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"You mean the ones that dont like bum bandits? Nah its ok as long as they say each to their own first, whatever follows is allowed apprently... "It's like the 1980's all over again!  | |||
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"You mean the ones that dont like bum bandits? Nah its ok as long as they say each to their own first, whatever follows is allowed apprently...
It's like the 1980's all over again! "Shit please dont let that happen there'd be two varas. Shit just got real. Seriously though it shocks me how these people call themseleves 'open minded' | |||
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"On the increase just lately?" In my day, there used to be non-bigoted homophobes. Oh, how times have changed  | |||
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"On the increase just lately?" While mysogeny and inverted mysogeny continue to exist... So to will homophobia . | |||
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"It's like the 1980's all over again!
Oooohh, I'll put put on ma Frankie Goes To Hollywood album then "Relax man..... | |||
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"On the increase just lately? Shut up fag." Have you seen "The Boondock saints"? | |||
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"On the increase just lately?" On fab or in life generally?? Certainly on here I've seen an increase in the short time I've been on the forums, but as in life, they get ignored and fade away in to the distance until no one can remember their name | |||
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"On the increase just lately? On fab or in life generally?? Certainly on here I've seen an increase in the short time I've been on the forums, but as in life, they get ignored and fade away in to the distance until no one can remember their name "Dam how do i get a hairy body like yours!  | |||
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"A don't like on fab when it's allowed for people to use the term "" watch out you don't catch the gay bug " even in jest I find it not to be nice" I can see that. I think though its seen as a good way to take the mick out of a bigot. Humour is usually more effective than telling them xx never used the phrase myself though xx | |||
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"On the increase just lately? Shut up fag. Have you seen "The Boondock saints"?" https://youtu.be/RP3jA9UEwkE?t=27s ? | |||
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"A don't like on fab when it's allowed for people to use the term "" watch out you don't catch the gay bug " even in jest I find it not to be nice I can see that. I think though its seen as a good way to take the mick out of a bigot. Humour is usually more effective than telling them xx never used the phrase myself though xx" Very true, I tend to blank and move on | |||
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"Homophobia, a fear of having sex with someone you most likely couldn't pull any way " | |||
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"We have no issue at all with people who possess male & female genitals, regardless of the size of their toes." no holidays in Norfolk then.. | |||
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"On the increase just lately?" The most bigoted homophone I've ever had the misfortune to meet is the gay guy that I work with. He's a fucking vile example of the human species. | |||
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"On the increase just lately? The most bigoted homophone I've ever had the misfortune to meet is the gay guy that I work with. He's a fucking vile example of the human species." How's he bigoted towards gays or is he just vile | |||
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"On the increase just lately? Shut up fag. Have you seen "The Boondock saints"? https://youtu.be/RP3jA9UEwkE?t=27s ?" Yeah, that bit! | |||
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"On the increase just lately? The most bigoted homophone I've ever had the misfortune to meet is the gay guy that I work with. He's a fucking vile example of the human species. How's he bigoted towards gays or is he just vile" He hates other gay guys and is always judging them. He despises lesbians and anyone who's bisexual. He's also an utterly disgusting racist. | |||
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"We have no issue at all with people who possess male & female genitals, regardless of the size of their toes. no holidays in Norfolk then.. " Fuck right off! 
My toes are perfect. I even have a photo to prove it! | |||
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"We have no issue at all with people who possess male & female genitals, regardless of the size of their toes. no holidays in Norfolk then.. Fuck right off!
My toes are perfect. I even have a photo to prove it!"
are they hairy..?
