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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Who suffers with it?

I check I've locked the front door at least 3 times before driving away, one time I even turned back once I got to the top of the road to check, already knowing it was locked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had to answer this,,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have it with washing my hands it drives me mad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who suffers with it?

I check I've locked the front door at least 3 times before driving away, one time I even turned back once I got to the top of the road to check, already knowing it was locked "

Yup, it's exhausting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't read a magazine or a newspaper that's been read before me I like them to be unused ! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who suffers with it?

I check I've locked the front door at least 3 times before driving away, one time I even turned back once I got to the top of the road to check, already knowing it was locked

Yup, it's exhausting. "

Yep i know where your comming from,check double check then think "did i turn the iron off" aaaarrggh! And go back in to check again,then check the door again 3 times more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everyone who says they have ocd, has ocd, they're just neat freaks.

I have cdo, its Like ocd but in order like it should be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in any sense that it ruins my life on a day to day basis and I can't function

I'd hate to be like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not everyone who says they have ocd, has ocd, they're just neat freaks.

I have cdo, its Like ocd but in order like it should be "

Thats uncanny! I have doc which is like ocd and cdo but with a twist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not everyone who says they have ocd, has ocd, they're just neat freaks."

I suspect this is true. Especially those who say 'Oh I'm a little OCD about xxxxx"

Anyone who thinks it's just about cleaning is sadly mistaken.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FFS it's not OCD it's CDO!

Can we please keep it in order, many thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ocds are a lot better since I left my ex. Althought I still have my lists for meals omfg I just love it then there's a "what's for tea/ thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines with cleaning lol everything had to be really clean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I notice most people talk about their compulsions but not the obsessions.

I always found the obsessions to be more distressing.

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

Luckily I am the opposite: I live in a happy state of vaguely controlled chaos.

I have a freind who drives me mad because she is a compulsive list-maker.

She has lists of lists. And a master list of the list of lists. And another list of the amendments to the master list. And is completely unable to do anything unless it is on one of her lists.

I stopped fucking her because I couldn't cope with having to make sure we were following the bloody list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Luckily I am the opposite: I live in a happy state of vaguely controlled chaos.

I have a freind who drives me mad because she is a compulsive list-maker.

She has lists of lists. And a master list of the list of lists. And another list of the amendments to the master list. And is completely unable to do anything unless it is on one of her lists.

I stopped fucking her because I couldn't cope with having to make sure we were following the bloody list.

"

Pmsl poor girl. I'm the same with food I have lists of what meals I'm gunna eat n i work the lists too to bottom I've got so many I know what I'm eating every evening from now untill 2057. It's lamb dinner tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None what so ever.

Everything other than my shifts at work I make up as I go along.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who suffers with it?

I check I've locked the front door at least 3 times before driving away, one time I even turned back once I got to the top of the road to check, already knowing it was locked

Yup, it's exhausting.

Yep i know where your comming from,check double check then think "did i turn the iron off" aaaarrggh! And go back in to check again,then check the door again 3 times more

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By *mojeeCouple
over a year ago

Dunfermline

There are things I do like all clothes have to be on the hanger the same way facing the same direction, checking doors even tho I know it's closed and locked, but I often wonder if it's just me having routines for things or is it ocd.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

I used to be very particular rather than obsessive. Everything had it's place or had to be perfect. Since becoming a single parent I'm a lot more chilled. People come to see me not my house - it's clean & tidy as much as it can be or needs to be!!

Things (books, cd's, dvd's) still have to be in alphabetical order though. Cutlery handle down in the dishwasher & my tins a certain way in the cupboard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are things I do like all clothes have to be on the hanger the same way facing the same direction, checking doors even tho I know it's closed and locked, but I often wonder if it's just me having routines for things or is it ocd. "

If you have no intrusive thoughts I would guess that you just like things done in a certain way and are conscientious and careful

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By *ancscleanguyMan
over a year ago

Preston

It's toilet door handles that's a worry. Public door handles are a nightmare. I can see the germs crawling all over them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are things I do like all clothes have to be on the hanger the same way facing the same direction, checking doors even tho I know it's closed and locked, but I often wonder if it's just me having routines for things or is it ocd.

If you have no intrusive thoughts I would guess that you just like things done in a certain way and are conscientious and careful "

I often get told off at the club I attend, I like to arrange the coasters so they are all straight and correctly patterned, people move them when I move from the bar, when I get back they look at me as if to say 'wasn't me'

bloody buggers they are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I preferred Souvenir to Joan of Arc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I preferred Souvenir to Joan of Arc"

La Femme Accident for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do, I just like things to be neat and tidy.

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"There are things I do like all clothes have to be on the hanger the same way facing the same direction, checking doors even tho I know it's closed and locked, but I often wonder if it's just me having routines for things or is it ocd.

