FabSwingers.com forum: How many women?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have sent the first message to a guy they like only for the guy to say"sorry your not for me"?

Or words to that effect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you been drinking ??

Has happened

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I happens to me a fair bit.

There was one memorable one on a forum face pic swap where the response was along the lines of, No offense but... and I didn't get a picture.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have sent the first message to a guy they like only for the guy to say"sorry your not for me"?

Or words to that effect"

More times than I can remember! I think near enough all the messages I've sent.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you been drinking ??

Has happened

Not had a drop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No i havent. However i have no doubt its cause its rare i message first and even then i try to aim for guys who clearly say they like the lumpier figure xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has never happened to me, not on any site, and i went for some right hotties on POF. I'm starting to think men aren't fussy...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have sent the first message to a guy they like only for the guy to say"sorry your not for me"?

Or words to that effect

More times than I can remember! I think near enough all the messages I've sent.

Really,im suprised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have said it a few times myself,

Not reading profiles goes both ways

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Baring in mind guys seem to send the first messaged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never send the first message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't ever send the first message. .unless it's a forum game ... because I have a fear of rejection

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By *ayd2pinkTV/TS
over a year ago

TENTERDEN

"hic"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have sent the first message to a guy they like only for the guy to say"sorry your not for me"?

Or words to that effect

More times than I can remember! I think near enough all the messages I've sent.

Really,im suprised"

I know you not. It can get dis-heartening. Oh well!

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I don't think it's happened to me either, not that it's a brag, just that I don't message many people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just the once so far

ain no biggy though

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Have sent the first message to a guy they like only for the guy to say"sorry your not for me"?

Or words to that effect"

Yes it's happened on quite a few occasions.

I'm a big girl and can handle rejection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes me. Not in those words but I've had effectively that response before. I've also been deleted or ignored. I survived

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I wish more Women were more direct and told me I wasn't there type or using similar words, Dragging it out or avoiding the issue doesn't help anyone, Although not reading messages is a good sign

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have sent the first message to a guy they like only for the guy to say"sorry your not for me"?

Or words to that effect

More times than I can remember! I think near enough all the messages I've sent.

Really,im suprised

I know you not. It can get dis-heartening. Oh well! "

Oh, Ffs. Even auto carrot is rejecting me!! Lol. I kid you not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have sent the first message to a guy they like only for the guy to say"sorry your not for me"?

Or words to that effect"
its happened... We just said thanks and move on

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

Yeap, but you move on xx

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"Have sent the first message to a guy they like only for the guy to say"sorry your not for me"?

Or words to that effect"

On single profile, I sent a message to a guy, for him to delete no reply. Best thing when I look back as I wouldn't be on this profile now. Maria

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Looking at some of the ladies photos on here i find it hard to believe you have been rejected

Oh well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely send a message tbh. I did earlier today though and he replied phew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's happened to us quite a few times. We are perhaps a little different to what men might expect, but even so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, but then I rarely send first messages anyway x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, they just don't answer - exactly what they complain of women doing lmfao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep. It's happened to me. No big surprise and no big upset either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely send first messages but when I do the response is usually positive

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Yep. Or been deleted without further response. I can't say it's ever bothered me more than an exceedingly fleeting second or so of butthurt followed by a mental shrug.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not had that reply but I've been ignored & had messages deleted. I'm also friends with someone who hardly ever replies either, actually may have to rethink that one, but he is well cute *sigh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't ever send the first message. .unless it's a forum game ... because I have a fear of rejection

Very much this

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Have sent the first message to a guy they like only for the guy to say"sorry your not for me"?

Or words to that effect"

Yes.

It's fair enough for guys to say no thanks too.

I've also sent first messages to men and had no reply.

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

A few times, yes. And also read/unread deleted.

It's the way of social interaction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say no to most Women all the time they has to be slim and good looking for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope but I'm sure that's only cos I've never really messaged many guys first!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Its never happened. But sometimes the messages fizzle out or it becomes obvious we wont get on. Ive also never had a guy act cocky because ive messaged him first.

But i only message guys who have a full profile and face picture, so i can see the onea i think im most compatable with. They havent all ended in meets but a good success rate. Well one im happy with

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