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Is the grass any greener?!

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By *alldarkhandsomedave OP   Man
over a year ago

Derby

Morning all. Is it just me, but if I do a search around my Derby post code there really doesn't seem to be many people of the age/'type' I'm looking to meet...or is this what most people find after being on here for some time?!

Willing to travel but arranging meets then gets tricky!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on your area. Being in manchester i find theres a lot of choice xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try living in a sleepy little town miles from anywhere. It near impossible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Morning all. Is it just me, but if I do a search around my Derby post code there really doesn't seem to be many people of the age/'type' I'm looking to meet...or is this what most people find after being on here for some time?!

Willing to travel but arranging meets then gets tricky!

"

Think it's just you

When we first joined fab we were surprised how Derby seems to be a hotbed of swingers lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Hove, mainly…

It's just perception.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Morning all. Is it just me, but if I do a search around my Derby post code there really doesn't seem to be many people of the age/'type' I'm looking to meet..."

Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grass looks greener but you still have to mow it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It probably just reflects normal geography, big cities will have the most sign ups generally I'd imagine.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

London sometimes

It is greener in Manchester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try living in a sleepy little town miles from anywhere. It near impossible "

This for me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Claude Greengrass never did it for me.

Sarah

N.B. I thought Derby would be fairly active swinging wise as you've got Nottingham not far away too. Plus the Attic.

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By *alldarkhandsomedave OP   Man
over a year ago

Derby

I think perception is a good point, along with the big city

I would agree, whilst Derby isn't a big city, it does seem to have quite an active population (!), just once you have been on here a while, you have chatted to a fair few, met some and the rest just don't float each other's boat respectively?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grass is not green when it's dark o'clock....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no luck locally plenty of choice but alas no luck

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Derby's a great place for members. A lot of people don't want meets with those on their doorstep, so widen your search appropriately. The east and west midlands conurbations contain millions of people, with tons of fab users and clubs - you're almost spoiled for choice.

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales


"Grass is not green when it's dark o'clock....

"

It is if you use a torch!

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales


"Morning all. Is it just me, but if I do a search around my Derby post code there really doesn't seem to be many people of the age/'type' I'm looking to meet...or is this what most people find after being on here for some time?!

Willing to travel but arranging meets then gets tricky!

"

I live in Wrexham and meet in the northwest, Chorley... The tgirls are just so horny up there.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I'm also in Derby and live in a top floor flat. Fancy a romantic stroll on some grass? Meet you at the Arboretum in about ¾ of an hour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nottingham, Leicester, Stoke, Sheffield and Birmingham all within an hour - all with very active scenes. Derby itself is very active.

If it's not working for you here, it's probably not for geographical reasons.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

The grass is always greener... until you're on that side of the fence. Then it's greener on the other side.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"The grass is always greener... until you're on that side of the fence. Then it's greener on the other side. "

Is your first name Claude perchance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live on the coast, so half me search radius is in the sea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Morning all. Is it just me, but if I do a search around my Derby post code there really doesn't seem to be many people of the age/'type' I'm looking to meet...or is this what most people find after being on here for some time?!

Willing to travel but arranging meets then gets tricky!

"

Not at all ... New members join daily and there aren't many as prolific as us in the scene .

We never struggle to find suitable local meets .

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"The grass is always greener... until you're on that side of the fence. Then it's greener on the other side.

Is your first name Claude perchance "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have lots of luck not necessarily on grass though but I'm in London and travel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your not the only one bud there a lot of that on here can't find anyone near me that I'd meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I live on the coast, so half me search radius is in the sea."

There's plenty more fish there then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just message the people who aren't interested in you.

it won't work but gives you something to do while bored i guess, that's why i think it happens so much anyway.

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By *alldarkhandsomedave OP   Man
over a year ago

Derby

Some fair points here but, as in sure most will appreciate, it's more difficult for us single guys.

Spreading the search criteria is a good point, which I have done, tends to run into problems with people then saying you're too far away to make it work lol!

Maybe the saying isn't true....!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The postcode map thing can be a bit fucked up in some areas. Try changing your postcode to a nearby town and do a new search.

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