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"On the increase just lately? The most bigoted homophone I've ever had the misfortune to meet is the gay guy that I work with. He's a fucking vile example of the human species. How's he bigoted towards gays or is he just vile He hates other gay guys and is always judging them. He despises lesbians and anyone who's bisexual. He's also an utterly disgusting racist. " I've known lesbians to be very bi-phobic - is that a word? And I've also noticed a lot of the LGBT community can be quite racist and even transphobic. You'd assume that minority groups wouldn't be so narrow minded | |||
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"I read in an article most guys that are homophobic see it as a challenge to their alpha male status, but it never mentioned females " I think this is bullshit. Most actual "alpha males" are secure in their identity and are tolerant of others. It's the wannabes and the ones who think they are alpha males but aren't that are threatened by those with different lifestyles. | |||
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"I've known lesbians to be very bi-phobic - is that a word? And I've also noticed a lot of the LGBT community can be quite racist and even transphobic. You'd assume that minority groups wouldn't be so narrow minded "Biphobic is a word. And yes, tbf, I've had more shit off gay men for daring to like pussy as well than I have from straight people. It's an odd one. | |||
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"On the increase just lately? The most bigoted homophone I've ever had the misfortune to meet is the gay guy that I work with. He's a fucking vile example of the human species. How's he bigoted towards gays or is he just vile He hates other gay guys and is always judging them. He despises lesbians and anyone who's bisexual. He's also an utterly disgusting racist. " Well, in that case, I hope he likes straight guys or women otherwise his sex-life must be pretty much non-existent | |||
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"We have no issue at all with people who possess male & female genitals, regardless of the size of their toes. no holidays in Norfolk then.. Fuck right off!
My toes are perfect. I even have a photo to prove it!
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"We have no issue at all with people who possess male & female genitals, regardless of the size of their toes. no holidays in Norfolk then.. Fuck right off!
My toes are perfect. I even have a photo to prove it!
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"I've known lesbians to be very bi-phobic - is that a word? And I've also noticed a lot of the LGBT community can be quite racist and even transphobic. You'd assume that minority groups wouldn't be so narrow minded
Biphobic is a word.
And yes, tbf, I've had more shit off gay men for daring to like pussy as well than I have from straight people.
It's an odd one. "It's like, you're greedy, you're confused, you're a slut... and so on. I saw a fun explanation for it on Facebook t'other day - some people like ice cream, some like cookies, some like both. | |||
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"On the increase just lately? The most bigoted homophone I've ever had the misfortune to meet is the gay guy that I work with. He's a fucking vile example of the human species. How's he bigoted towards gays or is he just vile He hates other gay guys and is always judging them. He despises lesbians and anyone who's bisexual. He's also an utterly disgusting racist. Well, in that case, I hope he likes straight guys or women otherwise his sex-life must be pretty much non-existent "He's just vile. Several of the Polish guys at work have punched him because he thinks its funny to tell them that Hitler didn't go far enough. One young lad almost flattened him on Friday because he was screaming that he was thick because he wasn't English. I had to step in to stop him getting hit again. He's been reported to HR numerous times but they've done nothing about it. | |||
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"On the increase just lately? The most bigoted homophone I've ever had the misfortune to meet is the gay guy that I work with. He's a fucking vile example of the human species. How's he bigoted towards gays or is he just vile He hates other gay guys and is always judging them. He despises lesbians and anyone who's bisexual. He's also an utterly disgusting racist. I've known lesbians to be very bi-phobic - is that a word? And I've also noticed a lot of the LGBT community can be quite racist and even transphobic. You'd assume that minority groups wouldn't be so narrow minded "We've noticed that. In a lot of ways. LGBT being bi-phobic, Irish people being racist and Women being sexist. | |||
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"It's like, you're greedy, you're confused, you're a slut... and so on. I saw a fun explanation for it on Facebook t'other day - some people like ice cream, some like cookies, some like both." I AM greedy | |||
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"I think sexuality is a spectrum and we're all on it somewhere. Heterosexual at one end, gay/lesbian at the other. With all shades an combinations in between. It's all natural "We sometimes move on that spectrum too. We don't all stay in the same place throughout our lives. Sexuality and attraction are very fluid things. | |||
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"It's like, you're greedy, you're confused, you're a slut... and so on. I saw a fun explanation for it on Facebook t'other day - some people like ice cream, some like cookies, some like both. I AM greedy "Me too. Now, these cookies and the ice cream that were mentioned... | |||
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"I think sexuality is a spectrum and we're all on it somewhere. Heterosexual at one end, gay/lesbian at the other. With all shades an combinations in between. It's all natural
We sometimes move on that spectrum too. We don't all stay in the same place throughout our lives.
