FabSwingers.com forum: bareback - thrill seeking or lifestyle suicide??

By *BW38j OP Woman
over a year ago

Dudley/Telford

just wondered what makes people decide to take the risk?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some people dont get on with them but its not worth the risk and you will probably put others off if you play that way

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By *iteskinMan
over a year ago

Cardiff/Newport/Bristol/M4

dunno maybe its personal choice and some peeps have bb sex cos they been together or known each other a long time

but then its not just bb sex does every person who does oral use a rubber or femidom?? you would be suprised what you can catch in the mouth!

heres a question though..

just wondered what makes people shove vegetables up themselves is it the thrill or the risk of getting a ruptured something or other.....

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By *BW38j OP Woman
over a year ago

Dudley/Telford

"some people dont get on with them but its not worth the risk and you will probably put others off if you play that way"

never would but pestered constantly learnt to block now if they ask more than once they clearly arnt reading or listening

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By *BW38j OP Woman
over a year ago

Dudley/Telford

"dunno maybe its personal choice and some peeps have bb sex cos they been together or known each other a long time

but then its not just bb sex does every person who does oral use a rubber or femidom?? you would be suprised what you can catch in the mouth!

heres a question though..

just wondered what makes people shove vegetables up themselves is it the thrill or the risk of getting a ruptured something or other.....

just a kinky thrill if done carefully

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

you will get lots of thoughts if you do a forum search and enter 'bareback'... there are many threads on the subject and it usually creates lots of very different opinions.

for me.... it is safe sex but appreciate other's choice to do different, but I feel they owe it to future playmates to be upfront about that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you've been with someone a while and your both clean then I dont have a problem with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't do bareback but I've been stupid in the past I always play safe now and get checked every 3 months but barebackers have as much right to be on here if we don't like it then don't meet them

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By *BW38j OP Woman
over a year ago

Dudley/Telford

"I don't do bareback but I've been stupid in the past I always play safe now and get checked every 3 months but barebackers have as much right to be on here if we don't like it then don't meet them "

i agree each to their own it just made me think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only played bareback within a relationship. When swinging, condoms are mandatory but, if I was honest, I don't really get on with them very well - I do use them but it's like having a bath with your socks on to be blunt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely anyone who has played bareback will be dead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just wondered what makes people decide to take the risk?

Probably the same type of thrill people get doing Extreme Sports, were the next risk you take may be your last.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just wondered what makes people decide to take the risk?

The same reason why people decide to live a promiscuous lifestyle but some how like to take the moral high ground about how others in the scene conduct their business!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone on here who meets anyone else is taking some 'risk'...be that with their sexual health or be it their safety. It's for each of us to decide how much risk we are willing to accept.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"dunno maybe its personal choice and some peeps have bb sex cos they been together or known each other a long time

but then its not just bb sex does every person who does oral use a rubber or femidom?? you would be suprised what you can catch in the mouth!

heres a question though..

just wondered what makes people shove vegetables up themselves is it the thrill or the risk of getting a ruptured something or other.....

cucumbers are the most thoughtful veg and always practice safe sex in their little polythene sleeves.... those carrots and parsnips are just plain thoughtless

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"just wondered what makes people decide to take the risk?

Their personal choice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely anyone who has played bareback will be dead

Well I've risen from the dead then

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

cucumbers are the most thoughtful veg and always practice safe sex in their little polythene sleeves.... those carrots and parsnips are just plain thoughtless"

Them carrots and parsnips are just slappers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just wondered what makes people decide to take the risk?

I took the risk because I wanted to would I now probably not but do I practice safe oral sex no so if I catch something then it's my responsibility.

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By *BW38j OP Woman
over a year ago

Dudley/Telford

"just wondered what makes people decide to take the risk?

The same reason why people decide to live a promiscuous lifestyle but some how like to take the moral high ground about how others in the scene conduct their business!

seriously not judging was just wondering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never thought you was sweets it's a good thread some in one corner some in the other I stay in the middle on this subject as I've done it

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

cucumbers are the most thoughtful veg and always practice safe sex in their little polythene sleeves.... those carrots and parsnips are just plain thoughtless

Them carrots and parsnips are just slappers

on the other hand,they could be considered,one of you'r,five a day.

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

It seems far too much is assumed on this subject...

People do bare-back for the thrill of the risk? Or maybe they believe that the risks are not much higher in light of all the other sexual activities that occur.

Bare-back is playing Russian Roulette...

A gun with one round and six chambers in simplistic terms is six to one. In previous posts on this subject I seem to remember someone posting stats saying that the odds of acquiring HIV from an infected person are 1000 to 1. So if I had to choose one, have sex with an HIV infected person or put gun to my head and pull the trigger, I'll take the shag.

The government and the media have convinced pretty much everyone that if you have sex with out a condom you will die or at least catch a multitude of nasty diseases, so perhaps the answer to your question is...

Bare-backers have not fallen victim to government brainwashing. Whatever the true answer it still remains to be very ironic that some swingers will take the moral high-ground while the fact of swinging totally defies a fundamental principal of 'safe sex' which is DO NOT be sexually promiscuous

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

I seem to remember someone posting stats saying that the odds of acquiring HIV from an infected person are 1000 to 1.

