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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

People send nasty private messages out if the blue then block you, what could you possibly get out if it.

They can't be swingers, I would have thought it impossible to swing without a spine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously twats. I wouldn't worry about them (I'm quite sure you don't!) but I never quite get it why people need to be nasty trolls. Thing is it says a lot more about them than you so at least you can bask in a legitimate sense of superiority!

Water of a ducks back I'm sure, good luck fella!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's the online version of knock and run

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not worth worrying about it get loads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's their idea of foreplay.

Slag you off, make you feel ad and and needy, disappear to make you long for their company. Come back later to perv your pics. Make a new profile and message how lovely you are and you should be desperate to meet them by then. Maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was told I should be in an old people's home, then blocked lol silly gits

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Sadly it's happend to me it's a shame we can't name and shame but I guess they get there kicks out of it op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sad people with sad, unfulfilled lives who lack self confidence and feel the need to belittle others to boost their fragile pretty much non existent egos from behind the security of a computer screen. No one who is happy in their lives would feel the need to do this and it speaks volumes about them as a person.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Report and make the mods earn their six figure incomes. Then forget it ever happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's one thing to debate and offer difference of opinion, but to do that is vindictive and serves no purpose other than to cause hurt.

You are better than them.....assuming you didn't start it that is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's their idea of foreplay.

Slag you off, make you feel ad and and needy, disappear to make you long for their company. Come back later to perv your pics. Make a new profile and message how lovely you are and you should be desperate to meet them by then. Maybe."

That sounds similar to an experience I had on here a few years ago. Out of the blue, never spoken before, to this day it remains the most vile and abusive message I've ever had on here then a block. A good year or so later, presumably on a new profile, he messaged again saying I looked lovely, would I be interested in a meet etc. I had changed my profile and photos so he probably didn't realise it was the same person or even remember but needless to say, he had a lovely, well thought out reply from me!

Being a total arse will inevitably backfire at some point and its one of the many reasons I now run my profile as I do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because some just got bad personality traits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because some just got bad personality traits."

That's a lovely way of saying someone is a twat lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because some just got bad personality traits.

That's a lovely way of saying someone is a twat lol!"
lol and yes, that is right as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hard really, because they insult you,then when you block them,they delete the profile, and come back on another one, and insult you again, so you just have to keep blocking that's all you can do. Some very sad ignorant people out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's their idea of foreplay.

Slag you off, make you feel ad and and needy, disappear to make you long for their company. Come back later to perv your pics. Make a new profile and message how lovely you are and you should be desperate to meet them by then. Maybe.

That sounds similar to an experience I had on here a few years ago. Out of the blue, never spoken before, to this day it remains the most vile and abusive message I've ever had on here then a block. A good year or so later, presumably on a new profile, he messaged again saying I looked lovely, would I be interested in a meet etc. I had changed my profile and photos so he probably didn't realise it was the same person or even remember but needless to say, he had a lovely, well thought out reply from me!

Being a total arse will inevitably backfire at some point and its one of the many reasons I now run my profile as I do."

I was being sarcastic, sorry to hear that, what an arsehole. I've had similar, except he didn't slag me off to me but to someone else instead, idk why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's their idea of foreplay.

Slag you off, make you feel ad and and needy, disappear to make you long for their company. Come back later to perv your pics. Make a new profile and message how lovely you are and you should be desperate to meet them by then. Maybe.

That sounds similar to an experience I had on here a few years ago. Out of the blue, never spoken before, to this day it remains the most vile and abusive message I've ever had on here then a block. A good year or so later, presumably on a new profile, he messaged again saying I looked lovely, would I be interested in a meet etc. I had changed my profile and photos so he probably didn't realise it was the same person or even remember but needless to say, he had a lovely, well thought out reply from me!

Being a total arse will inevitably backfire at some point and its one of the many reasons I now run my profile as I do.

I was being sarcastic, sorry to hear that, what an arsehole. I've had similar, except he didn't slag me off to me but to someone else instead, idk why."

