FabSwingers.com forum: Why don't guys read profiles properly!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This really infuriates me!! Surely read the complete profile before you send out a message!!! Or is that just my opinion! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This really infuriates me!! Surely read the complete profile before you send out a message!!! Or is that just my opinion! X"

No,thousands of other women have posted on the forums before you,bemoaning the exact same thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best joke of the night!

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

I can't read it's all the wanking

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

Because the pics are so good ??

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I still get messages asking to meet on this profile, lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No need to read profiles. Just send the ol' "gizzashagyabitch" cut n paste message to everyone within a 50 mile radius. Saves time and effort.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Guys don't even RTFM (read the fucking manual) why are they going to read a profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More interested in perving the pics it's human nature

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Some of us do in fact some that don't do the never ending rant and dos an don't can be really funny.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"This really infuriates me!! Surely read the complete profile before you send out a message!!! Or is that just my opinion! X"

The amusing thing is, of course, that the same men who don't read profiles are unlikely to be reading your post, whereas the goodly men who do, are. It's preaching to the converted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah like it's just the Men who don't read profiles

I get winks sent to me all the time even though I have it on my profile that I don't reply to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah sure, face pic Friday...and then Dave said....

Oh no, what's this thread about again? You know us men, don't read a thing

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

Because too much wanking makes them blind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most men do and some don't, unfortunately when your filters allow messages it will always happen

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Because too much wanking makes them blind.

Hurrah for wipeable touch screens, eh?

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"This really infuriates me!! Surely read the complete profile before you send out a message!!! Or is that just my opinion! X

No,thousands of other women have posted on the forums before you,bemoaning the exact same thing. "

It's not just SOME single men who don't read profiles. It's SOME couples and women too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't read profiles. I get bored after one paragraph

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a numbers game for guys though is it not?

I mean, i generally read them, but will admit sometimes you see someone and its like

And dick brain kicks in..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't read profiles. I get bored after one paragraph "

In all honesty, me too. If you can't get the key points across in a couple of short paragraphs, I've lost interest before I got to the end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its a numbers game for guys though is it not?

I mean, i generally read them, but will admit sometimes you see someone and its like

And dick brain kicks in.."

Yes but certain things they have said will always stop me from taking it any further no matter how good they look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of couples don't either

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"This really infuriates me!! Surely read the complete profile before you send out a message!!! Or is that just my opinion! X"

Surely search the forum for the millions of other threads on the same topic before ranting? Or is that just my opinion!

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By *oungladMan
over a year ago

Burnham

It's not just the girls who face this problem. I get messages from straight boys all the time even though I specifically say no straight guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same trouble with couples and some women too it seems

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

"It's not just the girls who face this problem. I get messages from straight boys all the time even though I specifically say no straight guys"

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't read profiles. I get bored after one paragraph

In all honesty, me too. If you can't get the key points across in a couple of short paragraphs, I've lost interest before I got to the end."

I skim read for things that will put me off. Like the phrase 'horny 24/7'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This really infuriates me!! Surely read the complete profile before you send out a message!!! Or is that just my opinion! X"

See.. its not just guys that dont read profiles, i dont read profiled too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't read it's all the wanking

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haaaaaaaa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its a numbers game for guys though is it not?

I mean, i generally read them, but will admit sometimes you see someone and its like

And dick brain kicks in..

Yes but certain things they have said will always stop me from taking it any further no matter how good they look "

No i agree with you. Not often but it has happened where i have messaged and then read after then thought.. ah maybe i shouldnt have.. but surly ladies arent new to the delete block functions

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

stockport

I empathise totally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They DO read profiles. I often get mail from men telling me they love my profile and pics. And that I'm beautiful/ gorgeous etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This really infuriates me!! Surely read the complete profile before you send out a message!!! Or is that just my opinion! X"

Fair enough. But it really infuriates ME that you say 'guys' not 'some guys', thus assuming we're all like that

How wrong can someone be!

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

"They DO read profiles. I often get mail from men telling me they love my profile and pics. And that I'm beautiful/ gorgeous etc.

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i promise I'll read it properly next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They DO read profiles. I often get mail from men telling me they love my profile and pics. And that I'm beautiful/ gorgeous etc.

i promise I'll read it properly next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another single female whinging thread?

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By *andy57TV/TS
over a year ago

york

It is amazing the number of guys who can not tell the difference between BI and STRAIGHT if only they have read the profile

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By *onkers 76Man
over a year ago

pontypool

Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but plenty of women don't read profiles as well just saying like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe the process goes something like this...

Join fab

Read profiles, taking notes, compose email containing humour and compliments which highlights shared interests and refers back to the content of the profile

Watch emails for two weeks until they are deleted unread

Skim read profiles, shorter email hinting at shared interests with best face pic attached

Watch emails for two weeks until they are deleted unread

Copy and paste "you look hot, fancy a fuck?" messages with cock pic attached

Watch messages for two weeks until they are deleted unread

Turn bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I believe the process goes something like this...

