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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm 3 weeks into my new job, receptionist in the leisure centre, I've seen a normal man almost every day come in to use the gym, I swipe his card and say morning but that's it. I can see the gym area from the front desk and whenever I look he's looking, either directly or in the mirror. I fucking fancy him man but no nothing about him other than his name and age, he's 35, couldn't find him on Facebook to have a little peek to see if he's attached.

Would an attached person look and be smiley and shit.

I have bad thoughts when I see him, like I can see him doing bench presses and I wanna go in the gym and pull his joggers down and suck him off but obviously I can't. He looks like he's got a promising lump as well cos I look directly at his penis area but only have a few seconds to do that!

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By *outhernchappieMan
over a year ago

brighton

Wait for him to make the move....

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage

Try striking up a conversation instead just saying hello

Maybe focus on the man and not just his cock size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 3 weeks into my new job, receptionist in the leisure centre, I've seen a normal man almost every day come in to use the gym, I swipe his card and say morning but that's it. I can see the gym area from the front desk and whenever I look he's looking, either directly or in the mirror. I fucking fancy him man but no nothing about him other than his name and age, he's 35, couldn't find him on Facebook to have a little peek to see if he's attached.

Would an attached person look and be smiley and shit.

I have bad thoughts when I see him, like I can see him doing bench presses and I wanna go in the gym and pull his joggers down and suck him off but obviously I can't. He looks like he's got a promising lump as well cos I look directly at his penis area but only have a few seconds to do that!"

Personally mixing business and pleasure is a very bad idea and wont go down well on your CV! Remember you have to see this person when he visits your place of work and remember you are at work so be professional about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 3 weeks into my new job, receptionist in the leisure centre, I've seen a normal man almost every day come in to use the gym, I swipe his card and say morning but that's it. I can see the gym area from the front desk and whenever I look he's looking, either directly or in the mirror. I fucking fancy him man but no nothing about him other than his name and age, he's 35, couldn't find him on Facebook to have a little peek to see if he's attached.

Would an attached person look and be smiley and shit.

I have bad thoughts when I see him, like I can see him doing bench presses and I wanna go in the gym and pull his joggers down and suck him off but obviously I can't. He looks like he's got a promising lump as well cos I look directly at his penis area but only have a few seconds to do that!"
he may have a tiny Dick and you will be disappointed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a thread I read the other day, all you need to do is pose as a cleaner and go to clean the changing room when he goes to get changed - its a guaranteed fuck!

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"I'm 3 weeks into my new job, receptionist in the leisure centre, I've seen a normal man almost every day come in to use the gym, I swipe his card and say morning but that's it. I can see the gym area from the front desk and whenever I look he's looking, either directly or in the mirror. I fucking fancy him man but no nothing about him other than his name and age, he's 35, couldn't find him on Facebook to have a little peek to see if he's attached.

Would an attached person look and be smiley and shit.

I have bad thoughts when I see him, like I can see him doing bench presses and I wanna go in the gym and pull his joggers down and suck him off but obviously I can't. He looks like he's got a promising lump as well cos I look directly at his penis area but only have a few seconds to do that! he may have a tiny Dick and you will be disappointed "

Why, men with smaller cocks can sexually satisfy too

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By *iverpool LoverMan
over a year ago

liverpool

When you swipe his card instead of saying just "morning", try strike up a conversation saying you see him every morning and how his dedication to training shows.

or somthing like that, anything to get a little convo each morning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask him if he would like to fill in the optional emergency contact details form you may of knocked up on word yourself, the relationship status of the next of kin will determine wether you get filled in or not.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Try striking up a conversation instead just saying hello

Maybe focus on the man and not just his cock size"

Yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 3 weeks into my new job, receptionist in the leisure centre, I've seen a normal man almost every day come in to use the gym, I swipe his card and say morning but that's it. I can see the gym area from the front desk and whenever I look he's looking, either directly or in the mirror. I fucking fancy him man but no nothing about him other than his name and age, he's 35, couldn't find him on Facebook to have a little peek to see if he's attached.

Would an attached person look and be smiley and shit.

I have bad thoughts when I see him, like I can see him doing bench presses and I wanna go in the gym and pull his joggers down and suck him off but obviously I can't. He looks like he's got a promising lump as well cos I look directly at his penis area but only have a few seconds to do that! he may have a tiny Dick and you will be disappointed

Why, men with smaller cocks can sexually satisfy too"
yes but OP only likes 9.5 inches with 5.5 girth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Next time he comes in say something like 'does your girlfriend ever join you working out' with a cheeky grin....

But yes attached people will look and smile and stuff...

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By *-angel-XWoman
over a year ago

hell

You're at work , remain professional

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

But this is a natural attraction, each day I see this dude I think about doing things with him, it's not a cold meeting where the guy has to be perfect straight away. I get a little fuzzy feeling when I see him and for the hour that he's there he's nice to look at. This could be good for me cos I could actually like the person without caring about the penis size and all I need is to get that initial attraction I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're at work , remain professional "

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Might be one of these strange one,s happy with what he has move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this is one of those threads that if a man had posted it the reaction would be a bit different He's given you no indication he's in the slightest bit interested in you. And I know plenty of people do it but the whole facebook stalking thing is a bit weird in my opinion

Do your employers have a policy on staff shagging customers, most frown on it

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

you could try following him when he leaves the gym or maybe put a tracking device on his car..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When you swipe his card instead of saying just "morning", try strike up a conversation saying you see him every morning and how his dedication to training shows.

or somthing like that, anything to get a little convo each morning.

