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By *ugby 123 OP   Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

...you have had a bad week or ongoing problems that are worrying you in real life and someone sends you a message saying "How are you? " do you...

A. Say, " Fine thanks, how are you? "

or

B. be tempted to tell the truth in all it's glory and see what they say?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have done the b before when having a really really bad day never heard from them again cant think why lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually just say I'm okay how are you? unless it's a really close friend, and they would know how I was feeling anyway. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

80% id say im fine, but sometimes its good to have a rant to a complete stranger,, i feel better after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id never tell anyone on here anything to do with my private life

When people ask how you are they dont really wnat to know its just a conversation starter lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't unload on a stranger on here and besides they don't really want to know its a prelude to asking when they can get in your knickers.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

You do realise that everyone is going to be sending you a "how are you?" message now

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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Depends who send the message, if a stranger, won't tell them my probs.

If a friend would perhaps say that I wasn't my usual self and see how they reacted to that. Sometimes the last thing someone wants is to hear you being negative.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Depends who asked really. If it's a random then I'd do A. If it's someone I know better then I'd maybe elaborate. I'm probably too open for my own good though so I try to keep my trap shut about personal stuff a bit more these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only tell my friends the real me as they know and understand what you are on about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't open up to a stranger, but if it is some one I know, and feel comfortable with then I may say something,

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By *ugby 123 OP   Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"You do realise that everyone is going to be sending you a "how are you?" message now

"

Funny old thing, they have already started by people who saw my post

But can you imagine telling them all your real life little probs like ......My washing machine sprung a leak and the dog ate the hamster so the kid is in mourning and won't get ready for school, I have burnt the toast so the other kid won't eat it and my hemorroids are playing up ( none of the previous is true ) instead of saying Fine thanks.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You do realise that everyone is going to be sending you a "how are you?" message now

Funny old thing, they have already started by people who saw my post

But can you imagine telling them all your real life little probs like ......My washing machine sprung a leak and the dog ate the hamster so the kid is in mourning and won't get ready for school, I have burnt the toast so the other kid won't eat it and my hemorroids are playing up ( none of the previous is true ) instead of saying Fine thanks..... "
it is one way of geting rid of some people you don't want to offend, but don't want to talk to

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By *ugby 123 OP   Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

lol true...didn't think of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to answer back quite honestly, something all the lines of

yeah ave had a twat of a day, got the trots and am bored off me tits at the mo, hows your day been

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By *ugby 123 OP   Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

lol do they answer back or run a mile?

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston


"( none of the previous is true ) "

If you say so Ruggers, if you say so.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"I tend to answer back quite honestly, something all the lines of

yeah ave had a twat of a day, got the trots and am bored off me tits at the mo, hows your day been"

Normal Pussy day then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I tend to answer back quite honestly, something all the lines of

yeah ave had a twat of a day, got the trots and am bored off me tits at the mo, hows your day been"
Got some emodium, so that cures the trots, lol

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By *ugby 123 OP   Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"( none of the previous is true )

If you say so Ruggers, if you say so. "

Well one is Thanks for the loan of the rubber ring Invictus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" ......My washing machine sprung a leak and the dog ate the hamster so the kid is in mourning and won't get ready for school, I have burnt the toast so the other kid won't eat it and my hemorroids are playing up ( none of the previous is true ) instead of saying Fine thanks..... it is one way of geting rid of some people you don't want to offend, but don't want to talk to"

Dramas copied, ready to be pasted to respond to incoming mail

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I'm a compulsive liar so I do tend to enjoy sharing the most excruciatingly personal things with the most casual of friends.

None of which is true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...you have had a bad week or ongoing problems that are worrying you in real life and someone sends you a message saying "How are you? " do you...

A. Say, " Fine thanks, how are you? "

or

B. be tempted to tell the truth in all it's glory and see what they say? "

Have always told them the truth...it makes me feel better seeing their discomfort and my answer

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

It depends who sends the message,but i wouldnt lie and say everything was fine when it wasn't.Details would depend on how well i knew them tho.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If its someone i know well i tell them but not a stranger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I usually just say I'm okay how are you? unless it's a really close friend, and they would know how I was feeling anyway. xxx"

Ditto here

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

i mostly just say im fine coz i have enough probs that i dont like to bore ppl lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...you have had a bad week or ongoing problems that are worrying you in real life and someone sends you a message saying "How are you? " do you...

A. Say, " Fine thanks, how are you? "

or

B. be tempted to tell the truth in all it's glory and see what they say? "

Delete, and mumble "oh, for fucks sake".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tell them how it is ..... If a bad day if good i say if boring i say if sexy i say if normal i say .

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish


"You do realise that everyone is going to be sending you a "how are you?" message now

Funny old thing, they have already started by people who saw my post

But can you imagine telling them all your real life little probs like ......My washing machine sprung a leak and the dog ate the hamster so the kid is in mourning and won't get ready for school, I have burnt the toast so the other kid won't eat it and my hemorroids are playing up ( none of the previous is true ) instead of saying Fine thanks..... it is one way of geting rid of some people you don't want to offend, but don't want to talk to"
I have done this...lol...and it worked hehehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...you have had a bad week or ongoing problems that are worrying you in real life and someone sends you a message saying "How are you? " do you...

A. Say, " Fine thanks, how are you? "

or

B. be tempted to tell the truth in all it's glory and see what they say? "

somewhere in the middle like "I'm ok but got a bit of flu, bit overworked etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as above but if its a person i know relatively well i'll spill the gory details

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess my normal answer is pretty much standard on a good or bad day.... I simply reply “Shyte but thanks for asking, and how are you?”.....

But always said with much gusto and glint of wry optimism inflected in my voice, which usually attracts a warm smile back rather than sets an uncomfortable moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A mixture of A & B, something in the line of: Not so good, however, I can cope, and it could have been a lot worse!

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