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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I see alot on here saying goodbye they are leaving fab and swinging for good. What would make you leave swinging? Love?

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex

Can you ever really give it up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bugger all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think you can leave swinging, you may think you can but you well return sooner or later

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you think once you start you can't stop it's that lifestyle x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree - we often take breaks from it - but always come back! lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When it become boring .. would move on to new things fetish or somthing .

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

tbh ive mostley seen ppl leave when they aint got no meets in fust cpl of weeks or start a ywisty same type post and get stick or not the answers they were looking for , we just take a time oot job when it becomes stale .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think a break is good for you I've done it but always come back

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Define swinging?

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

a lack of pulse!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In my back garden swinging back and forth if I'm lucky having someone push me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"tbh ive mostley seen ppl leave when they aint got no meets in fust cpl of weeks or start a ywisty same type post and get stick or not the answers they were looking for , we just take a time oot job when it becomes stale ."

i can imagine this is the case alot of the time but thier are a few people i know who get plenty off meets but said they have decided to leave the site for various reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing could ever make me leave

I have tried a few times but I have stuck with ot now for nearly twenty nine years so I very much doubt I will be leaving soon xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I lost the thrill factor, if it became just another night to put on the suspenders and go out and have sex and it was like a night out at the local pub.

and if I made a bad decision about someone I played with, if I came away feeling hurt and secretly wishing I hadnt done it. Hopefully that will never happen as I will have courage to say no, but you never know what life throws at you I guess

Im loving every minute at the moment though, long may it continue

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would a bad meet put you off swinging ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rightly or wrongly, I still think I would leave if I got into a long term relationship with someone who didn't want to swing.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

a wooden lid and 6 brass screws + 6 feet of soil

try typing on Fab with that shit going on above ya..

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"In my back garden swinging back and forth if I'm lucky having someone push me "

I have never done that so I wouldn't need to give it up.

I asked as the term can mean different things to diferent people and wondered what it was you were asking if people would give up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a wooden lid and 6 brass screws + 6 feet of soil

try typing on Fab with that shit going on above ya.."
lol _iew your a one xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In my back garden swinging back and forth if I'm lucky having someone push me

I have never done that so I wouldn't need to give it up.

I asked as the term can mean different things to diferent people and wondered what it was you were asking if people would give up."

Too me polo it's NSA sex and you can choose who you have sex with and when, not tied down to one partner enjoying the socials the clubs and making friends but everyones different with their idea but that's mine x

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Rightly or wrongly, I still think I would leave if I got into a long term relationship with someone who didn't want to swing. "

so so hard i would say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Rightly or wrongly, I still think I would leave if I got into a long term relationship with someone who didn't want to swing.

so so hard i would say "

Yes I realise it might be. Guess I want to believe that love and a committed relationship would come before my desire for sexual adventure. But equally, I realise that this may be part of who I am now. At the moment, it's not an issue anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would a bad meet put you off swinging ?"

there are always good meets and bloody fantastic meets. Up to now Ive had great meets and Ive enjoyed every one of them. Having a little rethink on my post, no I wouldnt give up swinging cos of a bad meet, if someone upset me or wanted to do things that were out of my comfort zone, Id just say no. My partner is there to support me so always keeps me safe anyway, it wouldnt be an issue.

If ever there was a situation where violence occurred, then I'd probably be scared and at least have a break form it all. Like I said really unlikely but if you are going to clubs, parties, socials etc with lots of people attending, you cant be sure of everyone can you - theres some strange people who join sex sites you know

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been slapped about a bit and it's got rough that did put me off for a while but built my confidence up and came back

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"In my back garden swinging back and forth if I'm lucky having someone push me

I have never done that so I wouldn't need to give it up.

I asked as the term can mean different things to diferent people and wondered what it was you were asking if people would give up.

Too me polo it's NSA sex and you can choose who you have sex with and when, not tied down to one partner enjoying the socials the clubs and making friends but everyones different with their idea but that's mine x"

Well I guess the answer to your definition is 'not being single'.... but for me, I would hope not being single doesn't mean having to give up swinging, it just means a change in the dynamics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see alot on here saying goodbye they are leaving fab and swinging for good. What would make you leave swinging? Love?"

gotta say the ones that announce they r leaving nearly always are back with a short period lol

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"I see alot on here saying goodbye they are leaving fab and swinging for good. What would make you leave swinging? Love?

gotta say the ones that announce they r leaving nearly always are back with a short period lol"

And not always as the same person...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see alot on here saying goodbye they are leaving fab and swinging for good. What would make you leave swinging? Love?

gotta say the ones that announce they r leaving nearly always are back with a short period lol

And not always as the same person... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of the petty childish attitudes which are sometimes displayed on here are enough to make me want to give up living let alone swinging

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I see alot on here saying goodbye they are leaving fab and swinging for good. What would make you leave swinging? Love?

gotta say the ones that announce they r leaving nearly always are back with a short period lol

And not always as the same person... "

So you did two farewell parties then?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"I see alot on here saying goodbye they are leaving fab and swinging for good. What would make you leave swinging? Love?

gotta say the ones that announce they r leaving nearly always are back with a short period lol

And not always as the same person... "

Or the same sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If I met someone to swing with all the better but I doubt that will ever happen no one wants to team up with a tv not even a blue ray player

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

For me to walk away she would have to be dam special but as ive told this is your life any other peeps been told that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why come back a different sex wish I could

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me its down to circumstances , everyones personal reasons could be quite different , a relatioship in which one party doesn't want to swing or whether neither wants or feels the need for anyone else , who really knows what life has in store or how your feelings may change , either way i dont suppose i could ever say never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been slapped about a bit and it's got rough that did put me off for a while but built my confidence up and came back "

sorry to hear that you got abuse.