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It's too busy to chat for long, there's always a queue and I have a lad working next to me doing the same thing, but this dude always joins me queue even if my colleagues queue is shorter!

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By *ipglossWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

You should totally try and strike up a convo- sound's like it's more than lust

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Make him fill out a survey form .. What kind of woman he's attracted to .. And his cock size

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Are you sure the window isn't two way so when he looks like he's looking directly at you he's actually looking in another mirror?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I think this is one of those threads that if a man had posted it the reaction would be a bit different He's given you no indication he's in the slightest bit interested in you. And I know plenty of people do it but the whole facebook stalking thing is a bit weird in my opinion

Do your employers have a policy on staff shagging customers, most frown on it"

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"you could try following him when he leaves the gym or maybe put a tracking device on his car.. "

Don't suggest this I think she may

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But this is a natural attraction, each day I see this dude I think about doing things with him, it's not a cold meeting where the guy has to be perfect straight away. I get a little fuzzy feeling when I see him and for the hour that he's there he's nice to look at. This could be good for me cos I could actually like the person without caring about the penis size and all I need is to get that initial attraction I think.

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Fancying someone is not the same as liking them. You've said hello and that's it, he could be a complete arsehole or the biggest bore on the planet

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage


"But this is a natural attraction, each day I see this dude I think about doing things with him, it's not a cold meeting where the guy has to be perfect straight away. I get a little fuzzy feeling when I see him and for the hour that he's there he's nice to look at. This could be good for me cos I could actually like the person without caring about the penis size and all I need is to get that initial attraction I think.

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If you didnt care about his penis size, why check out his bulge?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you could try following him when he leaves the gym or maybe put a tracking device on his car.. "

This is the only logical Next step

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By *ab femWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

If he's interested in you he will try to strike up a conversation with you too so just enjoy the lingering looks at each other and let things happen naturally.

It must be a lovely thrill catching him look at you so enjoy that for a little longer before you try to progress things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's coming into the leisure centre for a workout so I think you need to remain professional & say 'morning' and leave it at that.

Maybe he's looking because he can see you looking & thinks why is the receptionist constantly looking at me!

Gyms & obvious perving don't mix well imo.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"you could try following him when he leaves the gym or maybe put a tracking device on his car..

This is the only logical Next step "
the op probably has access to his address and telephone number already

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Stay professional at work and just consign him to your Wank Bank

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Nothing better than gym chemistry. The workout coupled with the workout clothes give a heady mix of voyeurism and endorphins rush which is hard to beat. The guy will be buzzing like a hornet inside himself too. I bet he is wondering how to take the next step as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When he's looking your way, may be he's thinking...I know that face from somewhere.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"When he's looking your way, may be he's thinking...I know that face from somewhere."
wondering how large your foof is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh if this had been a guy posting wouldn't he have got slated...

Or he maybe have bee told to use the stories and fantasy section...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He's coming into the leisure centre for a workout so I think you need to remain professional & say 'morning' and leave it at that.

Maybe he's looking because he can see you looking & thinks why is the receptionist constantly looking at me!

Gyms & obvious perving don't mix well imo."

I can't help looking when he's in there, the gym is to my right and the doors have see through glass panels which is where I can see him, I try not to look to my right at all whilst he's in there cos I catch his gaze, but there's things I need that are on my right hand side like folders and my colleague is to my right so turn my head to speak to him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh if this had been a guy posting wouldn't he have got slated...

Or he maybe have bee told to use the stories and fantasy section... "

If you think this is fantasy material then your fantasies must be pretty wank. Swiping a card and saying morning to someone does not make fantasy material.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I guess I think firstly what's an appropriate way to behave at work? There's nothing wrong with seeing some eye candy in any situation but there are lines you probably shouldn't cross in a new job.

Most people are polite and say hello when they pass a receptionist. I'm sure the thought of you being an attractive lady crossed his mind, that's natural but my _iew is that it would make me feel uncomfortable if someone was staring at me while I was working out in the gym.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh if this had been a guy posting wouldn't he have got slated...

Or he maybe have bee told to use the stories and fantasy section... "

Correct zoya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you sure the window isn't two way so when he looks like he's looking directly at you he's actually looking in another mirror? "

Or actually looking at another man.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh if this had been a guy posting wouldn't he have got slated...

Or he maybe have bee told to use the stories and fantasy section...

If you think this is fantasy material then your fantasies must be pretty wank. Swiping a card and saying morning to someone does not make fantasy material. "

If you had been a guy it would have been said..and my fantasies are that mine and are definitely not wank ..I was pointing óot how the dynamics change on fab due to someone having tits and not a cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd of said the same to a man on this situation .. And I'm not really sure how true those statements are 'oh if it was a man he would be slated'.. Would be if it was a regular forum user...

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


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Would an attached person look and be smiley and shit. "

No, we're all miserable buggars!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd of said the same to a man on this situation .. And I'm not really sure how true those statements are 'oh if it was a man he would be slated'.. Would be if it was a regular forum user... "

I do too, but those statements do ring true at times.

A non regular forum guy on here mentioning that he 'Facebook stalked' a woman after getting her personal data from his workplace computer would have been slated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you swipe the card, say you are updating membership details and ask for name, address, phone number to check nothing has changed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I come and train at your gym

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I know it's probably quite common but I find the searching for people on Facebook and similar sites a little weird and creepy.

I would stick to just saying hello and being friendly. Admire from afar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No offence intended OP but you're beginning to sound like an inexperienced young girl, not a experienced thirty something.