On another well known Uk swinging site they stated, very clearly that to date and according to official information...only two people have ever died from aids via swinging...what a load of misleading bollocks...are they honestly suggesting that they publish surveys taking from dying victims of the disease???

I dont think the 'government have convinced everyone' that having unprotected sex is a death sentence..its not 'brainwashing either'..they are just tryng to make people aware..teenagers certainly dont bother bagging up much..and how many people would insist on asking for their new partner of say a few months to get checked out for any nasties before they have sex for the first time..

I have heard people say 'you just have to use common sense and be careful who you go with'...as if only 'rough types' have the monopoly on STD's...

6-1 or 1000-1...no wonder a lot of swingers are good pokers players!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just wondered what makes people decide to take the risk?

The same reason why people decide to live a promiscuous lifestyle but some how like to take the moral high ground about how others in the scene conduct their business!

seriously not judging was just wondering. "

Didn't say you were: I was answering your question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It still remains to be very ironic that some swingers will take the moral high-ground while the fact of swinging totally defies a fundamental principal of 'safe sex' which is DO NOT be sexually promiscuous

My point exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seem to remember someone posting stats saying that the odds of acquiring HIV from an infected person are 1000 to 1.

I have heard people say 'you just have to use common sense and be careful who you go with'...as if only 'rough types' have the monopoly on STD's...

6-1 or 1000-1...no wonder a lot of swingers are good pokers players!!

There are lots of cases of female-to-female HIV transmission, you never hear of this much though, doesn’t that tell us all something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

peeps into the thread,

I don't do it, don't want to do it, but what other people choose to do is up to them. Not for me to comment.

slips out before anyone can shout at me

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

I dare say you could be right that the government are just trying to make the public aware, so maybe the brain-washing is self-induced

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen only one profile on here admiting they had a STD and was unable to play until it was cleared up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own...

I see the attraction of the idea, BB enhances an experience, certainly physically, however it has it's risks for sure!

Personally any meet I have is protected, if whoever I meet with doesn't want that then I politely decline to go any further.

But that'smy choice, not everyone's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And that's what it's about personal choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And.......and.......

Not cleaning "toys" well can leads to infections etc.

especially when played with at clubs and passed around.

Which ive seen may a time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own. We're all adults. I just feel bad for partners of the unfaithful. They don't get a say in the matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just feel bad for partners of the unfaithful. They don't get a say in the matter.

Hear hear!

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By *iteskinMan
over a year ago

Cardiff/Newport/Bristol/M4

i guess everyone sucks dicks with a condom on too

or eats pussy with a femidom on as well

do people really think that just bareback fucking is the only way to catch something??

to stay safe just fuck in bin liners and rub against each other

or drive on the M1 at 95 miles an hour and see which one your more likely to die from!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After all the posts, i think i will stick to wanking..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After all the posts, i think i will stick to wanking..lol

am wanking as we speak lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think those that choose to do it, do it because lets face it, it feels better..

Some like the feeling, some like the way it feels when they cum in, or get filled...

I used to ride big fast bikes, I didnt do it for the thrill really, I did it because I loved it, I loved the freedom it gave me..

However, I raced cars for the buzz it gave me and still do when I get the chance.. nothing better than bringing the revs up, and flooring it..and seeing if I can get the times down on a track day.

On a bike I have done in excess of 160mph.. now thats a thrill.. but one I am aware that the slightest thing could have killed me.

Its all about calculated risk...

I play safe during sex... but I dont with oral.. (which to be fair is almost as risky)

Katie. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet no one here plays safe with oral if you do put your hands up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I bet no one here plays safe with oral if you do put your hands up

I actually had a guy the other day for the first time ever say he only does oral with condoms... I was shocked.. lol

Katie. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I bet no one here plays safe with oral if you do put your hands up

Don't have time, too busy preaching about barebacking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I sometimes do use condoms with oral and sometimes don't have I ever caught anything no. I know that cause my mouth ain't dropped off yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well maybe just lucky then, because one thing I do know is that risk assessments and statistics on things like STD’s and even smoking related deaths are flawed, and as someone who used to input such statistics on a daily basis its clear to even silly old me that many are flawed and most just assume the cause, so my experience is that nobody knows the actual risks we take with oral because the statistics always blame penetrative sex and in most cases when oral has taken place so has penetrate sex, so the latter is always flagged as the cause.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree and when by mouth falls off and my knob turns green I will tell you all and tell you about the evils of sex and sex should be banned

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

i think swinging is a gambling risk in its own weather u go bareback or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i think swinging is a gambling risk in its own weather u go bareback or not"

That's it in a nutshell, however, some can't seem to grasp that.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"I agree and when by mouth falls off and my knob turns green I will tell you all and tell you about the evils of sex and sex should be banned

oral sex is just as dangerous.

wouldn't be the first time,my knobs

ended up,having a really bad cough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree and when by mouth falls off and my knob turns green I will tell you all and tell you about the evils of sex and sex should be banned

oral sex is just as dangerous.

wouldn't be the first time,my knobs

ended up,having a really bad cough.

