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"If this is included in a message I get, it makes me not want to respond even if I was going to! " It's like being part of the Rebel Alliance, ain't it just? | |||
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"I just laugh and think "uh-oh, a 'nice guy'"" A nice guy? | |||
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"I just laugh and think "uh-oh, a 'nice guy'" A nice guy? " Self-proclaimed "nice-guy". | |||
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"I've been deleted a few times just sending a message asking to chat don't send my life story in a text and then first couple of days on here some girl give me her mob number after the 2nd message and I declined the offer .ok ladies so how do us men approach you fabulous ladies with a good message to catch your eye ![]() Run that by me again,some girl gave you her mobile number after chatting and you declined,why did you decline exactly? | |||
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"I just laugh and think "uh-oh, a 'nice guy'" A nice guy? Self-proclaimed "nice-guy"." what's wrong with nice guys Someone got to like them lol ![]() | |||
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"I've been deleted a few times just sending a message asking to chat don't send my life story in a text and then first couple of days on here some girl give me her mob number after the 2nd message and I declined the offer .ok ladies so how do us men approach you fabulous ladies with a good message to catch your eye ![]() I declined because she was a very very big girl and her message was desperate how it came across . ![]() | |||
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"I've been deleted a few times just sending a message asking to chat don't send my life story in a text and then first couple of days on here some girl give me her mob number after the 2nd message and I declined the offer .ok ladies so how do us men approach you fabulous ladies with a good message to catch your eye ![]() ![]() Oh ok,you just lost me a bit,which doesn't take much I know | |||
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"I've been deleted a few times just sending a message asking to chat don't send my life story in a text and then first couple of days on here some girl give me her mob number after the 2nd message and I declined the offer .ok ladies so how do us men approach you fabulous ladies with a good message to catch your eye ![]() ![]() Of course they are,I knew someone would misunderstand my reply! | |||
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"I'm not one for doing as I'm told..." Snap...only when I'm naked ![]() | |||
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"I'm not one for doing as I'm told..." Do not let me fuck you. Ever! | |||
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"I'm not one for doing as I'm told... Snap...only when I'm naked ![]() That's when I'm even less likely.... ![]() | |||
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"I'm not one for doing as I'm told... Do not let me fuck you. Ever!" ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Always respond to nicely written messages. Comments like that do not go in the nice pile. " Totally agree. If someones taken the time to be polite and write a respectful message it deserves to be responded to whether they're what you're looking for or not. Manners cost nothing. But I do understand that some ladies on here are inundated and cant possibly respond to every message they get. Doesn't give anyone the right to be abusive or forceful though. Little bit of respect goes a long way. | |||
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"Always respond to nicely written messages. Comments like that do not go in the nice pile. Totally agree. If someones taken the time to be polite and write a respectful message it deserves to be responded to whether they're what you're looking for or not. Manners cost nothing. But I do understand that some ladies on here are inundated and cant possibly respond to every message they get. Doesn't give anyone the right to be abusive or forceful though. Little bit of respect goes a long way." See, to me, it's common courtesy to send a face pic with a first message if they don't have any in public on their profile so no matter how polite the message is, if there's no face pic attached, I don't think I should have to reply. | |||
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"If this is included in a message I get, it makes me not want to respond even if I was going to! " If its in the profile somewhere I don't even open the message. | |||
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"Yeah.... No one gets to decide on how "decent" I am based on whether or not I reply to messages... I reply to all messages I receive but that's cos I don't get that many, and I have the time. I don't think people who don't reply to all messages are rude though. I think we're all allowed to deal with messages in our own way." Just looked at your pics you should flooded with messages ![]() | |||
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"Always respond to nicely written messages. Comments like that do not go in the nice pile. Totally agree. If someones taken the time to be polite and write a respectful message it deserves to be responded to whether they're what you're looking for or not. Manners cost nothing. But I do understand that some ladies on here are inundated and cant possibly respond to every message they get. Doesn't give anyone the right to be abusive or forceful though. Little bit of respect goes a long way. See, to me, it's common courtesy to send a face pic with a first message if they don't have any in public on their profile so no matter how polite the message is, if there's no face pic attached, I don't think I should have to reply." Agree! | |||
