FabSwingers.com forum: Are you that desperate?

By *ungBlackTop OP Man
over a year ago

salford

Would you just meet anyone regardless if you fancied them or not?

After speaking with quite a few people off here and being nosey I ask questions one being previous meets. Some people have admitted to meeting people they didn't like but it was because they just wanted sex and will never meet that person again.

I won't meet unless I'm fully into that person. Regrets are the worst.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly not.....there must be a few on here that just meet a guy for hes cock thou. Who cares whos attached to it hey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't need to be into someone to have sex with them. I just enjoy different experiences...

People have sex for different reasons, however if I were into one on one intimate sex with other guys then, yes id need to be into them... But that's not what I like

Don't tarnish people as.desperate because there needs and outlook is different from yours

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

No.

I have to find them interesting ( part of attraction)

Otherwise it's just the same as wanking, except using someone's body for it.

Actualy wanking is better in that case; at least I am having sex with someone I like

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By *jj46Man
over a year ago

rhyl

"Would you just meet anyone regardless if you fancied them or not?

I won't meet unless I'm fully into that person. Regrets are the worst."
I've declined a few on here giving me there phone by 2nd message I prefer the challenge and rather have a connection with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is not desperation. It is called variety and yes looks doesnt matter in nsa.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

Definitely not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You pry into people's past meets when you talk to them?

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By *ungBlackTop OP Man
over a year ago

salford

"No.

I have to find them interesting ( part of attraction)

Otherwise it's just the same as wanking, except using someone's body for it.

Actualy wanking is better in that case; at least I am having sex with someone I like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's not for me and I wouldn't meet anyone that will 'go with' anyone but each to their own. I'd rather make friends and build up a trust and friendship with someone before hand too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is not desperation. It is called variety and yes looks doesnt matter in nsa."

Just

thats all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's not for me and I wouldn't meet anyone that will 'go with' anyone but each to their own. I'd rather make friends and build up a trust and friendship with someone before hand too."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm never that desparate for sex that I'd jump on any cock available

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you just meet anyone regardless if you fancied them or not?

I won't meet unless I'm fully into that person. Regrets are the worst."
for some its all about sex, they don't want to talk ,know your name or anything about you ,they even fuck in the dark in a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a definite no no for me. And often I'm judged on that. They tell me it's a sex site or you can't be too choosy. Well actually I can mate!!! If I wanted a quick shag I'd be doing it on a weekend after drinking my body weight in alcohopops!!!! Then waking up the next day wondering did I didn't I. Who is this next to me!!!!

We all have standards and as we all have a type I believe being attracted to someone's mind as well as their body is paramount.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met very few people that do not have some meet criteria.... Those that don't care at all I would say had an addiction rather than desperate.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

yes I have done, but I usually just go without.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Heavens no

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"Certainly not.....there must be a few on here that just meet a guy for hes cock thou. Who cares whos attached to it hey

its not just his cock though its the whole experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speaking as a single male, I can see how guys do that if they get frustrated over a period of time due to lack of meets.

Self respect is important.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've dropped my standards when desperate but can't get rid of the guy after so stopped doing this.

I wouldn't fuck anything though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes of course we have !

Different experiences , especially in clubs and no names etc.....

Our planned meets are more to do with establishing a connection though .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not for me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is not desperation. It is called variety and yes looks doesnt matter in nsa.

Just

thats all "
lol

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I've dropped my standards when desperate but can't get rid of the guy after so stopped doing this.

I wouldn't fuck anything though."

Have an exclusion zone of around 200 miles and you'll be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've dropped my standards when desperate but can't get rid of the guy after so stopped doing this.

I wouldn't fuck anything though.

Have an exclusion zone of around 200 miles and you'll be fine

it is mainly guys in my town doing this, had a couple from the next towns nearby as well.

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"Would you just meet anyone regardless if you fancied them or not?

I won't meet unless I'm fully into that person. Regrets are the worst."

No, I wouldn't. Has to be some attraction or might as well just flick the bean

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Good god no!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never in my life had sex with someone I didn't fancy, I can't think why I'd change that now. Picky and proud of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never in my life had sex with someone I didn't fancy, I can't think why I'd change that now. Picky and proud of it. "

Some of us can't afford to be picky

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I've dropped my standards when desperate but can't get rid of the guy after so stopped doing this.

I wouldn't fuck anything though.

Have an exclusion zone of around 200 miles and you'll be fine

it is mainly guys in my town doing this, had a couple from the next towns nearby as well.

That's sad, if a guy can't take the hint and move on then maybe immaturity springs to mind?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definately not.

As you can see from my veris.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've dropped my standards when desperate but can't get rid of the guy after so stopped doing this.

I wouldn't fuck anything though.

Have an exclusion zone of around 200 miles and you'll be fine

it is mainly guys in my town doing this, had a couple from the next towns nearby as well.

