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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We met on here about 4 years ago. Back then, you could put a meet up and be virtually guaranteed to have a response within 30 mins - it was fantastic. We have put 3 meets up over the last month with NIL result - 5 couples we have met via here have left the site (because they say it's now a waste of time for meets) - what has gone wrong?

And before the usual 'deniers' start on here - piss off! - something's gone wrong and the genuine people want to know what ??

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"We met on here about 4 years ago. Back then, you could put a meet up and be virtually guaranteed to have a response within 30 mins - it was fantastic. We have put 3 meets up over the last month with NIL result - 5 couples we have met via here have left the site (because they say it's now a waste of time for meets) - what has gone wrong?

And before the usual 'deniers' start on here - piss off! - something's gone wrong and the genuine people want to know what ??"

It works for us

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

I'm doing fine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm doing fine "

lol - your status says otherwise !

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

We don't have a problem finding people to meet....we do have a problem with there being so many that we don't have enough time

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By *CCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Staines

We're doing well thanks. Maybe it's a Northern thing.........

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We met on here about 4 years ago. Back then, you could put a meet up and be virtually guaranteed to have a response within 30 mins - it was fantastic. We have put 3 meets up over the last month with NIL result - 5 couples we have met via here have left the site (because they say it's now a waste of time for meets) - what has gone wrong?

And before the usual 'deniers' start on here - piss off! - something's gone wrong and the genuine people want to know what ?? It works for us "

hardly surprising as you are looking for single men

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

When I stop enjoying the place the exits are clearly marked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you've posted this same crap over and over! We get it! The new kids aren't like the old ones, maybe its time to find a new hook rather than bumming out all the new members.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP you've posted this same crap over and over! We get it! The new kids aren't like the old ones, maybe its time to find a new hook rather than bumming out all the new members.

"

thanks

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york


"We met on here about 4 years ago. Back then, you could put a meet up and be virtually guaranteed to have a response within 30 mins - it was fantastic. We have put 3 meets up over the last month with NIL result - 5 couples we have met via here have left the site (because they say it's now a waste of time for meets) - what has gone wrong?

And before the usual 'deniers' start on here - piss off! - something's gone wrong and the genuine people want to know what ?? It works for us

hardly surprising as you are looking for single men "

Does it say that on our profile ? yes we have met single men but mainly at socials

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London


"I'm doing fine

lol - your status says otherwise ! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Things change and people change, I'm doing great and I'm meeting lots of fun and friendly people, sorry to quash your theory. Have you thought that it may be you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP you've posted this same crap over and over! We get it! The new kids aren't like the old ones, maybe its time to find a new hook rather than bumming out all the new members.

thanks"

Not wanting to be nasty but for 2 weeks now you've posted the same crap, move on if you're unhappy xx

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"OP you've posted this same crap over and over! We get it! The new kids aren't like the old ones, maybe its time to find a new hook rather than bumming out all the new members.

thanks

Not wanting to be nasty but for 2 weeks now you've posted the same crap, move on if you're unhappy xx"

this....

you get one chance to get a great first impression... if every post for the last 2 weeks has been negative, it doesn't scream fun fun fun!!!

if someone isn't working for you.... change it rather than complain!!! nice to blame everyone else if it leaves you blameless...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought of trying the club's?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

The beauty about being a couple is the fact that you can always fuck eachother. We only look for bi women, which is frankly a pain in the arse, but we fret not, cos we go fuck ourselves, before anyone can tell us to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The beauty about being a couple is the fact that you can always fuck eachother. We only look for bi women, which is frankly a pain in the arse, but we fret not, cos we go fuck ourselves, before anyone can tell us to "

This. Meeting anyone else is an added extra.

OP - We've not had any issues meeting others - it's limited time our end that we find makes it difficult.

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Patience is the key lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alot of people still get meets on here and bravo for them, but you are right fab has changed alot in the past 3years.

I'm nothing special but 3years ago I was getting minimum 1 meet a week max 3, but now I'm lucky if I even get a look on my profile unless it's gay guys trying to turn me.

Don't know what's wrong with fab but I do hope it goes back to normal soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP you've posted this same crap over and over! We get it! The new kids aren't like the old ones, maybe its time to find a new hook rather than bumming out all the new members.

