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How great is it when you receive a message as a single male

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I got one yesterday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's almost like winning the lottery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens, but, it's worthy of note and it always makes me go "Oh!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing is how single guys tend to reply to these messages! I sent out about ten messages to guys I liked the look of the other week, four were read and deleted (which is fine, I obv wasn't their cup of tea) and the other six all messaged back treating me like some kind of free prostitute that undoubtedly wanted to fuck them just because I had messaged to say I liked their profile..... "Babe wen u free and I cum round and fuk u" messages.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think the same gents ....and yet some ladies get hundreds everyday ...how confused would we get if we got hundreds ....well you wouldn't know where to start .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I file mine in categories

Height

Looks

Body shape

and hand size,

I'm trying to find that perfect one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The thing is how single guys tend to reply to these messages! I sent out about ten messages to guys I liked the look of the other week, four were read and deleted (which is fine, I obv wasn't their cup of tea) and the other six all messaged back treating me like some kind of free prostitute that undoubtedly wanted to fuck them just because I had messaged to say I liked their profile..... "Babe wen u free and I cum round and fuk u" messages....."

Point taken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhh come on guys get some self respect .

Man up guys..I'm in the same boat but it all gets a bit cringe worthy when we start saying..no one picks me, no one fabs my pic etc!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

blushes and goes to mail box

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OMG why are all the sexy single guys so far away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have same experience

block list gets longer...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" Ahhh come on guys get some self respect .

Man up guys..I'm in the same boat but it all gets a bit cringe worthy when we start saying..no one picks me, no one fabs my pic etc! "

I didn't say no one picks me ...they do but very seldom which is just about right considering theres about a 100 men per 5 ladies on here .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv never had a message first of a female or couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

shame you so far...would be only reason for not contacting you

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By *ecretgamesMan
over a year ago

the moon


"The thing is how single guys tend to reply to these messages! I sent out about ten messages to guys I liked the look of the other week, four were read and deleted (which is fine, I obv wasn't their cup of tea) and the other six all messaged back treating me like some kind of free prostitute that undoubtedly wanted to fuck them just because I had messaged to say I liked their profile..... "Babe wen u free and I cum round and fuk u" messages....."

Where the hell is mine !!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The thing is how single guys tend to reply to these messages! I sent out about ten messages to guys I liked the look of the other week, four were read and deleted (which is fine, I obv wasn't their cup of tea) and the other six all messaged back treating me like some kind of free prostitute that undoubtedly wanted to fuck them just because I had messaged to say I liked their profile..... "Babe wen u free and I cum round and fuk u" messages....."

this is the main reason that i very rarely msg single guys

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By *ecretgamesMan
over a year ago

the moon


" Ahhh come on guys get some self respect .

Man up guys..I'm in the same boat but it all gets a bit cringe worthy when we start saying..no one picks me, no one fabs my pic etc! "

That's cause your hot stripes !!! Like me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" Ahhh come on guys get some self respect .

Man up guys..I'm in the same boat but it all gets a bit cringe worthy when we start saying..no one picks me, no one fabs my pic etc! "

I'm self respectively verified ... and manned up when I fucked her .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Ahhh come on guys get some self respect .

Man up guys..I'm in the same boat but it all gets a bit cringe worthy when we start saying..no one picks me, no one fabs my pic etc!

I'm self respectively verified ... and manned up when I fucked her . "
it's not a dig at you personally. But you get my drift? And I almost said the pitiful,at least your verified thing. ..then manned up

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

its no biggie......;)

what you mean it doesn't happen to everyone!!!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I just think 'who have I upset now'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing better than getting a message from a genuine female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got one yesterday "
lol its definatly a rare thing.... guess women like a man to make the first move...

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"I just think 'who have I upset now' "

that is why i wear a gum shield and a cricket box to socials... you never know when you are going to get that "tap" on the shoulder....

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I just think 'who have I upset now'

that is why i wear a gum shield and a cricket box to socials... you never know when you are going to get that "tap" on the shoulder.... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing that little yellow box is one of life's great pleasures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes send messages to myself...

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

I wouldn't know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still waiting for a message first from a female..... (could be some time lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*shrugs*

It's ok I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every time I get a message from a single fem of mf couple they either want bare back or come up with some excuse not too meet up... So glad I'm bi lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still waiting for a message first from a female..... (could be some time lol) "

Gerraway? 8 weeks in....but have you been actively involved? It won't happen by just sitting back?

