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"We met on here about 4 years ago. Back then, you could put a meet up and be virtually guaranteed to have a response within 30 mins - it was fantastic. We have put 3 meets up over the last month with NIL result - 5 couples we have met via here have left the site (because they say it's now a waste of time for meets) - what has gone wrong? And before the usual 'deniers' start on here - piss off! - something's gone wrong and the genuine people want to know what ??" It works for us ![]() | |||
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"We met on here about 4 years ago. Back then, you could put a meet up and be virtually guaranteed to have a response within 30 mins - it was fantastic. We have put 3 meets up over the last month with NIL result - 5 couples we have met via here have left the site (because they say it's now a waste of time for meets) - what has gone wrong? And before the usual 'deniers' start on here - piss off! - something's gone wrong and the genuine people want to know what ?? It works for us ![]() hardly surprising as you are looking for single men | |||
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"OP you've posted this same crap over and over! We get it! The new kids aren't like the old ones, maybe its time to find a new hook rather than bumming out all the new members. " thanks | |||
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"We met on here about 4 years ago. Back then, you could put a meet up and be virtually guaranteed to have a response within 30 mins - it was fantastic. We have put 3 meets up over the last month with NIL result - 5 couples we have met via here have left the site (because they say it's now a waste of time for meets) - what has gone wrong? And before the usual 'deniers' start on here - piss off! - something's gone wrong and the genuine people want to know what ?? It works for us ![]() Does it say that on our profile ? yes we have met single men but mainly at socials | |||
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"OP you've posted this same crap over and over! We get it! The new kids aren't like the old ones, maybe its time to find a new hook rather than bumming out all the new members. thanks" Not wanting to be nasty but for 2 weeks now you've posted the same crap, move on if you're unhappy xx | |||
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"OP you've posted this same crap over and over! We get it! The new kids aren't like the old ones, maybe its time to find a new hook rather than bumming out all the new members. thanks Not wanting to be nasty but for 2 weeks now you've posted the same crap, move on if you're unhappy xx" this.... you get one chance to get a great first impression... if every post for the last 2 weeks has been negative, it doesn't scream fun fun fun!!! if someone isn't working for you.... change it rather than complain!!! nice to blame everyone else if it leaves you blameless... | |||
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"The beauty about being a couple is the fact that you can always fuck eachother. We only look for bi women, which is frankly a pain in the arse, but we fret not, cos we go fuck ourselves, before anyone can tell us to ![]() ![]() This. Meeting anyone else is an added extra. OP - We've not had any issues meeting others - it's limited time our end that we find makes it difficult. Sarah | |||
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"OP you've posted this same crap over and over! We get it! The new kids aren't like the old ones, maybe its time to find a new hook rather than bumming out all the new members. " Oh Happy I've never seen you be "stern" it's hot ![]() | |||
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"Have you got any unpushed boundaries left Glos ? " That's a great question Granny , and if we are honest there aren't many . Fortunately , there are plenty we have pushed which we are very happy to repeat , or push a little further though . ![]() | |||
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" And before the usual 'deniers' start on here - piss off! - something's gone wrong and the genuine people want to know what ??" So basically anyone who disagrees is a liar? | |||
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"We met on here about 4 years ago. Back then, you could put a meet up and be virtually guaranteed to have a response within 30 mins - it was fantastic. We have put 3 meets up over the last month with NIL result - 5 couples we have met via here have left the site (because they say it's now a waste of time for meets) - what has gone wrong? And before the usual 'deniers' start on here - piss off! - something's gone wrong and the genuine people want to know what ??" its just the constant turnover of people and different requirements ,people have gotten very restrictive about who they allow to contact them ,you never know who's who until you meet ,clubs are very expensive so not everyone can make that a regular thing and a lot of people don't want to chat and establish a connection also theirs an element of luck to it all right person or persons looking at same time as you ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"We met on here about 4 years ago. Back then, you could put a meet up and be virtually guaranteed to have a response within 30 mins - it was fantastic. We have put 3 meets up over the last month with NIL result - 5 couples we have met via here have left the site (because they say it's now a waste of time for meets) - what has gone wrong? And before the usual 'deniers' start on here - piss off! - something's gone wrong and the genuine people want to know what ??" If you're doing the same things as you always did but it's not working, then change what you do to see if your results improve. | |||
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"OP you've posted this same crap over and over! We get it! The new kids aren't like the old ones, maybe its time to find a new hook rather than bumming out all the new members. Oh Happy I've never seen you be "stern" it's hot ![]() Oh really? You've been bad too knitter, go to my room ![]() | |||