To look for a total stranger who is a client at your work on fb is a little creepy and very unprofessional imo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here's an idea. Just chat to him without an agenda and see what happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 3 weeks into my new job, receptionist in the leisure centre, I've seen a normal man almost every day come in to use the gym, I swipe his card and say morning but that's it. I can see the gym area from the front desk and whenever I look he's looking, either directly or in the mirror. I fucking fancy him man but no nothing about him other than his name and age, he's 35, couldn't find him on Facebook to have a little peek to see if he's attached.

Would an attached person look and be smiley and shit.

I have bad thoughts when I see him, like I can see him doing bench presses and I wanna go in the gym and pull his joggers down and suck him off but obviously I can't. He looks like he's got a promising lump as well cos I look directly at his penis area but only have a few seconds to do that!"

Right what you need to do is this....

When he next comes in say to him your checking that you have everyone's correct contact details and ask for his phone number

Then ..... Txt him and say hi this is xxx (what ever your name is).. Thank you for updating your details with me today...

I look forward to seeing you in the gym soon.

Maybe he will then txt you back

OK IM NOT A PROFFESSIONAL STALKER HONEST

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I ever went to a gym I'm sure I'd smile at staff too, if you are 3 weeks in then just relax and stay professional. Maybe if you try to have a rational conversation it will happen, and then you can establish what you need to know.

I personally think searching on Facebook for someone that you haven't really got to know is a bit weird, try to develop your confidence and strike up some conversations with him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally love your posts Sea witch but just imagine if a male had posted this scenario- what the responses would be?

The words unprofessional and inappropriate Would definitely have come up would they not? x

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By *ingle Beds LassWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

As it's work, I would wait for him to strike up a conversation then you can't get reprimanded for coming on to the customer. Or if it's an itch you desperately need to scratch, you need to see what the policy is regarding customers.... then go for your life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

TDF.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This might be why fb is so popular .

I always know when a girl I've met socially, asks me if I'm on fb- she can fuck off.

It really is the stalkers guide to the universe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good looking, 35 - if he's not an arsehole or boring or whatever then he's probably going to be attached. And yes attached people are sometimes nice and friendly and even flirty (not me, obviously, but other less grumpy ones)

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm 3 weeks into my new job, receptionist in the leisure centre, I've seen a normal man almost every day come in to use the gym, I swipe his card and say morning but that's it. I can see the gym area from the front desk and whenever I look he's looking, either directly or in the mirror. I fucking fancy him man but no nothing about him other than his name and age, he's 35, couldn't find him on Facebook to have a little peek to see if he's attached.

Would an attached person look and be smiley and shit.

I have bad thoughts when I see him, like I can see him doing bench presses and I wanna go in the gym and pull his joggers down and suck him off but obviously I can't. He looks like he's got a promising lump as well cos I look directly at his penis area but only have a few seconds to do that!"

Seawitch, everyone has fantasies about strangers they see it isn't significant.

Almost everyone looks at other people even attached ones that isn't significant either.

People do meet partners in a work situation but I think you're reading way too much in to this and should just allow life to take its course.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


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Would an attached person look and be smiley and shit. !"

Simple answer...yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The looking on Facebook was just to see if there were signs of a significant other that's all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find that facebook is intrusive and have deleted it ,people are getting to nosey about they they shouldn't know if that person doesn't want them to and work places are using it to check on staff out of hours

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"The looking on Facebook was just to see if there were signs of a significant other that's all. "

He might not even have an account. From what I know of you which admittedly is very little, you seem to like everything to be straightforward and cut and dried, I'm afraid life isn't like that. This guy is just an ordinary bloke, you will only be able to find out if he has a partner by asking him and its highly possible that he won't live up to your fantasy idea of him. You cant have the level of control you seem to need unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just strike up a conversation if you can. Some of us are hopeless at instigation. I went for a haircut the other day and the hairdresser was lovely. I ended up giving her a $10 tip and running out the door. Kicked myself over and over for the rest of the day for not asking her out. Your guy might be the same!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No offence intended OP but you're beginning to sound like an inexperienced young girl, not a experienced thirty something.

To look for a total stranger who is a client at your work on fb is a little creepy and very unprofessional imo. "

Right having a quick tab now so can write properly. No offence taken and with regards to me sounding inexperienced for my age that's kind of true, I met my ex aged 17 and was with him till a few months before my 27th birthday, then I was concentrating on my young child so the last 6 years I have no real dating experience. In fact I have no dating experience cos I've never dated anyone. Before this I was working in the prison service so no real talent to explore there, this is my first job where I've been around normal public and as you can imagine it's new and it's a place where there's nice people coming in that I see every day.

I realise how stalker like it sounds me looking on Facebook but it was just to see if there was any signs of a partner and I couldn't find him anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No offence intended OP but you're beginning to sound like an inexperienced young girl, not a experienced thirty something.

To look for a total stranger who is a client at your work on fb is a little creepy and very unprofessional imo.

Right having a quick tab now so can write properly. No offence taken and with regards to me sounding inexperienced for my age that's kind of true, I met my ex aged 17 and was with him till a few months before my 27th birthday, then I was concentrating on my young child so the last 6 years I have no real dating experience. In fact I have no dating experience cos I've never dated anyone. Before this I was working in the prison service so no real talent to explore there, this is my first job where I've been around normal public and as you can imagine it's new and it's a place where there's nice people coming in that I see every day.