Poor knob shall I kiss it better?

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"I agree and when by mouth falls off and my knob turns green I will tell you all and tell you about the evils of sex and sex should be banned

oral sex is just as dangerous.

wouldn't be the first time,my knobs

ended up,having a really bad cough.

Poor knob shall I kiss it better?

cough cough,no biting.

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

A non swinging mate of mine actually caught Thrush (the infection not the bird!

) from a woman he picked up in a pub. He had to go to the doctors and he said that the Doc could guess how he had caught it. He (the mate) asked his lady friend about it and she confirmed she had an itch and some other problems "down below" for a while!

It maybe a minor infection, but it does kinda illustrate how easy it is!

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"A non swinging mate of mine actually caught Thrush (the infection not the bird!

thrush often happens,if the female has been using,antibiotics,for any reason.

i think,the antibiotic,kills off the good bacteria,as well as bad.

how this manifests itself as thrush,i don't know.

It maybe a minor infection, but it does kinda illustrate how easy it is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A non swinging mate of mine actually caught Thrush (the infection not the bird!

It maybe a minor infection, but it does kinda illustrate how easy it is!

All the time I have been swinging I have caught nothing more than the common cold so your more likely to catch something on a friday night in the back of a car with some chav you picked up then swinging.

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By *iteskinMan
over a year ago

Cardiff/Newport/Bristol/M4

hows this..

i have worked in the adult industry for over ten years

i meet with and know 100s of people also in the industry

99% of them get tested as often as they can usually every 3 weeks or so

i have heard and seen and talked about just about every infection there is going

mouth infections are HUGE!! be it gon or herpes etc

the point i am trying to make is this..

all one person can do is look after one persons self as in get tested as often as possible.Do not assume that using condoms for penetration you aint gonna get something you are DEAD wrong!

dont worry what other people do just look after your own stall..that way if or when you do catch something you will know it wasnt YOU that passed it on!

as a side note..how many people posting on this thread can hand on heart say they are regularly tested???

my hand is on mine!

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"hows this..

i have worked in the adult industry for over ten years

i meet with and know 100s of people also in the industry

99% of them get tested as often as they can usually every 3 weeks or so

i have heard and seen and talked about just about every infection there is going

mouth infections are HUGE!! be it gon or herpes etc

the point i am trying to make is this..

all one person can do is look after one persons self as in get tested as often as possible.Do not assume that using condoms for penetration you aint gonna get something you are DEAD wrong!

dont worry what other people do just look after your own stall..that way if or when you do catch something you will know it wasnt YOU that passed it on!

as a side note..how many people posting on this thread can hand on heart say they are regularly tested???

my hand is on mine!

Rentboy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every 3 months for me _iteskin I also watch who I sleep with too some will sleep with anything on here

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By *iteskinMan
over a year ago

Cardiff/Newport/Bristol/M4

hilarious that someone such as yourself would try to make a joke out of something as serious or not as this post

some people really should say fuck all if they have nothing decent to say on the thread post but yet again a year long member with all of 3!!! verifications chooses to spout shite

get a life

everyone else out there just be careful and watch ya own back yard

"hows this..

i have worked in the adult industry for over ten years

i meet with and know 100s of people also in the industry

99% of them get tested as often as they can usually every 3 weeks or so

i have heard and seen and talked about just about every infection there is going

mouth infections are HUGE!! be it gon or herpes etc

the point i am trying to make is this..

all one person can do is look after one persons self as in get tested as often as possible.Do not assume that using condoms for penetration you aint gonna get something you are DEAD wrong!

dont worry what other people do just look after your own stall..that way if or when you do catch something you will know it wasnt YOU that passed it on!

as a side note..how many people posting on this thread can hand on heart say they are regularly tested???

my hand is on mine!

Rentboy?

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Chill out.....

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By *iteskinMan
over a year ago

Cardiff/Newport/Bristol/M4

i,m chilled wanna rent me??

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"i,m chilled wanna rent me??

Ok....have some small change in my coat pocket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i,m chilled wanna rent me??

You'd be too expensive do you take American express? X

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By *iteskinMan
over a year ago

Cardiff/Newport/Bristol/M4

bankers draft or black card only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"bankers draft or black card only"

See I knew it too classy for me I'll go back to men in drag they are free

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

One year membership and three verifications... does one need to be 'qualified' in some way to post comments in these forums?

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By *iteskinMan
over a year ago

Cardiff/Newport/Bristol/M4

qualified?? no dont think so

talk about what the thread is about yes i would think so

way too many people send topics OFF topic dont you think???!!!

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"qualified?? no dont think so

talk about what the thread is about yes i would think so

way too many people send topics OFF topic dont you think???!!!"

Is there a rule about keeping threads on topic then?.......Must have missed that one.

And since when has it been a rule to post all of your verifications on your profile?