I know you were being sarcastic my lovely. I don't let such insignificant things bother me really, life is too short although I can see how it would upset some people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's their idea of foreplay.

Slag you off, make you feel ad and and needy, disappear to make you long for their company. Come back later to perv your pics. Make a new profile and message how lovely you are and you should be desperate to meet them by then. Maybe.

That sounds similar to an experience I had on here a few years ago. Out of the blue, never spoken before, to this day it remains the most vile and abusive message I've ever had on here then a block. A good year or so later, presumably on a new profile, he messaged again saying I looked lovely, would I be interested in a meet etc. I had changed my profile and photos so he probably didn't realise it was the same person or even remember but needless to say, he had a lovely, well thought out reply from me!

Being a total arse will inevitably backfire at some point and its one of the many reasons I now run my profile as I do.

I was being sarcastic, sorry to hear that, what an arsehole. I've had similar, except he didn't slag me off to me but to someone else instead, idk why.

I know you were being sarcastic my lovely. I don't let such insignificant things bother me really, life is too short although I can see how it would upset some people. "

Cool. Yeah life is too short.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" It's one thing to debate and offer difference of opinion, but to do that is vindictive and serves no purpose other than to cause hurt.

You are better than them.....assuming you didn't start it that is "

Why would you think I started it, I'm a good little pervert I am, I've been return.g extra hard to be nice this week lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've yet to experience any interaction over the internet that would make me question whether or not another persons online behaviour could possibly devalues my enjoyment...

In-fact I go as far as to say.... I laugh when I see anyone taking any of this shite too seriously...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are just cowards, they say what they want then block and hide. It's hard but don't let them get to you. I've been so good in not responding to certain people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only had it once recently toys out the pram job. I blocked first so got a message off another profile. I wished thrm all the best i think thats what did it

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It's more or less the equivalent of a car full of teenagers driving by a stranger and shouting tosser at them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People send nasty private messages out if the blue then block you, what could you possibly get out if it.

They can't be swingers, I would have thought it impossible to swing without a spine "

I was d*unk sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've yet to experience any interaction over the internet that would make me question whether or not another persons online behaviour could possibly devalues my enjoyment...

In-fact I go as far as to say.... I laugh when I see anyone taking any of this shite too seriously...

"

I know what your saying, but it pisses me off when I can't retort with my rapier like wit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"People send nasty private messages out if the blue then block you, what could you possibly get out if it.

They can't be swingers, I would have thought it impossible to swing without a spine

I was d*unk sorry "

No it was someone else, your message was shocking enough on a couple if points.

1, they don't do a tarpulin that big

2, there is no way you cold fit 16 of them in there

3, where the hell am I suppose to get a goat from.

4, the sugar puffs are going to get too sticky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've yet to experience any interaction over the internet that would make me question whether or not another persons online behaviour could possibly devalues my enjoyment...

In-fact I go as far as to say.... I laugh when I see anyone taking any of this shite too seriously...

I know what your saying, but it pisses me off when I can't retort with my rapier like wit"

Oh Kinky my old pal...... just ignore the inner frustrations and mutter piffle and tush under your breath as you re-join the merriment and frivolity of penis jousting and titty waggling amongst the finer folk Fab has to offer....,,,,,

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

I've had this. It's sad really. Would you insult a stranger on the street?!

That said i've been insulted by a stranger on the street too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've yet to experience any interaction over the internet that would make me question whether or not another persons online behaviour could possibly devalues my enjoyment...

In-fact I go as far as to say.... I laugh when I see anyone taking any of this shite too seriously...

I know what your saying, but it pisses me off when I can't retort with my rapier like wit

Oh Kinky my old pal...... just ignore the inner frustrations and mutter piffle and tush under your breath as you re-join the merriment and frivolity of penis jousting and titty waggling amongst the finer folk Fab has to offer....,,,,, "

Ok who.told you about the penis jousting?, I was young and had a head full.if dreams ok, stop judging me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've yet to experience any interaction over the internet that would make me question whether or not another persons online behaviour could possibly devalues my enjoyment...

