FabSwingers.com forum: Club mates

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We have had dating corner which seem to be going well, Make a new friend and a fwb threads, How about find a club mate ?

Are you interested in the club scene ?

Does going alone put you off going ?

Put your name down and see if we can find some club mates,

I don't think you would have to be local to each other for this to work as most of us live within a hour or two from a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've made some bloomin' lovely club mates, but happy to meet more sociable natterers too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It is a good place to have a social/meet and help people feel at ease when meeting, If you both get on you could always arrange club tours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be up for that, I love visiting clubs but a bit shy too on my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm up for that. Been interested in clubs but don't want to go on my own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great idea. Have been to Kestrels / AbFabs a few times now and would love to find a FWB to go with

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

It's always more fun going with an accomplice. Put me down for 2

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I won't escort men I don't know to the club, as if they behave badly it also reflects badly on me.

Not something I'm comfortable with. Happy to go in as part of a group or with other ladies that I know

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If the thread fills up just pm each other and make your own arrangements,

It doesn't just have to be a club mate but a social at a club could be one step closer to finding a fwb/club mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I won't escort men I don't know to the club, as if they behave badly it also reflects badly on me.

Not something I'm comfortable with. Happy to go in as part of a group or with other ladies that I know "

Maybe a group social then ?

I think a Friday singles night would be the best option for most people, A social with we go are own ways if we don't get on

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I've held a few drinks nights and they go quite well, so that would be a good idea I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clarity point: my club mates are that alone, mates. Not FWBs or play mates. I think I may have misinterpreted the aim of the thread *retires gracefully*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I won't escort men I don't know to the club, as if they behave badly it also reflects badly on me.

Not something I'm comfortable with. Happy to go in as part of a group or with other ladies that I know

Maybe a group social then ?

I think a Friday singles night would be the best option for most people, A social with we go are own ways if we don't get on"

Clubs already do social nights, many men put name down and don't turn up

Men want women taking them in, and in my honest opinion it's for two reasons, cheaper entry (paying as couple instead of single male) and thinking a shag in it for them because going with a female.

I personally prefer going on my own or with other females to clubs, if men genuinely want to meet up for a social they will have the balls to attend on their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I won't escort men I don't know to the club, as if they behave badly it also reflects badly on me.

Not something I'm comfortable with. Happy to go in as part of a group or with other ladies that I know

Maybe a group social then ?

I think a Friday singles night would be the best option for most people, A social with we go are own ways if we don't get on

Clubs already do social nights, many men put name down and don't turn up

Men want women taking them in, and in my honest opinion it's for two reasons, cheaper entry (paying as couple instead of single male) and thinking a shag in it for them because going with a female.

I personally prefer going on my own or with other females to clubs, if men genuinely want to meet up for a social they will have the balls to attend on their own"

It's not about a cheap ticket at all for me, happy to meet inside or go together. Just more fun to share the experience with someone rather than to start off as Billy-no-mates

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I won't escort men I don't know to the club, as if they behave badly it also reflects badly on me.

Not something I'm comfortable with. Happy to go in as part of a group or with other ladies that I know

Maybe a group social then ?

I think a Friday singles night would be the best option for most people, A social with we go are own ways if we don't get on

Clubs already do social nights, many men put name down and don't turn up

Men want women taking them in, and in my honest opinion it's for two reasons, cheaper entry (paying as couple instead of single male) and thinking a shag in it for them because going with a female.

I personally prefer going on my own or with other females to clubs, if men genuinely want to meet up for a social they will have the balls to attend on their own

It's not about a cheap ticket at all for me, happy to meet inside or go together. Just more fun to share the experience with someone rather than to start off as Billy-no-mates

That's what the thead is about really but I can see were High Heels and Rogues are coming from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I won't escort men I don't know to the club, as if they behave badly it also reflects badly on me.

Not something I'm comfortable with. Happy to go in as part of a group or with other ladies that I know

Maybe a group social then ?

I think a Friday singles night would be the best option for most people, A social with we go are own ways if we don't get on

Clubs already do social nights, many men put name down and don't turn up

Men want women taking them in, and in my honest opinion it's for two reasons, cheaper entry (paying as couple instead of single male) and thinking a shag in it for them because going with a female.

I personally prefer going on my own or with other females to clubs, if men genuinely want to meet up for a social they will have the balls to attend on their own

It's not about a cheap ticket at all for me, happy to meet inside or go together. Just more fun to share the experience with someone rather than to start off as Billy-no-mates

This, I have chatted to single men in clubs, I've yet to meet one who used a woman as a cheap way to get in, or a pushy one, they have all been very nice.

For me, it's knowing I can either go with someone or meet them there and there is someone to chat to without pressure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I won't escort men I don't know to the club, as if they behave badly it also reflects badly on me.

Not something I'm comfortable with. Happy to go in as part of a group or with other ladies that I know

Maybe a group social then ?

I think a Friday singles night would be the best option for most people, A social with we go are own ways if we don't get on

Clubs already do social nights, many men put name down and don't turn up

Men want women taking them in, and in my honest opinion it's for two reasons, cheaper entry (paying as couple instead of single male) and thinking a shag in it for them because going with a female.

I personally prefer going on my own or with other females to clubs, if men genuinely want to meet up for a social they will have the balls to attend on their own

It's not about a cheap ticket at all for me, happy to meet inside or go together. Just more fun to share the experience with someone rather than to start off as Billy-no-mates

This, I have chatted to single men in clubs, I've yet to meet one who used a woman as a cheap way to get in, or a pushy one, they have all been very nice.