Sexuality and attraction are very fluid things."Yes | |||
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"On the increase just lately? The most bigoted homophone I've ever had the misfortune to meet is the gay guy that I work with. He's a fucking vile example of the human species. How's he bigoted towards gays or is he just vile He hates other gay guys and is always judging them. He despises lesbians and anyone who's bisexual. He's also an utterly disgusting racist. I've known lesbians to be very bi-phobic - is that a word? And I've also noticed a lot of the LGBT community can be quite racist and even transphobic. You'd assume that minority groups wouldn't be so narrow minded "You would think wouldn't you, but my half brother had to move very quickly to Manchester to get away from most of his family, in particular his brothers from his mothers side, who said they were going to kill him, and it wasn't an empty threat. The people if the caribean are not best known for the tolerance of the gay community | |||
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"I think sexuality is a spectrum and we're all on it somewhere. Heterosexual at one end, gay/lesbian at the other. With all shades an combinations in between. It's all natural
We sometimes move on that spectrum too. We don't all stay in the same place throughout our lives.
Sexuality and attraction are very fluid things."like a big bowl of tapioca with random dollops of different compotes.. | |||
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"I think sexuality is a spectrum and we're all on it somewhere. Heterosexual at one end, gay/lesbian at the other. With all shades an combinations in between. It's all natural
We sometimes move on that spectrum too. We don't all stay in the same place throughout our lives.
Sexuality and attraction are very fluid things."Yep; am beginning to believe in all that 'squirting' stuff | |||
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"Just because someone is gay/bi or whatever sexual orientation doesn't mean they can't be homophobic etc. It's the same as seeing threads about people thinking all swingers are open minded, accepting and none judgmental. " ^This! Lol I love how surprised people always are at marginalised and oppressed groups still containing wankbadgers. You being oppressed ? you're a nice person.
It's a bit like saying "You'd die if I shot you, so why are you shooting me with your gun, WTF dude?!" Like, they are unrelated phenomena.
But yeah, bigots can get in the fucking sea. | |||
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"Just because someone is gay/bi or whatever sexual orientation doesn't mean they can't be homophobic etc. It's the same as seeing threads about people thinking all swingers are open minded, accepting and none judgmental. ^This! Lol I love how surprised people always are at marginalised and oppressed groups still containing wankbadgers. You being oppressed ? you're a nice person.
It's a bit like saying "You'd die if I shot you, so why are you shooting me with your gun, WTF dude?!" Like, they are unrelated phenomena.
But yeah, bigots can get in the fucking sea. "The above is very true, many gay guys suffer from deep rooted inverted homophobia issues and consequently inflict all sorts of nasty abuse and stigma on other gay people , usually the ones that painstakingly maintain heterosexual facades . they're insecure and deathly frightened their world of lies will topple down upon them so adopt an ultra homophobic attitudes to shift focus and scrutiny from themselves. Anyone that's seen that Al Pacino film "cruising" will kow what I'm talking about. | |||
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"You mean the ones that dont like bum bandits? Nah its ok as long as they say each to their own first, whatever follows is allowed apprently...
It's like the 1980's all over again!
Shit please dont let that happen there'd be two varas. Shit just got real.
Seriously though it shocks me how these people call themseleves 'open minded'"They are open minded, but it stops at male same sex fun. They seem to think same sex female fun is ok though. | |||
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"On the increase just lately?" On here? Can't say I've noticed really, noticed the racist and xenophobic getting more vocal though. I tend not to come on so much now because of it. | |||
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"It's like the 1980's all over again!
