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"Maybe you are too old OP...maybe you are too married ...more likely you're not floating boats!" am I that bad compared to quite a few on here ? | |||
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"Maybe you are too old OP...maybe you are too married ...more likely you're not floating boats! am I that bad compared to quite a few on here ? " Not compared to a lot on here...but you need to sell yourself...go on...you can do it! | |||
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"is this a constraint with permission to play or should I shall say bollocks and leave the leave the site in married form ? " start a couples profile with your wife and state that you play solo with permission that way ladies can contact her directly and find out for themselves because most won't believe you | |||
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"Fit, single, young guys struggle on this site. Big, married, old married women don't! Welcome to the world of Fab! " this is maybe so but do they have the wisdom on how to please a lady tis ok having youth but wisdom comes with age especially with a women who hides her profile (no offence ) | |||
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"can't believe I'm over the hill at 48 wtf genuine guy who can't get a meet from this site too old or what ? " Why are you thinking it's your age that's putting people off? | |||
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"I'm 54 and get meets. So it does happen mate " glad to hear someone still having meets /fun | |||
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"Fit, single, young guys struggle on this site. Big, married, old married women don't! Welcome to the world of Fab! this is maybe so but do they have the wisdom on how to please a lady tis ok having youth but wisdom comes with age especially with a women who hides her profile (no offence ) " What has my hidden profile got to do with your dilemma? I'm fat, 55 and part of a couple. My other half looks like Jason Statham and younger than me. My profile is hidden as I don't have time for new playmates, my regulars, other half, work and grandchildren keep me busy. I don't need to appear needy and entitled and start whiney threads (no offence). | |||
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"Suppose I'd better make the best of my last year then before I'm out to pasture " see your not lacking meets or acquaintances oo7 haha | |||
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"Fit, single, young guys struggle on this site. Big, married, old married women don't! Welcome to the world of Fab! this is maybe so but do they have the wisdom on how to please a lady tis ok having youth but wisdom comes with age especially with a women who hides her profile (no offence ) What has my hidden profile got to do with your dilemma? I'm fat, 55 and part of a couple. My other half looks like Jason Statham and younger than me. My profile is hidden as I don't have time for new playmates, my regulars, other half, work and grandchildren keep me busy. I don't need to appear needy and entitled and start whiney threads (no offence)." I can't see the relevance either. Nor that in his comment to me, which didn't answer the question I asked. | |||
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"Fit, single, young guys struggle on this site. Big, married, old married women don't! Welcome to the world of Fab! " your question was ? | |||
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"Fit, single, young guys struggle on this site. Big, married, old married women don't! Welcome to the world of Fab! this is maybe so but do they have the wisdom on how to please a lady tis ok having youth but wisdom comes with age especially with a women who hides her profile (no offence ) What has my hidden profile got to do with your dilemma? I'm fat, 55 and part of a couple. My other half looks like Jason Statham and younger than me. My profile is hidden as I don't have time for new playmates, my regulars, other half, work and grandchildren keep me busy. I don't need to appear needy and entitled and start whiney threads (no offence). I can't see the relevance either. Nor that in his comment to me, which didn't answer the question I asked." have I not answered the questioned you asked good lady ? | |||
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"Suppose I'd better make the best of my last year then before I'm out to pasture see your not lacking meets or acquaintances oo7 haha" What's oo7 | |||
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"can't believe I'm over the hill at 48 wtf genuine guy who can't get a meet from this site too old or what ? " hey its just difficult for guys on here and a lot of women don't like the married bit ,they wouldn't like you to lie either so catch 23 ,eventually you will achieve your goal just keep plugging away but change profile write up to read wife gives me permission to play etc | |||
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"Suppose I'd better make the best of my last year then before I'm out to pasture see your not lacking meets or acquaintances oo7 haha What's oo7 " bond 007 just joking mate | |||
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"Fit, single, young guys struggle on this site. Big, married, old married women don't! Welcome to the world of Fab! your question was ? " There isn't a question. She's answering your question Most men struggle on this site, even the young, fit, single ones. You seem to have decided it's your age, presumably so you can tell yourself it's unfair and no fault of your own, since it's something you can't change. It may well be nothing to do with your age. Men older than you get meets on here. If you're not willing to be objective and are going to pick at people trying to help, (like the comment about the hidden profile - why is that relevant or anything to do with you?), I don't think anyone is going to be able to help you. | |||
