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By *layfullsam OP Man
over a year ago

Solihull

Just wondering if any women stay over in a hotel in the south/ south west through work ?

Never see any in the hotel bar on there own but plenty must use them on business.

Occasionally see someone having a meal but they don't seem to stop in the bar for a drink, guess it's awkward and they get fed up with being hit on ?

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

I work in Hotel Management and solo women in hotels is actually commonplace. But as I have witnessed, a few often tend to meet up together and stay on the same night, eat together and drink together.

Safety in numbers perhaps?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

They've all arranged meets and are fucking to high heaven upstairs while you're sat there pondering their existence over your pint of warm watered down fosters

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over a year ago

When I'm away with work (generally London) I've usually prearranged myself a meet specifically so I don't have to sit on my own in a hotel bar like an eejit.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"When I'm away with work (generally London) I've usually prearranged myself a meet specifically so I don't have to sit on my own in a hotel bar like an eejit. "

See

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in the south often but yes. Id never go to the bar alone though. If i wanted a drink id buy a bottle and take it to my room. Have it in the bath

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over a year ago

"When I'm away with work (generally London) I've usually prearranged myself a meet specifically so I don't have to sit on my own in a hotel bar like an eejit. "

You're talking about a work related meet obviously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking never works....., just relax and enjoy your evening.

It does happen....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally travel with a work colleague, last time was really embarrassing as we were in a rather plush but quiet hotel, only 2 other couples in the restaurant having romantic meals with their partners, then there was me (ginger) and the team geek - who over the candle lit table told me he had semi reasonable sexual skills!!! Now I'm not certain if that was a subtle hint that he would be up for fun that night - but I wasn't taking any chances and made my excuses and retired to my room - alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I'm away with work (generally London) I've usually prearranged myself a meet specifically so I don't have to sit on my own in a hotel bar like an eejit.

You're talking about a work related meet obviously.

Of course!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I try and book apartments when I'm travelling for work now.

I never drink alone so usually just eat and go up to my room when I have to stay in a hotel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I'm away with work (generally London) I've usually prearranged myself a meet specifically so I don't have to sit on my own in a hotel bar like an eejit.

You're talking about a work related meet obviously.

Of course!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not met anyone from here while away with work, but met and enjoyed some great convos with other hotel souls........ Not that I wouldn't mind some fab company

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different story in the North East up in Aberdeen, its a constant flow of oil workers staying over prior to flying offshore,

The majority used to be out on the pull looking for a night of fun with any female looing to take the bate

This started to cut down now that random breath tests are done prior to flight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I go to hotels on my own for work I usually take my laptop and sit in the bar and work. If anyone tries to hit on me its a great excuse for asking them to leave me alone so that I can enjoy my evening in peace. If you don't have a solid reason it can be hard to get rid of guys.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

So it isn't just on here the single male is a predator then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So it isn't just on here the single male is a predator then."

Well... This week I've been hit on twice in the street and once in the sauna...

I'm using "hit on" as a very loose term, obviously.

In a not-dead hotel bar I can easily have three or four guys approach me in an evening. They're always away on business too, and proberbly all married.

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By *hingford manMan
over a year ago

highams park East London

"Not in the south often but yes. Id never go to the bar alone though. If i wanted a drink id buy a bottle and take it to my room. Have it in the bath

Maybe when in London you should book a professional

No sod that

Semi professional

No sod that

A total novice masage

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Pub culture is mostly male, not many women will go to a pub or bar on their own and socialise with whoever is about.

I travel a lot and it's incredibly rare that I will sit in a hotel or any other bar unless I'm getting food. Even then I generally have a book or my tablet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I go to hotels on my own for work I usually take my laptop and sit in the bar and work. If anyone tries to hit on me its a great excuse for asking them to leave me alone so that I can enjoy my evening in peace. If you don't have a solid reason it can be hard to get rid of guys."

I do this, or take a book.

Usually though, I tend to order room service and stay in my room.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I stay in hotels nearly every week for work. I have met some great people from here. I've never tried to hit on a random woman in the bar though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not in the south often but yes. Id never go to the bar alone though. If i wanted a drink id buy a bottle and take it to my room. Have it in the bath

Maybe when in London you should book a professional

No sod that

Semi professional

No sod that

A total novice masage

Nah it would be good to find pub partner though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not in the south often but yes. Id never go to the bar alone though. If i wanted a drink id buy a bottle and take it to my room. Have it in the bath

Maybe when in London you should book a professional

No sod that

Semi professional

No sod that

A total novice masage

Nah it would be good to find pub partner though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pub culture is mostly male, not many women will go to a pub or bar on their own and socialise with whoever is about.

