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By *ire_blade OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

To divorce your family. God I so would if I could

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure it is in America

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By *ire_blade OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"I'm sure it is in America "

And we all call the yanks thick seems pretty smart to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes u can but I think u may be to old to do so X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God i wish!!!

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

What about annulled?

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

I made the break, best thing ever....such a weight off ones mind.

Wish you luck OP..

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By *ire_blade OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Yes u can but I think u may be to old to do so X "

How unfair is that

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By *ire_blade OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"What about annulled?"

They've been fucking me up for years so dawn that's an option

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

I cut all contact with my sister. Was a great feeling!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't think of anything worse - I appreciate everyone's circumstances are individual and personal but for me family bonds are the strongest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why stay in contact with crap people? All this family blood thing is rubbish. You wouldn't stay friends with tossers you're not related to. Just get rid.

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By *ire_blade OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"I cut all contact with my sister. Was a great feeling!!!"

Did the same with my mum and dad years ago

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over a year ago

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By *ire_blade OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen how destructive falling out with family can be through friends experiences, have yet to see a positive outcome in the long term.

At this stage of my life though I can't imagine what mine could ever do to make me want to cut all ties. Don't get me wrong they can be funny fuckers at times but I guess so can I.

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

Love half of mine, the other half I rarely speak to - suits me xxx

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

It's easy to do...Pack some stuff in the car, drive down (or up) the road and don't go back. I did when I was nearly 18 and can honestly say it's one of the best things I've ever done.

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london

Was there a preconception agreement? A lot of lawers will work for as little as £500 an hour and provided they don't string things out it should all be sorted in ten years. Enjoy your liberty!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn't think of anything worse - I appreciate everyone's circumstances are individual and personal but for me family bonds are the strongest. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cut all.ties with.my mother, and it hurts like hell, but we can't have a relationship, and me nit being around her is better for her, and I didn't have to hear that she was disappointed that I didn't turn out more like my brother, who has been in a 30 year relationship with a woman he don't love, yeah I'm.the loser.

I miss my mother, I even love my mother, I love her so.much I stay away, for her.

The sad part is that she has dementia, and now has no recollection if me at all,and asks when she sees me in photographs, who the black boy? They told her I'm a friend of my brothers, and she's less confused by that than explaining that she has another son.

Ok its 2 in the morning and I couldn't sleep to start with, and now I'm crying, in off back to bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not seen or heard from my brother for 25 years...2 weeks ago,I buried our Farther as I did with our Mother.Someone at the pub thought I was a good idea to hand me a tablet...guess who was on line...yes my brother.The conversation lasted 5 seconds with 2 words said...FUCK OFF...handed the tablet back and told them to stick it their arse and make him feel at home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cut all.ties with.my mother, and it hurts like hell, but we can't have a relationship, and me nit being around her is better for her, and I didn't have to hear that she was disappointed that I didn't turn out more like my brother, who has been in a 30 year relationship with a woman he don't love, yeah I'm.the loser.

I miss my mother, I even love my mother, I love her so.much I stay away, for her.

The sad part is that she has dementia, and now has no recollection if me at all,and asks when she sees me in photographs, who the black boy? They told her I'm a friend of my brothers, and she's less confused by that than explaining that she has another son.

Ok its 2 in the morning and I couldn't sleep to start with, and now I'm crying, in off back to bed "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I cut all.ties with.my mother, and it hurts like hell, but we can't have a relationship, and me nit being around her is better for her, and I didn't have to hear that she was disappointed that I didn't turn out more like my brother, who has been in a 30 year relationship with a woman he don't love, yeah I'm.the loser.

I miss my mother, I even love my mother, I love her so.much I stay away, for her.

The sad part is that she has dementia, and now has no recollection if me at all,and asks when she sees me in photographs, who the black boy? They told her I'm a friend of my brothers, and she's less confused by that than explaining that she has another son.

Ok its 2 in the morning and I couldn't sleep to start with, and now I'm crying, in off back to bed "

Awww this is sad....

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

You can disown them, if that helps.

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I don't have too much family left

Only a couple of cousins (ma mam's twin sisters') who keep in contact occasionally. There are other cousins scattered around the country, but I would be non the wiser if one of them dropped dead tomorrow nor them me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Way back, when I came out to everyone with my gender issues, most of my family were fine about it.

However my sister was not and the poisonous bitch did all she could to turn my mother against me. She succeeded and the fallout they created even left me with some PTSD that I had to have therapy for to deal with.

I tried my hardest to forgive them but eventually had to sever all ties because I can deal with their attitudes of being blameless. My mother refuses to accept that choice and every birthday and Christmas, I get a card that threatens to reopen the wounds. If I had the money, I would get a solicitor to sort it out.

Family situations are always difficult to navigate but I strongly believe that you come first and if family are damaging you, then you have to do what's right for yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a brother, sister and mother I've not spoken to for over a decade, the father in law has also chose to cut all ties with his daughter and grandchildren because of his stubbornness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me and Biker Girl to be together we have both had to totally cut our families out of our lives. A very long and tragic story. Not our choice but when people don't accept the person you love because of their own selfish reasons drastic and incredibly painful measures have to be taken. I have divorced my family, not in a legal sense but emotionally, they'll never see us again

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