Maybe you should post a definitive guide to rules you think we should all keep to.....I'd buy it!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

" ... but yet again a year long member with all of 3!!! verifications chooses to spout shite..."

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By *agman n angelCouple
over a year ago

benidorm

bareback = pure stupidity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A non swinging mate of mine actually caught Thrush (the infection not the bird!

It maybe a minor infection, but it does kinda illustrate how easy it is!

but thrush occurs naturally in both men and women and isnt considered to be an STI so how would any doctor know that a man with thrush had "caught" it from a sexual partner and not just developed it naturally?

i had to cancel a meet due to a bout of thrush recently and the bloke hasnt spoken to me since - some fellas really need to educate themselves i reckon!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every thread I read goes off topic _iteskin it's just forums for you. Love them or hate them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"bareback = pure stupidity"

All bareback or do you do safe oral sex too?

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By *agman n angelCouple
over a year ago

benidorm

anyone who has intercourse of any persuasion is acting stupidly, our opinion make of it what you will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So can I get this right oral your always safe use vaginal femdom and make the male wear a condom when you have oral sex?

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By *agman n angelCouple
over a year ago

benidorm

get it which ever way you like pet in our opinion and the clue was in what we replied to you, anyone who has intercourse bareany further back is stupid.

got it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"get it which ever way you like pet in our opinion and the clue was in what we replied to you, anyone who has intercourse bareany further back is stupid.

got it?

One I'm not a pet and yes I got it my point being you can catch more than enough stds through oral as with intercourse

Woof woof xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A non swinging mate of mine actually caught Thrush (the infection not the bird!

It maybe a minor infection, but it does kinda illustrate how easy it is!

i had to cancel a meet due to a bout of thrush recently and the bloke hasnt spoken to me since - some fellas really need to educate themselves i reckon!"

A woman can have thrush in a 'dormant' way for ages and then if disturbed can go bizzare.

Men are actually cleaner - well most !

Only had thrush once in my life and nothing else at all.

Get checked regular too.

The BB thing aint the 'done' thing usually in swinging but many reasons people do.

Aids is the killer - can be tested on the spot prior to play for events where necessary.

Other STD's easily treated with anti - biotics as a rule.

Each to their own.

But anyone who has sex in any way shape or form should get tested regularly.

Swinging can increase the risk due to numbers of.

Condoms only minimise the risk and seen as a mark of respect and can present a false peace of mind that all are safe.These people should still get tested though as said above it aint just being in it to win it.

If anyone on here could honestly say that all their 'safesex' meets were condoms - gloves - and what ever them things are you put on your tongue I'd be shocked.

Don't forget your goggles too !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"some people dont get on with them but its not worth the risk and you will probably put others off if you play that way

never would but pestered constantly learnt to block now if they ask more than once they clearly arnt reading or listening

Maybe your pestered because you have a picture of a condom-less black cock going in your bum? I haven't heard of many others being pestered constantly for bareback here and i have met a fair few.

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By *iteskinMan
over a year ago

Cardiff/Newport/Bristol/M4

i could give a flying fcuk about rules lol i will let you write that book,sign it and sell copies at erotica i,m sure you have a season ticket there

"qualified?? no dont think so

talk about what the thread is about yes i would think so

way too many people send topics OFF topic dont you think???!!!

Is there a rule about keeping threads on topic then?.......Must have missed that one.

And since when has it been a rule to post all of your verifications on your profile?

Maybe you should post a definitive guide to rules you think we should all keep to.....I'd buy it!"

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

"just wondered what makes people decide to take the risk?

Well its not really about risk even those wearing condoms are "at risk" just not at as much risk as those who dont wear condoms ,that surely is down to the individuals.

About 2 years ago in one of the early debates on this subject, a couple on here decided to number crunch the latest Govt figures and the results were interesting.

Generally ,if you assume that everyone who has HIV informed you,the odds of contracting the illness is 3 million to one ,if you assume they do not tell you or do not know the odds drop to 1 million to one. There were Hot spots and cold spots in some area's of society.

Running along side those figures were the success rate of condoms, manufacturers are allowed a 0.4% failure rate before product recall giving us 4000 faulty condoms per million produced,also the 98% success rate of condoms is a manufacturers figure and not accurate ,latest figures are reporting success rates as low as 85%. Despite this the powers that be in Europe believe you are 3 times safer with a condom than without one on ,the US govt stats say 5 times safer.

Condoms only protect against fluid based infections and do not protect against hpv.

I have looked at the risks and decided for me, the best i can do to protect myself is to wear a condom,however i certainly wont condem anyone who doesnt,they have looked at the risk factors and decided to take that risk and providing they are honest about it fine.

For me the real danger is the ignorance of people who think a condom is a fast fix and by using them they are completely safe,for its those people who will rarely go and get checked out.

PS)Hiv tests requires 2 tests the first test can only say you have not developed the markers yet,the second test 3 months later can then state with some certainty if you have or not ,(assuming you have abstained of course)

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By *zcplCouple
over a year ago

bristol

"does every person who does oral use a rubber or femidom?? you would be suprised what you can catch in the mouth!"

