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From a couple to a single

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Did you start your swinging adventure as a couple but if the relationship went tits up continue as a single, or would you if it was to happen to you. What about the other way around, if you're now a couple, how different is it from the swinging single life

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

I started years ago as a single. Whilst I've had one or two dabbles as a couple I now know (Whilst still open to the odd party or social as a pair) that ultimately I am a single guy and will always be.

No ifs buts, tears or cares - take me as I am or let me be for someone else to xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started swinging as a couple with my ex wife and have carried on as a single since we split up last year.

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By *inkershoes69Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

i started as a couple, now a single

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By *ne ShotMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Did you start your swinging adventure as a couple but if the relationship went tits up continue as a single, or would you if it was to happen to you. What about the other way around, if you're now a couple, how different is it from the swinging single life"

I play both ways as a single male and also as a couple with a fem friend given the choice i enjoy more the intamacy of one on one.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I started as a couple, became a TV/TS, became a single male when my partner dumped me for pinched her knickers and now I'm working toward becoming a lesbian.

...and for the dense or humourless some of that's not true by the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't play as a single, as I wouldn't be confident enough to be able to pull, although we are quite busy as a couple, lol.

Kate wouldn't play as a single.

We have both gone to parties and clubs together, and played as singles though, so work that one out

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By *ne ShotMan
over a year ago

Manchester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I started as a couple, became a TV/TS, became a single male when my partner dumped me for pinched her knickers and now I'm working toward becoming a lesbian.

...and for the dense or humourless some of that's not true by the way. "

What about the dull AND humourless ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Started and continued to have my single's profile, even when I was in a short relationship as a couple, and had a couple's profile.

The couple's profile was used mainly to post in events and socials threads, that's all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I originally joined as a couple, at his suggestion....I left, got rid of him, came back as a single and have had great fun ever since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I originally joined as a couple, at his suggestion....I left, got rid of him, came back as a single and have had great fun ever since "

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Good on you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yay me!

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

I've been in a relationship that we opened up but we played separately. Now well and truly single and not looking to settle down either, but if I did then I think I'd not have any problems playing together even though my ex-wife and I never did.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im not sure whether I could play as a single, to me the whole thrill of swinging is because its an adventure for the two of us. Maybe as time goes on we might decide to go to a club and play separately, its not planned and I dont think Id be happy to at the moment, but it maybe something we talk about and try at a later date. Im all for having new experiences.

If I was single, it sounds a nice thought to have a fellow female swinger friend so that we could hunt together

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

There are plenty of couples where either one person or both play separately as well as together. I wouldn't dare suggest that what happened in my case is applicable for them. Speaking solely about my situation it's fair to say that, with hindsight, we were doing it for the wrong reasons.

I didn't necessarily believe (or rather I preferred to not believe) that we'd fallen out of love at the time, and it was something we tried because we thought it would resolve the other issues we had. Turns out that didn't happen, but hey-ho... at least we tried.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes I can certainly understand that, thank you for your very honest and frank answer

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