FabSwingers.com forum: Women help

By *st9900 OP Man
over a year ago

manchester

Message few girls on here but getting no luck! What is it what stands out and makes you interested?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to respond to messages that feel like they are written to me and it helps if they make me laugh.

Good luck OP

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Witty messages. Those longer than one line (unless it's a killer line).

I'm sure I'm not alone in reading the profile before reading the message. If the status and/or the profile put me off then I don't bother with the message.

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By *st9900 OP Man
over a year ago

manchester

Give me a tip then, private message me and see how we get on then x

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

"Message few girls on here but getting no luck! What is it what stands out and makes you interested? "

You have no pics and very little profile, so I would pass you by.

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple
over a year ago

Saltburn

No pics on profile op and you sound like you are looking for a girl friend from your profile text, maybe a dating site would be better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you need to add more typo to your profile, just a thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, your profile looks like it should be on a dating site and not a swinging site, when you message women, they will look at your profile before reading the message, look at your profile, would you respond to it?

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple
over a year ago

Saltburn

I now know where the OP is going wrong, he just messaged me and I so wish I could post it here without getting a forum ban!!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"OP, your profile looks like it should be on a dating site and not a swinging site, when you message women, they will look at your profile before reading the message, look at your profile, would you respond to it?"

Strangely, put that profile on a dating site and you're likely to get sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No pics is the major problem for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No pics is the major problem for me."
this +1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I now know where the OP is going wrong, he just messaged me and I so wish I could post it here without getting a forum ban!!"

And having seen said message, holy shit OP, you really need to change your approach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple
over a year ago

Saltburn

"I now know where the OP is going wrong, he just messaged me and I so wish I could post it here without getting a forum ban!!

And having seen said message, holy shit OP, you really need to change your approach."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what stands out

good looking, wants the same as me and isn't bullshitting to get in my knickers - profiles give me so many pointers here, decent message, non-threatening, makes me feel safe, isn't obsessed with getting what he wants at the expense of my pleasure,

not many guys like on here so they stand out loads.

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Good profile first of all followed by good pics. Will probably delete without reply if neither of these are on offer, depending on how good the message is (would have to be a spectacular message if both are missing)

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By *jj46Man
over a year ago

rhyl

I've just read mine to im fucked lol I'm figuring do i be dirty minded or not when I send a message utility adapt so your not on your own lad..

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple
over a year ago

Saltburn

"Good profile first of all followed by good pics. Will probably delete without reply if neither of these are on offer, depending on how good the message is (would have to be a spectacular message if both are missing)"

Oh the message he sent me was bloody spectacular lol in all the wrong ways

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By *exycouplesswingCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

Writing "need to fuck a pussy soon" makes you sound not only desperate but also rather crude...

More pics, and please just not your cock from 30 slightly different angles.. And avoid a aky remote!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes me wonder how my profile and approach is received lol

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By *ormalguy71Man
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

Profile made me laugh

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By *ormalguy71Man
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

"Writing "need to fuck a pussy soon" makes you sound not only desperate but also rather crude...

More pics, and please just not your cock from 30 slightly different angles.. And avoid a aky remote!"

Is it just Sky remotes? Is a Virgin one ok?

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple
over a year ago

Saltburn

[Removed by poster at 13/03/16 00:41:13]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it is against the rules delete before you get a ban xx

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By *exycouplesswingCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

"Writing "need to fuck a pussy soon" makes you sound not only desperate but also rather crude...

More pics, and please just not your cock from 30 slightly different angles.. And avoid a aky remote!

Is it just Sky remotes? Is a Virgin one ok?

Standard issue is a sky remote... No idea how big a virgin one is... So it wouldn't help!!!

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple
over a year ago

Saltburn

Not many virgins round our way!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 13/03/16 00:41:13]"

Oh dear

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By *ormalguy71Man
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

"Writing "need to fuck a pussy soon" makes you sound not only desperate but also rather crude...

