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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I find myself once again facing a life changing decision, not of life or death proportions but its a big one.

I'm never sure how to tackle the big stuff, if I was going with my heart, it would be easy, but my heart has been wrong so many times I'm more inclined to trust my head.

It could impact my kids lives too, it could be uncomfortable for them for a while, or it could be the best thing ever, and it could be the best thing for me, its something I need to sleep on, but I'm going to check back here for inspiration in the morning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sleep well! The only bit of advice I'd give is : don't listen to the advice of strangers off a swingers forum!!

Good luck though fella, I'm sure you'll make the right choice for yourself and your family in time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sleep well! The only bit of advice I'd give is : don't listen to the advice of strangers off a swingers forum!!

Good luck though fella, I'm sure you'll make the right choice for yourself and your family in time "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think.... What would Ned do?

On a serious note sleep well and I am sure u already hold all the answers ... Do what is right by you and your kids chick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always follow your gut instinct

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

If in doubt, ask yourself what you would WISH you had done, when you get to be 80.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

If the pros out way the cons then go for it!

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe


"If the pros out way the cons then go for it! "

I was thinking write a list of pros and cons too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find myself once again facing a life changing decision, not of life or death proportions but its a big one.

I'm never sure how to tackle the big stuff, if I was going with my heart, it would be easy, but my heart has been wrong so many times I'm more inclined to trust my head.

It could impact my kids lives too, it could be uncomfortable for them for a while, or it could be the best thing ever, and it could be the best thing for me, its something I need to sleep on, but I'm going to check back here for inspiration in the morning."
I say think before you cross

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'll go for it, if I'm wrong the person its going to impact most is me, and I can deal with it if it goes tits up, the more I think about it the impact on my kids will be minimal, if I manage it properly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'll go for it, if I'm wrong the person its going to impact most is me, and I can deal with it if it goes tits up, the more I think about it the impact on my kids will be minimal, if I manage it properly"

difficult to comment when we don't know the situation, I guess with kids, a move is most feared if a new school is planned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I made a massive decision yesterday, one that would change my life for ever and one that I appear to have backing over, the only downside is daily cuddles from my little dude but should that one thing stop me? It's a tiny thing but has made me think 'maybe, I don't know'..I was so sure yesterday!!

But life changes and my little dude won't be so little shortly so do I stay for when that happens or do I do what I want to do and what's best for me? It's a hard choice

G x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I made a massive life changing decision approx 8 years ago.

The impact on my children and me was huge and very difficult to cope with and i spent many hours in tears once the change had happened.

However it was a good decision to make and the children soon came round to agreeing with it.

I went with my heart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not gonna offer advive i have no what the decision is. Only you know whats right for you. Good luck xx

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