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"If you have youths playing and being noisy.. Possibly to the point of damaging property, should you step in and possibly make things worse .. Or.. Leave them and talk to their parents? " Young people are the responsibiliy of everyone. They have to exist and parents cant be everywhere so I normally would tell them...but I think we should be talking to them anyway...ifci pass a group id normally say "alright?" Maybe a short conversation...fof the most part they want to talk to adultx that are not whinging..once youve communicated, people become humans. When i was on the buses we had some right little buggers at night whi were out of control...not paying mayhem rtc but Id make yhem all get off andvline up and grt their money out show passes etc.. lol loved it. | |||
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"Are these youths teens hanging around causing trouble or is it kids playing? My answer would depend on the answer to this " looking at a range.. 10 to 15 or 16 years old. Currenty footballing but close to property and cars.. Fence and house Windows | |||
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"Are these youths teens hanging around causing trouble or is it kids playing? My answer would depend on the answer to this looking at a range.. 10 to 15 or 16 years old. Currenty footballing but close to property and cars.. Fence and house Windows" So kids playing football early evening? What exactly is the issue again? ![]() | |||
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"Are these youths teens hanging around causing trouble or is it kids playing? My answer would depend on the answer to this looking at a range.. 10 to 15 or 16 years old. Currenty footballing but close to property and cars.. Fence and house Windows" This is always a difficult one. We moan kids are always in on PCs but then moan that they play football. | |||
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"Are these youths teens hanging around causing trouble or is it kids playing? My answer would depend on the answer to this looking at a range.. 10 to 15 or 16 years old. Currenty footballing but close to property and cars.. Fence and house Windows So kids playing football early evening? What exactly is the issue again? ![]() damage to cars, general vandalism.. | |||
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"Video it and put it up on Facebook - your local community page. Or pass it on to the neighbourhood watch ![]() ![]() Videoing minors - that's not allowed. So don't do that. | |||
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"Are these youths teens hanging around causing trouble or is it kids playing? My answer would depend on the answer to this looking at a range.. 10 to 15 or 16 years old. Currenty footballing but close to property and cars.. Fence and house Windows So kids playing football early evening? What exactly is the issue again? ![]() Ah I probably wouldn't do any thing. Where I come from youths hang round on the corner, hooded up attempting to look menacing. Worst case scenario a window gets broken or a fence panel. | |||
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"Are these youths teens hanging around causing trouble or is it kids playing? My answer would depend on the answer to this looking at a range.. 10 to 15 or 16 years old. Currenty footballing but close to property and cars.. Fence and house Windows So kids playing football early evening? What exactly is the issue again? ![]() But you said they were playing football? How is that vandalism? | |||
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"Are these youths teens hanging around causing trouble or is it kids playing? My answer would depend on the answer to this looking at a range.. 10 to 15 or 16 years old. Currenty footballing but close to property and cars.. Fence and house Windows So kids playing football early evening? What exactly is the issue again? ![]() When its your car that the kids are hitting with there ball yes thats vandalism. | |||
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"It's a pity you can't do what you could back in the day where you give them a clip around the ear, then drag them to their house by the scruff of their necks and tell their parents where they would get another clip around the war and sent to bed!! Try it now you'll probably end up stabbed by the youth, stabbed by the parent or nicked!!! " They're only playing football ! | |||
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"It's a pity you can't do what you could back in the day where you give them a clip around the ear, then drag them to their house by the scruff of their necks and tell their parents where they would get another clip around the war and sent to bed!! Try it now you'll probably end up stabbed by the youth, stabbed by the parent or nicked!!! They're only playing football ! " Did I specifically mention the kids the op was referring too? ![]() | |||
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"If you have youths playing and being noisy.. Possibly to the point of damaging property, should you step in and possibly make things worse .. Or.. Leave them and talk to their parents? " Playing and being noisy at 6.30pm is to be expected. Shame there aren't places they can go to play football other than near cars and houses. | |||
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"Are these youths teens hanging around causing trouble or is it kids playing? My answer would depend on the answer to this looking at a range.. 10 to 15 or 16 years old. Currenty footballing but close to property and cars.. Fence and house Windows" Weans kicking a baw? Wind yer neck in ffs | |||