"

Oh Happy I've never seen you be "stern" it's hot

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

You are now nearer 50 than 40 and don't seem to speak very nicely to people.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I am actually enjoying it more than I did 3 years ago but I am in a better place mentally - I am

Going to a club I like and there are a number of people that I want to play with but its just right time, right place issues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm doing fine "

I'm not surprised!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still enjoying a very hot wife and lover after 2 yrs.......no complaints.........

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

Maybe it's just that there are more members now so it's a more competitive market.

Also in that time you will have moved from some people’s age restrictions.

We've had great fun but we are not everyones cup of tea.

Been on here for at least 10 years not a huge amount has changed really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can totally see where the op is coming from with this post .

5 years ago , when we first joined fab we would be inundated with meets - couples , single women and single guys . It was rare for a no show , and we figured this was easy - instashag if you like .

18 months later we left for a bit , and then rejoined and it was much as it was , but a few more no shows . Again we left after 18 months , and rejoined just over a year ago .

This time it's very much more difficult to get a specific meet , and to be sure it will pan out . Especially with couples . Not sure why , but it's certainly not as it was before .

To be honest we don't really care that much , as our likes have changed too over the years . We are so much more open to a variety of meets , so we rarely don't find one . But if we were just looking for couples we would have left long ago .

It shouldn't really be so much hard work , yet that's what it's become . Perhaps because so many want to form friendships , have socials , chat for ages etc..... I don't know ?

We are truly on fab to enjoy NSA sex with like minded people , fulfill some fantasies , and to push our boundaries . Perhaps for the majority of couples that's become a bit of a niche market now ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Have you got any unpushed boundaries left Glos ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Maybe there are just MORE sites.

We all used the same supermarket at one time......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you got any unpushed boundaries left Glos ? "

That's a great question Granny , and if we are honest there aren't many .

Fortunately , there are plenty we have pushed which we are very happy to repeat , or push a little further though .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm doing fine

lol - your status says otherwise ! "

Maybe she's neglected the housework?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

And before the usual 'deniers' start on here - piss off! - something's gone wrong and the genuine people want to know what ??"

So basically anyone who disagrees is a liar?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We met on here about 4 years ago. Back then, you could put a meet up and be virtually guaranteed to have a response within 30 mins - it was fantastic. We have put 3 meets up over the last month with NIL result - 5 couples we have met via here have left the site (because they say it's now a waste of time for meets) - what has gone wrong?

And before the usual 'deniers' start on here - piss off! - something's gone wrong and the genuine people want to know what ??"

its just the constant turnover of people and different requirements ,people have gotten very restrictive about who they allow to contact them ,you never know who's who until you meet ,clubs are very expensive so not everyone can make that a regular thing and a lot of people don't want to chat and establish a connection also theirs an element of luck to it all right person or persons looking at same time as you

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"We met on here about 4 years ago. Back then, you could put a meet up and be virtually guaranteed to have a response within 30 mins - it was fantastic. We have put 3 meets up over the last month with NIL result - 5 couples we have met via here have left the site (because they say it's now a waste of time for meets) - what has gone wrong?

And before the usual 'deniers' start on here - piss off! - something's gone wrong and the genuine people want to know what ??"

If you're doing the same things as you always did but it's not working, then change what you do to see if your results improve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on and off here for 5 years and apart from the way I now run my profile, I don't think much has changed at all meet wise, not for a single woman, obviously cannot comment from a couples point of _iew.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

How can I put this delicately?

Maybe you aren't as attractive to other people 4 years down the line?

#justsayin

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Think it,s like waiting for a bus nothing then they all come at once we found that out on another site thats why we joined here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot can change in 4 years, mainly age.

At 44 / 43 I'm guessing you would have been in a greater number of searches, age wise.

I know the older I get on here my age may go against me a little but that's the way it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP you've posted this same crap over and over! We get it! The new kids aren't like the old ones, maybe its time to find a new hook rather than bumming out all the new members.

Oh Happy I've never seen you be "stern" it's hot"

Oh really? You've been bad too knitter, go to my room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot can change in 4 years, mainly age.

At 44 / 43 I'm guessing you would have been in a greater number of searches, age wise.

I know the older I get on here my age may go against me a little but that's the way it is."

nothing alters how attractive you are single females will always fair well here couples depending on what they want struggle if you're looking for a single woman that is always a difficult one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If everyone just sits around putting meets up nothing will ever happen.