I travel a lot and it's incredibly rare that I will sit in a hotel or any other bar unless I'm getting food. Even then I generally have a book or my tablet."

My kindle is my friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So it isn't just on here the single male is a predator then.

Well... This week I've been hit on twice in the street and once in the sauna...

I'm using "hit on" as a very loose term, obviously.

In a not-dead hotel bar I can easily have three or four guys approach me in an evening. They're always away on business too, and proberbly all married."

I never ever get hit on. Literally never. I must give off some kind off "fuck off and don't talk to me, I'm married" vibe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I'm away with work (generally London) I've usually prearranged myself a meet specifically so I don't have to sit on my own in a hotel bar like an eejit. "

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So it isn't just on here the single male is a predator then.

Well... This week I've been hit on twice in the street and once in the sauna...

I'm using "hit on" as a very loose term, obviously.

In a not-dead hotel bar I can easily have three or four guys approach me in an evening. They're always away on business too, and proberbly all married.

I never ever get hit on. Literally never. I must give off some kind off "fuck off and don't talk to me, I'm married" vibe. "

I think men can sense it when you're married - your vagina dries up and gives off 'I don't want sex anymore' pheromones. Or at least that's what all the cheating men must think is happening...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is nothing more soul less than a businessmans hotel in the evening. I've done it so many times and its just so boring. Hitting on lone females isnt my thing. Women should feel free to go about their business without let or hindrance from some johnny saddo who thinks they are there for his amusement. No i just book in, focus on my work and book out,,simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So it isn't just on here the single male is a predator then.

Well... This week I've been hit on twice in the street and once in the sauna...

I'm using "hit on" as a very loose term, obviously.

In a not-dead hotel bar I can easily have three or four guys approach me in an evening. They're always away on business too, and proberbly all married.

I never ever get hit on. Literally never. I must give off some kind off "fuck off and don't talk to me, I'm married" vibe.

I think men can sense it when you're married - your vagina dries up and gives off 'I don't want sex anymore' pheromones. Or at least that's what all the cheating men must think is happening..."

Well the ring is a clue too...but yeah, they look but never approach. It must be about 5 years since anyone chatted me up anywhere (I'm a grumpy sod, so I'm totally ok with that because I can't be arsed).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So it isn't just on here the single male is a predator then.

Well... This week I've been hit on twice in the street and once in the sauna...

I'm using "hit on" as a very loose term, obviously.

In a not-dead hotel bar I can easily have three or four guys approach me in an evening. They're always away on business too, and proberbly all married.

I never ever get hit on. Literally never. I must give off some kind off "fuck off and don't talk to me, I'm married" vibe. "

More seriously - I think it's proximity to London.

I get hit on *alot* when I am in London (for work or pleasure). I could barely go a day working in London without someone approaching me or giving me their number.

Or perhaps proximity to big cities where men tend to be in the dominant positions. And sheer volumes of people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes stay in hotels with work, my mood really fluctuates though - sometimes I'll do work in the bar or whatever, other times I'll just go somewhere for a walk to avoid 4 walls!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So it isn't just on here the single male is a predator then.

Well... This week I've been hit on twice in the street and once in the sauna...

I'm using "hit on" as a very loose term, obviously.

In a not-dead hotel bar I can easily have three or four guys approach me in an evening. They're always away on business too, and proberbly all married.

I never ever get hit on. Literally never. I must give off some kind off "fuck off and don't talk to me, I'm married" vibe.

More seriously - I think it's proximity to London.

I get hit on *alot* when I am in London (for work or pleasure). I could barely go a day working in London without someone approaching me or giving me their number.

Or perhaps proximity to big cities where men tend to be in the dominant positions. And sheer volumes of people."

I'm including London in my assessment. Ditto if I'm in Leeds or Birmingham or anything. They just don't.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"So it isn't just on here the single male is a predator then.

Well... This week I've been hit on twice in the street and once in the sauna...

I'm using "hit on" as a very loose term, obviously.

In a not-dead hotel bar I can easily have three or four guys approach me in an evening. They're always away on business too, and proberbly all married.

