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By *uby0000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

my mate who is 44 has now got a 9 month old daughter through barebacking he don't know which way to turn says he will be there for the child but not sure about the mother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stuff happens but hope he is there for the child

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good that you're supportive of friends.

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By *uby0000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

he was in a bad relationship he never wanted a child tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they say "put something on the end if it" they don't mean a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't know which 'way to turn' ?

The 'way to turn' is to man up, confirm he has responsibilities and, if he has some, make sure he follows them through. Wholeheartedly and with love. Not 'because he has to'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All together now "He should've put something on the end of it"

It stuns me how people in this day and age still get surprised when unprotected sex leads to pregnancy

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"he was in a bad relationship he never wanted a child tho"

If he didn't want a child, he should have done something about it before one was conceived.

Now is his time to step up and be an adult.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"he was in a bad relationship he never wanted a child tho"

Well he has one now. I suspect he was fully aware that sex can lead to pregnancy given his age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He helped bring the child into the world so man up and grow the feck up.

Or use a condom

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"He helped bring the child into the world so man up and grow the feck up.

Or use a condom "

Condoms aren't 100% effective...we know from experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He helped bring the child into the world so man up and grow the feck up.

Or use a condom

Condoms aren't 100% effective...we know from experience "

Oh feck it the lets just bareback hey

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"He helped bring the child into the world so man up and grow the feck up.

Or use a condom

Condoms aren't 100% effective...we know from experience

Oh feck it the lets just bareback hey "

You might be in the lucky 98%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my mate who is 44 has now got a 9 month old daughter through barebacking he don't know which way to turn says he will be there for the child but not sure about the mother "

Sounds like a bit of the if I get pregnant he may stay with me

There is nothing more embarrassing than getting stopped In the street and asked is this your latest grandchild

Or even having grandchildren older than your own children

I know I am the worlds worst for saying that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to play devils advocate..He was in a relationship so may have believed or been led to believe that she was on some form of contraceptive??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just to play devils advocate..He was in a relationship so may have believed or been led to believe that she was on some form of contraceptive??"

See my post about trapping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Man up " is that when a bi man gets lucky

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"my mate who is 44 has now got a 9 month old daughter through barebacking he don't know which way to turn says he will be there for the child but not sure about the mother

Sounds like a bit of the if I get pregnant he may stay with me

There is nothing more embarrassing than getting stopped In the street and asked is this your latest grandchild

Or even having grandchildren older than your own children

I know I am the worlds worst for saying that "

How do you infer that from the op?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my mate who is 44 has now got a 9 month old daughter through barebacking he don't know which way to turn says he will be there for the child but not sure about the mother "

Well that's normally how children are made

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Congrats to him! It may be a blessing in disguise.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"my mate who is 44 has now got a 9 month old daughter through barebacking he don't know which way to turn says he will be there for the child but not sure about the mother

Well that's normally how children are made "

Damn! Is that what causes it?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my mate who is 44 has now got a 9 month old daughter through barebacking he don't know which way to turn says he will be there for the child but not sure about the mother

Well that's normally how children are made

Damn! Is that what causes it?! "

So I'm lead to believe....i can't prove it though but I'm not taking any chances having already had 2!!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I hope he has many years of happiness with his daughter and she grows up being loved.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"my mate who is 44 has now got a 9 month old daughter through barebacking he don't know which way to turn says he will be there for the child but not sure about the mother "

And he's cool with you airing his dirty laundry on a swingers site is he?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"my mate who is 44 has now got a 9 month old daughter through barebacking he don't know which way to turn says he will be there for the child but not sure about the mother "

He doesn't have to be there for the mother, just be the best father he can go his daughter.

The world is all topsy turvy sometimes - lots of couples/singles out there would give anything to be a parent; others become one without trying. To me a child is an amazing gift. I hope he makes the most of it.

Sarah

Sarah

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By *uby0000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire


"my mate who is 44 has now got a 9 month old daughter through barebacking he don't know which way to turn says he will be there for the child but not sure about the mother

And he's cool with you airing his dirty laundry on a swingers site is he? "

hes not on fab

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"my mate who is 44 has now got a 9 month old daughter through barebacking he don't know which way to turn says he will be there for the child but not sure about the mother

And he's cool with you airing his dirty laundry on a swingers site is he?

hes not on fab"

Makes no difference really. How will he react when you tell him of our sage advice an reactions or are you not going to tell him you were discussing it with a load of random people who fuck a lot?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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