If you have no intrusive thoughts I would guess that you just like things done in a certain way and are conscientious and careful

I often get told off at the club I attend, I like to arrange the coasters so they are all straight and correctly patterned, people move them when I move from the bar, when I get back they look at me as if to say 'wasn't me'

bloody buggers they are!

"
Drives me nuts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to drink 8, or a multiple of sips of water before going to sleep (inexplicable), and smoke 2 cigarettes.

I once got the idea in my mind that my electric heater was going to spontaneously erupt into flames one day after I'd left for work, so now I have to unplug it every time before I leave.

My cat Echo gets his evening meal when I tuck into my dinner. It started off as a sort of cute thing for a laugh but now it's just, 'the way it's supposed to be'. It's become so normal that Echo knows that when I'm cooking, it's nearly his dinner time, and sits there watching me.

I'm sure there are more, but yeah, I have mild OCD. Interestingly, my father had OCD when he was young. Wonder if it's hereditary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have it with swallowing cum. If I'm sucking cock I HAVE to make the man cum in my mouth and swallow it or I end up in a right mess. Usually because he pulled out and gave me a facial

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm thorough but not ocd fully. Many things like this are on a spectrum, with many people being somewhere upon it l, though not to the extent that they'd get a positive diagnosis.

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"I can't read a magazine or a newspaper that's been read before me I like them to be unused ! X "

I feel the same about women

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By *anaduABCMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Who suffers with it?

I check I've locked the front door at least 3 times before driving away, one time I even turned back once I got to the top of the road to check, already knowing it was locked "

Im always doing that too...its wrecking my head

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

Hairs and bits on black clothes grrr grabs the lint roller again...

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Someone very close to me has extreme OCD. I get annoyed when a lot of people say they have it because they like their towels lined up or wash their hands more than most. That is nothing compared to what my family member and those close to him go through. His hands are always bleeding from having been scrubbed constantly. Can't have visitors to the house for fear of them bringing the germs in. Can't even put his finger in his mouth without worrying about there being germs from his saliva that will multiply and then poison him. Can't share keyboards, seats etc in work (yes, he still manages to work and is very good at it as he is so obsessive about details). Can't use public loos, freaks about eating out, can't shake hands to greet people, can't put on or take off own shoes if they need to be touched, only recently managed to be able to put on own socks. Fucking nightmare to live in

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"Someone very close to me has extreme OCD. I get annoyed when a lot of people say they have it because they like their towels lined up or wash their hands more than most. That is nothing compared to what my family member and those close to him go through. His hands are always bleeding from having been scrubbed constantly. Can't have visitors to the house for fear of them bringing the germs in. Can't even put his finger in his mouth without worrying about there being germs from his saliva that will multiply and then poison him. Can't share keyboards, seats etc in work (yes, he still manages to work and is very good at it as he is so obsessive about details). Can't use public loos, freaks about eating out, can't shake hands to greet people, can't put on or take off own shoes if they need to be touched, only recently managed to be able to put on own socks. Fucking nightmare to live in"

Ooh, forgot inability to lock doors (someone else has to do it or he'd be up all night checking and never leave the house), and contact checking of gas and electrical appliances in case they burn house down. Sure there are a million more I have forgotten

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone very close to me has extreme OCD. I get annoyed when a lot of people say they have it because they like their towels lined up or wash their hands more than most. That is nothing compared to what my family member and those close to him go through. His hands are always bleeding from having been scrubbed constantly. Can't have visitors to the house for fear of them bringing the germs in. Can't even put his finger in his mouth without worrying about there being germs from his saliva that will multiply and then poison him. Can't share keyboards, seats etc in work (yes, he still manages to work and is very good at it as he is so obsessive about details). Can't use public loos, freaks about eating out, can't shake hands to greet people, can't put on or take off own shoes if they need to be touched, only recently managed to be able to put on own socks. Fucking nightmare to live in"

that annoys me too. As does the piss taking. Can't imagine people making fun of any other mental health issues like depression, schizophrenia etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't read a magazine or a newspaper that's been read before me I like them to be unused ! X "

And I thought tray was strange for this didn't think anyone else would suffer the same lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not everyone who says they have ocd, has ocd, they're just neat freaks.

I have cdo, its Like ocd but in order like it should be

Thats uncanny! I have doc which is like ocd and cdo but with a twist"

I have cod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not everyone who says they have ocd, has ocd, they're just neat freaks.