I realise how stalker like it sounds me looking on Facebook but it was just to see if there was any signs of a partner and I couldn't find him anyway. "
it is stalker like having someones name and looking them up on facebook it shouldn't be allowed

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Op how would you feel if receptionists wnere using your personal details to find you on facebook. Its private information

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Just strike up a conversation if you can. Some of us are hopeless at instigation. I went for a haircut the other day and the hairdresser was lovely. I ended up giving her a $10 tip and running out the door. Kicked myself over and over for the rest of the day for not asking her out. Your guy might be the same! "

Don't kick yourself just ask next time you go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just strike up a conversation if you can. Some of us are hopeless at instigation. I went for a haircut the other day and the hairdresser was lovely. I ended up giving her a $10 tip and running out the door. Kicked myself over and over for the rest of the day for not asking her out. Your guy might be the same!

Don't kick yourself just ask next time you go"

That's the obvious solution but I'll probably chicken out then too!

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

How many PTs get in relationships with their clients? That's more unprofessional than this situation but it happens!

Seawitch - I read into things too much and never do anything about it, so I am permanently single. Can you not catch him on his way out to try and strike up a convo? Maybe ask how his workout was.. Nothing creepy or OTT like!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As tempting it is to use his details to look for him on social media, I'd advise against is. Data protection act etc.

Just have a little chat each day and build up a rapport. If he is I terested then he will reciprocate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For goodness sake women flirting skills have been known for millenia, basic rules are eye contact, smiles, touch finger to finger to start, expose your throat and hair movement.

seems that the urge to flirt via keyboard has removed the skills for same space flirting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're at work , remain professional "

Nothing wrong with a little flirting with members of the public if your job involves contact with them, as long as you're not too inappropriate and back off quickly if it's not reciprocated.

With colleagues I keep it strictly professional, there's a difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking someone up on Facebook,Twitter,Linkdn etc is natural. I'm not a nutter but I like to do that with people I know.

I would smile at him when I see him looking and as he walks past casually say to your colleague that you will be going to the pub/shops/hairdressers at this time and hope he hears. Seriously though,it's not like you are his doctor or something,you're just the receptionist at his gym. You can find love anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As tempting it is to use his details to look for him on social media, I'd advise against is. Data protection act etc.

Just have a little chat each day and build up a rapport. If he is I terested then he will reciprocate."

Errrm public Social media sites wouldn't be covered by the DPA nether would other sources of publicly available info such as 192 dot com etc although going into the companies records to look up his name & address would be.

Could be construed as stalking though ;o)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As tempting it is to use his details to look for him on social media, I'd advise against is. Data protection act etc.

Just have a little chat each day and build up a rapport. If he is I terested then he will reciprocate.

Errrm public Social media sites wouldn't be covered by the DPA nether would other sources of publicly available info such as 192 dot com etc although going into the companies records to look up his name & address would be.

Could be construed as stalking though ;o)"

Looking someone up on the net isn't stalking. They don't know you're watching them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this is a wonderful and candid post , and seawitch is baring her soul here to a degree . This is refreshing , and it's interesting to see the inner workings of a woman's perspective on the subject of attraction .

I think you should simply go with the option of asking if he ever brings his partner with him , or ask him if she is as into keeping fit like he is . He will either say yes , no , or that he doesn't have a partner .

From there you can go to the next stage and move on .

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As tempting it is to use his details to look for him on social media, I'd advise against is. Data protection act etc.

Just have a little chat each day and build up a rapport. If he is I terested then he will reciprocate.

Errrm public Social media sites wouldn't be covered by the DPA nether would other sources of publicly available info such as 192 dot com etc

"although going into the companies records to look up his name & address would be."

Could be construed as stalking though ;o)"

What I meant was getting his details off the system she uses at work to then search on social media

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet you'd be disappointed if he didn't measure up to your strict penis size limitation. Maybe you should get in the gym yourself and tighten up that pelvic floor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just talk to him? Be nice and smiley. Ask if he exercises with his girlfriend. That should yield some answers.

Think of how guys flirt with you, well the successful ones anyway, and do something similar. I'm shit at flirting because I have an attitude problem, but it's not difficult to see what others try on you and to try it yourself.

-Courtney

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Good god some wolves out again today.... She's not his doctor for goodness sakes she's a receptionist at a gym! People meet people in all areas of life and knowing his name is hardly stalking

Op as has been said just chat to him next time he is in.... I'm sure you'll get an idea if he is interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No offence intended OP but you're beginning to sound like an inexperienced young girl, not a experienced thirty something.

To look for a total stranger who is a client at your work on fb is a little creepy and very unprofessional imo.

Right having a quick tab now so can write properly. No offence taken and with regards to me sounding inexperienced for my age that's kind of true, I met my ex aged 17 and was with him till a few months before my 27th birthday, then I was concentrating on my young child so the last 6 years I have no real dating experience. In fact I have no dating experience cos I've never dated anyone. Before this I was working in the prison service so no real talent to explore there, this is my first job where I've been around normal public and as you can imagine it's new and it's a place where there's nice people coming in that I see every day.

I realise how stalker like it sounds me looking on Facebook but it was just to see if there was any signs of a partner and I couldn't find him anyway. "

Fair enough I now understand why normal interaction is new to you and you're probably still on a learning curve.

Not everybody is on fb but you can set your privacy settings on there so nobody can find you without knowing their personal e - mail address. I still wouldn't recommend searching for complete strangers on fb, many would find it far from complimentary.

If you really like your job I wouldn't take it any further, if it goes pear shaped you will still have to face this man on a weekly basis.