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"If you have youths playing and being noisy.. Possibly to the point of damaging property, should you step in and possibly make things worse .. Or.. Leave them and talk to their parents? " Where abouts is this happening ? If its hendon or some other parts I'd either leave it or report anything anonymous . If you do or say anything yourself a football could be the least of your worries . | |||
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"It's a pity you can't do what you could back in the day where you give them a clip around the ear, then drag them to their house by the scruff of their necks and tell their parents where they would get another clip around the war and sent to bed!! Try it now you'll probably end up stabbed by the youth, stabbed by the parent or nicked!!! They're only playing football ! Did I specifically mention the kids the op was referring too? ![]() No. Teenagers are not all bad though. They get a bad press, when lots are doing lots of good things. | |||
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"It's a pity you can't do what you could back in the day where you give them a clip around the ear, then drag them to their house by the scruff of their necks and tell their parents where they would get another clip around the war and sent to bed!! Try it now you'll probably end up stabbed by the youth, stabbed by the parent or nicked!!! They're only playing football ! Did I specifically mention the kids the op was referring too? ![]() We know, we have a few of our own. | |||
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"Video it and put it up on Facebook - your local community page. Or pass it on to the neighbourhood watch ![]() ![]() This is not true. | |||
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"You can film whoever you want - whatever their age." Wrong no you can't, you must ask for permission to record anyone on your phone or if you have a cam fixed on the you must make them aware by a sign stating they are being recorded as you are invading their privacy. However, when it comes to recording young children that could be classed as something totally different and for me being a parent I would be none to happy about an adult filming my child. | |||
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"You can film whoever you want - whatever their age. Wrong no you can't, you must ask for permission to record anyone on your phone or if you have a cam fixed on the you must make them aware by a sign stating they are being recorded as you are invading their privacy. However, when it comes to recording young children that could be classed as something totally different and for me being a parent I would be none to happy about an adult filming my child." I thought if you are in a public place..it's tuff if you get snapped or filmed...if this is wrong how do the press get away with it....plus what's the point in security cameras. | |||
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"You can film whoever you want - whatever their age. Wrong no you can't, you must ask for permission to record anyone on your phone or if you have a cam fixed on the you must make them aware by a sign stating they are being recorded as you are invading their privacy. However, when it comes to recording young children that could be classed as something totally different and for me being a parent I would be none to happy about an adult filming my child." Simply not true. There is no expectation of privacy in a public place, it would be a contradiction in terms. | |||
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"If you have youths playing and being noisy.. Possibly to the point of damaging property, should you step in and possibly make things worse .. Or.. Leave them and talk to their parents? " Dangerous ground! Could make you a target for revenge, sad but it happens.. | |||
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"If possible move the car and kick the ball round with them for 10 minutes. then suggest it may be more fun in the park. If they are being deliberately destructive pick the biggest one up by the lapels (no bruises) and whisper quietly and calmly that they should move or he will pay. Worked for me when 30+ teenage boys were vandalising mine and several neighbours gardens while attempting to gate crash my daughters party. Of course I made sure nobody else heard my threat, and would have denied it if questioned. " Somebody talking sense. Halifuckinglouya. If they are playing a harmless game yes ether a quiet word or leave em be. we was all kids hanging on a street corner ones. If they are damaging property intimidating people then you intimidate them only 10 time harder. If not be prepared to be a victim forever more end of story..... | |||
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"Are these youths teens hanging around causing trouble or is it kids playing? My answer would depend on the answer to this looking at a range.. 10 to 15 or 16 years old. Currenty footballing but close to property and cars.. Fence and house Windows So kids playing football early evening? What exactly is the issue again? ![]() agreed take some discrete photo's incase your car gets damaged for police evidence, if you do get on to them be prepared for pay back, as kids that age simply like to aggravate when told off | |||