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"A lot can change in 4 years, mainly age. At 44 / 43 I'm guessing you would have been in a greater number of searches, age wise. I know the older I get on here my age may go against me a little but that's the way it is." nothing alters how attractive you are single females will always fair well here couples depending on what they want struggle if you're looking for a single woman that is always a difficult one ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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" what has gone wrong? And before the usual 'deniers' start on here - piss off! - something's gone wrong and the genuine people want to know what ??" Op, again? the 'whats gone wrong' is your perception, others are still enjoying the site but that doesn't make them in denial or deserving of being told to piss off.. your suggesting that others are not genuine as they dont share your particular point of _iew, maybe you need to think about that attitude.. perhaps concentrate as others do on putting your energy into meeting those whom for you are genuine, periodically moaning like a stroppy teenager is bizarre behaviour.. | |||
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"How can I put this delicately? Maybe you aren't as attractive to other people 4 years down the line? #justsayin ![]() ![]() ![]() It could be true though,I feel like that on the dating site I'm on. A few years ago I had a lot more messages,now I'm a wrinkly old nearly 49 year old the amount of messages has dropped ![]() | |||
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"I think over the years, the site has moved from a swingers site to a more adult entertainment /social site. Now that entertainment/social includes meets for sex, pic collecting, sexual chat/cams, titivation, and lots, lots more. It has evolved as all businesses should do to ensure revenues and return on investment for the owners." An excellent point . No doubt membership is up , and support too . This makes it a much more diverse place to be , but at the same time a bit frustrating for those who just want a meet and fuck site . Can't please all the people all the time ..... | |||
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"We can totally see where the op is coming from with this post . 5 years ago , when we first joined fab we would be inundated with meets - couples , single women and single guys . It was rare for a no show , and we figured this was easy - instashag if you like . 18 months later we left for a bit , and then rejoined and it was much as it was , but a few more no shows . Again we left after 18 months , and rejoined just over a year ago . This time it's very much more difficult to get a specific meet , and to be sure it will pan out . Especially with couples . Not sure why , but it's certainly not as it was before . To be honest we don't really care that much , as our likes have changed too over the years . We are so much more open to a variety of meets , so we rarely don't find one . But if we were just looking for couples we would have left long ago . It shouldn't really be so much hard work , yet that's what it's become . Perhaps because so many want to form friendships , have socials , chat for ages etc..... I don't know ? We are truly on fab to enjoy NSA sex with like minded people , fulfill some fantasies , and to push our boundaries . Perhaps for the majority of couples that's become a bit of a niche market now ? " ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"We met on here about 4 years ago. Back then, you could put a meet up and be virtually guaranteed to have a response within 30 mins - it was fantastic. We have put 3 meets up over the last month with NIL result - 5 couples we have met via here have left the site (because they say it's now a waste of time for meets) - what has gone wrong? And before the usual 'deniers' start on here - piss off! - something's gone wrong and the genuine people want to know what ??" When I saw the thread title I though I'd find the holy grail of Fab, the great unearthed secret, finally revealed. Instead it's you moaning about exactly the same thing you moaned about last time. And the time before I expect. You've had exactly the same thread feedback too. Perhaps it's not the rest of the site, perhaps the problem is closer to home. I'm a genuine member and I've never wondered "what's gone wrong" | |||
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"We can totally see where the op is coming from with this post . 5 years ago , when we first joined fab we would be inundated with meets - couples , single women and single guys . It was rare for a no show , and we figured this was easy - instashag if you like . 18 months later we left for a bit , and then rejoined and it was much as it was , but a few more no shows . Again we left after 18 months , and rejoined just over a year ago . This time it's very much more difficult to get a specific meet , and to be sure it will pan out . Especially with couples . Not sure why , but it's certainly not as it was before . To be honest we don't really care that much , as our likes have changed too over the years . We are so much more open to a variety of meets , so we rarely don't find one . But if we were just looking for couples we would have left long ago . It shouldn't really be so much hard work , yet that's what it's become . Perhaps because so many want to form friendships , have socials , chat for ages etc..... I don't know ? We are truly on fab to enjoy NSA sex with like minded people , fulfill some fantasies , and to push our boundaries . Perhaps for the majority of couples that's become a bit of a niche market now ? ![]() ![]() ![]() Agree If you use this site to meet 'genuine' nsa shaggers then you're probably on a road to nowhere, unless your leaning is toward single men or tv's then you'll probably be inundated lol. As old(ish) timers we can say that you have to change with the times and fashions. Be eclectic and you won't go wrong. Moderation in all things is a good path to follow. | |||
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"Try being a single male with standards on here... " I did...was good ![]() | |||
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"A lot can change in 4 years, mainly age. At 44 / 43 I'm guessing you would have been in a greater number of searches, age wise. I know the older I get on here my age may go against me a little but that's the way it is." No. You'll always be beautiful ![]() | |||