Oooohh, I'll put put on ma Frankie Goes To Hollywood album then
Relax man....."F**k Fab Lets Dance! | |||
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"On the increase just lately? The most bigoted homophone I've ever had the misfortune to meet is the gay guy that I work with. He's a fucking vile example of the human species. How's he bigoted towards gays or is he just vile He hates other gay guys and is always judging them. He despises lesbians and anyone who's bisexual. He's also an utterly disgusting racist. I've known lesbians to be very bi-phobic - is that a word? And I've also noticed a lot of the LGBT community can be quite racist and even transphobic. You'd assume that minority groups wouldn't be so narrow minded "Both my partner and I identify as bi/pan-sexual and we find it very hard to meet gay men or lesbians (depending on which one of us it is, obviously). We have found that those who are gay can be very unaccepting of bisexual people. Too often the stereotype is that you're 'greedy', when in reality we just don't really care what someone has between their legs - all kinds of genitals can be fun. | |||
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" all kinds of genitals can be fun." I'm going to get that printed on a T-shirt | |||
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" The most bigoted homophone . Is that a word that doesn't like other words that sound like it? "No, it was my phone being a twat. | |||
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" The most bigoted homophone . Is that a word that doesn't like other words that sound like it?
No, it was my phone being a twat."Don't you start having a go at your phone, just because its a Homophone, you bigot lol | |||
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"On the increase just lately? On fab or in life generally?? Certainly on here I've seen an increase in the short time I've been on the forums, but as in life, they get ignored and fade away in to the distance until no one can remember their name
Dam how do i get a hairy body like yours! "It's only put on with Velcro | |||
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"Having read this thread i think a lot of you see what no one else sees, you seem to confuse bigots with peoples personal choices "Mostly on this site though, "personal choice" is a cover for "I'm a racist/homophobe/etc", even if the person doesn't believe that they are. | |||
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"You mean the ones that dont like bum bandits? Nah its ok as long as they say each to their own first, whatever follows is allowed apprently...
It's like the 1980's all over again! "Not quite, at least we had Tom Robinson then! | |||
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"On the increase just lately?" Tbh I think they've always been around and been loud and clear in their ignorance! Personally I find it fairly constant - and a useful filter in deciding who I don't want to meet! However - if you're a bi/gay male and at the brunt of their comments, I imagine how 'bovvered' you are by their comments would alter according to your state of mind/happiness at the time! I still find it amusing/bizarre that the vast majority of women on the site are bi/bi-curious and that's not only fine - its actively encouraged!! Odd little world we live in, isn't it? | |||
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" all kinds of genitals can be fun. I'm going to get that printed on a T-shirt "My genitals aren't much fun! They've never cracked a decent joke yet - and they've never bought me a drink! | |||
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"On the increase just lately? On fab or in life generally?? Certainly on here I've seen an increase in the short time I've been on the forums, but as in life, they get ignored and fade away in to the distance until no one can remember their name
Dam how do i get a hairy body like yours!
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" The most bigoted homophone . Is that a word that doesn't like other words that sound like it?
No, it was my phone being a twat.
Don't you start having a go at your phone, just because its a Homophone, you bigot lol "Touché | |||
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"On the increase just lately? While mysogeny and inverted mysogeny continue to exist... So to will homophobia . "Whats inverted misogyny?...and what has misogyny got to do with homophobia? | |||
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"On the increase just lately?" More gay men. More ladies (well potentially). Use your brains idiots | |||
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" all kinds of genitals can be fun. I'm going to get that printed on a T-shirt
My genitals aren't much fun!
They've never cracked a decent joke yet - and they've never bought me a drink! "Your genitals sound like a right twat | |||
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"On the increase just lately? On fab or in life generally?? Certainly on here I've seen an increase in the short time I've been on the forums, but as in life, they get ignored and fade away in to the distance until no one can remember their name
Dam how do i get a hairy body like yours!
It's only put on with Velcro
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"The very fact that clubs pander to bi females and treat bi guys differently has an unpleasant undertone " Another reason for me to not attend a club | |||
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"The very fact that clubs pander to bi females and treat bi guys differently has an unpleasant undertone " Has always been a grievance of mine too | |||
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"The very fact that clubs pander to bi females and treat bi guys differently has an unpleasant undertone " I've always found this odd. If the idea is to encourage women to attend surely women who play with other women are just as good as a straight man? Bi guys should be getting the same discount as straight women and bi women should be paying what the straight men are paying
I'm just kidding, but it does work based on the stated logic of club pricing...