Lusting over strangers is best left that way the reality very rarely lives up to what your vivid imagination can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As tempting it is to use his details to look for him on social media, I'd advise against is. Data protection act etc.

Just have a little chat each day and build up a rapport. If he is I terested then he will reciprocate.

Errrm public Social media sites wouldn't be covered by the DPA nether would other sources of publicly available info such as 192 dot com etc although going into the companies records to look up his name & address would be.

Could be construed as stalking though ;o)"

No but using business records to identify someone and then search for them on social networking for personal benefit is definitely breaching the DPA.

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By *iccii69Man
over a year ago

Surrey

For the last three weeks, the new receptionist in the gym that I visit every day seems to be very friendly with me as she swipes my card. She is stunning and very sexy, and im sure she steals a few glances as I work out.

Being scared of rejection, seeing as I see her most days, I dont do anything about it. I dont even know if she's single/interested.

If only she'd give me some sort of sign.........

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I didn't look at his details on the system I asked if he wanted his receipt and he didn't and his full name is on the receipt. Alright I looked at his age for like 2 seconds before I swiped another card cos that's all that flashes up is name age and membership status. I wouldn't open up his full info because that would be looking at more than what I needed to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For the last three weeks, the new receptionist in the gym that I visit every day seems to be very friendly with me as she swipes my card. She is stunning and very sexy, and im sure she steals a few glances as I work out.

Being scared of rejection, seeing as I see her most days, I dont do anything about it. I dont even know if she's single/interested.

If only she'd give me some sort of sign......... "
Has she got a ruler in her hand ?

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"I bet you'd be disappointed if he didn't measure up to your strict penis size limitation. Maybe you should get in the gym yourself and tighten up that pelvic floor "

Or you could read the thread she started on why she likes big willies rather than making assumptions.

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge


"I'm 3 weeks into my new job, receptionist in the leisure centre, I've seen a normal man almost every day come in to use the gym, I swipe his card and say morning but that's it. I can see the gym area from the front desk and whenever I look he's looking, either directly or in the mirror. I fucking fancy him man but no nothing about him other than his name and age, he's 35, couldn't find him on Facebook to have a little peek to see if he's attached.

Would an attached person look and be smiley and shit.

I have bad thoughts when I see him, like I can see him doing bench presses and I wanna go in the gym and pull his joggers down and suck him off but obviously I can't. He looks like he's got a promising lump as well cos I look directly at his penis area but only have a few seconds to do that!"

Ok, next time I come into the Gym I will say hello to you.

On a serious note, I think that people are being slightly unfair on the Facebook thing, I took it on face value that if he appeared attached you would just let it go, and you weren't intending to turn up in his doorstep.

Returned smiles can be a sign of attraction, but also of politeness.

There's no rush, just be you, smile add a couple of words when he books in, is it cold out , are the roads better this morning etc etc. Then it will flow and you can progress with the questions so that it's a natural extension of your conversation rather than leaping in asking about girlfriends first up.

Or slap out your tits and ask for an opinion?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking someone up on the net isn't stalking. They don't know you're watching them "

By that logic it is fine to set yourself up in the bushes at the end of the garden with notebook and video camera, so long as you don't get caught

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But this is a natural attraction, each day I see this dude I think about doing things with him, it's not a cold meeting where the guy has to be perfect straight away. I get a little fuzzy feeling when I see him and for the hour that he's there he's nice to look at. This could be good for me cos I could actually like the person without caring about the penis size and all I need is to get that initial attraction I think.

"

You could say 'morning do you always come alone', then he might mention girlfriend etc. Or you could follow up and ask if she goes to a different gym.

Then if he's unattached you could say 'morning' and if he's got a prominent bulge say 'someone's happy this morning ' make it clear you're interested, guys are usually clueless!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ask someone who works in the gym area to do your research for you,

Just the basic friendly comments,

Just finished work ?

Straight home or out for a few drinks after your workout ?

You out the weekend ?

Is that a bottle of water you have in your shorts or just happy to be in here

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Good looking, 35 - if he's not an arsehole or boring or whatever then he's probably going to be attached. And yes attached people are sometimes nice and friendly and even flirty (not me, obviously, but other less grumpy ones)"

This is true. And, therefore, I am probably consigned to the shelf permanently now

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'd leave it well alone.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

I think the answer to this is step away from the computer and ask him out.

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By *ervent_fervourMan
over a year ago

Halifax

Am utterly crap at flirting seeing as I'm shy(apart from whopping my cock out on some pictures on here of course).

Might be a bit poo but how about saying to him, as you take his card, "Do I know you? Your face and name seem familiar..?"

Then if you have the balls when he answers in the negative, just murmour a resigned, quiet "Shame..".

And see if a spark flares in his eyes.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I bet you'd be disappointed if he didn't measure up to your strict penis size limitation. Maybe you should get in the gym yourself and tighten up that pelvic floor "

That's really rude and unnecessary. Do you feel so threatened by women who prefer big cocks that you have to be insulting?