Join fab

Read profiles, taking notes, compose email containing humour and compliments which highlights shared interests and refers back to the content of the profile

Watch emails for two weeks until they are deleted unread

Skim read profiles, shorter email hinting at shared interests with best face pic attached

Watch emails for two weeks until they are deleted unread

Copy and paste "you look hot, fancy a fuck?" messages with cock pic attached

Watch messages for two weeks until they are deleted unread

Turn bi

Definitely this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They DO read profiles. I often get mail from men telling me they love my profile and pics. And that I'm beautiful/ gorgeous etc.

But Scarlet, you are....the fact your profile is black and all we can see are your boots is besides the point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I karnt reed ore rite....ore speel. Lays mi exkuise.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Another single female whinging thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This really infuriates me!! Surely read the complete profile before you send out a message!!! Or is that just my opinion! X"

Couples and females don't either it's becoming a standard thing to ignore profiles, send rude messages and when politely told "no thx" persistently keep messaging or send nasty messages until they block you!!

I just delete messages without even replying, if they send another message I block them! It's easier and less time consuming X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another single female whinging thread?

Variety matters so just let a woman have her turn it makes a welcome change from men complaining about how women monopolise the site and couples complaining about how rude men are ......... Not saying these things are true just saying they get lots of complaints xx

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Another single female whinging thread?

they can say what they like...

it changes nothing but if it makes the OP better for getting it out there, so be it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another single female whinging thread?

they can say what they like...

it changes nothing but if it makes the OP better for getting it out there, so be it."

True everyone needs to rant sometimes, it's a shame the negatives get aired more often than the positives! I'm sure most of us get more wanted attention than unwanted xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but plenty of women don't read profiles as well just saying like "

This is true. I can't be arsed to read long dull profiles. Yawn!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't understand why so many people moan about this. People won't read the whole profile, accept that. They may message but it is so easy to just not respond to the message. Minimal effort, much less than actually starting this thread bemoaning it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Nice pics'.. . 'fancy a fuck',' get yer tits ooot for the lads'

lol seems to be common. Btw can you accom. ? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't understand why so many people moan about this. People won't read the whole profile, accept that. They may message but it is so easy to just not respond to the message. Minimal effort, much less than actually starting this thread bemoaning it

Zero angst.

Unless utterly desperate for a fuck....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This really infuriates me!! Surely read the complete profile before you send out a message!!! Or is that just my opinion! X"
no its not just your opinion its been said a 1000 times but their are many reasons why this happens ,theyve seen your pic in public photos so messaged from that , they've already sent out 50 messages that day without any replies so have by that time given up looking at profiles ,they are horny,they just can't read or the profile is so long they just couldn't get to the end without falling asleep

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I would suggest sometimes people message straight from the forum and are replying to you direct. People do say things in the forum that doesn't always match up with what their profile says.....

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

Hi fellow Pop.

This is probably for me the single most fucking irritating thing about people on fab.

It drives me up the wall. The only thing I do about it is reply to the men who message advising that as they haven't read my profile they have no chance in hell. I used to ignore them but I figured maybe if I told them they might not treat the next woman with such disrespect!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've just updated my profile if anyone wants to read it. It's totally fascinating, alluring and ever so interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blind swingers ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This really infuriates me!! Surely read the complete profile before you send out a message!!! Or is that just my opinion! X"

I rarely read profiles if they are longer than mine..pot luck can be fun when sending a message.

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

People don't read ANY of the profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just have one line on your profile on saying your not meeting. That way when you get a message to say how brilliant your profile is you can get a giggle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because too much wanking makes them blind.

My tablet doesn't have brail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have probably said this before its because we don't read instructions we like to see how things work abd olay with the buttons before we do the tedious stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People don't read ANY of the profile!"

And how difficult is it to simply ignore the message.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I believe the process goes something like this...

Join fab

Read profiles, taking notes, compose email containing humour and compliments which highlights shared interests and refers back to the content of the profile

Watch emails for two weeks until they are deleted unread

Skim read profiles, shorter email hinting at shared interests with best face pic attached

Watch emails for two weeks until they are deleted unread

Copy and paste "you look hot, fancy a fuck?" messages with cock pic attached

Watch messages for two weeks until they are deleted unread

Turn bi

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

People don't read ANY of the profile!

And how difficult is it to simply ignore the message. "

Very. I'm tuned to reply to all my mail.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

First world problems!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This really infuriates me!! Surely read the complete profile before you send out a message!!! Or is that just my opinion! X"

Like in the same way that forum posters could read the forums before posting a thread?

Yeah,it just might work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe their thumbs are broken from all the jacking off so they can't scroll to the bottom of our profiles. Moving the profile text to the top of the page on mobile might help these lazy fucks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People don't read ANY of the profile!

And how difficult is it to simply ignore the message.

Very. I'm tuned to reply to all my mail. "

Then you bring it on yourself. People won't read them. You can't physically make them, neither can admin. It is something you actually have to get used to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stick filters on and go hunting yourself. Be the predator and not the prey!

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