Femidom's are not used for oral sex, they are used instead of a condom. To be honest they look like a plastic bag that you insert into the virgina. They wouldn't protect you in oral sex....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For meets its safe sex all the way for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is fuck and fcuk the same thing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"some people dont get on with them but its not worth the risk and you will probably put others off if you play that way

never would but pestered constantly learnt to block now if they ask more than once they clearly arnt reading or listening

Maybe your pestered because you have a picture of a condom-less black cock going in your bum? I haven't heard of many others being pestered constantly for bareback here and i have met a fair few.

touche !!!!!

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By *agman n angelCouple
over a year ago

benidorm

"i could give a flying fcuk about rules lol i will let you write that book,sign it and sell copies at erotica i,m sure you have a season ticket there

qualified?? no dont think so

talk about what the thread is about yes i would think so

way too many people send topics OFF topic dont you think???!!!

Is there a rule about keeping threads on topic then?.......Must have missed that one.

And since when has it been a rule to post all of your verifications on your profile?

Maybe you should post a definitive guide to rules you think we should all keep to.....I'd buy it!

oh btw lite thanks for the wink but we are not interested as you would realise had you read our profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhhhhhhhh

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By *iteskinMan
over a year ago

Cardiff/Newport/Bristol/M4

thats ok i winked you cos i like your posts

i can clearly read that your not into black guys...yes i can read lol

"i could give a flying fcuk about rules lol i will let you write that book,sign it and sell copies at erotica i,m sure you have a season ticket there

qualified?? no dont think so

talk about what the thread is about yes i would think so

way too many people send topics OFF topic dont you think???!!!

Is there a rule about keeping threads on topic then?.......Must have missed that one.

And since when has it been a rule to post all of your verifications on your profile?

Maybe you should post a definitive guide to rules you think we should all keep to.....I'd buy it!

oh btw lite thanks for the wink but we are not interested as you would realise had you read our profile"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must hate my posts I didn't get a wink lol

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

"Must hate my posts I didn't get a wink lol"

Great post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Must hate my posts I didn't get a wink lol

Great post

well I never they got one I didn't I call that discrimination

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

In a public toilet recently right next to me was a condom dispensing machine. It had like 9 different condoms to choose from but the 10th choice was 'Anadin; so that's got to be the safest option 'not tonight dear, I have a headache'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ha ha and I bet some thicko brought them thinking it was a johnny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i cant understand why people bareback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can and they will it's called choice and freedom and it's up to them.

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

"but thrush occurs naturally in both men and women and isnt considered to be an STI so how would any doctor know that a man with thrush had "caught" it from a sexual partner and not just developed it naturally?

i had to cancel a meet due to a bout of thrush recently and the bloke hasnt spoken to me since - some fellas really need to educate themselves i reckon!"

I don’t know why I am answering this really, but here goes…

His doctor guessed because he had told his doctor that he is a swinger! He believed it best for his Doc to know in case something happened and it had a bearing on it!! (Our Doc knows too!)

And whether you like it or not, Thrush can be transmitted sexually and therefore can be termed a “Sexually Transmitted Disease”!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did not know that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After the birth of my middle daughter by caesarian section the wound broke down and I was put on a course of antibiotics. I was breast feeding and she developed thrush in her mouth from me, although I didn't have it.

It's present in our body.

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over a year ago

i had to cancel a meet due to a bout of thrush recently and the bloke hasnt spoken to me since - some fellas really need to educate themselves i reckon!

I don’t know why I am answering this really, but here goes…

His doctor guessed because he had told his doctor that he is a swinger! He believed it best for his Doc to know in case something happened and it had a bearing on it!! (Our Doc knows too!)

And whether you like it or not, Thrush can be transmitted sexually and therefore can be termed a “Sexually Transmitted Disease”!!!

nonsense..from std.co.uk

Thrush is an infection caused by the yeast-like fungus Candida albicans , or sometimes by other types of Candida.

Although not considered a sexually transmitted disease, many women suggest sex may irritate the vagina and allow Thrush to grow more than usual.

Candidiasis, commonly called yeast infection or thrush, is not classified as an STD. It is a fungal infection of any of the Candida species.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know an ex of mine got it from using perfumed soaps so had to start using simple soap

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Thrush is a common side effect of taking antibiotics…. even the antibiotics used to treat some STI’s.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

There are mulitiple variations of thrush....some passed on through sexual contact but most not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So is it classed as an STD then ?

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"Thrush is a common side effect of taking antibiotics…. even the antibiotics used to treat some STI’s."

Absolutely right....

It's very common for hospital patients to experience thrush while being treated or recovering on ward.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

i had to cancel a meet due to a bout of thrush recently and the bloke hasnt spoken to me since - some fellas really need to educate themselves i reckon!

I don’t know why I am answering this really, but here goes…

His doctor guessed because he had told his doctor that he is a swinger! He believed it best for his Doc to know in case something happened and it had a bearing on it!! (Our Doc knows too!)

And whether you like it or not, Thrush can be transmitted sexually and therefore can be termed a “Sexually Transmitted Disease”!!!