Comments like this just make you look like an arsehole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does your gum not have it's own facebook page? Seems the safest way to find him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I swim all the time and there's a life guard who's defo got the hots for me i catch him looking all the time,he's pretty young and fit just my type tempting as it is to encourage him i think it's wise not to poop on your own doorstep

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I wonder how this would have played out if it was a chap saying about how this lass with a lovely pair of boobs came into work and he'd been eyeing her up and trying to trace her through the details he could glean from work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder how this would have played out if it was a chap saying about how this lass with a lovely pair of boobs came into work and he'd been eyeing her up and trying to trace her through the details he could glean from work "

That probably depends on a few factors

Who are they, Do they normally start these type threads Where do they work

What was there answers to questions from other posters etc

Hit and miss really I have seen it go both ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder how this would have played out if it was a chap saying about how this lass with a lovely pair of boobs came into work and he'd been eyeing her up and trying to trace her through the details he could glean from work "

If it was a 'popular' guy would have probably played out the same ~ an unknown, well..........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder how this would have played out if it was a chap saying about how this lass with a lovely pair of boobs came into work and he'd been eyeing her up and trying to trace her through the details he could glean from work "

So do I... so I have posted a fictitious topic https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/480185#message_9634097

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

How about giving him a note with your phone number on next time you swipe him in?

Cal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There always lots of perving / checking people out in the gym !!!

You come across as fairly confident so up the ante.. .big genuine smile , bat your eyelids ...flirt with him !!!

Most guys are pretty useless at picking up the signs a women is interested in them because there's lots of prick teasers & their scared of getting knocked back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I bet you'd be disappointed if he didn't measure up to your strict penis size limitation. Maybe you should get in the gym yourself and tighten up that pelvic floor

That's really rude and unnecessary. Do you feel so threatened by women who prefer big cocks that you have to be insulting?

Comments like this just make you look like an arsehole."

Yeah that's me. Mr arsehole

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I wonder how this would have played out if it was a chap saying about how this lass with a lovely pair of boobs came into work and he'd been eyeing her up and trying to trace her through the details he could glean from work

If it was a 'popular' guy would have probably played out the same ~ an unknown, well.........."

You're right.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've finished now, yes I saw him again and swiped his card and had a couple of glances but when he was leaving he put his hoody on in the reception area, I had a quick glance but had a queue forming full of lunchtime swimmers so my _iew was blocked!

Anyway thought people would be pleased that I'm looking at people in everyday situations and not once did his cock size pop into my head.

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By *entle giraffeMan
over a year ago

Minehead


"Good god some wolves out again today.... She's not his doctor for goodness sakes she's a receptionist at a gym! People meet people in all areas of life and knowing his name is hardly stalking

Op as has been said just chat to him next time he is in.... I'm sure you'll get an idea if he is interested "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've finished now, yes I saw him again and swiped his card and had a couple of glances but when he was leaving he put his hoody on in the reception area, I had a quick glance but had a queue forming full of lunchtime swimmers so my _iew was blocked!

Anyway thought people would be pleased that I'm looking at people in everyday situations and not once did his cock size pop into my head. "

Ok lol ....go you !!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Now I've got set shifts I'm not in again till Monday afternoon and he comes in the day, afternoons Tuesday as well so will be Wednesday next time I'm mornings! Got almost a full week to practice the art of flirting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way you tilt your head on your profile pic .. .to reveal your neck is slightly flirtatious & delicious at the same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, it's 2016, can't you just ask him if he is single or attached, in a nice way like, if he is single ask him out for a drink, all he can say is no.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"For the last three weeks, the new receptionist in the gym that I visit every day seems to be very friendly with me as she swipes my card. She is stunning and very sexy, and im sure she steals a few glances as I work out.

Being scared of rejection, seeing as I see her most days, I dont do anything about it. I dont even know if she's single/interested.

If only she'd give me some sort of sign......... Has she got a ruler in her hand ? "

Hahaha!!

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Now I've got set shifts I'm not in again till Monday afternoon and he comes in the day, afternoons Tuesday as well so will be Wednesday next time I'm mornings! Got almost a full week to practice the art of flirting!"

Wrote our number on a piece of paper, fold it over and write 'my phone number' on the outside. As he's leaving next time say 'excuse me did you drop this?' If he can see its your number he can politely accept or decline even if there's others about

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"Now I've got set shifts I'm not in again till Monday afternoon and he comes in the day, afternoons Tuesday as well so will be Wednesday next time I'm mornings! Got almost a full week to practice the art of flirting!

Wrote our number on a piece of paper, fold it over and write 'my phone number' on the outside. As he's leaving next time say 'excuse me did you drop this?' If he can see its your number he can politely accept or decline even if there's others about "

Also put fancy a fuck inside

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I think this is one of those threads that if a man had posted it the reaction would be a bit different He's given you no indication he's in the slightest bit interested in you. And I know plenty of people do it but the whole facebook stalking thing is a bit weird in my opinion

Do your employers have a policy on staff shagging customers, most frown on it"

I was just thinking that

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly


"Now I've got set shifts I'm not in again till Monday afternoon and he comes in the day, afternoons Tuesday as well so will be Wednesday next time I'm mornings! Got almost a full week to practice the art of flirting!

Wrote our number on a piece of paper, fold it over and write 'my phone number' on the outside. As he's leaving next time say 'excuse me did you drop this?' If he can see its your number he can politely accept or decline even if there's others about

Also put fancy a fuck inside "

Mike that advice is for the boy thread

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Your priority is securing your new job.

He's a regular, so won't be going anywhere in a hurry. Just keep smiling and being friendly, so he perceives you as open, rather than closed to him.

Pm me the details of the place and when he's due in, so that I can check him out, whilst you play safe and keep your job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What will be will be. If anything is meant to happen it will.

Try not to overthink things and just let nature take its course.

Keep us posted.

Good luck. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check his wedding ring finger!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Check his wedding ring finger!"

