FabSwingers.com forum: Face pics or No

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What's the general consensus on face pics?

Do we risk it or not?

I've chatted to guys who out right refuse to send a face pic and quite frankly it's annoying. They want to see mine or can see mine but refuse to repay the favour.

Thoughts?

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By *r H and Good PetCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I don't have them publicly, but send them out with no problem.

I don't bother with men who refuse to send them. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand that's there's a recognition risk but I think it's quite low. So I don't mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the general consensus on face pics?

Do we risk it or not?

I've chatted to guys who out right refuse to send a face pic and quite frankly it's annoying. They want to see mine or can see mine but refuse to repay the favour.

Thoughts? "

No problem sending a face pic here! Got too see who your talking too

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'm not likely to meet a guy when I don't know what he looks like.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have mine available after seeing other uses. I figure if someone spots me then, they're already on here anyway.

I did get spotted by someone I worked with. We were quite surprised to find each other on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have mine on display but am willing to send them to people who I feel are genuine.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Mine are private and I send them if I've seen his and think it might be worth continuing the conversation and meeting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm not likely to meet a guy when I don't know what he looks like."

Wouldn't meet someone but why do they expect me to?

They come out with it being about work.....even though they've seen mine....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy to send mine if I've initiated the chat

If not then I wait until they have,I dont waste time on men who won't or who want to email them,kik them or whataspp them to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have mine available after seeing other uses. I figure if someone spots me then, they're already on here anyway.

I did get spotted by someone I worked with. We were quite surprised to find each other on here. "

That's a good way of seeing it, kind of like mutually assured destruction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have them private due to my profession but if there is genuine interest I am happy to send. You have to see the persons face to know if there is an attraction.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have mine available after seeing other uses. I figure if someone spots me then, they're already on here anyway.

I did get spotted by someone I worked with. We were quite surprised to find each other on here.

That's a good way of seeing it, kind of like mutually assured destruction "

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is on display

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mine is on display

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm happy to send mine if I've initiated the chat

If not then I wait until they have

this

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By *erotic_adventureMan
over a year ago

London, Scotland & The North,

OP would you send your face pic first if a male asked you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP would you send your face pic first if a male asked you?"

You can see my face without asking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very beautiful too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have mine on display. The only thing I'm careful about is having any nudity & my face in the same photo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My face pics are splashed all over the place! Most of my friends and some of my family know I swing so it's no big deal! I'd only change it if I changed jobs and thought my job might be at risk!

Probably need to remove them soon though as my son's started high school and I don't want he or his friends surfing the net and finding topless pics of mum! Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have mine on display. The only thing I'm careful about is having any nudity & my face in the same photo."

I tend to do the same. One or the other. If I have a face pic up I hide the naughtier ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more than happy to send a face pic if there's an interest, like to keep it private just for personal reasons! Saves me scaring anyone off!

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Mine are private because I don't want to risk my family knowing I'm on here (they're quite conservative sex wise). I did have one up public fir about a week But I just didn't feel comfortable with it there.

Always happy to share privately and it's always nice to receive one neck, it's just courtesy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't have them publicly, but send them out with no problem.

I don't bother with men who refuse to send them. Lol"

Same.

I never send first though. Only after they've sent theirs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know of two guys who have both seen my face refuse to send their own.

I lose interest and just figure they're probably just looking for sexting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have mine on display. The only thing I'm careful about is having any nudity & my face in the same photo.

I tend to do the same. One or the other. If I have a face pic up I hide the naughtier ones. "

I agree. Which is why I've just made all my face pics public & kept my filthy gang bang ones in my friends gallery

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I'm happy to send mine if I've initiated the chat

If not then I wait until they have,I dont waste time on men who won't or who want to email them,kik them or whataspp them to me

^^^^^ This

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't have them publicly, but send them out with no problem.

I don't bother with men who refuse to send them. Lol

Same.

I never send first though. Only after they've sent theirs."

Couldn't that just lead to a stale mate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think whoever initiated the conversation should send the face pics first. I just had to tell off a couple recently for demanding our face pics when they messaged us first.

It's only fair that the party who expresses initial interest show their cards first.

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't have them publicly, but send them out with no problem.

I don't bother with men who refuse to send them. Lol"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It frustrates me I can't display face pics as I find women are far more receptive after seeing my face which is nice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think whoever initiated the conversation should send the face pics first. I just had to tell off a couple recently for demanding our face pics when they messaged us first.

It's only fair that the party who expresses initial interest show their cards first.