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"I'm getting a lot more "I'm straight BUT..." type messages lately. The ones where, when you pick someone up on how that's kind of offensive when said to a trans woman, they call you a 'man' and block you. Sigh." Hi Pandora, Yes, if you are a Transsexual but I dont find it offensive as a TV. I know there is a spectrum but there is a definite split between a TV (for the sake of a word) who is parttime and a TS who is living and working as a woman and possibly transitioning. I just take it as a compliment, most of the men I meet are straight, only the bi- ones have any interest in my penis they are seeing me as the woman I am at that time...and I am pleased for their fantasy. I am a fantasy woman - I know things about their sexuality most women don't know and are not interested in finding out without sneering (I dont think I'm talking about most women on here) | |||
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"The very fact that clubs pander to bi females and treat bi guys differently has an unpleasant undertone I've always found this odd. If the idea is to encourage women to attend surely women who play with other women are just as good as a straight man? Bi guys should be getting the same discount as straight women and bi women should be paying what the straight men are paying
I'm just kidding, but it does work based on the stated logic of club pricing...
-Courtney "I was meaning more bi females can play in public any night and there will be little/no impact. Bi guy play has to be on a special night
The bluster to management on a non special night reeks of something unpleasant
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"I sometimes think Fab should offer TS and CD/TV as different things to stop this happening maybe. I am transitioning and don't want to be insulted (and they are insults, when these guys don't get their own way)" I fully agree with you | |||
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"I sometimes think Fab should offer TS and CD/TV as different things to stop this happening maybe. I am transitioning and don't want to be insulted (and they are insults, when these guys don't get their own way)" In that case of course you're right but maybe you should make your profile clearer. I wasn't able to tell. And you are right they should separate TS from TV - actually that's a bit ignorant. xxx | |||
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"The very fact that clubs pander to bi females and treat bi guys differently has an unpleasant undertone I've always found this odd. If the idea is to encourage women to attend surely women who play with other women are just as good as a straight man? Bi guys should be getting the same discount as straight women and bi women should be paying what the straight men are paying
I'm just kidding, but it does work based on the stated logic of club pricing...
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I was meaning more bi females can play in public any night and there will be little/no impact. Bi guy play has to be on a special night
The bluster to management on a non special night reeks of something unpleasant
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"Apparently my profile is homophobic" I don't see why | |||
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"Apparently my profile is homophobic I don't see why" Its a trick...to get us all to look... very clever. | |||
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"Apparently my profile is homophobic" I knew you were without reading your profile. | |||
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"Apparently my profile is homophobic I don't see why Its a trick...to get us all to look... very clever." no was told on a thread last night it was just stating me preferences clearly | |||
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"Apparently my profile is homophobic I don't see why" It was someone being dramatic on another thread. | |||
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" Bi guy play has to be on a special night
"We particularly enjoy bisexual play on 'regular' night at clubs. Because it makes people stare in disgust. But at least they're staring - and we like being watched. | |||
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"Homophobia's gay "Lol I think there's truth to that. Repressed feelings etc... | |||
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"Apparently my profile is homophobic I don't see why It was someone being dramatic on another thread." Surely not?! I've never heard the like! | |||
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" Bi guy play has to be on a special night
We particularly enjoy bisexual play on 'regular' night at clubs. Because it makes people stare in disgust.
But at least they're staring - and we like being watched." | |||
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" Bi guy play has to be on a special night
We particularly enjoy bisexual play on 'regular' night at clubs. Because it makes people stare in disgust.
But at least they're staring - and we like being watched."do you know, I love bi- nights more than any other. There's just a complete freedonm and abandon and everyone can join in. My favourite nights have been with both men and women. Got spit roast once with a girl and a strap on behind and a guy in front...glorious. Swingers nights can be a bit cliquey. | |||
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"The very fact that clubs pander to bi females and treat bi guys differently has an unpleasant undertone I've always found this odd. If the idea is to encourage women to attend surely women who play with other women are just as good as a straight man? Bi guys should be getting the same discount as straight women and bi women should be paying what the straight men are paying
I'm just kidding, but it does work based on the stated logic of club pricing...