I've been looking for the last 2 weeks when he puts his card back in his wallet and there's no rings on any fingers but then people could take them off for gym and doesn't rule out a girlfriend, or boyfriend I don't even know his sexuality! The only time I was the other side of the counter was last week when a smear on the doors to the entrance was annoying me so I'd gone out to wipe it and turned the magic doors off so they'd stay shut for me to wipe them and he knocked the glass behind me (there's two sets of double magic doors and I was wiping the internal ones) The guy I worked today said is that the one you fancy but I said no!

Thing is I'm only doing training at this site for 6 weeks so another 3 left then I could be placed in this site or another 2 sites depending on where they need me.

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue


"Check his wedding ring finger!

I've been looking for the last 2 weeks when he puts his card back in his wallet and there's no rings on any fingers but then people could take them off for gym and doesn't rule out a girlfriend, or boyfriend I don't even know his sexuality! The only time I was the other side of the counter was last week when a smear on the doors to the entrance was annoying me so I'd gone out to wipe it and turned the magic doors off so they'd stay shut for me to wipe them and he knocked the glass behind me (there's two sets of double magic doors and I was wiping the internal ones) The guy I worked today said is that the one you fancy but I said no!

Thing is I'm only doing training at this site for 6 weeks so another 3 left then I could be placed in this site or another 2 sites depending on where they need me. "

two more other sites.. this can only be a good thing.. different men.. more stalking opportunities..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking someone up on the net isn't stalking. They don't know you're watching them

By that logic it is fine to set yourself up in the bushes at the end of the garden with notebook and video camera, so long as you don't get caught "

You're sick

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By *iverpool LoverMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"Now I've got set shifts I'm not in again till Monday afternoon and he comes in the day, afternoons Tuesday as well so will be Wednesday next time I'm mornings! Got almost a full week to practice the art of flirting!

Wrote our number on a piece of paper, fold it over and write 'my phone number' on the outside. As he's leaving next time say 'excuse me did you drop this?' If he can see its your number he can politely accept or decline even if there's others about "

Try somthing like the poster I'm quoting OP, he will be flattered either way I'm sure.

If you don't ask you will never know and i dont think its a sackable offence so you have nothing to lose.

Ive been a member of a few gyms and in each of them the pts/gym instructors are fucking the female life gaurds from the pool area, also female members of the gym.

Infact tbe receptionist in the one I'm in now is engaged and pregnant to a guy that uses the gym and thats how they met.

I'd say just go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

of course he might be gay.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait till your trainings up then slip him your number back with hus card

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

When on shifts is it worth heading into the gym yourself for a work out when you expect him to be there in order to strike up conversation and suggest a drink afterwards?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now I've got set shifts I'm not in again till Monday afternoon and he comes in the day, afternoons Tuesday as well so will be Wednesday next time I'm mornings! Got almost a full week to practice the art of flirting!

Wrote our number on a piece of paper, fold it over and write 'my phone number' on the outside. As he's leaving next time say 'excuse me did you drop this?' If he can see its your number he can politely accept or decline even if there's others about

Try somthing like the poster I'm quoting OP, he will be flattered either way I'm sure.

If you don't ask you will never know and i dont think its a sackable offence so you have nothing to lose.

Ive been a member of a few gyms and in each of them the pts/gym instructors are fucking the female life gaurds from the pool area, also female members of the gym.

Infact tbe receptionist in the one I'm in now is engaged and pregnant to a guy that uses the gym and thats how they met.

I'd say just go for it "

The same thing happens in the gym where I go.

I've been match maker a few times.

They never ended well

This might be a bit of a cop out but a would get one of the gym instructors to have a word with him to let him know your interested

They will already know him if he goes in the gym often.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Shyness is nice,

And shyness can stop you,

From doing all the things in life you'd like to......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ask him out. Life is to short for worrying about not mixing business with pleasure and all that stuff.

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By *artytwoCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"I'm 3 weeks into my new job, receptionist in the leisure centre, I've seen a normal man almost every day come in to use the gym, I swipe his card and say morning but that's it. I can see the gym area from the front desk and whenever I look he's looking, either directly or in the mirror. I fucking fancy him man but no nothing about him other than his name and age, he's 35, couldn't find him on Facebook to have a little peek to see if he's attached.

Would an attached person look and be smiley and shit.

I have bad thoughts when I see him, like I can see him doing bench presses and I wanna go in the gym and pull his joggers down and suck him off but obviously I can't. He looks like he's got a promising lump as well cos I look directly at his penis area but only have a few seconds to do that!"

Mmm, did you do this in your last job?

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By *ub_liminalTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Belfast

You can be friendly and ask a few non invasive general questions , to give you an idea if he's compatible or not.

You've admired his physique from a far and embued different qualities upon him without really knowing anything.

He may be a dud with the body of a stud..

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By *emini1637Woman
over a year ago

Warwickshire

Dies the gym offer guest passes? You could ask if he would like one to bring his partner?! Could be a way of getting the answer to his relationship status and then go from there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has he flirted with you yet or is he just generally just being nice to the new receptionist?

if you like the look of him and wish to take it further, I'd say something if I was you. But I'd only do it twice max, after that forget it. Just say ' lovely to see you again' with a cheeky smile/ giggle and see what happens after that. He may get more talkative he may not.

Just bear in mind most men just go to the gym to work out and not to flirt around with the staff so watch yourself.

Best of luck tho xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha chat him up

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By *fricanMann2077Man
over a year ago

Stoke On Trent


"Oh if this had been a guy posting wouldn't he have got slated...

Or he maybe have bee told to use the stories and fantasy section... "

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh if this had been a guy posting wouldn't he have got slated...

