FabSwingers.com forum: single males posing as MF couples

By *BW38j OP Woman
over a year ago

Dudley/Telford

is it me or is this a regular thing? i know that people arnt going to be totally honest sometimes but if your single then be single or am i daft

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I am guessing it is to get around single male mail blocks. Once they are in then they can talk them round.....when all it really does is normally annoy people.

Even if they were looking for single males they probably wouldn't pick them now.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Surely not?

Flabbergasted of Devon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i cant stand it as well. we come across 3 couples so far. a pain in the neck i just block them now and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to say it's quite a regular thing with us, we get quite a few messages from "couples" who what to chat on msn first and when you take a look at there profile they are not photo verified have 100's of friends and not one verification

So just seem to be pic collectors

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

we're thinking of changing,our status,to a single male.

lure couples into a false sense of security.with a barrage,of banter,and fun messages.arrange a meet.

then turn up as a couple.hah! by then it'll be to late,we'll have them trapped.

although with our luck,they'll really be a single bloody male..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres a lot of poorly wives around isnt there "we are a couple but she cant play at the moment as she's sick, but she says its ok that I can"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we're thinking of changing,our status,to a single male.

lure couples into a false sense of security.with a barrage,of banter,and fun messages.arrange a meet.

then turn up as a couple.hah! by then it'll be to late,we'll have them trapped.

although with our luck,they'll really be a single bloody male..

Love it!!

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By *uro anchorMan
over a year ago

Coventry

im a single female posing as a single male...

now I know how difficult it is for them poor single men and think us ladies and couples should be much nicer to them...

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

" she cant play at the moment as she's sick, but she says its ok that I can"

Probably sick and tired of hubby sitting wanking on the computer all evening

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I am really just a lesbian trapped in a mans body.... what can i say.. i just love women!!!

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

"is it me or is this a regular thing? i know that people arnt going to be totally honest sometimes but if your single then be single or am i daft

There are a few about but there are many sites. Some singles get board with no no response so i guess it is another ploy. There are also some who were a couple but are no more. Personally i think you should delete your profile rather than use it but that's only my personal view.

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By *andsomgeorgeMan
over a year ago

Rugby

"we're thinking of changing,our status,to a single male.

lure couples into a false sense of security.with a barrage,of banter,and fun messages.arrange a meet.

then turn up as a couple.hah! by then it'll be to late,we'll have them trapped.

although with our luck,they'll really be a single bloody male..

Even us blokes suffer too. I get plenty of mail from couples where the man is bi and the wife isn't interested in playing. Imagine if I had bi/curious on my profile.

The site only reflects 'real life' though where you have a few mindless morons spoiling it for the rest. Many others are lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it me or is this a regular thing? i know that people arnt going to be totally honest sometimes but if your single then be single or am i daft

well I never did! tut

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By *ne ShotMan
over a year ago

Manchester

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By *ne ShotMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"is it me or is this a regular thing? i know that people arnt going to be totally honest sometimes but if your single then be single or am i daft

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From what i understand some men/women meet other singles and have single profiles. These single people also have playmates and also play as a couple and so have a couples profile as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it me or is this a regular thing? i know that people arnt going to be totally honest sometimes but if your single then be single or am i daft

There's loads of single women profiles that are really couples, I would suggest the overwhelming majority of 'single women' on here are not single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol i have to be honest i used to pretend i was a couple for a long time after i split with my ex

i had a profile saying i was the female half of a coupe, that met alone when really i was a single woman

The reason being i just got sick of guys getting really pushy with me because i was a single female and guys dont seem to call you and pester you so much for a re meet if they think your married or send you 50 text messages a day, i think over all men show married women more respect than single ones as married ones have a husband to answer to if they 'cross the line'

so see its ont only men that do ot

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

So imaginary swinging wives don't count then?

I'v had a 'couple' with no pictures at all contact me a few times but it only ever seems to be the 'straight' husband online.

He's made a few lewd comments about my pics so I'm guessing that was a single bi-bloke. 'They' also lived close to my ex's house, so that was a no-no anyway.

He met my special friend, Mr Block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So imaginary swinging wives don't count then?

I'v had a 'couple' with no pictures at all contact me a few times but it only ever seems to be the 'straight' husband online.

He's made a few lewd comments about my pics so I'm guessing that was a single bi-bloke. 'They' also lived close to my ex's house, so that was a no-no anyway.

He met my special friend, Mr Block.

LOL mr block and me are really close at the moment too!

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I'm actually 4 women pretending to be a single bloke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm actually 4 women pretending to be a single bloke."

Sounds like me and my old flatmates when we meet up and get d*unk..

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"I'm actually 4 women pretending to be a single bloke.

Sounds like me and my old flatmates when we meet up and get d*unk.."

What you mean you all start scratching your balls and have in depth discussions about would you or wouldn't you fuck Judy Finnegan?

Your weird!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"is it me or is this a regular thing? i know that people arnt going to be totally honest sometimes but if your single then be single or am i daft

I think you will find a number of them are being honest when they have a couple's account... it's just that the other half doesn't know anything about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Makes us laugh the "couples" that are on at "happy wanking hour" (just b4 wifes home from work) and then you never see them on cam together purley cos she doesnt know shes on a swingers site or what dear hubby is doing lol be honest ppl its the best policy !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it me or is this a regular thing? i know that people arnt going to be totally honest sometimes but if your single then be single or am i daft

There's loads of single women profiles that are really couples, I would suggest the overwhelming majority of 'single women' on here are not single. "
We have come across this too, if you a couple say so honesty best way then everyone can have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it me or is this a regular thing? i know that people arnt going to be totally honest sometimes but if your single then be single or am i daft

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Yes I have been blamed a lot for this before from couples with no cam or verifications or even s, lol although I do sit on cam sometimes when little legs goes to sleep i.e. not wanking but chatting away I do like to chat and make good friends on here! Myself and Louise do go on cam together sometimes we do have fun on it but at least we been verified, it does get on my tits lol if I had any how can I be a fake lol posing as a couple when we are a Fooking couple Louise works Lots of hours so she can’t be in two different places at once lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Theres a lot of poorly wives around isnt there "we are a couple but she cant play at the moment as she's sick, but she says its ok that I can"

yeah or u arrange a meet then when u get there a single guy approches saying she cant make it, shes babysitting, or working or on her period. so annoying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have arrange to meet a single bi fem then out off the blue, can my hubby come ! We said no, we meet couples so why not be honest from the start ?