For me, it's knowing I can either go with someone or meet them there and there is someone to chat to without pressure

Just so

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By *oodprincess69Woman
over a year ago

over the rainbow

"I won't escort men I don't know to the club, as if they behave badly it also reflects badly on me.

Not something I'm comfortable with. Happy to go in as part of a group or with other ladies that I know

Maybe a group social then ?

I think a Friday singles night would be the best option for most people, A social with we go are own ways if we don't get on

Clubs already do social nights, many men put name down and don't turn up

Men want women taking them in, and in my honest opinion it's for two reasons, cheaper entry (paying as couple instead of single male) and thinking a shag in it for them because going with a female.

I personally prefer going on my own or with other females to clubs, if men genuinely want to meet up for a social they will have the balls to attend on their own

It's not about a cheap ticket at all for me, happy to meet inside or go together. Just more fun to share the experience with someone rather than to start off as Billy-no-mates

This, I have chatted to single men in clubs, I've yet to meet one who used a woman as a cheap way to get in, or a pushy one, they have all been very nice.

For me, it's knowing I can either go with someone or meet them there and there is someone to chat to without pressure

Just so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I won't escort men I don't know to the club, as if they behave badly it also reflects badly on me.

Not something I'm comfortable with. Happy to go in as part of a group or with other ladies that I know

Maybe a group social then ?

I think a Friday singles night would be the best option for most people, A social with we go are own ways if we don't get on

Clubs already do social nights, many men put name down and don't turn up

Men want women taking them in, and in my honest opinion it's for two reasons, cheaper entry (paying as couple instead of single male) and thinking a shag in it for them because going with a female.

I personally prefer going on my own or with other females to clubs, if men genuinely want to meet up for a social they will have the balls to attend on their own

It's not about a cheap ticket at all for me, happy to meet inside or go together. Just more fun to share the experience with someone rather than to start off as Billy-no-mates

This, I have chatted to single men in clubs, I've yet to meet one who used a woman as a cheap way to get in, or a pushy one, they have all been very nice.

For me, it's knowing I can either go with someone or meet them there and there is someone to chat to without pressure

I, on the other hand receive many messages from me. Stating exactly that they only asking to get in cheaper.

I've also spoken to many within clubs that also admitted taking women to keep it cheap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From men*

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have been to 2 clubs, Both were socials, I don't think I would of went if I didn't know people there from the forums or who I had chatted too,

I'm not someone who stands out or instantly starts up conversations with people, If it wasn't for the people I met I probably wouldn't had enjoyed my time at the clubs, I probably only spoke to a handful of people at both clubs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've taken a few people to clubs to break their clubbing cherries, I'd be up for escorting someone if they wanted to try one but we're too shy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id be up for this, but I think this kind of falls under the remit of fwb

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I've taken a few people to clubs to break their clubbing cherries, I'd be up for escorting someone if they wanted to try one but we're too shy.

This

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I don't think any clubs in Scotland hold social nights, not intentionally anyway

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

I'm happy to go along to a club or for someone to come with me to Xtasia or Jaydees (my regular haunts) with people. I'm quite friendly apparently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm happy to go along to a club or for someone to come with me to Xtasia or Jaydees (my regular haunts) with people. I'm quite friendly apparently.

You are very friendly, I will confirm that

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

Love visiting clubs, but better with a friend - I'm available xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Club mates a good idea

You must drive and in return for you chauffeuring me about I'll get you into a club cheap and shag that minger so you can have his gorgeous wife

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been to clubs with ladies, on my own and with a little group of friends.

If anyone wants company, or doesn't want to go on their own...feel free to PM me.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Club mates a good idea

You must drive and in return for you chauffeuring me about I'll get you into a club cheap and shag that minger so you can have his gorgeous wife

Deal

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

"I'm happy to go along to a club or for someone to come with me to Xtasia or Jaydees (my regular haunts) with people. I'm quite friendly apparently.

You are very friendly, I will confirm that

Right back atcha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Club mates a good idea

You must drive and in return for you chauffeuring me about I'll get you into a club cheap and shag that minger so you can have his gorgeous wife

Deal

Your buying the wine though

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Club mates a good idea

You must drive and in return for you chauffeuring me about I'll get you into a club cheap and shag that minger so you can have his gorgeous wife

Deal

Your buying the wine though

There's always a bloody catch

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"I'm happy to go along to a club or for someone to come with me to Xtasia or Jaydees (my regular haunts) with people. I'm quite friendly apparently.

You are very friendly, I will confirm that

Right back atcha

Think we are all in the friendliest of groups

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Club mates a good idea

You must drive and in return for you chauffeuring me about I'll get you into a club cheap and shag that minger so you can have his gorgeous wife

Deal

Your buying the wine though

There's always a bloody catch

I need it to shag that minger

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Club mates a good idea

You must drive and in return for you chauffeuring me about I'll get you into a club cheap and shag that minger so you can have his gorgeous wife

Deal

Your buying the wine though

There's always a bloody catch

I need it to shag that minger

Tell you what Iets make it a bottle of jd and shag me instead

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Club mates a good idea

You must drive and in return for you chauffeuring me about I'll get you into a club cheap and shag that minger so you can have his gorgeous wife

Deal

Your buying the wine though

There's always a bloody catch

I need it to shag that minger

Tell you what Iets make it a bottle of jd and shag me instead

Er where is my bottle of JD?

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"Club mates a good idea

You must drive and in return for you chauffeuring me about I'll get you into a club cheap and shag that minger so you can have his gorgeous wife

Deal

Your buying the wine though

There's always a bloody catch

I need it to shag that minger

Tell you what Iets make it a bottle of jd and shag me instead

Er where is my bottle of JD?

That's a good question it's definitely been to long

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