FabSwingers.com forum: Scars

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

In 2014 I got hit by a car resulting in many operations which left me with multiple scars on legs. My question is are scars a turn off as I am bit embarrassed of them !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear that and I'm sure it has an effect on you.

For me with a female? No. Of course I'd look as it's only natural to be frank to them but they're just part of that persons makeup.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good way of putting it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scars would make no difference to me. It's part of your body's history. I have a couple of scars, I'm sure most people do.

You could explain beforehand, so whoever you're meeting is aware. Then you won't be concerned about it.

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you think put it in my profile and let them read it or explain later on

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Don't find scars a turn off, my ex had quite a few from various accidents and I barely noticed them.

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By *irceWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

We all carry scars..some visible

So do not worry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see it as an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In 2014 I got hit by a car resulting in many operations which left me with multiple scars on legs. My question is are scars a turn off as I am bit embarrassed of them !!"

not at all, shows what you have went through in the past and many will look with admiration, don't try and hide them or use creams to try and hide them, show them off with pride

as for me, im like a patch work quilt due to 30 years of motorbikes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have numerous scars. They define who we are. My scars come from fights with ex, dog fight scars, and meningitis. I don't mind mine. You accept me for who I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In 2014 I got hit by a car resulting in many operations which left me with multiple scars on legs. My question is are scars a turn off as I am bit embarrassed of them !!"

Relax man, I have lits of scars on my body, including one on my face and believe me girls like it

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By *iking.beardMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I've got some big one across my stomach and back (most people let out a wow) but to be honest I forget about them some people ask about them witch I dont mind some don't ask there just part of me like a tattoo but with a much better story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was embarrassed about mine, then I thought Hey ho if someone didn't like or it put them off in bed, then fuck off it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scars tell a story and some are stories of courage and survival,don't be ashamed of them,if people like you then a few scars shouldn't change that,unless they affect you physically in which case then you may need to mention them so the other person is aware of any limitations

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By *aystay66Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Don't be no way ! I've got a massive one down the back from machete attack in Cape Town when in Merchant navy ! Had a few tatts try to cover regret them now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the scars i have and i agree they all tell a story and make us different...except i have a couple from zits when i was younger and they can get me down occasionally, but what can ya do hey

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By *sla69Woman
over a year ago

coventry/Leicestershire border

Scars make you the person you are

Wear with pride I have a scar that saved my life and I'm proud to wear it. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm so glad someone has made a thread about this. I don't have an incredible amount of self esteem as it is but i've been worrying recently as i'm having an operation soon that will leave me with a 6 inch abdominal scar. I'd kind of figured that'd be game over for me but some of the responses here are very relieving.

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By *ezjez369Man
over a year ago

london

Physical scars are there to be seen and accepted, as are facial features and body types. On this site I'd be more worried about the physcological scars people have that you can't see!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a massive scar on my left leg from a bad bike accident witch I nearly died from loss of blood then the car that was involved drove off and left me for dead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think scars are just part of the person we are. They should not define us, I like my scars, not morbidly, but because they remind me of survival, those scars from surgery saved my life and that I embrace but do not define myself by them nor do I care to what people think of them.

If scars out anyone off then they are not a person you should want to be around.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I got one more op to go for then it will be the ending a long road. 6 operations in 2 years. Mine too was from motor bike accedent. Guy on wrong side of road.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear what happened and understand ur reluctance or wanting to prepare others.... When scars are new I think they are more noticeable and I do think it's worth mentioning when u meet for that coffee etc .... Just by chatting about the bike even .....

Over time they fade and they are the testimony that you have survived and it's now part of ur character to be one who came out the other side xx

Mwah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got one more op to go for then it will be the ending a long road. 6 operations in 2 years. Mine too was from motor bike accedent. Guy on wrong side of road. "
there wankers then say I never saw him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Scars tell a story and some are stories of courage and survival,don't be ashamed of them,if people like you then a few scars shouldn't change that,unless they affect you physically in which case then you may need to mention them so the other person is aware of any limitations

Couldn't have said it better myself....I have scars from breast cancer surgery and I'm not at all embarrassed by them...They show what I've been through to fight this horrible disease...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they will fade with time and you will get used to them.

I was involved in a serious accident way back in 84 and suffered 30% burns, as a result I no longer need to shave my legs lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"In 2014 I got hit by a car resulting in many operations which left me with multiple scars on legs. My question is are scars a turn off as I am bit embarrassed of them !!"

I really like scars and find them interesting on a guy and incredibly sexy on a woman. Be proud of them.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Have loads of scars on my knees, from falling off bikes and motorcycles. I have a nice long scar on my abdomen, from an OP. No has mentioned it to me during a meet.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I would guess many people have some scars somewhere on their body. It's just part of your history. I wouldn't mention it on your profile, but tell people you are conscious of them before you get to the stripping off stage.