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"I've been deleted a few times just sending a message asking to chat don't send my life story in a text and then first couple of days on here some girl give me her mob number after the 2nd message and I declined the offer .ok ladies so how do us men approach you fabulous ladies with a good message to catch your eye ![]() ![]() it would be like me asking you if you would get with a fat guy? ![]() | |||
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"I've been deleted a few times just sending a message asking to chat don't send my life story in a text and then first couple of days on here some girl give me her mob number after the 2nd message and I declined the offer .ok ladies so how do us men approach you fabulous ladies with a good message to catch your eye ![]() ![]() ![]() To me it just sounded like you declined her because she gave you her number | |||
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"I'm not one for doing as I'm told..." I never done what I'm told rebel toothed end ![]() | |||
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"If this is included in a message I get, it makes me not want to respond even if I was going to! " Completely this. On the whole, I tend to reply to most messages I get. It's only the ones that have blatantly not read my profile or are obviously cut and paste that I don't But when I see this in a message, instantly turns me off, even if I would have been interested in meeting, I won't if this us in a message as it just stinks of entitlement to me | |||
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"Yep I'm with you,especially if I have that I'm not meeting at the mo and they still message. Hate being told what to do ![]() I have this and sometimes ask them which bit of I'm not meeting do they not understand, obviously I'm not meeting anyone new at the moment doesn't apply to them!!!! | |||
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"I've been deleted a few times just sending a message asking to chat don't send my life story in a text and then first couple of days on here some girl give me her mob number after the 2nd message and I declined the offer .ok ladies so how do us men approach you fabulous ladies with a good message to catch your eye ![]() ![]() ![]() no I declined because she was a little to big and I like intelligent woman .just wasn't for me basically ![]() | |||
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"I've been deleted a few times just sending a message asking to chat don't send my life story in a text and then first couple of days on here some girl give me her mob number after the 2nd message and I declined the offer .ok ladies so how do us men approach you fabulous ladies with a good message to catch your eye ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Ok,but what's that got to do with the original post? ![]() | |||
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"If this is included in a message I get, it makes me not want to respond even if I was going to! " Same here. If it's in their profile it has the same effect. If they say "manners cost nothing", they are almost guaranteed I won't reply. I hate being told what to do at the best of times and being told I must use my time to reply, when they CHOSE to use their time to message me, hacks me off. It also means that unless I specifically block them, they can still bother me in future, even if I put my mail filters on again. | |||
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"I've been deleted a few times just sending a message asking to chat don't send my life story in a text and then first couple of days on here some girl give me her mob number after the 2nd message and I declined the offer .ok ladies so how do us men approach you fabulous ladies with a good message to catch your eye ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() it has a lot to do with the question because I still chatted to the girl and had the decency to respond and ive still got messages what haven't been read for men that's ok ![]() | |||
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"I've been deleted a few times just sending a message asking to chat don't send my life story in a text and then first couple of days on here some girl give me her mob number after the 2nd message and I declined the offer .ok ladies so how do us men approach you fabulous ladies with a good message to catch your eye ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() If her message or profile didn't say you should respond even with a no thanks, it has nothing to do with the OP. Because you CHOSE to reply to a message doesn't mean anyone can tell another person they should reply. It's an individual CHOICE about how someone uses their own time. | |||
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"I have the decency to respond. I can empathise with people and understand how it would feel." I respond to people who have the decency to read my profile and only message me if they fit what I'm looking for. My profile is clear, for example, that I won't meet smokers. It says it twice. I feel absolutely no guilt over deleting messages from smokers because they were rude to not read or to ignore my profile and waste my time with a message they should know is unwelcome. | |||
