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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I enjoy sex but I find it off putting when I see guys who make it clear they only want one offs. I am thinking that this is not really for me, althpugh social one offs are great. I am now thinking of it is best to meet the same person on a monthly basis with the occasional other meet, whether socially or more.

How do others feel?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with you, not wanting to meet the whole site (most probably not interested in me anyway), but having a small handful I meet on a regular basis, plus just having socials too is great

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough


"I'm with you, not wanting to meet the whole site (most probably not interested in me anyway), but having a small handful I meet on a regular basis, plus just having socials too is great "

This is how i'm getting the most out of fab too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a lot of regular meets but went off most of them.

Idk what this site is for tbh, i'm ready to give up some days coz it feels like it's for people who don't know what they want or play headfuck games.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be on the point of sounding boring ....

DITTO

I'm not here to fire and forget

Swinging, to me, is as much about socialising and friendship, as it is about sex

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Loads of people prefer ongoing casual partners, so it's probably better to look for guys who state that this is what they want. Find them, rather than respond to guys who contact you.

And have social meets first, to help filter out the unsuitable.

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Why does guys looking for one offs put you off the whole site?

Why not just ignore them, and look for ones who are looking for the same thing as you?

For me, I'm just on here for one offs. So guys who are looking for regular meets aren't for me. But I just disregard them and look for someone who is into the same thing as me.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I enjoy sex but I find it off putting when I see guys who make it clear they only want one offs. I am thinking that this is not really for me, althpugh social one offs are great. I am now thinking of it is best to meet the same person on a monthly basis with the occasional other meet, whether socially or more.

How do others feel?"

Yes, I am doing the same, not really interested in one offs at all now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be on the point of sounding boring ....

DITTO

I'm not here to fire and forget

Swinging, to me, is as much about socialising and friendship, as it is about sex "

I hear what your saying

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I enjoy sex but I find it off putting when I see guys who make it clear they only want one offs. I am thinking that this is not really for me, althpugh social one offs are great. I am now thinking of it is best to meet the same person on a monthly basis with the occasional other meet, whether socially or more.

How do others feel?"

You must do exactly what you're most comfortable with it doesn't matter what anybody else thinks.

Making it clear that they only want one offs is a good thing because they're being up front about what they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most recently I'm actually enjoying Meeting friends off fab for socialising .It's been really nice lately .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be on the point of sounding boring ....

DITTO

I'm not here to fire and forget

Swinging, to me, is as much about socialising and friendship, as it is about sex "

This for me as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mostly use it for the forum really, it is comedy gold, if I find someone regular a long the way, that is a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe fab's real purpose is to justify a whole research team at Sidney University and to sell platinum memberships

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is about having loads of nsa one off sexual meets for us .

We are happy to meet a second time if it involves a different scenario though .

Definately not for social meets .

Definately not for regular meets with the same people.

But that's us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's for whatever you want it to be isn't it? Make it work for you

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"I enjoy sex but I find it off putting when I see guys who make it clear they only want one offs. I am thinking that this is not really for me, althpugh social one offs are great. I am now thinking of it is best to meet the same person on a monthly basis with the occasional other meet, whether socially or more.

How do others feel?"

I think that everyone should use the site how they want to.

We do. How we use it varies, at the moment we're only interested in meeting those we already know.

Sure that will change again at some point.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"It's for whatever you want it to be isn't it? Make it work for you "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Agree...it is about friendship too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who you are as to what its for.

For us, miss exploring her bi side plus enjoying the company of fellow couples both socially and sexually. I think to have a hand ful of regular social and play buddies is preferable. However that dont rule out the odd spontanious meet in a hotel with a bloke or a lady if we are already out in town?

For ohers it could be about endulging unusual kinks or fantasies and finding like minded people and for some it might just be a good place to just find NSA fun? We ALL want something different?

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's for whatever you want it to be isn't it? Make it work for you "

Surely this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's for whatever you want it to be isn't it? Make it work for you

Surely this. "

This whatever you want there will be someone else who wants the same. Happy hunting xx

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I prefer one offs but reading the many forum threads, I am more the exception than the norm these days.

Do your thing and enjoy

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I actually met a guy last week knowing whatever happened it would only be a one of as he wasnt from here usually they drift about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site is for what you want it to be for, if you want regular meets then make it clear you only want regular meets. and ignore those who clearly don't.

People use the site in different ways that suit them and that also can change through time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer one offs but reading the many forum threads, I am more the exception than the norm these days.

Do your thing and enjoy"

Tbh im coming round to this way of thinking

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

It's always been the same for me. I enjoy the forum mostly but also go to clubs and socials. If I find a nice fwb along the way that would be great but I've learnt that's unlikely or at least not 1 that isn't a master at rabbit in boiling water.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's always been the same for me. I enjoy the forum mostly but also go to clubs and socials. If I find a nice fwb along the way that would be great but I've learnt that's unlikely or at least not 1 that isn't a master at rabbit in boiling water. "

I prefer my rabbit roasted

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"It's always been the same for me. I enjoy the forum mostly but also go to clubs and socials. If I find a nice fwb along the way that would be great but I've learnt that's unlikely or at least not 1 that isn't a master at rabbit in boiling water.

I prefer my rabbit roasted "

I've never eaten 1 but Seen the cooking proses just puts me right off

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"It's for whatever you want it to be isn't it? Make it work for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer one offs but reading the many forum threads, I am more the exception than the norm these days.

Do your thing and enjoy"

I really don't think the forums are a good indicator of what the rest of the site does. You're not an exception at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever YOU want it to be for.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I prefer one offs but reading the many forum threads, I am more the exception than the norm these days.

Do your thing and enjoy

I really don't think the forums are a good indicator of what the rest of the site does. You're not an exception at all. "

very true

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By *unPeteMan
over a year ago

Near Bristol

I'm here for NSA sex as I decided after my divorce I didn't want to settle now immediately. 2 years later I'm still footloose and fancy-free.

So I enjoy one-offs but when things go well and I see the couple again (and become 'friends' then that is a big big bonus for me.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock


"Whatever YOU want it to be for."

People use the site in different ways and will do what is best for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer one offs but reading the many forum threads, I am more the exception than the norm these days.

Do your thing and enjoy

I really don't think the forums are a good indicator of what the rest of the site does. You're not an exception at all.

very true

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By *im le2Man
over a year ago

AYLESTONE

I pref regular meets its nice to know you Bothe want the same thing .

I still see one of the first ppl I ever had sex with over 40 years ago . Tho now its only about twice a year . Others I meet once or twice a month. .

Tho nothing wrong with one offs . Its nice to meet new ppl .

Plus don't all meets start as a one off . Only after that can you know if you want to meet again .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer one offs but reading the many forum threads, I am more the exception than the norm these days.

Do your thing and enjoy

I really don't think the forums are a good indicator of what the rest of the site does. You're not an exception at all. "

Yeah the fourumites are a very small percentage of fabs population, mist people don't bother with them, like I don't bother with the cams

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