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Shy guys and ladys....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ive been told a few times that im shy...no problem with that. The problem is when messaging ppl and they do there research they say oh your shy...im after real men etc. Is it more acceptable for ladies to be shy(cute) but not a guy?

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Yes

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury


"Yes"

Rubbish, innit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer men who aren't overly arrogant.

I'm alittle shy too so it wouldn't be an issue for me if a guys was shy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im shy

the problem i always had was some people think you`re being arrogant or unfriendly when you go quiet around them

but then once you`re cool with someone and start opening up it all changes

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

The quiet ones are the worst so they say

I'm quite shy myself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"im shy

the problem i always had was some people think you`re being arrogant or unfriendly when you go quiet around them

but then once you`re cool with someone and start opening up it all changes

"

Yeah ive found this in group situations. I tend to stay in the back ground.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The quiet ones are the worst so they say

I'm quite shy myself "

I can relate to this. Totally opp in the bedroom but the problem is getting them there lol. As im working on the social side of things and thats where it counts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer a shy guy over a super confident one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These woman mostly want confident but not arrogant guys ,confidence is sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im shy

the problem i always had was some people think you`re being arrogant or unfriendly when you go quiet around them

but then once you`re cool with someone and start opening up it all changes

Yeah ive found this in group situations. I tend to stay in the back ground."

It's not a negative though , if everyone was extrovert - we would all never get a word in. I'm shy - but less shy than I was in my youth. I'm not shy though when confident in my surroundings.

Sarah

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I don't think you are shy but that's just my opioion

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?


"im shy

the problem i always had was some people think you`re being arrogant or unfriendly when you go quiet around them

but then once you`re cool with someone and start opening up it all changes

"

I can very much relate to this, it's not just about being shy but also for me a trust thing but they go hand in hand, get to know me and I open up

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By *jj46Man
over a year ago

rhyl

I get the opposite I tell them I'm shy till you get to know me .but after an hour with me not shy basically not shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It probably is more acceptable for a woman to be shy/cute. I know plenty of guys who hate being called cute because it's not 'manly.'

I've heard the 'I'm after real men' line before too. Each to their own but I'm really shy and let's face it, I'm adorable, that doesn't mean I'm not a 'real' man, whatever that actually means.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably but shy doesnt phase me as long as i know your interested as im quite confident xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably but shy doesnt phase me as long as i know your interested as im quite confident xx"
are you ,love your breasts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not shy, I'm an introvert...

so basically I look for extroverts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can be very shy but moreso in a social setting like a party than meeting 1 person for a coffee

I do agree with the idea that the quiet ones are the worst

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK


"im shy

the problem i always had was some people think you`re being arrogant or unfriendly when you go quiet around them

but then once you`re cool with someone and start opening up it all changes

"

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By *ifferent69Man
over a year ago

BRIGHTON, UK

Shy can also be misstaken for miserable and instead of thoughtfull.

I too can be that shy, simply listening to what being said only saying something if relevant.

Personely if a lady says i,m to shy i take it as a compliment.If however the comment " is no, i,m looking for a real man " its an instant turn off..no matter how attractive i find them..

Cos i,m, not going to come up to there exspectations not that i would want to..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably but shy doesnt phase me as long as i know your interested as im quite confident xx are you ,love your breasts "

Hadnt you noticed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer men who aren't overly arrogant.

I'm alittle shy too so it wouldn't be an issue for me if a guys was shy. "

I've just looked through your pics. .. absolutely no reason at all for you to be shy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think you are shy but that's just my opioion "

Im totally different then how i come across in the forums as im sure most ppl are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The quiet ones are the worst so they say

I'm quite shy myself "

You can tell that from your pics...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer shy guys, so long as they can chat a bit then i'm happy to take the lead and not shut up talking to them.

I think if they're sexually inexperienced and shy then that isn't so sexy, and some guys i've met are like that and it's kind of nice to be their teacher so to speak but i do prefer a guy to know what he's doing in bed and not leave everything down to me sexually, although i don't mind being bossy in bed also and asking for what i want so idk maybe it doesn't matter too much.

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By *uperock99Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I can be shy sometimes, depending who I am chatting to online or on a meet but once I get going haha! Confidence kicks in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can be shy at first, but when you get to know me I am chatty and fun to be with.... so im told

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fine with public speaking, delivering training and presentations but when it comes to initiating conversation with some one I fancy my brain turns to mush.

Once I know they are interested in fine and my brain resumes normal consistency - this would be less of a problem if I was any good at picking up on flirting or reading "the signs"

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By *jj46Man
over a year ago

rhyl


"I'm not shy, I'm an introvert...

so basically I look for extroverts "
I'm extrovert but sometimes go inrovert

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By *heBakeOLiteGirlWoman
over a year ago

62 West Wallaby Street (not real address)

I used to be quite confident and outgoing but things that have happened in the last few years have knocked my confidence somewhat. The other day I even found myself going shy in front of someone I've known for a while which was a little bit awkward. I prefer to meet confident guys to bring me out of my shell abit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm shy so I prefer to meet a chatty man but not someone up his own arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about a shy guy with a really naughty mind, is that not sexy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be a proper "shrinking violet" - extremely shy. But what I've found is that as I've become more mature (OK...older!) I've also become a lot more confident - although thankfully not to the point of being arrogant... at least, I hope not anyway?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm quiet shy but after taking I usually become more comfortable

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I'm quite shy but I hide it well and I ask the sort of questions that open up a conversation so other people do most of the chatting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm quiet shy but after taking I usually become more comfortable "

After taking what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meant talking I always make mistakes when I use my phone. Auto correct is the worst.

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By *jj46Man
over a year ago

rhyl

I'm not shy but extrovert and introvert before I got married I was super confident it's took me 18 months without out sex to get half the confidence back and couple of wild flings to overcome were all human end of the day

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