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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I'm planning a date tomorrow with a girl way out of my league so it needs to be good. I don't have much money so can't be anything too expensive. She's said she would like to do something Random but she seems nice so I want to put abit of effort in. Maybe wrong place to put this bearing in mind the site but I wanted some ladies ideas of something they would like to do/appreciate on a first date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't put her on a pedestal, leagues don't exist you're setting yourself up for failure.

Take her to KFC

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Treat her as an equal and not someone you think is out of your league

. do something fun do you know what sort of things she enjoys

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cook her a meal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take her dogging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Take her dogging "

hehehe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Treat her as an equal and not someone you think is out of your league

. do something fun do you know what sort of things she enjoys "

^ voice of reason x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Is she about your age? If so what about taking her to park and pushing her on the swings and having a bag of chips on the way home. Only cause i like childish things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cook her an amazing meal at yours(if you can) put on some romantic music, then tell her you thought after yous could go bowling/to a beach, take a walk and ask her random as shit questions to get to know her, like taking turns etc walk her back to her place andif she gives the signs she had a good time(laughing/smiling alot/her complimenting the evening) then give her a kiss, not too full on but just enough to make her want more, dont expect sex and have fun! Our first few dates went something along those lines (along with Jack Daniels which lead to me almost breaking my shoulder and Mr giving me a back rub) and we're now 6years down the line! (That would be my perfect first date though if I had to do it again)

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If you want to do something romantic pick a flower on the way home and give it her.

There, youve got fun, food and romance for the price of a bag of chips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A pizza is nice with wine

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Go for a walk through a field of snowdrops or alongside a river or canal. Take a picnic and eat in on your car after the walk. Share a bottle of Wine ( one glass for the driver only ) chat, laugh, smile. Sorted !

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Take her on the Plymouth treasure trail. It's free. You have to solve the clues together so it will give you something to talk about without having to worry about what to say.

Maybe have a little treat ready for each correct answer, like a chocolate for one, a drink at the pub for another etc.

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

It's too cold for outdoorsy stuff. Find a nice country pub with a blazing log fire, and phone ahead to tip the barman to reserve you a table next to the fire.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Daytime or night?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drive or a nice walk somewhere. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aim for the moon my friend! If you miss you might just hit a star! It's all a matter of perspective, if you tell yourself she is out of your league she will pick up on it. She must like something or you wouldn't have even got a first date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she's more high maintenance and you're after a standard date, stick with the tried and tested dinner/drinks option.

If she's more chilled and you want something slightly different, feeding the ducks/aquarium visit - they're my favourite types of date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take her somewhere quiet, so that you can hear what she has to say, I would say, take her star gazing, swot up on the stars, and tell.her about them, this gives you an excuse to get close to her, wrap a blanket around yourselves, hold her close, and show her the wonders of the universe, and save all that money you would have spent o. A meal, and make an evening to remember instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

take her to a sauna or sex party and share n share alike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The zoo or a comedy club make for the best dates early on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The zoo or a comedy club make for the best dates early on."

I love comedy clubs but went on a first date recently and he sat there half laughing at everything (nerves maybe?) and after when we were chatting his jokes were abysmal. I think he was trying to live up to the comedians and just wasn't able to! So not so great for a first date in my opinion but a couple of dates down the line it's a brilliant idea!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Going to give geocaching a try around Plymouth. Should be fun.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Going to give geocaching a try around Plymouth. Should be fun. "

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Let us know how it goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take a flask of hot chocolate with you and some home made cookies or brownies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I'm planning a date tomorrow with a girl way out of my league so it needs to be good. I don't have much money so can't be anything too expensive. She's said she would like to do something Random but she seems nice so I want to put abit of effort in. Maybe wrong place to put this bearing in mind the site but I wanted some ladies ideas of something they would like to do/appreciate on a first date "
diamonds go down well ,just get a cheap one

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Take a flask of hot chocolate with you and some home made cookies or brownies. "

Uh, a bottle of White Lightening and a bag of Cheesy Puffs secured my last shag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go dogging. Dont be greedy, share her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meal at an Italian...always gets the juices flowing lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go dogging. Dont be greedy, share her."
and cheap well fuel I suppose

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Wait til it's in the summer time

Then if her daddy's rich take her out for a meal

If her daddy's poor just do what you feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's too cold for outdoorsy stuff. Find a nice country pub with a blazing log fire, and phone ahead to tip the barman to reserve you a table next to the fire."

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