FabSwingers.com forum: Are you sexually judgemental?

By *rs Tooty OP Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Despite being on this site, which, let's face it, is a sex site.

Do you find yourself dismissing people as they have 'too many verifications' or too many friends so may be meeting a lot?

We all 'judge' people on looks, not my taste. However would you decline a meet if someone had maybe posted every day on the 'meet me' would you find that 'desperate'?

Or are you happy to meet anyone who mails?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

SW1A1AA

I don't care who people meet how many they meet and when they meet all I care about is when they are meeting me. As long as we share a good time don't care what else they do

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I would meet anyone that I felt comfortable chatting to and I felt "clicked" with me, regardless of amount of meets they've had. It may raise a few questions to be sure if they've had so many verified meets, but ultimately the decision always comes down to a big factor: chemistry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't care who people meet how many they meet and when they meet all I care about is when they are meeting me. As long as we share a good time don't care what else they do

Exactly this for us too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very judgemental and I think it sensible to be so.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Hove, mainly…

I don't make a decision whether or not to meet someone based on how many verifications they have. They have to be interesting, make me laugh and be sexy. Those are my main criteria.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't make a decision whether or not to meet someone based on how many verifications they have. They have to be interesting, make me laugh and be sexy. Those are my main criteria. "
this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone judges. Some people judge people for not meeting enough or having too many repeat meets or socials, but are appalled at the suggestion someone might judge them for having too many meets.

So yeah, I judge everyone, but 99% of the time I keep it to myself because no one gives a shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would like to think we aren't judgemental. We have opinions like everyone but try to keep them to ourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you judge someone because of their verifications, how would you do it if they didn't show their summary? You'd be clueless of how many people they've met, or they could have not been on this site but had sex with numerous others. I personally think it's something ridiculous to judge people on, because this is one site and there are others people could be on. So in theory you never know how many people a person has met, you are just going off one site, so they have 3 verifications on here, but met 50 plus people and you're none the wiser

Doesn't bother me about verifications, I rarely ever tend to look as I have no interest in what others have to say, my experience is no necessarily going to be the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will have coffee with most people, unless they message me do I want to fuck off the bat. I won't just fuck anyone though, I have to have a connection with them, not based on looks, but how I perceive them to be as a person

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

"Despite being on this site, which, let's face it, is a sex site.

Do you find yourself dismissing people as they have 'too many verifications' or too many friends so may be meeting a lot?

We all 'judge' people on looks, not my taste. However would you decline a meet if someone had maybe posted every day on the 'meet me' would you find that 'desperate'?

Or are you happy to meet anyone who mails?

I've definitely seen male profiles that say they wont meet ladies with a lot of verifications and refers to bed-hopping. Then sum up to say how un-judgemental they themselves are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm pretty judgemental when it comes down to who I want to share my body & time with, why wouldn't I be.

Doesn't mean those people are doing anything wrong, they're just not on my wavelength.

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

"Despite being on this site, which, let's face it, is a sex site.

Do you find yourself dismissing people as they have 'too many verifications' or too many friends so may be meeting a lot?

We all 'judge' people on looks, not my taste. However would you decline a meet if someone had maybe posted every day on the 'meet me' would you find that 'desperate'?

Or are you happy to meet anyone who mails?

Anyone who mails?!

Like to think I'm a bit more discerning than that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't tend not to pay much notice to the text content of verifications. Simply because I tend to think just because someone else found someone to be dare I say amazing, I might not be of the same opinion or vice versa.

Though I am a tad fussy (been told more than a tad fussy

) about getting down and dirty with someone that's verification is as long as Encyclopedia Britannica.

But then again I'm an

after all

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

Everyone judges everyone on everything.

So yes I judge and have my own opinion. But I keep it to myself as it isn't important.

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By *moothdanMan
over a year ago

Northumberland

I feel i am very judgemental and don't miss anything. Having said that I do not comment about others on here so my opinions about anyone on here are kept to myself. Not ever one likes this but that is the way I am.

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