It's not a disease, it's an infection.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

It's not an STD it's an STI.....Known as Fungal Thrush

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Infection:

1. invasion and multiplication of microorganisms in body tissues, especially that causing local cellular injury due to competitive metabolism, toxins, intracellular replication, or antigen-antibody response.

Disease:

1. a disordered or incorrectly functioning organ, part, structure, or system of the body resulting from the effect of genetic or developmental errors, infection, poisons, nutritional deficiency or imbalance, toxicity, or unfavorable environmental factors; illness; sickness; ailment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck knows how its a sexually transmitted infection, my nan got it in hospital at 91

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"Fuck knows how its a sexually transmitted infection, my nan got it in hospital at 91"

I’d be more worried about cases on the paediatric ward.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"I know an ex of mine got it from using perfumed soaps so had to start using simple soap "

That wasn't thrush, that was Contact Dermatitis....often caused by sensitivity to detergents found in soaps/shower gesl/shampoos.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I know an ex of mine got it from using perfumed soaps so had to start using simple soap

That wasn't thrush, that was Contact Dermatitis....often caused by sensitivity to detergents found in soaps/shower gesl/shampoos."

I also had that and now use Dermol 500.

it all cured up.

ffs, I have had 2 conditions in the last 2 threads..

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"I know an ex of mine got it from using perfumed soaps so had to start using simple soap

That wasn't thrush, that was Contact Dermatitis....often caused by sensitivity to detergents found in soaps/shower gesl/shampoos.

I also had that and now use Dermol 500.

it all cured up.

ffs, I have had 2 conditions in the last 2 threads..

You win a prize for that View!

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over a year ago

"I know an ex of mine got it from using perfumed soaps so had to start using simple soap

That wasn't thrush, that was Contact Dermatitis....often caused by sensitivity to detergents found in soaps/shower gesl/shampoos."

I am getting an insight into thrush very interesting too I was sure she said thrush and had cream for it it stopped after using perfume soaps

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over a year ago

"I know an ex of mine got it from using perfumed soaps so had to start using simple soap

That wasn't thrush, that was Contact Dermatitis....often caused by sensitivity to detergents found in soaps/shower gesl/shampoos."

So I can get this if I use the wrong powder?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I know an ex of mine got it from using perfumed soaps so had to start using simple soap

That wasn't thrush, that was Contact Dermatitis....often caused by sensitivity to detergents found in soaps/shower gesl/shampoos.

I also had that and now use Dermol 500.

it all cured up.

ffs, I have had 2 conditions in the last 2 threads..

You win a prize for that View!"

aye thanks xxxxxx but please no one start a thread about gangrene of the cock..

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"just wondered what makes people decide to take the risk?

Why worry if it's not for you? We only play safe but realise that lots of other people like bare back, some are very safe with checks etc some are just an STD factory, it's their business! Z

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"I know an ex of mine got it from using perfumed soaps so had to start using simple soap

That wasn't thrush, that was Contact Dermatitis....often caused by sensitivity to detergents found in soaps/shower gesl/shampoos.

I am getting an insight into thrush very interesting too I was sure she said thrush and had cream for it it stopped after using perfume soaps "

yes its a pain same here and it does you head in but its far worst for women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know an ex of mine got it from using perfumed soaps so had to start using simple soap

That wasn't thrush, that was Contact Dermatitis....often caused by sensitivity to detergents found in soaps/shower gesl/shampoos.

I also had that and now use Dermol 500.

it all cured up.

ffs, I have had 2 conditions in the last 2 threads..

You win a prize for that View!

aye thanks xxxxxx but please no one start a thread about gangrene of the cock.."

or blue waffle

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over a year ago

"just wondered what makes people decide to take the risk?

Probably the same type of thrill people get doing Extreme Sports, were the next risk you take may be your last.

XXXX"
SORRY!but no ! difference being barebacking is like playing russian roullette with your life , EXTREME sports are mainly a calculated risk ,barebacking is stupid , and i am a BASE JUMPER ! FRANKIE XX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll show you my manky cock _iew if you show me yours

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

The most common causes of thrush:

Antibiotics

Pregnancy

Diabetes (poorly controlled)

Immunodeficiency

Other possible causes:

Contraceptives

Tight-fitting clothing

Personal hygiene

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Canestan (Clotrimazole) is prescribed for both Thrush and Contact Dermatitis.

Works well on many other complaints as well....even athletes foot.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I know an ex of mine got it from using perfumed soaps so had to start using simple soap

That wasn't thrush, that was Contact Dermatitis....often caused by sensitivity to detergents found in soaps/shower gesl/shampoos.

So I can get this if I use the wrong powder?"

the consultant I saw at the hospital also advised against Simple soap.. it can also cause irritation, think it has a mild bleach in it.. thats why they perscribed Dermol. It is fab stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's blue waffle sounds like a dessert?

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"What's blue waffle sounds like a dessert?"

google it - it looks lovely! Z

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I know an ex of mine got it from using perfumed soaps so had to start using simple soap

That wasn't thrush, that was Contact Dermatitis....often caused by sensitivity to detergents found in soaps/shower gesl/shampoos.