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"The thing is how single guys tend to reply to these messages! I sent out about ten messages to guys I liked the look of the other week, four were read and deleted (which is fine, I obv wasn't their cup of tea) and the other six all messaged back treating me like some kind of free prostitute that undoubtedly wanted to fuck them just because I had messaged to say I liked their profile..... "Babe wen u free and I cum round and fuk u" messages....."

Maybe you were just unlucky...

When we're actively looking we prefer to find and message single men. Quite a few simply read and deleted, which is fine as they were obviously not interested.

Rest generally all messaged back fine and didnt assume anything. Obviously not all turned into meets but in general it worked well for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah not fussed, playing hard to get, got everyone blocked at the moment apart from FF...just in case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only ones I get are from gay guys or ts/cd who haven't read my profile or they wouldn't have sent the message in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah not fussed, playing hard to get, got everyone blocked at the moment apart from FF...just in case "

And I was thinking of messaging you too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*shrugs*

It's ok I suppose."

Stud

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I got one for being the op.....2 in 2 days ...fuck me !!!!!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I love getting messages .. On the rare occasion that I get one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only ones I get are from gay guys or ts/cd who haven't read my profile or they wouldn't have sent the message in the first place"

Yep same here. Very rare I get messages from women but when I do, there's a happy dance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only ones I get are from gay guys or ts/cd who haven't read my profile or they wouldn't have sent the message in the first place"

I quite often message "straight" guys . 80% of them turn out to be bi,unless they actively state not looking for single guys. You can always block messages from single guys but run the risk of a single guy who has a lady in mind for a 3 some

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very true

I imagine it's the complete opposite for single females/couples!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only ones I get are from gay guys or ts/cd who haven't read my profile or they wouldn't have sent the message in the first place"

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Put your filters on then.. Then they can't message at all

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By *ug247Man
over a year ago

Near You

It must be so hard to put together a response to the hundreds of messages as I struggle to reply to the one a month I get. This is because it normally gets deleted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends who its from

i used to get that tingle of excitement when i saw i had mail

then i`d open it and it`d be from a guy with a pic of him spreading his ass as an attachment

yippieee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah not fussed, playing hard to get, got everyone blocked at the moment apart from FF...just in case

And I was thinking of messaging you too "

See, playing hard to get is working.....ish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wednesday July 6th. 2014,10 .30 pm. Not that I remember it or nowt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah not fussed, playing hard to get, got everyone blocked at the moment apart from FF...just in case

And I was thinking of messaging you too

See, playing hard to get is working.....ish "

Ish indeed as we both have filters on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The thing is how single guys tend to reply to these messages! I sent out about ten messages to guys I liked the look of the other week, four were read and deleted (which is fine, I obv wasn't their cup of tea) and the other six all messaged back treating me like some kind of free prostitute that undoubtedly wanted to fuck them just because I had messaged to say I liked their profile..... "Babe wen u free and I cum round and fuk u" messages....."

Which is probably why many ladies and couples don't want too make the first move.. that is what i tell myself too get through the day anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got one yesterday "
it is a lovely feeling but rare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of mine are forum related, The last one was yesterday

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"I got one yesterday "

It is wonderful. I'm lucky, I do alright for messages but I'm still not exactly knee deep in them. They never fail to put a smile on my face and they just make my heart skip a little, knowing a woman (yes, a real life WOMAN!) has gone out of her way to message little old me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is pretty sweet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as .....only had a few ....boo hoo !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got one yesterday

It is wonderful. I'm lucky, I do alright for messages but I'm still not exactly knee deep in them. They never fail to put a smile on my face and they just make my heart skip a little, knowing a woman (yes, a real life WOMAN!) has gone out of her way to message little old me "

Note to self... Must get a pair of multi coloured socks x

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth


"The thing is how single guys tend to reply to these messages! I sent out about ten messages to guys I liked the look of the other week, four were read and deleted (which is fine, I obv wasn't their cup of tea) and the other six all messaged back treating me like some kind of free prostitute that undoubtedly wanted to fuck them just because I had messaged to say I liked their profile..... "Babe wen u free and I cum round and fuk u" messages....."

Here is the thing most (not all) men think with logic of the end result, while you lovely ladies (not all) think with feelings and emotion.

Looking at the message again if a woman approaches me like that I will be worried.

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