That's sad, if a guy can't take the hint and move on then maybe immaturity springs to mind?"

i think they just think that because i'm local then i'm convenient, so it does kind of make sense to want to meet regular.

i'd love a fwb as close as possible to meet up with regularly myself and did have a few a while back. now i'm looking for something more specific it's harder.

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By *VBethTV/TS
over a year ago

Chester

There has to be something attractive but that could be looks or character or personality. All of the above is a massive bonus of course.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I've dropped my standards when desperate but can't get rid of the guy after so stopped doing this.

I wouldn't fuck anything though.

Have an exclusion zone of around 200 miles and you'll be fine

it is mainly guys in my town doing this, had a couple from the next towns nearby as well.

That's sad, if a guy can't take the hint and move on then maybe immaturity springs to mind?

i think they just think that because i'm local then i'm convenient, so it does kind of make sense to want to meet regular.

i'd love a fwb as close as possible to meet up with regularly myself and did have a few a while back. now i'm looking for something more specific it's harder."

The more specific you are looking for, the harder it will be as well you probably realise. No doubt you've tried alternative sites, but I'm sure there are still plenty of decent blokes out there to fulfill your particular needs.

Good luck

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Nope. I turn people down if I don't fancy them. I'm not desperate either.

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By *nfamyMan
over a year ago

Goole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you just meet anyone regardless if you fancied them or not?

I won't meet unless I'm fully into that person. Regrets are the worst."

I definitely wouldnt meet anyone im not physically attracted to, ive had debates on here with other women who say its just sex and not dating but im sorry i could never do it id rather go with out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about glory holes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not something I would do... If I don't fancy them then I'll be dry as the Sahara desert lol what's the point?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about glory holes?"

No cos I have no idea who's attached to the other end of it... Puts me off...

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

No .. I have to find someone attractive .... I dont mean drop dead gorgeous ...but someone who interests me ....

Personality is very attractive. .... I have to have some sort of connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No .. I have to find someone attractive .... I dont mean drop dead gorgeous ...but someone who interests me ....

Personality is very attractive. .... I have to have some sort of connection"

Good thing I have neither of those haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've dropped my standards when desperate but can't get rid of the guy after so stopped doing this.

I wouldn't fuck anything though.

Have an exclusion zone of around 200 miles and you'll be fine

it is mainly guys in my town doing this, had a couple from the next towns nearby as well.

That's sad, if a guy can't take the hint and move on then maybe immaturity springs to mind?

i think they just think that because i'm local then i'm convenient, so it does kind of make sense to want to meet regular.

i'd love a fwb as close as possible to meet up with regularly myself and did have a few a while back. now i'm looking for something more specific it's harder.

Good luck

Yeah someone out there must want kinky ol' me.

Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There has to be something attractive but that could be looks or character or personality. All of the above is a massive bonus of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im only here for notches, quantity over quality ever time.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I've dropped my standards when desperate but can't get rid of the guy after so stopped doing this.

I wouldn't fuck anything though.

Have an exclusion zone of around 200 miles and you'll be fine

it is mainly guys in my town doing this, had a couple from the next towns nearby as well.

That's sad, if a guy can't take the hint and move on then maybe immaturity springs to mind?

i think they just think that because i'm local then i'm convenient, so it does kind of make sense to want to meet regular.

i'd love a fwb as close as possible to meet up with regularly myself and did have a few a while back. now i'm looking for something more specific it's harder.

Good luck

Yeah someone out there must want kinky ol' me.

Thanks."

Surely you can train them though

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By *aramelMINXWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

"Would you just meet anyone regardless if you fancied them or not?

I won't meet unless I'm fully into that person. Regrets are the worst."

Same here

I'd never lower my standards for a quick fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh no,no no no. My sexual liaisons are not because I'm deprived or gagging for it. They are carefully planned operations and I am a woman,on a mission

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you just meet anyone regardless if you fancied them or not?

I won't meet unless I'm fully into that person. Regrets are the worst."

Must take you a while then to find people then ? as I see your looking for 2 subs .

So will you chat to them for ages and get to know them personally ? Their likes and dislikes and so on ? Personally I've had subs in the passed and I'd have no regards for any of that.

Or are you talking just about looks alone ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quality over quantity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way !! Quality only ... That's why my beds been empty for months. Got to have that special something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People will do what they want to do or in this case who they want to do

Its not for me though, If I meet them its because I want to meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be some sort of attraction for me.... Besides when there is the sex is soo much better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely not , I wouldn't meet anyone I didn't fancy, and I wouldn't expect it in return

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"No way !! Quality only ... That's why my beds been empty for months. Got to have that special something

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Would you just meet anyone regardless if you fancied them or not?

I won't meet unless I'm fully into that person. Regrets are the worst."

No. I'm certainly not desperate and I have minimum standards that I won't compromise on. I'd much rather be a connoisseur than a bulk feeder that screws anything with a pulse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I need an attraction, for me its all about the sexual chemistry x

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By *nfamyMan
over a year ago

Goole

"Would you just meet anyone regardless if you fancied them or not?