I have cdo, its Like ocd but in order like it should be

Thats uncanny! I have doc which is like ocd and cdo but with a twist

I have cod"

Damn!!...you win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone very close to me has extreme OCD. I get annoyed when a lot of people say they have it because they like their towels lined up or wash their hands more than most. That is nothing compared to what my family member and those close to him go through. His hands are always bleeding from having been scrubbed constantly. Can't have visitors to the house for fear of them bringing the germs in. Can't even put his finger in his mouth without worrying about there being germs from his saliva that will multiply and then poison him. Can't share keyboards, seats etc in work (yes, he still manages to work and is very good at it as he is so obsessive about details). Can't use public loos, freaks about eating out, can't shake hands to greet people, can't put on or take off own shoes if they need to be touched, only recently managed to be able to put on own socks. Fucking nightmare to live in

that annoys me too. As does the piss taking. Can't imagine people making fun of any other mental health issues like depression, schizophrenia etc. "

Unfortunately, it does happen with depression. A close friend of mine suffers with it and because it isn't a physical issue, they have been subject to very snide comments like "oh get over yourself" or "just snap out of it." It can be very hurtful and doesn't help them with their coping mechanisms or recovery from a low period.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who suffers with it?

I check I've locked the front door at least 3 times before driving away, one time I even turned back once I got to the top of the road to check, already knowing it was locked "

Not just me then lol

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By *ohnaronMan
over a year ago

london


"Who suffers with it?

I check I've locked the front door at least 3 times before driving away, one time I even turned back once I got to the top of the road to check, already knowing it was locked

Not just me then lol"

I'm always checking your doors

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone very close to me has extreme OCD. I get annoyed when a lot of people say they have it because they like their towels lined up or wash their hands more than most. That is nothing compared to what my family member and those close to him go through. His hands are always bleeding from having been scrubbed constantly. Can't have visitors to the house for fear of them bringing the germs in. Can't even put his finger in his mouth without worrying about there being germs from his saliva that will multiply and then poison him. Can't share keyboards, seats etc in work (yes, he still manages to work and is very good at it as he is so obsessive about details). Can't use public loos, freaks about eating out, can't shake hands to greet people, can't put on or take off own shoes if they need to be touched, only recently managed to be able to put on own socks. Fucking nightmare to live in

that annoys me too. As does the piss taking. Can't imagine people making fun of any other mental health issues like depression, schizophrenia etc.

Unfortunately, it does happen with depression. A close friend of mine suffers with it and because it isn't a physical issue, they have been subject to very snide comments like "oh get over yourself" or "just snap out of it." It can be very hurtful and doesn't help them with their coping mechanisms or recovery from a low period. "

I get what you're saying but I was talking about comments in the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ocd isn't just with cleaning. It can be with anyhing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ocd isn't just with cleaning. It can be with anyhing"

Yes, as evidenced by basically every response in this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ocd isn't just with cleaning. It can be with anyhing

Yes, as evidenced by basically every response in this thread "

Thanks,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ocd isn't just with cleaning. It can be with anyhing

Yes, as evidenced by basically every response in this thread

Thanks, "

Anytime bro

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ocd isn't just with cleaning. It can be with anyhing

Yes, as evidenced by basically every response in this thread "

I would say more like half the responses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am getting worse with age .... I check everything a million times and keep going back to do so....

Wash my hands (arms included like I'm about to perform surgery) like three times minimum every time ....

I won't touch anything if I feel it's not clean

I don't walk over cracks

I have a thing about symmetry and even numbers

The list goes on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone very close to me has extreme OCD. I get annoyed when a lot of people say they have it because they like their towels lined up or wash their hands more than most. That is nothing compared to what my family member and those close to him go through. His hands are always bleeding from having been scrubbed constantly. Can't have visitors to the house for fear of them bringing the germs in. Can't even put his finger in his mouth without worrying about there being germs from his saliva that will multiply and then poison him. Can't share keyboards, seats etc in work (yes, he still manages to work and is very good at it as he is so obsessive about details). Can't use public loos, freaks about eating out, can't shake hands to greet people, can't put on or take off own shoes if they need to be touched, only recently managed to be able to put on own socks. Fucking nightmare to live in

that annoys me too. As does the piss taking. Can't imagine people making fun of any other mental health issues like depression, schizophrenia etc.

Unfortunately, it does happen with depression. A close friend of mine suffers with it and because it isn't a physical issue, they have been subject to very snide comments like "oh get over yourself" or "just snap out of it." It can be very hurtful and doesn't help them with their coping mechanisms or recovery from a low period.

I get what you're saying but I was talking about comments in the forums. "

Ah pardon my misunderstanding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone very close to me has extreme OCD. I get annoyed when a lot of people say they have it because they like their towels lined up or wash their hands more than most. That is nothing compared to what my family member and those close to him go through. His hands are always bleeding from having been scrubbed constantly. Can't have visitors to the house for fear of them bringing the germs in. Can't even put his finger in his mouth without worrying about there being germs from his saliva that will multiply and then poison him. Can't share keyboards, seats etc in work (yes, he still manages to work and is very good at it as he is so obsessive about details). Can't use public loos, freaks about eating out, can't shake hands to greet people, can't put on or take off own shoes if they need to be touched, only recently managed to be able to put on own socks. Fucking nightmare to live in

that annoys me too. As does the piss taking. Can't imagine people making fun of any other mental health issues like depression, schizophrenia etc.

