FabSwingers.com forum: Would you....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Play just for the sake of it, even of you didn't feel sexy or attractive?

This is open for both men and women.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No, not if I wasn't horny.

I am not a public service

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have a lady wank yes , but I wouldn't play with someone else.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

No, did it once and never again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How about if it's been a build up to a meet that you have all been wanting to but never private enough, but then the day comes when you can meet but don't feel like playing?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

No.

Only ever play when in the mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

No...but do find that it never really takes much to put me in the mood...so, it is likely that there would be developments!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No... What's the point in that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wouldn't it seem like your leading them on of the time comes when you can play, you don't want to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How about if it's been a build up to a meet that you have all been wanting to but never private enough, but then the day comes when you can meet but don't feel like playing?

If you are that into each other then it will happen...

If you aren't it won't ... Simples

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No.if.i.dont.feel.like.it.i.dont.feel like.it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How about if it's been a build up to a meet that you have all been wanting to but never private enough, but then the day comes when you can meet but don't feel like playing?

If you are that into each other then it will happen...

If you aren't it won't ... Simples"

I would love to play with them.... honest! But just don't feel sexy/attractive enough this last few days, have a few insecurities about myself, am I going to be what they expected, or will it all end badly

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"How about if it's been a build up to a meet that you have all been wanting to but never private enough, but then the day comes when you can meet but don't feel like playing?

If you are that into each other then it will happen...

If you aren't it won't ... Simples

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a lot of people.feel.like.it.from.time ,to.time.stay at.home.and.do.something.nice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Last visit for a long time, so going to make the most of it, even if it's not sexual fun.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Play just for the sake of it, even of you didn't feel sexy or attractive?

This is open for both men and women."

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Play just for the sake of it, even of you didn't feel sexy or attractive?

This is open for both men and women."

What, pretend I was hard and fake an orgasm? How would that work?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Maybe I can be persuaded if the time comes... suck it amd see as the expression goes.

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By *ukepastMan
over a year ago

Newport

If it was with someone I fancied then "yes"

I'm sure they wouldn't take long to get me horny and feeling "I can't be that ugly if someone I think is gorgeous fancies me enough to want sex with me".

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If it was with someone I fancied then "yes"

I'm sure they wouldn't take long to get me horny and feeling "I can't be that ugly if someone I think is gorgeous fancies me enough to want sex with me"."

This is the point, I don't think im anything special, and they are fucking gorgeous!

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

"How about if it's been a build up to a meet that you have all been wanting to but never private enough, but then the day comes when you can meet but don't feel like playing?

If you are that into each other then it will happen...

If you aren't it won't ... Simples

Is there an opportunity to meet socially first? See how you feel then and take it from there? If you still don't feel like it then personally I wouldn't go any further.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Been meeting them socially for the last few months, the female is as hot as fuck, the male gets on great with me, but I don't want to disappoint anyone, although I have disappointed myself on a few occasions

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Play just for the sake of it, even of you didn't feel sexy or attractive?

This is open for both men and women."

No, I need to be in the zone. Sometimes it happens in seconds and sometimes some people just leave me cold

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By *ukepastMan
over a year ago

Newport

"If it was with someone I fancied then "yes"

I'm sure they wouldn't take long to get me horny and feeling "I can't be that ugly if someone I think is gorgeous fancies me enough to want sex with me".

This is the point, I don't think im anything special, and they are fucking gorgeous! "

That's when I just can't believe my good fortune and go with the flow

I'd soon overcome the feeling of shock I think

So, in your situation, you've met this gorgeous individual online. Perhaps saw them at a social when you were both attending with others? And now you've been starting to think "Why do they want to meet me? What do they see in me? I'm not in their league!" Delete those which don't apply.

Would preparing for the meet by pampering yourself help? Getting your hair done or a spa? Or nice hot bubble bath with a face pack and reading a romantic story? And plenty time to get your face just right. Maybe even have a friend help you and to help pick an outfit to wear?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Unfortunately in don't have time for all that, just a quick shower and spruce myself up with some nice smellies, shirt and trousers, my best undies and away I go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Play just for the sake of it, even of you didn't feel sexy or attractive?

This is open for both men and women."

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If it was with someone I fancied then "yes"

I'm sure they wouldn't take long to get me horny and feeling "I can't be that ugly if someone I think is gorgeous fancies me enough to want sex with me".

This is the point, I don't think im anything special, and they are fucking gorgeous!

That's when I just can't believe my good fortune and go with the flow

I'd soon overcome the feeling of shock I think

You do know im male?

Don't do face packs and all that stuff... haha.

Changed my avatar so as not to confuse people.

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By *ukepastMan
over a year ago

Newport

Oops

Do you cross dress or something?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oops

Do you cross dress or something?"

Only the undies mate, don't do anything else! Lol

Thought it confused you a little, the MAN bit does give it away though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been meeting them socially for the last few months, the female is as hot as fuck, the male gets on great with me, but I don't want to disappoint anyone, although I have disappointed myself on a few occasions

Well, good luck fella. Personally, if I was not in the mood, I wouldn't. I don't think that would be fair on me or the folk I was meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me neither, i don't think the sex would be good.

I haven't had good sex for ages now, had someone wanting a 3sum last night (omg i love 3sums) but was too tired to meet them so i didn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No because if I wasn't in the mood I wouldnt be in a situation where I could be having sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No there has to be some attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never. I tried once as I liked the person, but couldn't go through with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, did it once and never again."

Same here. You live and learn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I have to be attracted to the other person ...if not I might as well stay home and get the toys out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How about if it's been a build up to a meet that you have all been wanting to but never private enough, but then the day comes when you can meet but don't feel like playing?

Did once. Five minutes into it I was rampant, just needed that little push

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too much like my married life,no I wouldn't

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

No.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Mr Marmite, you have been through a lot lately with health issues etc. Don't be hard on yourself ( pun intended).

If you are having doubts, then have a social meet and explain you aren't at your best. Perhaps have a little soft play ( another one) and see how it works out .

I am glad you think I am gorgeous, bit I didn't intend making you feel awkward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No and ive rarely been in the mood recently hence the not meeting x

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

No I would not play.

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