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"Fit, single, young guys struggle on this site. Big, married, old married women don't! Welcome to the world of Fab! this is maybe so but do they have the wisdom on how to please a lady tis ok having youth but wisdom comes with age especially with a women who hides her profile (no offence ) What has my hidden profile got to do with your dilemma? I'm fat, 55 and part of a couple. My other half looks like Jason Statham and younger than me. My profile is hidden as I don't have time for new playmates, my regulars, other half, work and grandchildren keep me busy. I don't need to appear needy and entitled and start whiney threads (no offence). I can't see the relevance either. Nor that in his comment to me, which didn't answer the question I asked. have I not answered the questioned you asked good lady ? " No. Saying people "seem to want people younger" than you is vague and tells us nothing. Are people saying you're too old? Are you finding most of your messages blocked by age filters? Why do you think it's your age? | |||
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"Fit, single, young guys struggle on this site. Big, married, old married women don't! Welcome to the world of Fab! your question was ? There isn't a question. She's answering your question Most men struggle on this site, even the young, fit, single ones. You seem to have decided it's your age, presumably so you can tell yourself it's unfair and no fault of your own, since it's something you can't change. It may well be nothing to do with your age. Men older than you get meets on here. If you're not willing to be objective and are going to pick at people trying to help, (like the comment about the hidden profile - why is that relevant or anything to do with you?), I don't think anyone is going to be able to help you." I run for the back of the shed with my pants down having been told off | |||
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"I'm 48 and hardly up the hill " portsdown hill ? | |||
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"Fit, single, young guys struggle on this site. Big, married, old married women don't! Welcome to the world of Fab! this is maybe so but do they have the wisdom on how to please a lady tis ok having youth but wisdom comes with age especially with a women who hides her profile (no offence ) What has my hidden profile got to do with your dilemma? I'm fat, 55 and part of a couple. My other half looks like Jason Statham and younger than me. My profile is hidden as I don't have time for new playmates, my regulars, other half, work and grandchildren keep me busy. I don't need to appear needy and entitled and start whiney threads (no offence). I can't see the relevance either. Nor that in his comment to me, which didn't answer the question I asked. have I not answered the questioned you asked good lady ? No. Saying people "seem to want people younger" than you is vague and tells us nothing. Are people saying you're too old? Are you finding most of your messages blocked by age filters? Why do you think it's your age?" no by viewing what I would probably considering out of peoples age range not hat I'm youthist or anything if that is the word I should choose but a lot cpls or women around my area prefer men younger which they have the right to do so | |||
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"Fit, single, young guys struggle on this site. Big, married, old married women don't! Welcome to the world of Fab! your question was ? There isn't a question. She's answering your question Most men struggle on this site, even the young, fit, single ones. You seem to have decided it's your age, presumably so you can tell yourself it's unfair and no fault of your own, since it's something you can't change. It may well be nothing to do with your age. Men older than you get meets on here. If you're not willing to be objective and are going to pick at people trying to help, (like the comment about the hidden profile - why is that relevant or anything to do with you?), I don't think anyone is going to be able to help you." Exactly! | |||
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"Fit, single, young guys struggle on this site. Big, married, old married women don't! Welcome to the world of Fab! this is maybe so but do they have the wisdom on how to please a lady tis ok having youth but wisdom comes with age especially with a women who hides her profile (no offence ) What has my hidden profile got to do with your dilemma? I'm fat, 55 and part of a couple. My other half looks like Jason Statham and younger than me. My profile is hidden as I don't have time for new playmates, my regulars, other half, work and grandchildren keep me busy. I don't need to appear needy and entitled and start whiney threads (no offence). I can't see the relevance either. Nor that in his comment to me, which didn't answer the question I asked. have I not answered the questioned you asked good lady ? No. Saying people "seem to want people younger" than you is vague and tells us nothing. Are people saying you're too old? Are you finding most of your messages blocked by age filters? Why do you think it's your age? no by viewing what I would probably considering out of peoples age range not hat I'm youthist or anything if that is the word I should choose but a lot cpls or women around my area prefer men younger which they have the right to do so " If you agree it's the right of individuals to decide their sexual partners, why the petulance at being excluded? | |||
