knowing, do I feel disgust in myself, yes, and I will take that to my grave, will we ever know that I have done the right thing keeping this secret, I doubt it, because in this situation everything is the wrong thing
Carrying such a secret also creates a situation whereby if it ever came out that you knew about it,,,,, you can find yourself branded a villain by everyone it effects....
It's a real no win situation....... . I know and in reality I would deserve that, how could you not hate someone that knew something for so long and said nothing, they could never understand why And I would never expect them too, I would always respect the hatred of me because it would be no less than I deserve, I am no better that the act itself that is being done and the people doing it
Noooo don't beat yourself-up
You are just an innocent victim of good-intention..
You are not to blame... ". Thankyou for the kind words hunni, secrets hey, who'd have em | |||
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