I had some bad experiences when first started swinging with a partner, did put me off, and i went quiet for nearly a year. Much prefer it now, as for me, it means i can control who i see, and the situation much better.

I may consider stopping swinging in the unlikely event of a relationship, if the guy didnt like the lifestyle. But i bet id be back shortly after the relationship finished!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Define swinging?"
....... Sitting on a swing & moving backwards n forwards think that's right oh Erm.......

* creEps roUnd grAveyaRd *

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"I see alot on here saying goodbye they are leaving fab and swinging for good. What would make you leave swinging? Love?

gotta say the ones that announce they r leaving nearly always are back with a short period lol

And not always as the same person...

Or the same sex "

Ain't that the truth?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks oralminx it's made me stronger and more weary but it's not stopped me enjoying myself x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don't get you jane x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So what your saying people give leaving speechs then leave only to come back someone else or another sex, what's the point in that? Or do guys and gals like playing mind games with others on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll be 54 in April and often think to myself, "how long can I go on doing this?"

Maybe another year or so?

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham


"So what your saying people give leaving speechs then leave only to come back someone else or another sex, what's the point in that? Or do guys and gals like playing mind games with others on here? "

I've been on here a couple of times before but left for two different reasons.

The first time I was being stalked and every time I blocked the profile he just created a new one and played silly games.

The second time as I was disillusioned and frustrated. I needed time out and the break did me good. I didn't announce it or have a swan song...just left.

There's nothing wrong with taking a break and it's not suggestive of mind games either. We all have the right to walk away or come back at any time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Until the age of 44 I'd only had one sexual partner: my husband. I spent 18 months dating one person then two years not even thinking about sex: then I discovered adult sites and nsa.

I've had a fantastic time the last three years. I went on a date a few weeks back, a really lovely man but not what I want. I still enjoy meeting men for kinky, freaky sex.

When that's no longer the case I'll give it up.

If I find myself in another relationship then I don't think I'd still have nsa sex with strangers: but never say never!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wasn't saying that but if someone comes back on here differant sex then that's mind games thought we was here for sex and meets not mind games, some queer people out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll tell ya on my deathbed if I ever gave up swinging.

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"a lack of pulse!!!!!!"

I thought a pulse was an optional extra

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Define swinging?"

Exactly,will i give up being a slut,no,will i get sick of the net,probably.

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By *ne ShotMan
over a year ago

Manchester

differnt reasons some because they get bored of swinging. To much of a good thing can become the same thing.

Some because the scene changes, some because there skin isnt thick enough to understand, some ones fancy one day may not be the next.

Some because they meet "the love of there lives" who happen to be vanillas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I been in and out of swinging like a ducks ass .

And have done for over ten years.

But.........

Always come back

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By *ornwall-maleMan
over a year ago

newquay

well personally im new to this and still seeing if its for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a break last year, tried the vanillas but they just want to get serious to quick (scary) so i came back for some fun,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well personally im new to this and still seeing if its for me x"

Welcome to the madhouse then

Its for some but not for all and you do have to balance a thick skin and not bieng up ya own ass so to speak.

Bad terminology but you knows what i mean

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By *ornwall-maleMan
over a year ago

newquay


"[Removed by poster at 13/02/11 23:23:08]"

lol i know, as do the people here who have got to know me, that im far from ones own ass lol. even tho that would be a great party trick ha ha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would a bad meet put you off swinging ?"

It put me off for a while and really knocked my confidence but I'm back now with a totally different _iew on who I meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 13/02/11 23:23:08]

lol i know, as do the people here who have got to know me, that im far from ones own ass lol. even tho that would be a great party trick ha ha x"

Its those little tricks that keep the gals interested ya know.

Lmao

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By *ornwall-maleMan
over a year ago

newquay


"[Removed by poster at 13/02/11 23:23:08]

lol i know, as do the people here who have got to know me, that im far from ones own ass lol. even tho that would be a great party trick ha ha x

Its those little tricks that keep the gals interested ya know.

Lmao "

dam i will need a trick then lol. im finding having a nice ass has a nice effect lol. and also being daft as a brush too lol. x oh and im a total lesbian too ha ha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see alot on here saying goodbye they are leaving fab and swinging for good. What would make you leave swinging? Love?"

been there done that been there done that...no reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh well ya sorted then.

Nice ass always works and the front dont look to bad either.

Happy hunting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I were to be with the one I love then yeh I would give it up

Reluctantly tho

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By *ornwall-maleMan
over a year ago

newquay


"Oh well ya sorted then.

Nice ass always works and the front dont look to bad either.

Happy hunting "

lol thanks peaches x your front gets my vote anyday lol x

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over a year ago

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