I also had that and now use Dermol 500.

it all cured up.

ffs, I have had 2 conditions in the last 2 threads..

You win a prize for that View!

aye thanks xxxxxx but please no one start a thread about gangrene of the cock..

or blue waffle

Noooooooooooooooooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But if you can't use simple soap that's got nothing in it what can you wash your bits in? I use dove soap and Bold washing powder but if I change powder I get an itch so have to go back to bold

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

"I know an ex of mine got it from using perfumed soaps so had to start using simple soap

That wasn't thrush, that was Contact Dermatitis....often caused by sensitivity to detergents found in soaps/shower gesl/shampoos.

I also had that and now use Dermol 500.

it all cured up.

ffs, I have had 2 conditions in the last 2 threads..

You win a prize for that View!

aye thanks xxxxxx but please no one start a thread about gangrene of the cock..

or blue waffle

Noooooooooooooooooooo"

I think that waffle will haunt me for the rest of my natural!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You a doctor or a nurse Jane you know loads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's blue waffle sounds like a dessert?

google it - it looks lovely! Z"

Is it worth the risk ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Roses Are Red,

Your Waffle Is Blue,

Please Sort it Out,

Or No Sex For You

its like if 'Avatar' had a sex scene in it

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"What's blue waffle sounds like a dessert?

google it - it looks lovely! Z

Is it worth the risk ?"

just dont expect blueberries.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"What's blue waffle sounds like a dessert?

google it - it looks lovely! Z

Is it worth the risk ?"

oh yes, it is something that you'll remember forever! Z

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"But if you can't use simple soap that's got nothing in it what can you wash your bits in? I use dove soap and Bold washing powder but if I change powder I get an itch so have to go back to bold "

the only thing you can wash in is aqueous cream and for washing your try surecare or fairy

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"You a doctor or a nurse Jane you know loads"

Chocolatier....

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over a year ago

Think its close to sexual health suicide personally, but iv lost 3 uncles to aids so im especially carefull

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

"Think its close to sexual health suicide personally, but iv lost 3 uncles to aids so im especially carefull

Sorry to hear that that's why I stopped I lost a friend too

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over a year ago

"You a doctor or a nurse Jane you know loads

Chocolatier....

You'll be busy tomorrow then x

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"Think its close to sexual health suicide personally, but iv lost 3 uncles to aids so im especially carefull

that has to be some kind of record - not being cynical but is that really true? Z

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

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"Canestan (Clotrimazole) is prescribed for both Thrush and Contact Dermatitis.

Are you sure?

Clotrimazole is an antifungal medicine.

Though Canestan do a sweat rash cream which is clotrimazole and hydrocortisone.

Generally contact dermatitis is treated with corticosteroids and emollients, such as E45.

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over a year ago

"Think its close to sexual health suicide personally, but iv lost 3 uncles to aids so im especially carefull

that has to be some kind of record - not being cynical but is that really true? Z"

I lost one friend and it was awful up to that point I was reakless with sex that was 10 years ago it's safe all the way now for me

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over a year ago

never would but pestered constantly learnt to block now if they ask more than once they clearly arnt reading or listening

Maybe your pestered because you have a picture of a condom-less black cock going in your bum?

I know I shouldnt have laughed but I did

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over a year ago

"Think its close to sexual health suicide personally, but iv lost 3 uncles to aids so im especially carefull

that has to be some kind of record - not being cynical but is that really true? Z

I lost one friend and it was awful up to that point I was reakless with sex that was 10 years ago it's safe all the way now for me "

Yeh it'll stay with me forever

one was my blood uncle the others were his boyfriends but treat me as good as he did!

Miss em like mad, wish id known em when I was an adult. Lost em when I was 14.

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over a year ago

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

"Canestan (Clotrimazole) is prescribed for both Thrush and Contact Dermatitis.

Are you sure?

Clotrimazole is an antifungal medicine.

Though Canestan do a sweat rash cream which is clotrimazole and hydrocortisone.

Generally contact dermatitis is treated with corticosteroids and emollients, such as E45.

If a man has 'Crotch Itch', 'Sweat Rash', 'Jock Itch', 'Thigh Rub'....He can use his wifes Canesten Thrush Cream and it will work wonders.....I wasn't recommending that his wife use the husbands Rash Cream on her nether regions.....

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By *trr21Man
over a year ago

EAST SUFFOLK

In answer to the first part; unless you are in a long term relationship with a partner, in my opinion, bareback is irresponsible. In addition, there is a risk, be it minor, of catching HIV from oral sex also.

Vegetables? I think it would grate on me and make my coleslaw....sorry hole sore.

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over a year ago

"just wondered what makes people decide to take the risk?

Probably the same type of thrill people get doing Extreme Sports, were the next risk you take may be your last.

XXXXSORRY!but no ! difference being barebacking is like playing russian roullette with your life , EXTREME sports are mainly a calculated risk ,barebacking is stupid , and i am a BASE JUMPER ! FRANKIE XX"

Check out the many posts from barebackers, they frequently quote the various odds of them catching a serious/life threatening S.T.D, usually gleaned from some dubious source.

