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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi as a couple on here we both have access to the account and both write and reply to messages. However, for the most part, the couples that have corresponded with us via mail and on cam primarily it's only the male that is around. Has anyone else found this or is it just our bad luck so far ?

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this Noir or Blanc posting ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is this Noir or Blanc posting ? "

It's the female of the couple but we both have access to the account as stated previously

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Same here, its a guy only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it's usually the male half that messages and posts. This is because the other half hasn't got the time to use the site. She will respond to messages and chat with people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Same here, its a guy only. "

It's a bit frustrating isn't it. When we both go on cam we would like to see both parties of the couple but nine times out of ten it's only ever the male. Only our experiences to date I have to add

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both sit here on our phones sometimes together, sometimes me, sometimes her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes wonder with the couples who have spoke with me, if the wife even knows he's on here haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I sometimes wonder with the couples who have spoke with me, if the wife even knows he's on here haha "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both read and discuss replies but its usually me (mr) doing the typing. But we are both together at the time so in reality it is both of us messaging if that makes sense.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We both read and discuss replies but its usually me (mr) doing the typing. But we are both together at the time so in reality it is both of us messaging if that makes sense. "

Yes, makes total sense and that's what I would expect from a couple to be honest. Where we have chatted to some though, it's obvious the female isn't even around. She's in bed when he's on cam, she's a bit shy.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We both read and discuss replies but its usually me (mr) doing the typing. But we are both together at the time so in reality it is both of us messaging if that makes sense.

Yes, makes total sense and that's what I would expect from a couple to be honest. Where we have chatted to some though, it's obvious the female isn't even around. She's in bed when he's on cam, she's a bit shy....."

Hmmm yeah thats not really right to be fair. We also address both when messaging a couple and always sign off who is messaging. We dont go on cam but if we did we would be together or not at all. Way we see it is, you meet us both face to face, so why not both talk online? There have been times i have read a message in the day time and waited till evening when we are both together before replying.

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both use this and message, mainly Mr in day and normally Mrs at night. Most couples and single guys address Mrs, but she is far more enticing to be fair

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We both use this and message, mainly Mr in day and normally Mrs at night. Most couples and single guys address Mrs, but she is far more enticing to be fair "

Ha ha I see your point there, that did make me chuckle

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Normally it's me the female that is on the forums replying to messages.

We talk about messages we have had or with certain ppl we chat to its just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We both use this and message, mainly Mr in day and normally Mrs at night. Most couples and single guys address Mrs, but she is far more enticing to be fair "

Yep, always the way. I chuckle when we get "hi both, blah blah. Oh, you are very hot" (to the mrs)

Then again she is fucking hot and deserves all the attention

Mr

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By *rank n BettyCouple
over a year ago

Not meeting

We both use this account - him more than me!!

I tend to respond to the messages though

JG x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We both use this and message, mainly Mr in day and normally Mrs at night. Most couples and single guys address Mrs, but she is far more enticing to be fair

Yep, always the way. I chuckle when we get "hi both, blah blah. Oh, you are very hot" (to the mrs)

Then again she is fucking hot and deserves all the attention

Mr"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us it's mainly mrs that's online, Mr is the less sociable one online but Mrs brings it outta him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both use the account, generally won't reply to messages unless we have both read them. Mrs usually does replies, she is better at wording things (Mr)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you everyone for your input

Kinky X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We both use this and message, mainly Mr in day and normally Mrs at night. Most couples and single guys address Mrs, but she is far more enticing to be fair

Yep, always the way. I chuckle when we get "hi both, blah blah. Oh, you are very hot" (to the mrs)

Then again she is fucking hot and deserves all the attention

Mr"

I like the ones saying "do you want to fuck now"? I say thanks but I'm not bi, occasionally someone gets it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both use the account, generally won't reply to messages unless we have both read them. Mrs usually does replies, she is better at wording things (Mr) "

Can you word that better??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We both use this and message, mainly Mr in day and normally Mrs at night. Most couples and single guys address Mrs, but she is far more enticing to be fair

Yep, always the way. I chuckle when we get "hi both, blah blah. Oh, you are very hot" (to the mrs)

Then again she is fucking hot and deserves all the attention

Mr

I like the ones saying "do you want to fuck now"? I say thanks but I'm not bi, occasionally someone gets it "

Ha ha fair play to you. What is this I see?! Someone with a sense of humour

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Both of us have access to the account and will log on, sometimes together but that's mainly on weekends.

I (Mrs) tend to spend more time logged on during the week as I like the forums, Mr doesn't.

Any messages that are regarding meets etc are only replied to once we have both read them and discussed it. We both have an equal say.