Unfortunately, it does happen with depression. A close friend of mine suffers with it and because it isn't a physical issue, they have been subject to very snide comments like "oh get over yourself" or "just snap out of it." It can be very hurtful and doesn't help them with their coping mechanisms or recovery from a low period.

I get what you're saying but I was talking about comments in the forums.

Ah pardon my misunderstanding "

it's ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone very close to me has extreme OCD. I get annoyed when a lot of people say they have it because they like their towels lined up or wash their hands more than most. That is nothing compared to what my family member and those close to him go through. His hands are always bleeding from having been scrubbed constantly. Can't have visitors to the house for fear of them bringing the germs in. Can't even put his finger in his mouth without worrying about there being germs from his saliva that will multiply and then poison him. Can't share keyboards, seats etc in work (yes, he still manages to work and is very good at it as he is so obsessive about details). Can't use public loos, freaks about eating out, can't shake hands to greet people, can't put on or take off own shoes if they need to be touched, only recently managed to be able to put on own socks. Fucking nightmare to live in

that annoys me too. As does the piss taking. Can't imagine people making fun of any other mental health issues like depression, schizophrenia etc.

Unfortunately, it does happen with depression. A close friend of mine suffers with it and because it isn't a physical issue, they have been subject to very snide comments like "oh get over yourself" or "just snap out of it." It can be very hurtful and doesn't help them with their coping mechanisms or recovery from a low period.

I get what you're saying but I was talking about comments in the forums.

Ah pardon my misunderstanding

it's ok "

great pics, awesome tattoos and a overly body

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

My daughter has a form of it but that comes with her condition. ... lights she has to turn on or herself if I turn them off she will come alone and do it. ..

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I have cod with just a few chips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As already mentioned OCD isn't just having to do things a certain amount of times or cleaning just because you've got in the habit. People with true OCD have a mental health concern and they are plagued by horrible and scary thoughts if they don't do things a certain way.

Like depression, it is sometimes used as an off the cuff remark without it actually being an actual problem..How many of us say 'oh I'm a bit depressed' but just mean we feel a bit down and are not clinically depressed!

I feel for people who suffer any mental health condition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As already mentioned OCD isn't just having to do things a certain amount of times or cleaning just because you've got in the habit. People with true OCD have a mental health concern and they are plagued by horrible and scary thoughts if they don't do things a certain way.

Like depression, it is sometimes used as an off the cuff remark without it actually being an actual problem..How many of us say 'oh I'm a bit depressed' but just mean we feel a bit down and are not clinically depressed!

I feel for people who suffer any mental health condition "

Yes I suffer from OCD, I have to push hard to fight it down from time to time, and still check my door excessively whenever I leave the house, part of my mind tells me I didn't REALLY check if it was locked, or I just imagined I locked it, so it's hard for me to be satisfied before I leave, I've even come back after making it to the end of the street just to make sure I definitely locked the door.

So yes, as you say, many people claim OCD willy nilly, not realising what a distressing problem it can be.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I don't think I am. But I saw a 'trendy' book shelf that made the books go off in all different directions.

I didn't like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's toilet door handles that's a worry. Public door handles are a nightmare. I can see the germs crawling all over them. "

All toilet door handles will have germs, infact any surface that's touched regular by different people will carry germs

But as an adult surely you know germs are part of every day life and our bodies can cope with them?

What I don't get is how can somebody who can't even touch a toilet door without worrying about germs meets a stranger for sex and fiddle about in their nether regions? Do you not worry about how close to the toilet seat its been?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to have the volume on things an odd number

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As already mentioned OCD isn't just having to do things a certain amount of times or cleaning just because you've got in the habit. People with true OCD have a mental health concern and they are plagued by horrible and scary thoughts if they don't do things a certain way.

Like depression, it is sometimes used as an off the cuff remark without it actually being an actual problem..How many of us say 'oh I'm a bit depressed' but just mean we feel a bit down and are not clinically depressed!

I feel for people who suffer any mental health condition "

well said xx

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"It's toilet door handles that's a worry. Public door handles are a nightmare. I can see the germs crawling all over them. "

What I don't get is why every single public loo seems to have a push door to get in and a pull door to get out, forcing you to touch it just after you have washed your hands. Surely it's more hygienic to have it the other way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh my where do I begin I have ocd which is part of my bi polar when I am having a melt down I internalize every thing have been known to wash myself in bleach and wire wool I know it is extreme but cannot get clean and it is a release also bathing and showering up to 8 times a day and when I don't sleep it is worse nasty thoughts just get louder and louder and yes I know I am fucked up and broken x

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By *cd and scruffCouple
over a year ago

Rochester

I had to post on this one.

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