More pics, and please just not your cock from 30 slightly different angles.. And avoid a aky remote!

Is it just Sky remotes? Is a Virgin one ok?

Standard issue is a sky remote... No idea how big a virgin one is... So it wouldn't help!!! "

Lol I was just having a laugh, I think the are about the same

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By *ormalguy71Man
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

"it is against the rules delete before you get a ban xx"

Nooo I missed it lol x

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By *exycouplesswingCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

Just imagine all the things you wouldn't say to a women, and especially a woman who has, and swings with her partner! That's about the gist!

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple
over a year ago

Saltburn

"Just imagine all the things you wouldn't say to a women, and especially a woman who has, and swings with her partner! That's about the gist! "

Don't forget eating arse for breakfast lmao!!

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By *exycouplesswingCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

But isn't that the corner stone of any nutritious diet? lol

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By *ormalguy71Man
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

There was a post in the forums a little while ago very similar to this and one or two ladies offered to receive mails to see what men send.

I must admit I did ok, but then I do actually read profiles and never cut n paste a message and certainly don't say fancy a fuck

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple
over a year ago

Saltburn

"There was a post in the forums a little while ago very similar to this and one or two ladies offered to receive mails to see what men send.

I must admit I did ok, but then I do actually read profiles and never cut n paste a message and certainly don't say fancy a fuck "

Good for you but believe me you would have to be bad to beat this one lol

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By *jj46Man
over a year ago

rhyl

Someone asked me to measure my cock with sky remote so sent them a pic of a bald Cockerell

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By *ormalguy71Man
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

"There was a post in the forums a little while ago very similar to this and one or two ladies offered to receive mails to see what men send.

I must admit I did ok, but then I do actually read profiles and never cut n paste a message and certainly don't say fancy a fuck

Good for you but believe me you would have to be bad to beat this one lol"

They do crease me up though, no manners and straight out with fancy fuck, I mean seriously has that approach ever worked

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By *jj46Man
over a year ago

rhyl

I've got some pics and 3 hidden plus I add a bit to profile everyday cus just read my profile lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There was a post in the forums a little while ago very similar to this and one or two ladies offered to receive mails to see what men send.

I must admit I did ok, but then I do actually read profiles and never cut n paste a message and certainly don't say fancy a fuck

Good for you but believe me you would have to be bad to beat this one lol"

I think we get the point you thought the message was shit. Any reason for still going on about something in the forums that was a private message to you?

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple
over a year ago

Saltburn

lol

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By *ormalguy71Man
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

"There was a post in the forums a little while ago very similar to this and one or two ladies offered to receive mails to see what men send.

I must admit I did ok, but then I do actually read profiles and never cut n paste a message and certainly don't say fancy a fuck

Good for you but believe me you would have to be bad to beat this one lol

I think we get the point you thought the message was shit. Any reason for still going on about something in the forums that was a private message to you? "

Alcohol and Forums? Xx

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By *exycouplesswingCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

Oh darn it... I've been FORCED to read another comment

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By *rincesscaracoupleCouple
over a year ago

Saltburn

No alcohol involved I do not see anywhere in my account listed as private message. I see read messages, sent messages and saved messages but nowhere does it say private. Besides that I haven't shared it.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Someone who is not too prescriptive about how things will be - except that he's determined that we'll both have a great time.

A user must have some public photos, so I get an idea whether he may be remotely attractive.

It's no strings attached fun here, so expect that many will only see you for a preliminary check meet and then sex meets. Any drinks out together will only appeal to some after the initial meet - saw this on your profile op.

Be flexible, expand your options and always mindful of what your potential partners may want.

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By *ittenandthepirateCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

"No alcohol involved I do not see anywhere in my account listed as private message. I see read messages, sent messages and saved messages but nowhere does it say private. Besides that I haven't shared it."

Private message is any message sent between two people so all your inbox and sent box are classed as private, hence the term "pm me".

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