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By *kgeminiMan
over a year ago

Southampton

It would make it easier if people sign off, and if it's both sign off as both. Clears up a lot of confusion

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By *kgeminiMan
over a year ago

Southampton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We both use this and message, mainly Mr in day and normally Mrs at night. Most couples and single guys address Mrs, but she is far more enticing to be fair

Yep, always the way. I chuckle when we get "hi both, blah blah. Oh, you are very hot" (to the mrs)

Then again she is fucking hot and deserves all the attention

Mr

I like the ones saying "do you want to fuck now"? I say thanks but I'm not bi, occasionally someone gets it

Ha ha fair play to you. What is this I see?! Someone with a sense of humour "

If you come on the forums with out the humour you'll soon get upset lol

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By *ittlemisssassypantsCouple
over a year ago

South East Wales

Sometimes it's him sending/replying, sometimes it's me and sometimes it's both of us. It depends on if we're together or not at the time and what either of us are doing during the day or night for whose online. But we both have access to the account and sometimes I'll come on for a quick nose and see that Mr is having a chat with a couple and leave him to it if I like the look of who he's talking to- although he knows what I like so I've never had to text him to tell him I'm not interested and to stop talking

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sometimes it's him sending/replying, sometimes it's me and sometimes it's both of us. It depends on if we're together or not at the time and what either of us are doing during the day or night for whose online. But we both have access to the account and sometimes I'll come on for a quick nose and see that Mr is having a chat with a couple and leave him to it if I like the look of who he's talking to- although he knows what I like so I've never had to text him to tell him I'm not interested and to stop talking "

Sounds like you got a good thing going on there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both read all messages and sometimes depending what shifts were on and who's at home will separately send messages but we both read and discuss them, we have found that most of the time it is the male half replying but we do request speaking to the female half before any meets are arranged and u can usually tell if it's the male half pretending to be the female in that case it's just a polite thanks but no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same here, its a guy only.

It's a bit frustrating isn't it. When we both go on cam we would like to see both parties of the couple but nine times out of ten it's only ever the male. Only our experiences to date I have to add "
if we are on that most of the time its just the male half... He likes chat... I like the forums...

I rarely talk to people on the messages as I'm just to blunt x

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By *ophleeCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

We both have access to the account and it can be either one of us who replies to messages. We tend to sign the message off with whoever is chatting and sign off as both if we are together. We never delete conversations until we have both read them.

~Sophie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both reply, depends on the time of day who you get. Generally if I'm chatting to someone , B will leave me to it and chip in and vice Versa.

We always say which one you're chatting to too. I tend to talk a lot!

Sarah

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By *inkycatWoman
over a year ago

High Wycombe

We both go onto the account and neither of us will reply to a message, at least initially, without discussing with the other. So sometimes it might be Nick messaging or it could be me, but both with the full knowledge of the other and the first few messages are always signed off by us both.... But I know what the OP means; we have messages from couples where the lady is conspicuous by her absence

Cat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only I (Marc) use the account. I just sign off as Courtney in the forums to confuse people.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only I (Marc) use the account. I just sign off as Courtney in the forums to confuse people.

-Courtney "

We both have access, but Michael has a work phone so he doesn't log in as much, needs to charge his tablet or use my phone. So far only I have messaged or forum posted but I wouldn't react to others on a personal level without speaking with him first. Unless it's the delete and block reaction

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton


"We both read and discuss replies but its usually me (mr) doing the typing. But we are both together at the time so in reality it is both of us messaging if that makes sense. "
same as us but we never cam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually me (Ryan) but sometimes the goat has a go.

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By *anatee175Couple
over a year ago

Sunderland

For us it's usually me Claire that replies to messages, posts on forums etc. Yes I do leave the messages for Keith to read when he gets home.

Claire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The ones where the 'wife' is supposedly mailing make me laugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Usually me (Ryan) but sometimes the goat has a go. "

Admit it, 'she' doesn't exist.

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By *elly totsCouple
over a year ago

teesside


"We both sit here on our phones sometimes together, sometimes me, sometimes her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Usually me (Ryan) but sometimes the goat has a go.

Admit it, 'she' doesn't exist. "

Oh she exists. Just doesn't know she's here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Usually me (Ryan) but sometimes the goat has a go.

Admit it, 'she' doesn't exist.

Oh she exists. Just doesn't know she's here "

Cut some holes in the Maccy bag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both use the account, generally won't reply to messages unless we have both read them. Mrs usually does replies, she is better at wording things (Mr)

Can you word that better?? "

Took me ages to come up with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Usually me (Ryan) but sometimes the goat has a go.

Admit it, 'she' doesn't exist.

Oh she exists. Just doesn't know she's here

Cut some holes in the Maccy bag. "

Sod that. I'm not as daft as I sound. I'm not volunteering to have puréed balls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stopped replying to messages as they were never aimed at me anyway

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By *ust Ms LovinWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

We both do , he has a profile for chat we both do messages and I ms does the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we both read and message - but usually me the fem thats on - mostly for these forums

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By *mojeeCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline

I (male) vet the first contact messages to get rid of the one liners and the not so nice looking ones then Em takes over from there. It's very rare I'll send a message after the first one.

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