You can always have a bit of fun about them. My teenage son was run over when he was five and has multiple scars including some on his head that left him with bald patches. He started telling people how he was attacked by a shark, eaten by a whale or fought off a grizzly bear to save a group of orphans of an outing.

How you handle the situation is up to you.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

When I was 15 I was in a horse riding accident that resulted in me having pin and braces in my leg. I've also had heaps of other operations (benign tumour removal, C Section etc). I had really low self esteem when I was younger now I just think if people judge me on the way I walk or my scars then they're not the kind of people I need in my life. I have met one knob from here that I forgot to mention my dodgy leg to and I never heard from him again..... I'm so glad!

So OP be proud of your scars as they are the signs that you're a survivor..... Apologies if this has made you too start singing the Destiny's Child tune x

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

"When I was 15 I was in a horse riding accident that resulted in me having pin and braces in my leg. I've also had heaps of other operations (benign tumour removal, C Section etc). I had really low self esteem when I was younger now I just think if people judge me on the way I walk or my scars then they're not the kind of people I need in my life. I have met one knob from here that I forgot to mention my dodgy leg to and I never heard from him again..... I'm so glad!

So OP be proud of your scars as they are the signs that you're a survivor..... Apologies if this has made you too start singing the Destiny's Child tune x

I was actually started singing Gloria gayner

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

So OP be proud of your scars as they are the signs that you're a survivor..... Apologies if this has made you too start singing the Destiny's Child tune x

I was actually started singing Gloria gayner "

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By *urreycouple69Couple
over a year ago

Caterham

Feeling so much better after reading posts have a huge scar on tummy and hate it always try to cover it up, worse still it's a reminder of the constant pain I still endure, however I never notice anyone else's scars or imperfections they may have......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In 2014 I got hit by a car resulting in many operations which left me with multiple scars on legs. My question is are scars a turn off as I am bit embarrassed of them !!"

I have several scars on my knees from numerous operations and I sometimes get embarrassed by my knees! I'm also going to be having a knee replacement at some point and the scar from that will be a whopper! I just hope the near full leg tat distracts them! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So OP be proud of your scars as they are the signs that you're a survivor..... Apologies if this has made you too start singing the Destiny's Child tune x

I can't believe anyone would be even noticing your scars your so hot! I know what you mean tho I have severe arthritis and sometimes have to use a crutch but I'd not meet if I was having a bad time! I recently had a knee op and they have me a stick and I felt so self conscious

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By *econdtryWoman
over a year ago

Warwick

Couldn't have said it better myself....I have scars from breast cancer surgery and I'm not at all embarrassed by them...They show what I've been through to fight this horrible disease...

Me too, I've got breast cancer scars, a skin cancer scar, a Caesarian scar and a few others. My meets that have asked about them have been lovely, but most haven't said anything and it certainly hasn't put them off meeting me again....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scars are hot. I have a fuck load on my thighs and I get laid all the time.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I have psoriasis, but I don't let it interfere with my life.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

“I just don't want to die without a few scars.”

~ Chuck Palahniuk, Fight Club

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover

Scars are just character you can see from the outside. Got a good few and don't let me it worry me one bit.

Besides, chicks dig scars.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few scars on my face. No one's made an issue of it.

Not to my knowledge anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a scar from top of rib cage down to my pussy ,and then going across stomach ,nice present from a d*unk drive ,resulting in me having a cardiac arrest and can have no babies. ...it's made me a stronger person but a major hate for d*unk drivers ,x

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton

I have a scar on my stomach from an appendix operation in the days well before keyhole surgery. No-one has even commented on it during a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry about them OP...

I've got a few stretch marks as I was a little midget at secondary school, then in the old 3rd year I grew about a foot in about 6 months... It's only in the last 12 months I've thought fuck it..

Seriously, it's no issue to me.. nobody is perfect...

Harry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find scars a real conversation starter!

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

Don't worry too much, Mine have never stopped me from being a fanny magnet ?? and I've got loads from the top of my head, on my face, chest, hands, arms and legs, off everything from chicken pox to stupidity. They're usually never mentioned or enquired about curiously, i've even played top trumps-scar edition with a couple of play mates, seeing who has the daftest excuse for those little imperfections.

Will have another one by this time tomorrow following another 'incident' requiring a little surgical attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd just say the scars are there as part of who you have become and like a few have said it will be a topic of conversation too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't bother me one bit - actually, my last two exes have a few scars (and one actually has a chunk missing from his knee cap) and I liked stroking them & kissing them better.

To me, scars are like good tattoos - I like finding out the stories behind them.

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