-Courtney
I was meaning more bi females can play in public any night and there will be little/no impact. Bi guy play has to be on a special night
The bluster to management on a non special night reeks of something unpleasant
But your point is valid and appreciated "On another site.. We were recently invited to a party (couples profile) i said not interested, sounded like a cock fest (or someone's idea of a cuckold party, what a load of crap, anyway i digress) so the organiser asked "but you have MM as an interest?" yes says I, for bi MMf.."none of our party guys bat for the other team"... Now I've sucked more than my fair share of a particular type of cock at some specific parties and i can tell you, dear reader, for some social groups anything bi is a BIG no no. But it doesn't stop them doing it in the private rooms... | |||
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"and it's not just men, some of the women are just as bad." I was just thinking this. | |||
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"and it's not just men, some of the women are just as bad. I was just thinking this." 100% some are | |||
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"Are you guys fucking serious? Scroll through any thread and it's a bunch of jerkoff virgin fuckwits calling us all "bum bandits" and stuff and it's not just men, some of the women are just as bad. I mean, this is a fucking swingers website if you can't handle a little homosexuality go the FUCK back to vanilla life you pathetic sad peices of shit! " lol, my son and I dissolved into fits of giggles one night when I said "I wouldn't have a problem if my grandson turned out to be a.... shirt lifter, bum burglar - we went through all the words. He doesn't know what I do. | |||
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"and it's not just men, some of the women are just as bad. I was just thinking this. 100% some are" Personally I find it HOT!  | |||
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"and it's not just men, some of the women are just as bad. I was just thinking this. 100% some are Personally I find it HOT! "haha you out and proud about it, I see more abuse in these forums than people like you saying it's hot though! | |||
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" all kinds of genitals can be fun. I'm going to get that printed on a T-shirt " | |||
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"Are you guys fucking serious? Scroll through any thread and it's a bunch of jerkoff virgin fuckwits calling us all "bum bandits" and stuff and it's not just men, some of the women are just as bad. I mean, this is a fucking swingers website if you can't handle a little homosexuality go the FUCK back to vanilla life you pathetic sad peices of shit! lol, my son and I dissolved into fits of giggles one night when I said "I wouldn't have a problem if my grandson turned out to be a.... shirt lifter, bum burglar - we went through all the words. He doesn't know what I do." I can just imagine that. Also, I'm going to refer to my partner as a bum bandit next time he's tied up and can't take a swing at me. | |||
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"Apparently my profile is homophobic I don't see why It was someone being dramatic on another thread. Surely not?! I've never heard the like!" It was quite ironic when you looked at the profile of the accusers | |||
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"Personally l don't care if a person is gay or bisexual and anyone should be able to express themselves sexually as they feel provided it is not oppressing or abusing someone else. However calling a man who does not want to sleep with another man a homophobe is as ridiculous as calling a gay man a mysandranist because he does not sleep with women or calling a lesbian a man hater because she does not sleep with men. The issue should not be sexual preference but promoting respect and avoiding abuse and ridicule of other people's sexuality. Ridicule, abuse and treating gay and bi-people not as equals is in my _iew homophobic." I don't have a problem with a man who chooses not to have sex with another man. Its the way he says it that speaks volumes. | |||
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"Ridicule, abuse and treating gay and bi-people not as equals is in my _iew homophobic." those are the _iews that this post is directed to. not straight men who don't want to shag a bi/gay man, why..... because they are straight | |||
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" However calling a man who does not want to sleep with another man a homophobe is as ridiculous as calling a gay man a mysandranist because he does not sleep with women or calling a lesbian a man hater because she does not sleep with men. " Nobody's calling anyone homophobic for not wanting to sleep with another man though. The rest of your post is otherwise spot on!!!! | |||
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