Or he maybe have bee told to use the stories and fantasy section...

I agree"

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Oh.

Where'd Seawitch go?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seawitch has gone unlos again?!

Cant say I'm massively surprised I think a lot of people harbour resentment to her and some of that came out yesterday.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Seawitch has gone unlos again?!

Cant say I'm massively surprised I think a lot of people harbour resentment to her and some of that came out yesterday. "

Resentment why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seawitch has gone unlos again?!

Cant say I'm massively surprised I think a lot of people harbour resentment to her and some of that came out yesterday.

Resentment why? "

Yes I've never noticed that either

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Seawitch has gone unlos again?!

Cant say I'm massively surprised I think a lot of people harbour resentment to her and some of that came out yesterday.

Resentment why? "

Because she openly admits she only meets fit, good looking men with big cocks and it makes a lot of guys feel insecure.

She blocks messages from men and contacts people she's interested in, so she's seen as snotty and thinking she's too good for most of the guys here. They feel excluded and don't like it.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Seawitch has gone unlos again?!

Cant say I'm massively surprised I think a lot of people harbour resentment to her and some of that came out yesterday.

Resentment why?

Yes I've never noticed that either "

It's only the insecure ones who have a problem with her preferences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A little bit of opposition yesterday may have pissed her off

I'm sure she'll be back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive thought her comments etc are what a guy would come out with.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Seawitch has gone unlos again?!

Cant say I'm massively surprised I think a lot of people harbour resentment to her and some of that came out yesterday. "
resentment about what. Shes never been shy at coming forward, she will be back soon anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seawitch has gone unlos again?!

Cant say I'm massively surprised I think a lot of people harbour resentment to her and some of that came out yesterday.

Resentment why?

Yes I've never noticed that either

It's only the insecure ones who have a problem with her preferences."

very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aw man. I'm going to miss our Seawitch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seawitch has gone unlos again?!

Cant say I'm massively surprised I think a lot of people harbour resentment to her and some of that came out yesterday.

Resentment why?

Because she openly admits she only meets fit, good looking men with big cocks and it makes a lot of guys feel insecure.

She blocks messages from men and contacts people she's interested in, so she's seen as snotty and thinking she's too good for most of the guys here. They feel excluded and don't like it."

I love her brutally honest approach

See far too many people on here with their noses so far up other people's arses they could remake the human centipede.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite like some of her posts, it's just a temporary hissy fit, she'll be back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aw man. I'm going to miss our Seawitch! "

Fear not. She'll be back x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aw man. I'm going to miss our Seawitch! "

Yep, me too. I didn't always agree with what she said but I admired her brutal honesty.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"Oh.

Where'd Seawitch go?"
doesnt seem to like it when things dont go her way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can take the swinger out of fab but you can't take fab out of the swinger....sounded better in my head....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A little bit of opposition yesterday may have pissed her off

I'm sure she'll be back"

Yep I agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I like her posts, some of them made me genuinely laugh out loud, so I hope she'll be back soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seawitch has gone unlos again?!

Cant say I'm massively surprised I think a lot of people harbour resentment to her and some of that came out yesterday.

Resentment why?

Yes I've never noticed that either

It's only the insecure ones who have a problem with her preferences."

Or perhaps people that dont like getting dismissed out of hand for something that's out of their control.

Personally I had nothing against her, I've chatted with her before and i think she's nice. But I've seen plenty to know that others dont see it like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seawitch has gone unlos again?!

Cant say I'm massively surprised I think a lot of people harbour resentment to her and some of that came out yesterday.

Resentment why?

Because she openly admits she only meets fit, good looking men with big cocks and it makes a lot of guys feel insecure.

She blocks messages from men and contacts people she's interested in, so she's seen as snotty and thinking she's too good for most of the guys here. They feel excluded and don't like it.

I love her brutally honest approach

See far too many people on here with their noses so far up other people's arses they could remake the human centipede. "

Quite ironic as she loved the nose up the bum poke.

She was very honest but had a problem when people were honest back.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

Maybe just maybe...she's ran off with the gym guy

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Ive thought her comments etc are what a guy would come out with. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe just maybe...she's ran off with the gym guy "

Hopefully

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seawitch has gone unlos again?!

Cant say I'm massively surprised I think a lot of people harbour resentment to her and some of that came out yesterday.

Resentment why?

Because she openly admits she only meets fit, good looking men with big cocks and it makes a lot of guys feel insecure.

She blocks messages from men and contacts people she's interested in, so she's seen as snotty and thinking she's too good for most of the guys here. They feel excluded and don't like it."

There are lots of men with an overblown sense of entitlement. While I agree with what you say I still don't see that she was a victim of this supposed resentment

And I can't see the posts supposedly showing this resentment just people answering honestly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I miss him already

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"Maybe just maybe...she's ran off with the gym guy

Hopefully "

Heaven help him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ill never forget hes...i mean her comment on a cheating thread. How she would entice the guy to a hotel the glass the fucking cheat in the face. Since then any respect went

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I liked her.

She was lovely to me when I left and came back.

I hope she comes back.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I rather like her brutal honesty even if I dont always agree.

I'm sure she'll be back at some point or another. Most people do

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I liked her.

She was lovely to me when I left and came back.

I hope she comes back."

This for me too (apart from the leaving part cause I've never left)

I'm sorry she was offended by the other thread yesterday too. I read it as a bit of fun and not personal.

I hope she returns. In the meantime, I'm going to close this and hope that the bitching about an absent member doesn't continue.

Play nice, we're all allowed to be different without having name calling.

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