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"I have the decency to respond. I can empathise with people and understand how it would feel. I respond to people who have the decency to read my profile and only message me if they fit what I'm looking for. My profile is clear, for example, that I won't meet smokers. It says it twice. I feel absolutely no guilt over deleting messages from smokers because they were rude to not read or to ignore my profile and waste my time with a message they should know is unwelcome." I respond to everyone,I'm the kind of person who does that. And I respond politely with no malice or sense of entitlement. I'm not entitled to anything just because I'm a woman | |||
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"I've been deleted a few times just sending a message asking to chat don't send my life story in a text and then first couple of days on here some girl give me her mob number after the 2nd message and I declined the offer .ok ladies so how do us men approach you fabulous ladies with a good message to catch your eye ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I'm. Not to bothered whether I get a reply at least I've made the effort to iniate chat sometimes it comes across wrong that's for me to work on it ![]() | |||
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"I have the decency to respond. I can empathise with people and understand how it would feel. I respond to people who have the decency to read my profile and only message me if they fit what I'm looking for. My profile is clear, for example, that I won't meet smokers. It says it twice. I feel absolutely no guilt over deleting messages from smokers because they were rude to not read or to ignore my profile and waste my time with a message they should know is unwelcome. I respond to everyone,I'm the kind of person who does that. And I respond politely with no malice or sense of entitlement. I'm not entitled to anything just because I'm a woman " Good for you. I don't feel entitled to anything either, because I'm a woman or otherwise. However, I spent a lot of time writing a profile which will clearly show some men that I'm not interested in them, and they message anyway, expecting a reply, that's their entitlement, not mine. I think not reading/ignoring a profile and messaging anyway is rude. I put the time into it to tell them what I'm looking for. Guys often claim that they've put time into a message so they deserve a reply. Yet they don't feel the time I put into my profile means they should read and pay attention to it? Why are their time and their words more important than mine? | |||
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"Its nice to get a responses even if no thanks " I used to do this then I got why . ![]() | |||
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"Its nice to get a responses even if no thanks I used to do this then I got why . ![]() And "well you're ugly and fat anyway and should be grateful for the attention". | |||
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"If someone puts this I guess they assume I wasn't going to reply so I grant their wish." Maybe I'll start replying. Verbally. It doesn't say it has to be by message. | |||
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"If this is included in a message I get, it makes me not want to respond even if I was going to! " Yup, not a fan of being told what to do, unless I'm in bed How about folk have the decency to read ladies profiles, that would be a good start... ![]() | |||
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"If someone puts this I guess they assume I wasn't going to reply so I grant their wish. Maybe I'll start replying. Verbally. It doesn't say it has to be by message." ![]() | |||
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"I reply to all first mails because I think it's rude not to." ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"If they haven't sussed out that I'm decent, they're too stupid for me to meet." ![]() | |||
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"I have the decency to respond. I can empathise with people and understand how it would feel. ![]() My profile says what I don't like so if I get a message asking me if I want something I've specifically said I don't like, I feel no guilt in not replying. | |||
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"I have the decency to respond. I can empathise with people and understand how it would feel." I know how it feels. I've had several messages deleted without reply. I survived. | |||
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"If this is included in a message I get, it makes me not want to respond even if I was going to! Yup, not a fan of being told what to do, unless I'm in bed How about folk have the decency to read ladies profiles, that would be a good start... ![]() I always read profile then I know wether to message ![]() | |||
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"I have the decency to respond. I can empathise with people and understand how it would feel. I know how it feels. I've had several messages deleted without reply. I survived." ![]() | |||
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"I have the decency to respond. I can empathise with people and understand how it would feel. I know how it feels. I've had several messages deleted without reply. I survived." Surely it's all part of being on here? I've never had a reply to a first message Shit happens I just take it as they didn't like me and move on ![]() | |||
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"I have the decency to respond. I can empathise with people and understand how it would feel. I know how it feels. I've had several messages deleted without reply. I survived. Surely it's all part of being on here? I've never had a reply to a first message Shit happens I just take it as they didn't like me and move on ![]() I just checked you out naughtynymphos and you pretty hot as for me im fucked a girl told me yesterday that my eyebrows are scary lol ![]() | |||