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

It's getting better for me and I was happy enough with it to start with really.

I'll piss off now.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


" what has gone wrong?

And before the usual 'deniers' start on here - piss off! - something's gone wrong and the genuine people want to know what ??"

Op, again?

the 'whats gone wrong' is your perception, others are still enjoying the site but that doesn't make them in denial or deserving of being told to piss off..

your suggesting that others are not genuine as they dont share your particular point of _iew, maybe you need to think about that attitude..

perhaps concentrate as others do on putting your energy into meeting those whom for you are genuine, periodically moaning like a stroppy teenager is bizarre behaviour..

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"How can I put this delicately?

Maybe you aren't as attractive to other people 4 years down the line?

#justsayin "

It could be true though,I feel like that on the dating site I'm on. A few years ago I had a lot more messages,now I'm a wrinkly old nearly 49 year old the amount of messages has dropped

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I think over the years, the site has moved from a swingers site to a more adult entertainment /social site. Now that entertainment/social includes meets for sex, pic collecting, sexual chat/cams, titivation, and lots, lots more.

It has evolved as all businesses should do to ensure revenues and return on investment for the owners.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

and that will please many and others lesser so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think over the years, the site has moved from a swingers site to a more adult entertainment /social site. Now that entertainment/social includes meets for sex, pic collecting, sexual chat/cams, titivation, and lots, lots more.

It has evolved as all businesses should do to ensure revenues and return on investment for the owners."

An excellent point .

No doubt membership is up , and support too .

This makes it a much more diverse place to be , but at the same time a bit frustrating for those who just want a meet and fuck site .

Can't please all the people all the time .....

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

Bemoaning lack of success will certainly not help OP. Things may have changed for you personally, this in no way means it's affected anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me the site ebbs and flows. Sometimes it's great. Sometimes it drives me insane. I usually take a short break and return at a later date if it starts to annoy me.

It's a great site and I've met some lovely people on here so it must be doing something right

Digital media has come into its own over the past five years. This means there are more people using it to lead fake or fantasy lives. The changes in Fab are just a reflection of what's happening in the digital world as a whole

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We can totally see where the op is coming from with this post .

5 years ago , when we first joined fab we would be inundated with meets - couples , single women and single guys . It was rare for a no show , and we figured this was easy - instashag if you like .

18 months later we left for a bit , and then rejoined and it was much as it was , but a few more no shows . Again we left after 18 months , and rejoined just over a year ago .

This time it's very much more difficult to get a specific meet , and to be sure it will pan out . Especially with couples . Not sure why , but it's certainly not as it was before .

To be honest we don't really care that much , as our likes have changed too over the years . We are so much more open to a variety of meets , so we rarely don't find one . But if we were just looking for couples we would have left long ago .

It shouldn't really be so much hard work , yet that's what it's become . Perhaps because so many want to form friendships , have socials , chat for ages etc..... I don't know ?

We are truly on fab to enjoy NSA sex with like minded people , fulfill some fantasies , and to push our boundaries . Perhaps for the majority of couples that's become a bit of a niche market now ? "

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

well now all the fantasy wankers have a smart fone and access to the site is easy at any time or place ..so the sites full of them ..and that causes a problem for genuine people that do want to actually meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only problem we have is not having enough time for potential meets.

We have to decline 90% of offers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well what luck..! Some of you know what a moaning b'stard i am and my continual insinuations that the website is mostly faked so as it happens, i live in the greater manchester area and i would be more than willing to sort out a mutually agreeable meet with the OP. I will let the forum know how we get on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We met on here about 4 years ago. Back then, you could put a meet up and be virtually guaranteed to have a response within 30 mins - it was fantastic. We have put 3 meets up over the last month with NIL result - 5 couples we have met via here have left the site (because they say it's now a waste of time for meets) - what has gone wrong?

And before the usual 'deniers' start on here - piss off! - something's gone wrong and the genuine people want to know what ??"

When I saw the thread title I though I'd find the holy grail of Fab, the great unearthed secret, finally revealed.

Instead it's you moaning about exactly the same thing you moaned about last time. And the time before I expect.

You've had exactly the same thread feedback too.

Perhaps it's not the rest of the site, perhaps the problem is closer to home.