-Courtney "

Seems a good way of going about it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It frustrates me I can't display face pics as I find women are far more receptive after seeing my face which is nice. "

Just make sure you attach one in the first mail.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

If we choose to make first contact with anyone. We always send our first.

If someone contacts us, we'd expect them to send theirs first. If they don't that's fine but we won't continue chatting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a face pic. I like to see who I'm chatting to . After all a cock isn't the first thing I see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't have them publicly, but send them out with no problem.

I don't bother with men who refuse to send them. Lol

Same.

I never send first though. Only after they've sent theirs.

Couldn't that just lead to a stale mate?

Sometimes but then I just stop chatting.

I won't send mine before they have, even if I mailed them first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the general consensus on face pics?

Do we risk it or not?

I've chatted to guys who out right refuse to send a face pic and quite frankly it's annoying. They want to see mine or can see mine but refuse to repay the favour.

Thoughts? "

Showing our faces is part of the risk with online stuff. I'll send mine if someone asks but not make them public because you have no idea who else is on these sites. I think it's not right though to expect others to show them your face but not do the same in return...

Also....boobs.

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By *ruegent101Man
over a year ago

down by the river side

"What's the general consensus on face pics?

Do we risk it or not?

I've chatted to guys who out right refuse to send a face pic and quite frankly it's annoying. They want to see mine or can see mine but refuse to repay the favour.

Thoughts? "

in personal situations through fab majority of those who don't want to share face picture are not genuine or fakes ! But do take care with who you choose to share you face pic with and you will be fine !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What's the general consensus on face pics?

Do we risk it or not?

I've chatted to guys who out right refuse to send a face pic and quite frankly it's annoying. They want to see mine or can see mine but refuse to repay the favour.

Thoughts?

Also....boobs."

Boobs??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What's the general consensus on face pics?

Do we risk it or not?

I've chatted to guys who out right refuse to send a face pic and quite frankly it's annoying. They want to see mine or can see mine but refuse to repay the favour.

Thoughts?

Mine are public...well. A couple are anyway.

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By *ug247Man
over a year ago

Near You

I just send one in the first message as it's easy and the recipient(s) will either delete or answer. A lot better than message tennis then after finally sending face pics they or I don't want to chat anymore.

I know it's logical but it might catch on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No face pic..no chat.. Never mind a meet...

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By *ug247Man
over a year ago

Near You

"No face pic..no chat.. Never mind a meet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a couple go off on one this week because i wouldnt meet them without a face pic. Even though i said im not even meeting atm

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I had a couple go off on one this week because i wouldnt meet them without a face pic. Even though i said im not even meeting atm

I just don't get it. What else would they expect? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a couple go off on one this week because i wouldnt meet them without a face pic. Even though i said im not even meeting atm

I just don't get it. What else would they expect? X"

Its the only nasty message ive ever had

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By *irty Girty From No 30Woman
over a year ago

Burbage

"What's the general consensus on face pics?

Do we risk it or not?

I've chatted to guys who out right refuse to send a face pic and quite frankly it's annoying. They want to see mine or can see mine but refuse to repay the favour.

Thoughts? "

I wont show mine until I have seen theirs, if they don't show I simply stop correspondence, for every one man that wont show, 30 others will show

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the general consensus on face pics?

Do we risk it or not?

I've chatted to guys who out right refuse to send a face pic and quite frankly it's annoying. They want to see mine or can see mine but refuse to repay the favour.

Thoughts?

I wont show mine until I have seen theirs, if they don't show I simply stop correspondence, for every one man that wont show, 30 others will show"

The sad, sad truth

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I had a couple go off on one this week because i wouldnt meet them without a face pic. Even though i said im not even meeting atm

I just don't get it. What else would they expect? X

Its the only nasty message ive ever had

I got one off a guy who I didn't reply to a few times.

His 3rd messages said something along the lines of

"Why don't you talk to me"

The 4th

"Is it cause you're fat.

Don't worry, I'll keep you away from the fridge"

Haha. Top twat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a couple go off on one this week because i wouldnt meet them without a face pic. Even though i said im not even meeting atm

I just don't get it. What else would they expect? X

Its the only nasty message ive ever had

I got one off a guy who I didn't reply to a few times.

His 3rd messages said something along the lines of

"Why don't you talk to me"

The 4th

"Is it cause you're fat.

Don't worry, I'll keep you away from the fridge"

Haha. Top twat! "

God bless em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine are friends only due to work but when i was meeting I was happy to send them with a message or now for Face Pic Friday.

That reminds me, must get new pics up before Friday

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By *ruegent101Man
over a year ago

down by the river side

"I had a couple go off on one this week because i wouldnt meet them without a face pic. Even though i said im not even meeting atm

I just don't get it. What else would they expect? X

Its the only nasty message ive ever had

I got one off a guy who I didn't reply to a few times.