On that note we are not a couple we are a group of aliens wanting your bodies Mmmmmm lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Theres a lot of poorly wives around isnt there "we are a couple but she cant play at the moment as she's sick, but she says its ok that I can"

yeah or u arrange a meet then when u get there a single guy approches saying she cant make it, shes babysitting, or working or on her period. so annoying."

what and they expect that to work?

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Makes us laugh the "couples" that are on at "happy wanking hour" (just b4 wifes home from work) and then you never see them on cam together purley cos she doesnt know shes on a swingers site or what dear hubby is doing lol be honest ppl its the best policy !!!"

OH how many times have i seen that on so many sites other guys wanking off on cam in the chat and his wifes at work during the day tut tut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it me or is this a regular thing? i know that people arnt going to be totally honest sometimes but if your single then be single or am i daft

There's loads of single women profiles that are really couples, I would suggest the overwhelming majority of 'single women' on here are not single. We have come across this too, if you a couple say so honesty best way then everyone can have fun

I'm not sure it has a huge effect on the amount of fun that is had, but I really don't see any difference, most couples who sit behind a 'single women' profile are doing the same thing as a single sitting behind a couples profile. It just doesn't seem to get the same level of backlash.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

seems an awful lot of effort for no return, cant imagine meeting anyone who had openly lied about their status or maybe they just like the communication?

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

yes but some of them just want you to pervy chat on msn ive checked one cpl who is a single guy checked friends list and his verifications how did i know sent a mail to one of his so called friends another cpl and he sent back the same msn address

i wonder how more peeps have come across this

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"is it me or is this a regular thing? i know that people arnt going to be totally honest sometimes but if your single then be single or am i daft

Over the years I have reported more couples using a single female's profile than singles using a couple's.

If couples want a profile each to use chatrooms - then they should state that is why they have the single's profile.

The ones I report are single female profiles written as a single fem with the add on at the end of... "my partner will be present and joining in" or words to that effect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it me or is this a regular thing? i know that people arnt going to be totally honest sometimes but if your single then be single or am i daft

Over the years I have reported more couples using a single female's profile than singles using a couple's.

If couples want a profile each to use chatrooms - then they should state that is why they have the single's profile.

The ones I report are single female profiles written as a single fem with the add on at the end of... "my partner will be present and joining in" or words to that effect."

I don't go as far as reporting them, but I do agree with you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it me or is this a regular thing? i know that people arnt going to be totally honest sometimes but if your single then be single or am i daft

Over the years I have reported more couples using a single female's profile than singles using a couple's.

If couples want a profile each to use chatrooms - then they should state that is why they have the single's profile.

The ones I report are single female profiles written as a single fem with the add on at the end of... "my partner will be present and joining in" or words to that effect.

I don't go as far as reporting them, but I do agree with you. "

What about single women on this site with a partner and they both only swing together, with people they meet in their day to day lives, just as they did before the advent of the internet?

Is it ok to say she is single in your eyes? Or should she say she has a partner who is not interested in those she chooses to meet from online conection, as that's her thing and he won't be joining in.

Or should she just discuss her situation with those she interacts with in PM or by phone or whatever when a meet is being nurtured to fruition, instead of being pressurised to spill her guts to please a bunch of people she is never gonna meet anyway in an 'approved' 'honest' profile advertisement?

Least said publicly does not equate to a dishonest, shady person with a hidden agenda, just a person who wants privacy while still advertising openly.

Instead of so many having a go at those who choose how much info to tell openly, why don't they ask themselves why they need to know this information and what can they do with the 'truth' anyway? Why waste their time wondering who is 'really' behind the profile, as nothing can ever be conclusively proven unless you meet. If anyone is being dishonest in their representation they are hardly likely to meet and risk being unveilled will they? Its all down to gut instinct. If it doesnt feel right for you walk on by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Until (or if) the Site Owners bar single men, single women or married people 'playing away' and deem this as a swinging couples site only, then there is no other alternative but to accept your fellow members in whatever capacity they interact and advertise in on this site instead of all of this boring speculation about who's who and what's what. There is no heirarchy on this website we are all after similar things and should seek them in a way which is comfortable to ourselves, in my very humble opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Theres a lot of poorly wives around isnt there "we are a couple but she cant play at the moment as she's sick, but she says its ok that I can"

yeah or u arrange a meet then when u get there a single guy approches saying she cant make it, shes babysitting, or working or on her period. so annoying. what and they expect that to work?

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Some people will do anything for sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Until (or if) the Site Owners bar single men, single women or married people 'playing away' and deem this as a swinging couples site only, then there is no other alternative but to accept your fellow members in whatever capacity they interact and advertise in on this site instead of all of this boring speculation about who's who and what's what. There is no heirarchy on this website we are all after similar things and should seek them in a way which is comfortable to ourselves, in my very humble opinion."

Very well said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a new couple getting quite alot at the momment and most you can spot str8 away but there are a few that really mess things up

WANKERS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a couple pretending to be a single guy

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