I'm a genuine member and I've never wondered "what's gone wrong"

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By *artytwoCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"We can totally see where the op is coming from with this post .

5 years ago , when we first joined fab we would be inundated with meets - couples , single women and single guys . It was rare for a no show , and we figured this was easy - instashag if you like .

18 months later we left for a bit , and then rejoined and it was much as it was , but a few more no shows . Again we left after 18 months , and rejoined just over a year ago .

This time it's very much more difficult to get a specific meet , and to be sure it will pan out . Especially with couples . Not sure why , but it's certainly not as it was before .

To be honest we don't really care that much , as our likes have changed too over the years . We are so much more open to a variety of meets , so we rarely don't find one . But if we were just looking for couples we would have left long ago .

It shouldn't really be so much hard work , yet that's what it's become . Perhaps because so many want to form friendships , have socials , chat for ages etc..... I don't know ?

We are truly on fab to enjoy NSA sex with like minded people , fulfill some fantasies , and to push our boundaries . Perhaps for the majority of couples that's become a bit of a niche market now ? "

Agree

If you use this site to meet 'genuine' nsa shaggers then you're probably on a road to nowhere, unless your leaning is toward single men or tv's then you'll probably be inundated lol.

As old(ish) timers we can say that you have to change with the times and fashions. Be eclectic and you won't go wrong.

Moderation in all things is a good path to follow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might well be different for guys but I've found the site has grown to suit me more the longer I use it and opportunities to meet certainly aren't rarer than a couple of years ago.

Is that because of a change in the site? Maybe...or perhaps it's the way i use the site too. I like all aspects of what it offers so I'm entertained here, albeit not always playing.

I don't know why your time here has taken a slide..maybe one thing..perhaps many. Evolution of the site, changes in demographic, your own changes over the years or any other thing that's been mentioned.

Evolve with the site or if you can't and it pisses you off then try a different avenue. Different sites, clubs or whatever but I think either way the change will have to come from you as the whole site won't change to accomodate your preferences unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try being a single male with standards on here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try being a single male with standards on here... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try being a single male with standards on here... "

I did...was good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have found this the best swingers site we have been on.

We don't have a problem getting a meet when we want one. More often than not, not enough time to meet everyone we want to!

No complaints from us x

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By *anklerMan
over a year ago

Suffolk


"A lot can change in 4 years, mainly age.

At 44 / 43 I'm guessing you would have been in a greater number of searches, age wise.

I know the older I get on here my age may go against me a little but that's the way it is."

No. You'll always be beautiful

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"We met on here about 4 years ago. Back then, you could put a meet up and be virtually guaranteed to have a response within 30 mins - it was fantastic. We have put 3 meets up over the last month with NIL result - 5 couples we have met via here have left the site (because they say it's now a waste of time for meets) - what has gone wrong?

And before the usual 'deniers' start on here - piss off! - something's gone wrong and the genuine people want to know what ??

When I saw the thread title I though I'd find the holy grail of Fab, the great unearthed secret, finally revealed.

Instead it's you moaning about exactly the same thing you moaned about last time. And the time before I expect.

You've had exactly the same thread feedback too.

Perhaps it's not the rest of the site, perhaps the problem is closer to home.

I'm a genuine member and I've never wondered "what's gone wrong""

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doing very nicely thank you....

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Serves my purposes, everyone that I've met seems to have been genuine.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

We never bother putting out meet requests on here..

We do very well in the club's which is what we prefer,

That also includes the club's we go to abroad.

Fab is not the be all place to meet for us xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a single guy and do pretty well on here occasional negatives but women are unpredictable they confuse themselves sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Serves my purposes, everyone that I've met seems to have been genuine. "

One was a cyborg sent by Sydney university...I'm not telling you who though

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)


"I'm a single guy and do pretty well on here occasional negatives but women are unpredictable they confuse themselves sometimes "

Yeh but, no but lol xxxx

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By *r jblMan
over a year ago

from parts unknown

I thought it was just hard to get a meet if you are like me, a single male.

Women & couples don't seem to have a problem normally. As far as I know.

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By *hrobinhoodMan
over a year ago

arnold, Nottingham


"We met on here about 4 years ago. Back then, you could put a meet up and be virtually guaranteed to have a response within 30 mins - it was fantastic. We have put 3 meets up over the last month with NIL result - 5 couples we have met via here have left the site (because they say it's now a waste of time for meets) - what has gone wrong?