In-fact I go as far as to say.... I laugh when I see anyone taking any of this shite too seriously...

I know what your saying, but it pisses me off when I can't retort with my rapier like wit

Oh Kinky my old pal...... just ignore the inner frustrations and mutter piffle and tush under your breath as you re-join the merriment and frivolity of penis jousting and titty waggling amongst the finer folk Fab has to offer....,,,,,

Ok who.told you about the penis jousting?, I was young and had a head full.if dreams ok, stop judging me "

Fear not....... we've all been there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On my old singles profile I had a status saying "from BBW to babe, the journey continues" to which another single woman sent me a message "once a fat bitch, always a fat bitch".

I then realised she was at chams and as I lived 2 minutes drive away I thought perhaps she needs to see how much weight I've lost in person.

I communicated this too her in a message, to which her response was to block me and as I learnt after she left chams immediately!

Don't think she's been back since, try and help some trolls and they suddenly run off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just a waste of perfectly good internet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"On my old singles profile I had a status saying "from BBW to babe, the journey continues" to which another single woman sent me a message "once a fat bitch, always a fat bitch".

I then realised she was at chams and as I lived 2 minutes drive away I thought perhaps she needs to see how much weight I've lost in person.

I communicated this too her in a message, to which her response was to block me and as I learnt after she left chams immediately!

Don't think she's been back since, try and help some trolls and they suddenly run off "

You should have taken a keyboard for her to hide behind, she might have been able to speak to you about it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally don't understand why some send such horrible nasty messages then block the recipient.

To me it's a rather cowardly act.

But I've heard of a number of people that do so on a somewhat regular basis. So maybe it's what they get off on.

Either way I'd just brush it off and carry on knowing that they'd probably done me a favour. Nobody needs nor i would imagine wants contact with that type of person either on a site such as this or in real life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always think people like this have very low confidence, maybe it makes them feel better to put others down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On my old singles profile I had a status saying "from BBW to babe, the journey continues" to which another single woman sent me a message "once a fat bitch, always a fat bitch".

I then realised she was at chams and as I lived 2 minutes drive away I thought perhaps she needs to see how much weight I've lost in person.

I communicated this too her in a message, to which her response was to block me and as I learnt after she left chams immediately!

Don't think she's been back since, try and help some trolls and they suddenly run off

You should have taken a keyboard for her to hide behind, she might have been able to speak to you about it lol"

She addressed the elephant in the room and the elephant decided to address her back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just humour such numpties (if they haven't been a coward and blocked me of course). One conversation that started in a random abusive message about my body resulted in him saying that actually, I was a really nice down to earth woman who sounded a right laugh. Shame I said, you're clearly a twat then blocked him! You don't get a second chance at a first impression

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fortunately my self confidence is undentable at the moment, but let's just say I was feeling low, that could have left me feeling even worse, and the best thing us that the person who sent this message us probably reading every word I out in this thread, because my life is so.much more interesting than theirs, its a shame that um living in their head, rent free lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People send nasty private messages out if the blue then block you, what could you possibly get out if it.

They can't be swingers, I would have thought it impossible to swing without a spine "

Trolls. No mates. Stuck in bedroom. They are angry at life and the shit deal it's served them up.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"People send nasty private messages out if the blue then block you, what could you possibly get out if it.

They can't be swingers, I would have thought it impossible to swing without a spine "

It's often because they are jealous of you and they have sad little lives, chin up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the beginning it used to upset me but having been on and off now for over 18 months I now just think awwww bless when I get nasty messages. X

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"People send nasty private messages out if the blue then block you, what could you possibly get out if it.

They can't be swingers, I would have thought it impossible to swing without a spine "

I just think they must lead a very boring life if that's how they get their kicks.

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"People send nasty private messages out if the blue then block you, what could you possibly get out if it.

They can't be swingers, I would have thought it impossible to swing without a spine "

Because they don't like you.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

in 10 years, I have had 2 or 3. I just laughed

more to be pitied than anything else.

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