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"Fit, single, young guys struggle on this site. Big, married, old married women don't! Welcome to the world of Fab! this is maybe so but do they have the wisdom on how to please a lady tis ok having youth but wisdom comes with age especially with a women who hides her profile (no offence ) What has my hidden profile got to do with your dilemma? I'm fat, 55 and part of a couple. My other half looks like Jason Statham and younger than me. My profile is hidden as I don't have time for new playmates, my regulars, other half, work and grandchildren keep me busy. I don't need to appear needy and entitled and start whiney threads (no offence). I can't see the relevance either. Nor that in his comment to me, which didn't answer the question I asked. have I not answered the questioned you asked good lady ? No. Saying people "seem to want people younger" than you is vague and tells us nothing. Are people saying you're too old? Are you finding most of your messages blocked by age filters? Why do you think it's your age? no by viewing what I would probably considering out of peoples age range not hat I'm youthist or anything if that is the word I should choose but a lot cpls or women around my area prefer men younger which they have the right to do so If you agree it's the right of individuals to decide their sexual partners, why the petulance at being excluded?" I don't particularly have petulance but it would be nice to get over the wall so to speak instead of hitting it head on | |||
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"Fit, single, young guys struggle on this site. Big, married, old married women don't! Welcome to the world of Fab! this is maybe so but do they have the wisdom on how to please a lady tis ok having youth but wisdom comes with age especially with a women who hides her profile (no offence ) " Age has nothing to do with wisdom as apparently some of the younger ones are capable to satisfying a woman and don't forget some older ones your age aren't capable of satisfying women. And what relevance is hiding a profile on being able to make a comment? | |||
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"can't believe I'm over the hill at 48 wtf genuine guy who can't get a meet from this site too old or what ? " Just lie about your age,,,, | |||
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"Suppose I'd better make the best of my last year then before I'm out to pasture " Will you be needing extra rations ? Sarah | |||
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"Suppose I'd better make the best of my last year then before I'm out to pasture Will you be needing extra rations ? Sarah " Can always use some extra errrr rations As they say growing old is obligatory being an old git is optional | |||
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"I'm 54 and get meets. So it does happen mate " Yeah, but you've 'Bin down the gym'! | |||
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"can't believe I'm over the hill at 48 wtf genuine guy who can't get a meet from this site too old or what ? " not having a dig, but you have a "belly" that needs tightened up, more exercise | |||
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"Yep am well over the hill " It shows | |||
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"Yep am well over the hill " Some hills are worth climbing! | |||
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"thats us fucked them " Lucky you! | |||
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"Im 54 and im far from being over the hill " I'll meet you at the top of the hill | |||
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"Im 54 and im far from being over the hill I'll meet you at the top of the hill " your on il race you to it | |||
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"Im 54 and im far from being over the hill I'll meet you at the top of the hill your on il race you to it " Be sure to take some peanut butter cookies so we can have a snack when we get there | |||
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"thats us fucked them " And us..OP would have been nice to link your couples profile, so we could have read your couple veri's ..connie x | |||
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"Im 54 and im far from being over the hill I'll meet you at the top of the hill your on il race you to it Be sure to take some peanut butter cookies so we can have a snack when we get there " sorted anything else that sir requires | |||
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"Yep am well over the hill Some hills are worth climbing! " Yes the rewards can be well worth it, if you pick wisely | |||
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"can't believe I'm over the hill at 48 wtf genuine guy who can't get a meet from this site too old or what ? " I have had it then......cocoa..slippers..and sanatogen at the reay.......NOT | |||
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"I'm 48 & whilst I'm out of some peoples preference age wise, I tick the box with others. I firmly believe age is just a number in reality not so much so on t'internet sites." I've gotta say for an old lass you're not bad Mind you they did fade the lights in that pub didn't they? | |||
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"I'm 48 & whilst I'm out of some peoples preference age wise, I tick the box with others. I firmly believe age is just a number in reality not so much so on t'internet sites. I've gotta say for an old lass you're not bad Mind you they did fade the lights in that pub didn't they? " Errrr.....that's because I gave 'em the nod | |||