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"I have the decency to respond. I can empathise with people and understand how it would feel. I know how it feels. I've had several messages deleted without reply. I survived. Surely it's all part of being on here? I've never had a reply to a first message Shit happens I just take it as they didn't like me and move on ![]() ![]() Pluck 'em. Sorry I meant 'fuck 'em'. ![]() | |||
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"I have the decency to respond. I can empathise with people and understand how it would feel. I know how it feels. I've had several messages deleted without reply. I survived. Surely it's all part of being on here? I've never had a reply to a first message Shit happens I just take it as they didn't like me and move on ![]() ![]() ![]() no, pluck them | |||
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"I have the decency to respond. I can empathise with people and understand how it would feel. I respond to people who have the decency to read my profile and only message me if they fit what I'm looking for. My profile is clear, for example, that I won't meet smokers. It says it twice. I feel absolutely no guilt over deleting messages from smokers because they were rude to not read or to ignore my profile and waste my time with a message they should know is unwelcome. I respond to everyone,I'm the kind of person who does that. And I respond politely with no malice or sense of entitlement. I'm not entitled to anything just because I'm a woman Good for you. I don't feel entitled to anything either, because I'm a woman or otherwise. However, I spent a lot of time writing a profile which will clearly show some men that I'm not interested in them, and they message anyway, expecting a reply, that's their entitlement, not mine. I think not reading/ignoring a profile and messaging anyway is rude. I put the time into it to tell them what I'm looking for. Guys often claim that they've put time into a message so they deserve a reply. Yet they don't feel the time I put into my profile means they should read and pay attention to it? Why are their time and their words more important than mine?" They aren't. I can read something and not get annoyed or arsey,other people can't. I have been in a mischievous mood and sent a sarcastic remark back,which he laughed about. I like positivity and laughter,it's difficult enough when you suffer depression. I don't allow people to affect me,no matter how much time I have put into my profile. | |||
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"I have the decency to respond. I can empathise with people and understand how it would feel. I respond to people who have the decency to read my profile and only message me if they fit what I'm looking for. My profile is clear, for example, that I won't meet smokers. It says it twice. I feel absolutely no guilt over deleting messages from smokers because they were rude to not read or to ignore my profile and waste my time with a message they should know is unwelcome. I respond to everyone,I'm the kind of person who does that. And I respond politely with no malice or sense of entitlement. I'm not entitled to anything just because I'm a woman Good for you. I don't feel entitled to anything either, because I'm a woman or otherwise. However, I spent a lot of time writing a profile which will clearly show some men that I'm not interested in them, and they message anyway, expecting a reply, that's their entitlement, not mine. I think not reading/ignoring a profile and messaging anyway is rude. I put the time into it to tell them what I'm looking for. Guys often claim that they've put time into a message so they deserve a reply. Yet they don't feel the time I put into my profile means they should read and pay attention to it? Why are their time and their words more important than mine? They aren't. I can read something and not get annoyed or arsey,other people can't. I have been in a mischievous mood and sent a sarcastic remark back,which he laughed about. I like positivity and laughter,it's difficult enough when you suffer depression. I don't allow people to affect me,no matter how much time I have put into my profile. " It doesn't affect me. I hit delete. Job done. I don't feel bad about it for the reasons given. | |||
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"Cheating on his Mrs in this case, and then telling me to reply because it is the polite thing to do. The polite thing to do is not to cheat on your wife. " yep totally agree my wife cheated on me no point being with someone if they cheat ![]() | |||
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"Cheating on his Mrs in this case, and then telling me to reply because it is the polite thing to do. The polite thing to do is not to cheat on your wife. " My profile says I won't meet cheaters, so I think it's rude for them to message me and have the cheek to put that they would appreciate a response. why should I bother when you couldn't be arsed to read my profile?! | |||
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"it is polite to reply, i do agree. but making demands is not polite, trying to shame someone into answering is not polite either." I just reply because il talk to anyone only because I'm new on here . | |||
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"it is polite to reply, i do agree. but making demands is not polite, trying to shame someone into answering is not polite either. I just reply because il talk to anyone only because I'm new on here ." i was replying to OP. yeah chat to whoever, makes no difference, everyone has their way of making this site work for them. | |||
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