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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's law of attraction by the way.

Anyway in amongst the usual shit I'll get the tidy replies sooo was in asda earlier on the self checkout thing and who do I spot, the lovely man from the gym! Mad because I was thinking today cos I wasn't in work that I wouldn't see him but he was on my mind then there he was. Said hello and then as I was at the traffic lights he was in the next lane to turn left, our cars were neck and neck!

This is the first time I've been interested in anyone without thinking about the penis, I get butterflies and shit when I see him so what the hell do I do? I've only got two weeks left in this gym and then my training finishes and I could be in another two facilities so won't see him coming in. I wanna ask him if I can take him out but how do you know if someone has interest in you, what are the signs!?

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Just write your number on a card and slip it to him before you finish working at the gym. Put the ball in his court; if he's interested he'll contact you and if not you'll have left by then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you just chat to him? Ask him whether his girlfriend works out at the gym (this will tell you if he is single). If he is single, just ask if he'd like to get a coffee sometime.

If he is flirty back to you and seeks you out for conversation those are signs he is into you.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ask him straight out of he'd like to meet for lunch/chat. You're a straight shooter, go for it.

I wanted to mail you to ask how things worked out with him. Pesky filters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does he smile & hold your glance?

Body language is it open? as in arms down or crossed, face on or glancing down?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Sounding a bit intense, why not just wait until the last day of your placement and advise him you are no longer going to be there. Then ask him if he would be interested in a drink

good luck

and remember you had intensity before about a guy and was let, disappointed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go on tiger, go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does he smile & hold your glance?

Body language is it open? as in arms down or crossed, face on or glancing down?"

^^^ this, I love reading body language.

Does he smile and give you an eyebrow flash when he sees you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get butterflies and shit when I see him so what the hell do I do?"

How do you know he isn't thinking something similar ?

As you are interested and would like to find out the next time you see him why not just start a conversation with something you have in common like the Gym and go from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going to keep my eye on this thread as my friend says I'm blinkered when picking up if someone likes me.

I do like the number on a card on your last day suggestion though

Good luck OP xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Bloody as I was leaving the shop my cousin was coming in and he stopped to talk to me and kisses me on the forehead like he always does but to people that don't know us it could look like he was my partner and the lovely man was walking out and would have seen that and then he walked past us, looked at my cousin and sort of done a half smile, I didn't say ta-ra as my cousin was talking to me about the bastard kittens his cat has just had!

Wish that dude was on here then I could just send a message! It's hard in work cos there's always someone on reception with me. Maybe go to the gym in the morning cos I'm not in till the afternoon, hard one cos he comes in at different times in the morning.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sounding a bit intense, why not just wait until the last day of your placement and advise him you are no longer going to be there. Then ask him if he would be interested in a drink

good luck

and remember you had intensity before about a guy and was let, disappointed. "

I know, I'm not gonna do the same thing again and expect different results. Trying to be breezy!

Is it offensive to ask someone out and they're in a relationship? That's the first thing I need to know. What are some chat up lines?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Just write your number on a card and slip it to him before you finish working at the gym. Put the ball in his court; if he's interested he'll contact you and if not you'll have left by then."

^this

And no, it's not offensive to ask him out if he's in a relationship. You can't know unless you ask.

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT


"Sounding a bit intense, why not just wait until the last day of your placement and advise him you are no longer going to be there. Then ask him if he would be interested in a drink

good luck

and remember you had intensity before about a guy and was let, disappointed.

I know, I'm not gonna do the same thing again and expect different results. Trying to be breezy!

Is it offensive to ask someone out and they're in a relationship? That's the first thing I need to know. What are some chat up lines?"

Don't use a line! Just talk to him naturally!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just write your number on a card and slip it to him before you finish working at the gym. Put the ball in his court; if he's interested he'll contact you and if not you'll have left by then.

^this

And no, it's not offensive to ask him out if he's in a relationship. You can't know unless you ask."

Well he was in asda at half 4 with a basket, didn't see what he had bought cos that would've given a clue.

Argh! This real life shit is complicated and scary and hard!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Just write your number on a card and slip it to him before you finish working at the gym. Put the ball in his court; if he's interested he'll contact you and if not you'll have left by then.

^this

And no, it's not offensive to ask him out if he's in a relationship. You can't know unless you ask.

Well he was in asda at half 4 with a basket, didn't see what he had bought cos that would've given a clue.

Argh! This real life shit is complicated and scary and hard!"

I think you'd be best to stay friendly until you're about to leave and then give him your 'phone number.

Forget chat up lines, just be direct.

The worst he can say is no and if you don't ask, you'll never know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just write your number on a card and slip it to him before you finish working at the gym. Put the ball in his court; if he's interested he'll contact you and if not you'll have left by then.

^this

And no, it's not offensive to ask him out if he's in a relationship. You can't know unless you ask.

Well he was in asda at half 4 with a basket, didn't see what he had bought cos that would've given a clue.

Argh! This real life shit is complicated and scary and hard!"

My guess is a pack of condoms, a butternut squash and a tub of Vaseline

Just bloody ask him out!

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By *ervent_fervourMan
over a year ago

Halifax

Yes. Bloody well get on with it!

And what happened to SeaWitch? What have you done with her?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just write your number on a card and slip it to him before you finish working at the gym. Put the ball in his court; if he's interested he'll contact you and if not you'll have left by then.

^this

And no, it's not offensive to ask him out if he's in a relationship. You can't know unless you ask.

Well he was in asda at half 4 with a basket, didn't see what he had bought cos that would've given a clue.

Argh! This real life shit is complicated and scary and hard!

I think you'd be best to stay friendly until you're about to leave and then give him your 'phone number.

Forget chat up lines, just be direct.

The worst he can say is no and if you don't ask, you'll never know."

Knowing my luck he'd turn me down and I'd stay in the site I'm already in! How shaming would that be!

Balls to it, everybody likes a compliment don't they. Just gonna say something like, I think you've got a lovely face, see how that's received.

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