I never ever get hit on. Literally never. I must give off some kind off "fuck off and don't talk to me, I'm married" vibe. "

Me either but I thinks possibly because I'm an uggo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So it isn't just on here the single male is a predator then.

Well... This week I've been hit on twice in the street and once in the sauna...

I'm using "hit on" as a very loose term, obviously.

In a not-dead hotel bar I can easily have three or four guys approach me in an evening. They're always away on business too, and proberbly all married.

I never ever get hit on. Literally never. I must give off some kind off "fuck off and don't talk to me, I'm married" vibe.

More seriously - I think it's proximity to London.

I get hit on *alot* when I am in London (for work or pleasure). I could barely go a day working in London without someone approaching me or giving me their number.

Or perhaps proximity to big cities where men tend to be in the dominant positions. And sheer volumes of people.

I'm including London in my assessment. Ditto if I'm in Leeds or Birmingham or anything. They just don't. "

I've never been hit on randomly in Birmingham (except, erm, in the gay clubs).

And I go to Birmingham *alot* because one of my partners lives there.

I'd never thought that actually. Perhaps there are certain trends about the kinds of people find attractive in different parts of the country.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got hit on by a very nice american in birmingham. I am looking forward to going tommorow...except now my colleagues going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So it isn't just on here the single male is a predator then.

Well... This week I've been hit on twice in the street and once in the sauna...

I'm using "hit on" as a very loose term, obviously.

In a not-dead hotel bar I can easily have three or four guys approach me in an evening. They're always away on business too, and proberbly all married.

I never ever get hit on. Literally never. I must give off some kind off "fuck off and don't talk to me, I'm married" vibe.

More seriously - I think it's proximity to London.

I get hit on *alot* when I am in London (for work or pleasure). I could barely go a day working in London without someone approaching me or giving me their number.

Or perhaps proximity to big cities where men tend to be in the dominant positions. And sheer volumes of people.

I'm including London in my assessment. Ditto if I'm in Leeds or Birmingham or anything. They just don't.

I've never been hit on randomly in Birmingham (except, erm, in the gay clubs).

And I go to Birmingham *alot* because one of my partners lives there.

I'd never thought that actually. Perhaps there are certain trends about the kinds of people find attractive in different parts of the country."

There could well be - you get a different "look" in different areas so it would make sense. Like more glammed up and fake looking Oop north, whereas London tends to be a bit more laid back. I always feel overdressed in London.

A man in Sunderland told me I was beautiful but I'm not sure that's much of a compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So it isn't just on here the single male is a predator then.

Well... This week I've been hit on twice in the street and once in the sauna...

I'm using "hit on" as a very loose term, obviously.

In a not-dead hotel bar I can easily have three or four guys approach me in an evening. They're always away on business too, and proberbly all married.

I never ever get hit on. Literally never. I must give off some kind off "fuck off and don't talk to me, I'm married" vibe. "

Ditto!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So it isn't just on here the single male is a predator then."

Is the single man really a predator then or just generally expected by some to make the 1st move.

I find when I'm in a London bar / hotel if I smile back at someone, look their way a few times they're more likely to come over, if I ignore them they usually don't bother. Either way works for me depending on my mood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There could well be - you get a different "look" in different areas so it would make sense. Like more glammed up and fake looking Oop north, whereas London tends to be a bit more laid back. I always feel overdressed in London.

A man in Sunderland told me I was beautiful but I'm not sure that's much of a compliment

I think that's certainly the case.

I rarely get hit on when I go home to Essex. But if I go out with my Step-Sister - a TOWIE devotee - then she gets hit on all the time.

When I go out in London and I'm wearing my long dreadlocks, I will get hit on at least twice as often as if I've got my hair shaved or closely cropped.

But Birmingham... NOTHING!

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By *hingford manMan
over a year ago

highams park East London

"Not in the south often but yes. Id never go to the bar alone though. If i wanted a drink id buy a bottle and take it to my room. Have it in the bath

Maybe when in London you should book a professional

No sod that

Semi professional

No sod that

A total novice masage

Nah it would be good to find pub partner though

Iv always classed the bar as my office ??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ruby woo if you ever need some company in yorkshire I would jump at the chance x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"They've all arranged meets and are fucking to high heaven upstairs while you're sat there pondering their existence over your pint of warm watered down fosters

Yep.

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