FabSwingers.com forum: kissing the female when meeting couples?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey there

Been on here before a while ago and met some very nice couples.

What are people thoughts on kissing the female when meeting couples? I have sometime asked in advance or it just naturally happened, if you ask ground rules it can also kill the moment and fun, but as a single man you don't like to offend in case some men don't like their ladies kissed.

One meet a while ago the woman didn't think I was kean on her because I didn't kiss her?

What are the best ways to approach it any thoughts ?

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Speak to the people you're planning on meeting and ask them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

best way i would say is to say hello shake the mans hand and take ladies hand and kiss her on her cheek then take it from there....hope that helps x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always ask - I would hate not being kissed x

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

Actually its a good point to bring up. I have always asked pre meet for the do's and do not's with couples although not the same with singles. With couples you can soon queer the pitch so i would recommend doing what i have done and ask pre meet via phone or on line.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with HPC... Some couples prefere to keep kissing to themselves,personally i am a serial snogger lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think most ladies like to be kissed but I'm aware that some couples don't do kissing. Like you say though, not kissing can seem cold I guess but kissing them you may offend the man or indeed the lady is not obviously great!

Maybe instinct and feel is the way to go

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

"I think most ladies like to be kissed but I'm aware that some couples don't do kissing. Like you say though, not kissing can seem cold I guess but kissing them you may offend the man or indeed the lady is not obviously great!

Maybe instinct and feel is the way to go

I have found some wifes like kissing but hubbie doesn't like you kissing his mrs and to be honest i have no issue respecting his wishes. Its all about respecting others for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

yeh you right I think best to ask before meet then go with the flow.

All good comments though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always would seem polite to ask, or the couple involved to mention. I would find it odd not to be kissed, and i know mr doesn't mind me getting kissed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As already been said ask the couple..

I will now kiss on occassion, (its work in progress) but I will be the one to make the moves.. I have found I dislike the man moving to kiss me, I prefer to kiss them if I want to..

I think when first meeting, a kiss on the cheek would be what I would expect.

During foreplay, I dont mind a bit of kissing but I will not be kissed during actual sex. (its just for me and Master)

Katie x

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

kissing is so sexy.often how someone kisses,indicates you how much they are enjoying the sex.

for me,sex without kissing,loses a lot of it's appeal.

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