His 3rd messages said something along the lines of

"Why don't you talk to me"

The 4th

"Is it cause you're fat.

Don't worry, I'll keep you away from the fridge"

Haha. Top twat!

God bless em

Jesus really? That is dispicable trying to put someone down over not receiving a messege ! Maturity levels of a teenager

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I had a couple go off on one this week because i wouldnt meet them without a face pic. Even though i said im not even meeting atm

I just don't get it. What else would they expect? X

Its the only nasty message ive ever had

I got one off a guy who I didn't reply to a few times.

His 3rd messages said something along the lines of

"Why don't you talk to me"

The 4th

"Is it cause you're fat.

Don't worry, I'll keep you away from the fridge"

Haha. Top twat!

God bless em

Jesus really? That is dispicable trying to put someone down over not receiving a messege ! Maturity levels of a teenager

I used to be on PoF. I've had worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we either see what you look like or we don't meet you, our face pix are in public

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No face pic..no chat.. Never mind a meet...

Yep this

Although I've relaxed that a little while I'm not meeting as i don't care what someone i have no plans to meet looks like

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By *hoenixandflamesCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Another one for "Face pic of else".

Same with a couples needing pics of both... Not just the lady...

No pics... No chat... No play...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

quite simply, no face pic no meeting.

I don't like people insisting I have to send one if they're not even prepared to do so themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You contact first..send a pic. They contact first..they send a pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the general consensus on face pics?

Do we risk it or not?

I've chatted to guys who out right refuse to send a face pic and quite frankly it's annoying. They want to see mine or can see mine but refuse to repay the favour.

Thoughts?

Also....boobs.

Boobs?? "

Boobs are wonderful

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What's the general consensus on face pics?

Do we risk it or not?

I've chatted to guys who out right refuse to send a face pic and quite frankly it's annoying. They want to see mine or can see mine but refuse to repay the favour.

Thoughts?

Also....boobs.

Boobs??

Boobs are wonderful

Boobs are good.

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By *ug247Man
over a year ago

Near You

"What's the general consensus on face pics?

Do we risk it or not?

I've chatted to guys who out right refuse to send a face pic and quite frankly it's annoying. They want to see mine or can see mine but refuse to repay the favour.

Thoughts?

Also....boobs.

Boobs??

Boobs are wonderful

Boobs are good. "

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

We don't have them after someone confronted us where we live. Wasn't a pleasant experience. We now only tend to meet at parties, where we can all see each other!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had someone stalk me and find my bookface account from a face pic! Proceed with caution

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's the general consensus on face pics?

Do we risk it or not?

I've chatted to guys who out right refuse to send a face pic and quite frankly it's annoying. They want to see mine or can see mine but refuse to repay the favour.

Thoughts?

Also....boobs.

Boobs??

Boobs are wonderful

Boobs are good. "

Are we speaking generally or being referential?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Given that men tend to be more predatory / dickish, I would wager its probably more risky for women to have their face public.

I'm more than happy to send a face pic if one's requested and would obviously include one if I made an approach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us yep. Nothing crude or vulgar on our profile, just us.

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

I don't have a face pic on public display, as my job involved working with a steady stream of the public, and I would be mortified if someone recognised me at work. I only send it to someone who I have asked for a meet.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I'm not likely to meet a guy when I don't know what he looks like."

All my face pics are of my ugly twin brother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think whoever initiated the conversation should send the face pics first. I just had to tell off a couple recently for demanding our face pics when they messaged us first.

It's only fair that the party who expresses initial interest show their cards first.

-Courtney "

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By *ouble_The_DelightCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We have our face pics set to private but if we start exchanging messages re sorting a meet out then will happily exchange face pics.

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By *manda63Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

We've had a few messages where no face pic is attached and when we have asked for one, they reply but still don't send one, so we reply saying thank you and goodbye. Grey has his face pic public but I don't but we will send them with a message

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

My face pic is open - it never used to be

But at the end of the day, you normally see people's face first before seeing them naked

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I'm not likely to meet a guy when I don't know what he looks like.

Wouldn't meet someone but why do they expect me to?

They come out with it being about work.....even though they've seen mine...."

Don't see your problem. You set your criteria for chatting/meeting. If one is a face pic and they don't comply, block and move on.

Why waste your time?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

got nothing to hide so show them. its always nice (and polite) to see who you are chatting to.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd probably not meet someone without a face pic. So others can limit themselves all they'd like to, but it costs them.

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