FabSwingers.com forum: Tears....

By *atisfy jane OP Woman
over a year ago

Torquay

Feel so silly, just heard a song come on the radio which had me crying....had to go into the office at the shop and dry my tears.

Funny how something as simple as a song can make people so emotional.

Memories can be so cruel.....

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

aww hugsxxxx

im like that too have alot of songs that remind me of things sad and happy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Feel so silly, just heard a song come on the radio which had me crying....had to go into the office at the shop and dry my tears.

Funny how something as simple as a song can make people so emotional.

Memories can be so cruel....."

That's me when "Sacrifice" by Elton John comes on Jane. I try and avoid it and I've never seen the video. It was the song always playing in the intensive care when I went to see my son.

Ever since his death, everytime I hear that song I'm back in Frederick Still Ward at Kings. 21 years this year...still makes me cry.

Big hug to you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Big hugs to you all xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im always crying at things on telly lol

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By *eppersCouple
over a year ago

telford

Can't listen to babycakes, my 11 yr old sons fav song when he died, his mom had it played at funeral,now 7yrs on it still brings me to tears,

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

can't listen to Angels by Robbie Williams, first song I heard when my son died on Valentine's day 12 years ago

Hugs to all xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm still at a stage where I need to avoid certain songs....so I share all your sentiments and send you all my heartfelt sympathies....

We feel pain because we know what love is...

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Don't worry... I cry at adverts me. An emotional cripple I am sometimes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we both watched a film last week,'everybody's fine' starring Robert De Niro and at one point Mar had to pause it and walk out of the room because it upset him so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jim reeves singing Old Tige always has me blubing like a baby!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wow my heart and big hugs go out to alll you guys who lost a child.I'm a father of a lovely little girl and come to tears just being around her as she is my pride and joy.So I can't relate to your pain but i share in the love we all have for our children.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm still at a stage where I need to avoid certain songs....so I share all your sentiments and send you all my heartfelt sympathies....

We feel pain because we know what love is...

nods in agreement....xx

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we both watched a film last week,'everybody's fine' starring Robert De Niro and at one point Mar had to pause it and walk out of the room because it upset him so much"

I was that way watching him and Robin Williams in the Awakening....ffs.... I ended up sitting in the middle of a pile of damp-soggy tissues.... not for the first time I hasten to add.....

Oh,, now come on they were soggy with tears,,,,struth,, you lot have got such filthy minds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never lost a child so my sympathies to all .... makes me realise how lucky I am xxx

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By *atisfy jane OP Woman
over a year ago

Torquay

The Hollies.....'He ain't heavy'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also send a hug to all who have been affested by that, I know how you all feel to lose someone, mine is easy by the commodores,I sang that to my first wife at our wedding

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By *ev and TrevCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

Feeling slightly emotional today, no particular reason for it, just hormonal I think but reading the posts of those that have lost children has brought me to tears. I'm sat here sobbing as I type, big hugs to you all

Rhi xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ooooh, lost for words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

me and the elephant ...gene cotton and dance with my father luther vandross summer wind frank sinatra all for different reasons ..im a gibbering wreck !!!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

moon river and scarlett ribbons has me blubbering.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everybody Hurts - REM. Can't listen to that song without crying my eyes out.

I've got quite tearful reading your posts. Thoughts with you all xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certain songs still have that effect on me, even after aversion therapy by repeatedly playing them inside the car!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Raining in baltimore by Counting crows. never thought they'd do it live. Cried in front of all of my friends, damn!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine is with or without you by U2

Much love and hugs to everyone. xxxx

and I've been known to cry at adverts too. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Raining in baltimore by Counting crows. never thought they'd do it live. Cried in front of all of my friends, damn!"

Shit, why did i just listen to that again? bummer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of songs set me off No Woman No Cry and I believe I can fly both my brothers favourite songs when he left us. And every christmas when I see boxes of Newbry Fruit sweets I cry as it reminds me of my nan.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Feel so silly, just heard a song come on the radio which had me crying....had to go into the office at the shop and dry my tears.

Funny how something as simple as a song can make people so emotional.

Memories can be so cruel....."
Same thing happened to me last week.....its something that happens when im out n about n i get strange looks for crying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Songs often have strong emotional ties and eternally bind us to loved ones.

Hugs all round xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tears from Heaven - Eric Clapton - guaranteed to have me sobbing. And it has been said, I'm a bit of a softie, so tears spring sometimes out of the blue.

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

I wouldn't say i exactly cry but i have a couple that put the hairs on the back on my neck up and i go big eyed. The worst is highway to hell. Heard it all too often while working with the Americans in the 90s.

Funny how music can bring back memory's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get extremely tearful when hearing

"dikadumdum" by des oconnor

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

i cant listen to "I believe i can fly" good friend of mine in an acciident when his light aircraft went in to a mountain in wales.... was played at his funeral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was going to mention a song that brings me to tears as it reminds me of breaking up with an 'ex' but after reading all the posts from those of you who've lost a child it has made me realise how lucky I am.

My sincerest sympathy and thoughts are given to everyone who has suffered and is still suffering one of the hardest things in life to bear. xx

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By *andsomgeorgeMan
over a year ago

Rugby

Mika - Any other world.

I played this over and over again in my big fancy exec car with awesome sound system whilst driving to the office, day after day. The wife (and mother of my children) had left me (came out of the blue to me) and no-one knew. I soon learned material 'wealth' really doesn't guarantee you happiness.

My thoughts are with all those posters above who have lost loved ones and childen. I know I can't comprehend but my thoughts are with you all.

Listen to the song, you might be presently surprised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was quite flippant in my last posting and didnt mean to be

I do sympathise with those who have lost loved ones and friends.

I have lost enough last year alone to know how that feels.

Hence i cant listen to alot of eva cassidys music as that was played at a lot of funerals and brings back still clear and painful memories

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By *andsomgeorgeMan
over a year ago

Rugby

"I was quite flippant in my last posting and didnt mean to be

I do sympathise with those who have lost loved ones and friends.

I have lost enough last year alone to know how that feels.

Hence i cant listen to alot of eva cassidys music as that was played at a lot of funerals and brings back still clear and painful memories

I organised my Grandmother's funeral and carried out her wishes as we had discussed them. She was cremated and wanted Great Balls of Fire. As I know she wanted to make everyone laugh I don't feel sad when I hear that song.

Pink Floyd, Comfortably Numb on the other hand...different story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gotcha on that one.

My lovely aunt mave wanted al jolson at hers and we all was smiling. it was lovely .

My dad had the dam busters at his as he was R A F .

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By *andsomgeorgeMan
over a year ago

Rugby

"Gotcha on that one.

My lovely aunt mave wanted al jolson at hers and we all was smiling. it was lovely .

My dad had the dam busters at his as he was R A F .

I think I'd rather make people smile/laugh. At least people were smiling. I had people watching my shoulders to take their queue so I made sure they could see me chuckling. My Grandad was so pleased I played it. The rest as they say is history.

Both yours are stirring pieces Peaches.

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