So we'd say that, like you with base jumping, they see it as a calculated risk worth taking, while the majority of us see it as an unnecessary risk. R

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over a year ago

"There are mulitiple variations of thrush....some passed on through sexual contact but most not."

years ago i got thrush got it treated but ended up on a roller coaster just kept getting it and treating it wasnt until the doctor gave me cream to give to my husband because he said it was him kept passing it back to me

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over a year ago

"just wondered what makes people decide to take the risk?

Probably the same type of thrill people get doing Extreme Sports, were the next risk you take may be your last.

Check out the many posts from barebackers, they frequently quote the various odds of them catching a serious/life threatening S.T.D, usually gleaned from some dubious source.

So we'd say that, like you with base jumping, they see it as a calculated risk worth taking, while the majority of us see it as an unnecessary risk. R"

DAMN RIGHT TOTALLY AGREE!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we bareback together but not done with anyone else, feel its a trust issue and gettin to no people. if you trust them and they wish to also and are clean then why not if careful

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By *iteskinMan
over a year ago

Cardiff/Newport/Bristol/M4

and i wonder how many take the calculated risk to suck a dick or eat pussy without protection???

i think the best thing for people to do if they use condoms or not is to get checked regurlarly!!

that is the ONLY way to make sure you have nothing and wont pass anything on

using condoms doesnt protect you from everything and thats a fact!

"just wondered what makes people decide to take the risk?

Probably the same type of thrill people get doing Extreme Sports, were the next risk you take may be your last.

Check out the many posts from barebackers, they frequently quote the various odds of them catching a serious/life threatening S.T.D, usually gleaned from some dubious source.

So we'd say that, like you with base jumping, they see it as a calculated risk worth taking, while the majority of us see it as an unnecessary risk. R"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's right so all you that say bareback is so wrong stop and think do you practice safe oral sex chances are you don't so then your not 100% safe then are you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay this thread has strayed off a bit..

It was asked why do they do it.. not if it was wrong or right.

In my youth I will confess to often not practising safe sex.. and I was hardly an angel. However, I had a close friend find out she had something rather nasty.. and went to a clinic.. and I actually had been lucky I guess.. but didnt have a thing.

Did I stop... well no.. not till I got married.. and then it was more the risk of taking something home to my husband.

To this day.. in over 20 years I have not caught more than a cold from having sex.. and it was actually only when I got married that I started being safe..

Even my early days swinging with my now ex, he wasnt safe with others.. so me being safe with others was I guess a little pointless.

My point is yes, there is a risk.. but it is actually not much greater than those having unprotected oral..

I do play safe now... and have been tested ever few months for years now..

But back to original post... I hate safe sex.. to the extent I often end up just performing oral because I find it takes so much away from sex.

If I had a regular trusted partner that Master agreed that we could go bareback I would be more than happy, and take the risk.. why.. because it damn well feels better..

I actually think I put myself at more risk riding motorbikes in the manner I did.. or doing my racing.. to be fair I think driving as much as I do full stop puts me at more risk of fatality.

Just my _iews of course... but 20 years of being sexually active.. and only 6 years of playing safe..and not one infection..

Katie.

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over a year ago

Katie your the same as me I've never caught nothing apart from a cold like you I prefer oral that way I don't use a condom wouldn't it be a perfect world if we could have sex without protection and the worry of STD

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over a year ago

"Katie your the same as me I've never caught nothing apart from a cold like you I prefer oral that way I don't use a condom wouldn't it be a perfect world if we could have sex without protection and the worry of STD "

God if that would be the case I would be pleading with Master ( wouldnt take much pleading either) for atleast a 10 guy creampie gangbang..

It is a shame.. but sadly a fact of life..

but this is why some of these threads annoy me.. and I actually dont think I have sex any less now than when I was younger.. and had quite a few flings here and there.. yet nothing. not a thing caught.. and I would say with swingers the chance of catching something was less than your average guy/girl down town at the weekend.

I base that on the fact that most of us get ourselves checked.

Katie. x

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over a year ago

It's rare I've heard a swinger catch anything because we get checked. Do the one night standers on fri/sat night in the pub get checked, no because they don't think they are at risk I feel it's those people spreading STD not swingers

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over a year ago

"It's rare I've heard a swinger catch anything because we get checked. Do the one night standers on fri/sat night in the pub get checked, no because they don't think they are at risk I feel it's those people spreading STD not swingers

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Unfortunately, no doubt many "one night standers" are also swingers!

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over a year ago

Unfortunately, no doubt many "one night standers" are also swingers!

XXXX"

Actually I would disagree.. most are far to scared to approach a sober woman for sex.

Katie. x

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over a year ago

I have never been too pissed to know what I am doing unlike these kids on a weekend that know no better

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

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They know better alright...its more like they cant be bothered..hence the record number of teenage girls up the spout nowadays

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your right there then let us tax payers pick up the tab for there kids

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