And before the usual 'deniers' start on here - piss off! - something's gone wrong and the genuine people want to know what ??"

Well Ive put socials up for a drink and have never had a single reply so not sure people look, Don't women want a free drink these day lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought it was just hard to get a meet if you are like me, a single male.

Women & couples don't seem to have a problem normally. As far as I know. "

I found it virtually impossible on a couples profile xx

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Serves my purposes, everyone that I've met seems to have been genuine.

One was a cyborg sent by Sydney university...I'm not telling you who though "

It was one of Funky's fake profiles wasn't it

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I thought it was just hard to get a meet if you are like me, a single male.

Women & couples don't seem to have a problem normally. As far as I know. "

I have major problems finding someone I would be interested in meeting - I haven't met in quite a few months now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We met on here about 4 years ago. Back then, you could put a meet up and be virtually guaranteed to have a response within 30 mins - it was fantastic. We have put 3 meets up over the last month with NIL result - 5 couples we have met via here have left the site (because they say it's now a waste of time for meets) - what has gone wrong?

And before the usual 'deniers' start on here - piss off! - something's gone wrong and the genuine people want to know what ?? It works for us

hardly surprising as you are looking for single men "

Doesn't matter what people are looking for, if they are successfully finding meets then the site is working for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't seem to have issues, mind you having said that I've never put a meet request up.

I speak to women & couples who I'm into regularly and when an opportunity arises where it suits both - we meet! Fairly straight forward and simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We met on here about 4 years ago. Back then, you could put a meet up and be virtually guaranteed to have a response within 30 mins - it was fantastic. We have put 3 meets up over the last month with NIL result - 5 couples we have met via here have left the site (because they say it's now a waste of time for meets) - what has gone wrong?

And before the usual 'deniers' start on here - piss off! - something's gone wrong and the genuine people want to know what ??"

Taken from your meet post thread

ok - 2 very attractive T girls confirmed - and maybe one other couple - please refer to meet on our profile - this will be a very raunchy night, so not for the faint-hearted lol x

So not quite understanding why you moaning can't get meets yet state 3 days ago in a thread 2 people confirmed

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By *r jblMan
over a year ago

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"I thought it was just hard to get a meet if you are like me, a single male.

Women & couples don't seem to have a problem normally. As far as I know.

I found it virtually impossible on a couples profile xx"

Can't see why. Women and couples seem to be running things on here. As far as meets go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't seem to have issues"

Not surprising...hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought it was just hard to get a meet if you are like me, a single male.

Women & couples don't seem to have a problem normally. As far as I know.

I found it virtually impossible on a couples profile xx

Can't see why. Women and couples seem to be running things on here. As far as meets go. "

No idea but didnt get one response xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't seem to have issues

Not surprising...hot "

thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Might well be different for guys but I've found the site has grown to suit me more the longer I use it and opportunities to meet certainly aren't rarer than a couple of years ago.

Is that because of a change in the site? Maybe...or perhaps it's the way i use the site too. I like all aspects of what it offers so I'm entertained here, albeit not always playing.

I don't know why your time here has taken a slide..maybe one thing..perhaps many. Evolution of the site, changes in demographic, your own changes over the years or any other thing that's been mentioned.

Evolve with the site or if you can't and it pisses you off then try a different avenue. Different sites, clubs or whatever but I think either way the change will have to come from you as the whole site won't change to accomodate your preferences unfortunately.

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^^^ this for me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any meets we posted were all timewasters replying. Even at that point we maybe had a room booked & cld accommodate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on a different site for over three years, I'm grateful that someone I met told me about 'FAB'.

Having only joined a few months ago I am a very happy bunny as it's working out well for me..... So far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not the gospel, but 8 years ago once a meet was arranged it was rarely cancelled.. the word "time waster" was hardly in existence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We met on here about 4 years ago. Back then, you could put a meet up and be virtually guaranteed to have a response within 30 mins - it was fantastic. We have put 3 meets up over the last month with NIL result - 5 couples we have met via here have left the site (because they say it's now a waste of time for meets) - what has gone wrong?

And before the usual 'deniers' start on here - piss off! - something's gone wrong and the genuine people want to know what ??"

I think you have a fair point.

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