I won't meet unless I'm fully into that person. Regrets are the worst."

I'll take one for the team

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to like the person and them me

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By *S RachaelTV/TS
over a year ago

Lowestoft

I have been known to perform a social service occasionally. Ithink we should all..pro bono as it were.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

i used to meet any bloke that asked but not nowdays

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By *icky_tvLondonTV/TS
over a year ago

london

Many of the rationalisations demonstrated here leave me rather sad.

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By *ervent_fervourMan
over a year ago

Halifax

Couldn't do it. I did it once at university and that was a disaster(I blame the drink, and the fact that she was a good kisser).

Saying that I somehow kind of envy the blokes/women who can do that, (sex)life would probably be easier(and god knows my balls are near on bursting at the minute).

There HAS to be a connection surely: you gt off on the looks AND the personality in order to enjoy the anticipation and the actual sex as well.No point if it's not explosive.

So to speak.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"There has to be something attractive but that could be looks or character or personality. All of the above is a massive bonus of course.

This

We're certainly not desperate and there has to be some kind of attraction but what that is, varies from person to person.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No I wouldn't I have to be attracted to someome and that isn't necessarily looks but something about that person and I certainly wouldn't be shagging someone who said they would sleep with someome regardless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My little man has his own mind. If there was no attraction he'd tell me to fuck off (in basic cock lingo of course) and then go to sleep.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you just meet anyone regardless if you fancied them or not?

I won't meet unless I'm fully into that person. Regrets are the worst."

Never. I have an exceptionally high sex drive but would never meet anyone im not attracted to ni matter how horny I am. There still has to be a spark

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By *ungBlackTop OP Man
over a year ago

salford

My faith in Fabswingers has been restored after reading the majority of the responses. I agree MUST have a physical attraction. Some guys on here are just any hole mentality. I would rather just have a wank and be done with it than live with a regret. I'm glad most of you feel the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm so desperate ,not sure what for but I'm desperate for it

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By *icky_tvLondonTV/TS
over a year ago

london

"I'm so desperate ,not sure what for but I'm desperate for it

Might it be a satiating meaningfulness?

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish

Hi no I wouldn't luckily I've met some beautiful women tho.it's not just the looks anyway it's their mind and attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

No I wouldn't meet someone I didn't fancy

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By *ooking75Man
over a year ago

Dudley

"Would you just meet anyone regardless if you fancied them or not?

I won't meet unless I'm fully into that person. Regrets are the worst."

depends what you mean by like?

I have had sex with a few people that have not really been my type looks wise not because i'm desperate but because at times it pays to look past what's on the outside

if you mean just don't like full stop then no

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

What is attractive to the op just may not do it for others.

But it's a narrow viewpoint that would assume that difference equals desperation.

Even for long term relationships the person who others may judge as unattractive may be solid gold to another, because their needs and values are unique. Don't write people off nor think that you know best.

Be content if you're getting what you want from your life and wish for others to live as they want.

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By *ife adventurerMan
over a year ago

North Essex

No - I have to fancy the people I meet & generally I'm already attracted to them via exchanging pictures and chatting online/phone before actually meeting.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Prefer chemistry, attractio...blah blah blah...

Occasionally taken a chance with someone I'm not initially attracted to and they've turned out to be sensational

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely attraction takes many forms! As in just because someone is not physically attractive does not mean that they are not mentally.

It's like not all of us are oil paintings LoL so if that was just the looks that urns you in there would be a lot of horney non satisfied people.

I for one would far more want to fuck someone with the same dirty mind as me rather than someone who has model looks perfect skin e.c.t

I have had quite a few what most would call sexy woman in looks but have been a total waste of time sexually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't call it desperation at all.

Just because you don't fancy someone doesn't mean you wouldn't have sex with them...

You could easily be attracted to their body and just want that. Or if you have a connection with them and get on well, you may still want to sleep with them.

It's a complex question really but branding someone desperate is unfair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has a different idea of fun

Mwah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But does everyone that's fun have a different idea ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh clever trademark

I love fun ..... Do u know what that is....

Mmmmmm

Mwah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh clever trademark

I love fun ..... Do u know what that is....

Mmmmmm

Mwah "
I love fun to and I do know all about it x

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

There has to be son interest or attraction - I would never meet anyone just for sex xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cant have sex with a person I am not into in some way .. I just cant .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's a definite no no for me. And often I'm judged on that. They tell me it's a sex site or you can't be too choosy. Well actually I can mate!!! If I wanted a quick shag I'd be doing it on a weekend after drinking my body weight in alcohopops!!!! Then waking up the next day wondering did I didn't I. Who is this next to me!!!!

We all have standards and as we all have a type I believe being attracted to someone's mind as well as their body is paramount.

Xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hear "quality over quantity" soo many times......

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Absolutely not.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

No, I'm not desperate. I have a very close relationship with my vibrator

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will only have sex with women i think are sexy, the problem is I find all women sexy, regardless!

Jayxxx

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