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"can't believe I'm over the hill at 48 wtf genuine guy who can't get a meet from this site too old or what ? " I haven't had a meet either mate not the end of the world I'm 46 going on 20 I'm. Just getting to know people I was on another swingers site 2 yrs ago the coordinator was hottest woman I ve.seen and I bottled after 'she asked to be her partner. Plus I've been on here for 2 weeks so still newbie lol | |||
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"is this a constraint with permission to play or should I shall say bollocks and leave the leave the site in married form ? start a couples profile with your wife and state that you play solo with permission that way ladies can contact her directly and find out for themselves because most won't believe you we have a cpls profile again with veris yet still no luck " Then we guess your boats have floundered! Maybe time to try online gaming? Buy a bike and a lycra suit? | |||
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"can't believe I'm over the hill at 48 wtf genuine guy who can't get a meet from this site too old or what ? I haven't had a meet either mate not the end of the world I'm 46 going on 20 I'm. Just getting to know people I was on another swingers site 2 yrs ago the coordinator was hottest woman I ve.seen and I bottled after 'she asked to be her partner. Plus I've been on here for 2 weeks so still newbie lol " Life is just beginning at that age; think about it! mortgage paid off, nice pension pot, everything you have worked hard for in life is now bought and paid off and your sitting back reaping what you have sowed and once you reach the big 5-o its time for retirement and you can tour the world over the hill at 48 lol, your life is just beginning; enjoy | |||
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"Im 54 and im far from being over the hill I'll meet you at the top of the hill your on il race you to it Be sure to take some peanut butter cookies so we can have a snack when we get there sorted anything else that sir requires " Just your good honest self | |||
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"Are you 48 in fab years ? Fab calculation Men over 40 minus 7 years = fab age, is your real age 55 ?" So I,m 47 in fab years? Happy days Him | |||
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"can't believe I'm over the hill at 48 wtf genuine guy who can't get a meet from this site too old or what ? " maybe some people feel the same way about meeting someone who is 48 like you apparently do about meeting someone over 60..... so its a bit hard to moan about other peoples preferences when you have one of your own..... its called "glass houses"..... people always find a way to moan about the thing that excludes them... and its always interesting the reason they hit on for what they think the reason people don't want to meet is the one thing that always leaves them blameless... "those nasty pasties don't want to meet someone in their late 40's... oh woe is me... not my fault at all... noooooooo!!!" the truth is yes it may be the reason.. it may be part of the reason... but there are a million other reasons it may not!!! and it much much harder to look yourself in the mirror over those...... | |||
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"Fit, single, young guys struggle on this site. Big, married, old married women don't! Welcome to the world of Fab! this is maybe so but do they have the wisdom on how to please a lady tis ok having youth but wisdom comes with age especially with a women who hides her profile (no offence ) What has my hidden profile got to do with your dilemma? I'm fat, 55 and part of a couple. My other half looks like Jason Statham and younger than me. My profile is hidden as I don't have time for new playmates, my regulars, other half, work and grandchildren keep me busy. I don't need to appear needy and entitled and start whiney threads (no offence). I can't see the relevance either. Nor that in his comment to me, which didn't answer the question I asked. have I not answered the questioned you asked good lady ? No. Saying people "seem to want people younger" than you is vague and tells us nothing. Are people saying you're too old? Are you finding most of your messages blocked by age filters? Why do you think it's your age? no by viewing what I would probably considering out of peoples age range not hat I'm youthist or anything if that is the word I should choose but a lot cpls or women around my area prefer men younger which they have the right to do so If you agree it's the right of individuals to decide their sexual partners, why the petulance at being excluded? I don't particularly have petulance but it would be nice to get over the wall so to speak instead of hitting it head on " Their might be a rottweiler on thee other side.. of the wall that is.. check before you jump.. | |||
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"can't believe I'm over the hill at 48 wtf genuine guy who can't get a meet from this site too old or what ? " aye your an old bugger! | |||
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"It certainly isn't about age it's about attitude.. I find that many non Fabs men over 45 have an old attitude whereas on Fabs they're more open minded and free spirited. Of course there's always exceptions " I would agree with you that age doesn't always come into it or perhaps shouldn't. But being on fab, you are probably more liberal than vanilla people anyway, whatever age. | |||
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"can't believe I'm over the hill at 48 wtf genuine guy who can't get a meet from this site too old or what ? " That's the ticket... Think positively!! | |||
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