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"We met on here about 4 years ago. Back then, you could put a meet up and be virtually guaranteed to have a response within 30 mins - it was fantastic. We have put 3 meets up over the last month with NIL result - 5 couples we have met via here have left the site (because they say it's now a waste of time for meets) - what has gone wrong? And before the usual 'deniers' start on here - piss off! - something's gone wrong and the genuine people want to know what ?? When I saw the thread title I though I'd find the holy grail of Fab, the great unearthed secret, finally revealed. Instead it's you moaning about exactly the same thing you moaned about last time. And the time before I expect. You've had exactly the same thread feedback too. Perhaps it's not the rest of the site, perhaps the problem is closer to home. I'm a genuine member and I've never wondered "what's gone wrong"" ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Serves my purposes, everyone that I've met seems to have been genuine. " One was a cyborg sent by Sydney university...I'm not telling you who though ![]() | |||
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"I'm a single guy and do pretty well on here occasional negatives but women are unpredictable they confuse themselves sometimes ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Yeh but, no but lol xxxx ![]() | |||
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"We met on here about 4 years ago. Back then, you could put a meet up and be virtually guaranteed to have a response within 30 mins - it was fantastic. We have put 3 meets up over the last month with NIL result - 5 couples we have met via here have left the site (because they say it's now a waste of time for meets) - what has gone wrong? And before the usual 'deniers' start on here - piss off! - something's gone wrong and the genuine people want to know what ??" Well Ive put socials up for a drink and have never had a single reply so not sure people look, Don't women want a free drink these day lol ![]() | |||
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"I thought it was just hard to get a meet if you are like me, a single male. Women & couples don't seem to have a problem normally. As far as I know. ![]() I found it virtually impossible on a couples profile xx | |||
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"Serves my purposes, everyone that I've met seems to have been genuine. One was a cyborg sent by Sydney university...I'm not telling you who though ![]() It was one of Funky's fake profiles wasn't it ![]() | |||
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"I thought it was just hard to get a meet if you are like me, a single male. Women & couples don't seem to have a problem normally. As far as I know. ![]() I have major problems finding someone I would be interested in meeting - I haven't met in quite a few months now. | |||
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"We met on here about 4 years ago. Back then, you could put a meet up and be virtually guaranteed to have a response within 30 mins - it was fantastic. We have put 3 meets up over the last month with NIL result - 5 couples we have met via here have left the site (because they say it's now a waste of time for meets) - what has gone wrong? And before the usual 'deniers' start on here - piss off! - something's gone wrong and the genuine people want to know what ?? It works for us ![]() Doesn't matter what people are looking for, if they are successfully finding meets then the site is working for them | |||
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"We met on here about 4 years ago. Back then, you could put a meet up and be virtually guaranteed to have a response within 30 mins - it was fantastic. We have put 3 meets up over the last month with NIL result - 5 couples we have met via here have left the site (because they say it's now a waste of time for meets) - what has gone wrong? And before the usual 'deniers' start on here - piss off! - something's gone wrong and the genuine people want to know what ??" Taken from your meet post thread ok - 2 very attractive T girls confirmed - and maybe one other couple - please refer to meet on our profile - this will be a very raunchy night, so not for the faint-hearted lol x So not quite understanding why you moaning can't get meets yet state 3 days ago in a thread 2 people confirmed | |||
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"I thought it was just hard to get a meet if you are like me, a single male. Women & couples don't seem to have a problem normally. As far as I know. ![]() Can't see why. Women and couples seem to be running things on here. As far as meets go. ![]() | |||
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"I thought it was just hard to get a meet if you are like me, a single male. Women & couples don't seem to have a problem normally. As far as I know. ![]() ![]() No idea but didnt get one response xx | |||
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"Might well be different for guys but I've found the site has grown to suit me more the longer I use it and opportunities to meet certainly aren't rarer than a couple of years ago. Is that because of a change in the site? Maybe...or perhaps it's the way i use the site too. I like all aspects of what it offers so I'm entertained here, albeit not always playing. I don't know why your time here has taken a slide..maybe one thing..perhaps many. Evolution of the site, changes in demographic, your own changes over the years or any other thing that's been mentioned. Evolve with the site or if you can't and it pisses you off then try a different avenue. Different sites, clubs or whatever but I think either way the change will have to come from you as the whole site won't change to accomodate your preferences unfortunately. " ^^^ this for me too ![]() | |||
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"We met on here about 4 years ago. Back then, you could put a meet up and be virtually guaranteed to have a response within 30 mins - it was fantastic. We have put 3 meets up over the last month with NIL result - 5 couples we have met via here have left the site (because they say it's now a waste of time for meets) - what has gone wrong? And before the usual 'deniers' start on here - piss off! - something's gone wrong and the genuine people want to know what ??" I think you have a fair point. | |||
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