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"Are these youths teens hanging around causing trouble or is it kids playing? My answer would depend on the answer to this looking at a range.. 10 to 15 or 16 years old. Currenty footballing but close to property and cars.. Fence and house Windows" Are the cars parked on a road (if so they may be causing and obstuction in law and need to be moved)? It seems the car drivers are the ones causing the problem and not the kids playing football. But as always we do not know the full picture so can only comment on the view given by one person. | |||
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""All in all it's just another brick in the wall"" Fantastic tune!! Now I have to download that and add it to my playlist!! ![]() | |||
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"You can film whoever you want - whatever their age. Wrong no you can't, you must ask for permission to record anyone on your phone or if you have a cam fixed on the you must make them aware by a sign stating they are being recorded as you are invading their privacy. However, when it comes to recording young children that could be classed as something totally different and for me being a parent I would be none to happy about an adult filming my child. Simply not true. There is no expectation of privacy in a public place, it would be a contradiction in terms. " To have a securoty camera facing a public area such as the street you need a license. If the camera is facing your property with a titch of the street you can probably get away with it xx | |||
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"If a child is kicking a ball near my car or house they get politely asked to move somewhere else. If they keep doing it they get husband and teacher voice. If they keep doing it after that they get batshit crazy neighbour lady (an image I cultivated over some time). Blah blah blah "we were all kids once" fuck that. My house, my car, get the fuck away from them. Also it's annoying. Luckily I have now moved somewhere that all the neighbours are elderly. Bliss. ![]() so Bingo and Werther's originals is the order of the day then | |||
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"I would try and make peace before you make war. If you try to embarrass a teenager in front of their friends it won't end well. Personally, I'd go out and say something like "all that football must be making you thirsty, why don't I buy you all a lucozade?" For the potential cost of a lucozade each you can find out how reasonable they are and then have a quite word with the leaders somewhere between "if you must play football can you watch the cars" or "isn't the park down the road more appealing". They might grunt at you and decline, but they are very unlikely to attack you for offering a drink... " Where are you from that teenagers hanging out in the street are drinking lucozade? ![]() ![]() | |||
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"If a child is kicking a ball near my car or house they get politely asked to move somewhere else. If they keep doing it they get husband and teacher voice. If they keep doing it after that they get batshit crazy neighbour lady (an image I cultivated over some time). Blah blah blah "we were all kids once" fuck that. My house, my car, get the fuck away from them. Also it's annoying. Luckily I have now moved somewhere that all the neighbours are elderly. Bliss. ![]() Absolutely ![]() | |||
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"I would try and make peace before you make war. If you try to embarrass a teenager in front of their friends it won't end well. Personally, I'd go out and say something like "all that football must be making you thirsty, why don't I buy you all a lucozade?" For the potential cost of a lucozade each you can find out how reasonable they are and then have a quite word with the leaders somewhere between "if you must play football can you watch the cars" or "isn't the park down the road more appealing". They might grunt at you and decline, but they are very unlikely to attack you for offering a drink... Where are you from that teenagers hanging out in the street are drinking lucozade? ![]() ![]() I want to know what happened to thunderbirds ![]() ![]() | |||
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"You can film whoever you want - whatever their age. Wrong no you can't, you must ask for permission to record anyone on your phone or if you have a cam fixed on the you must make them aware by a sign stating they are being recorded as you are invading their privacy. However, when it comes to recording young children that could be classed as something totally different and for me being a parent I would be none to happy about an adult filming my child." Utter tripe. You can photograph/film whoever you like. | |||
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"I would try and make peace before you make war. If you try to embarrass a teenager in front of their friends it won't end well. Personally, I'd go out and say something like "all that football must be making you thirsty, why don't I buy you all a lucozade?" For the potential cost of a lucozade each you can find out how reasonable they are and then have a quite word with the leaders somewhere between "if you must play football can you watch the cars" or "isn't the park down the road more appealing". They might grunt at you and decline, but they are very unlikely to attack you for offering a drink... Where are you from that teenagers hanging out in the street are drinking lucozade? ![]() ![]() I didn't say you weren't allowed to lace it with something else ![]() | |||
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