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Ever been married? Still are? Would you again?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As it's the 29th Feb and ladies can propose today (I'm sure they do other days but I'll go with what's tradition!)

Have you ever been married? Still are and happily swinging together? Or been there done that and never again in a month of Sunday's?

I was married for 15 years. Don't think I would again - simply because I've been there and done that. Think I'll just live separately to whoever I end up with, as I love my own space too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes twice... No never again.. Although there are times I feel a bit cheated as I always wanted the fairytale wedding and never even got q dress...

Cali x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been there done that and never again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been married.

Will only marry again to a billionaire with a dodgy heart

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By *abes in the woodWoman
over a year ago

wales

Don't know been married twice waiting for last finial of my devorce but depends if guy right I would.but then get use to beening single I suppose so I say yes if time was right

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

No, though I'm open to it.

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Both on our 3rd, s'all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, no, and not until I meet that group of 3to4 special ladies will I ever consider settling down

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I've been married twice, the first time disastrously and briefly the second 28 years together 35 and hopefully many more to come. I wouldn't marry again because nothing could match what we have now.

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By *alnsanCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

We're married just about 2 1/2 years, been together about 5 1/2 years, we're going to vegas later this year to do the wifey's dream of the elvis wedding with pink caddy & the works, this is to re-new our vows for our 3rd anniversary.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been married twice, the first time disastrously and briefly the second 28 years together 35 and hopefully many more to come. I wouldn't marry again because nothing could match what we have now."

That's lovely. I know a few people who had a similar experience with a disastrous first and short marriages, but second one has been brilliant.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

No and no and I'd never say never but unlikely.

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

To the thread title; yes, no, yes

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Been married once ... I never say never however it would take someone very very special , who knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twice, first one ended tragically when another driver sepperated us permenantly, second one 15 years latter is ongoing and equally happy, but very different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To the thread title; yes, no, yes"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once bitten, twice shy...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I've been married twice, the first time disastrously and briefly the second 28 years together 35 and hopefully many more to come. I wouldn't marry again because nothing could match what we have now.

That's lovely. I know a few people who had a similar experience with a disastrous first and short marriages, but second one has been brilliant.

"

There's nothing like a short, sharp shock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been married, hated it.

Wouldnt do it again...

Im to selfish with my space and couldnt share my home with another adult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes...no...never ever again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Almost! Glad I didn't go through with it!

Most of my life Iv dreamed about meeting my soul mate and getting married. Obviously there were times I thought it would never happen and times I didn't want to be with anyone.

I'm back with my soul mate whom I met 20 years ago and I'm proposing today

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I was married for 28 years.

I don't like the idea of living with someone without being married, but I don't want to marry again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Almost! Glad I didn't go through with it!

Most of my life Iv dreamed about meeting my soul mate and getting married. Obviously there were times I thought it would never happen and times I didn't want to be with anyone.

I'm back with my soul mate whom I met 20 years ago and I'm proposing today "

Oh good luck - you'll have to tell us if he gives the right answer later !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happily married for almost 6 months now. Both on here together enjoying life to the full

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In answer to the title....Yes. Yes. No need whatsoever.....23 years together this year and our 10th wedding anniversary coming up.

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By *obwithkiltMan
over a year ago

Belton

Been married. ..still not divorced after 6 years. ..would I do it again? Maybe who knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was married 18 yrs now widowed and would never do it again ....although I have five wonderful kids out of it

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


" Been there done that and never again "

Wimp!!

I was married for 20 years - I would certainly be in no hurry to marry again and would want to live with someone for at least a year beforehand to be sure, but I have no problem with it in principle. I like things settled, lol, nothing wrong with marriage, and I prefer monogamy, I just picked a lemon first time round!

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"Almost! Glad I didn't go through with it!

Most of my life Iv dreamed about meeting my soul mate and getting married. Obviously there were times I thought it would never happen and times I didn't want to be with anyone.

I'm back with my soul mate whom I met 20 years ago and I'm proposing today "

How lovely. Hope it goes well. You must let us know.

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By *obwithkiltMan
over a year ago

Belton


"Almost! Glad I didn't go through with it!

Most of my life Iv dreamed about meeting my soul mate and getting married. Obviously there were times I thought it would never happen and times I didn't want to be with anyone.

I'm back with my soul mate whom I met 20 years ago and I'm proposing today "

Awww Good luck x

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By *illerpinsMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"Was married 18 yrs now widowed and would never do it again ....although I have five wonderful kids out of it "

busy lady x

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Married twice and now happily divorced. I would do it again but only as a marriage of convenience so that someone could benefit from my works pension.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm technically still married. We've been separated for 5 and a half years. Getting divorced very soon.

I don't think I'd marry again, but who knows.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happily divorced and well I have no plans to marry again but never say never!!!

Human stupidity is after all infinite

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By *idseysCouple
over a year ago

redditch

Married once, still married, 23 years married this year, 26 years together

Mrs

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Both divorced.. I'd marry Dick.

Doubt it will ever happen though

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Absolutly not get married for the simple fact i dont want to

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Never been married. Never been close. Never even thought about it. Not something I'm interested in but you never know what could happen in the future.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I've never been married and have no plans to change it. Very happy living in sin

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Not into marriage, ta.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I Marc.

I would have stayed with him without getting married, but marriage confers a lot of legal rights, not to mention a tax reduction in the US. So, a judge and 12 guests later and we are happily married.

-Courtney

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By *arksMan
over a year ago

in the centre

Yes , no , not a fucking hope in hell

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

No chance would i ever get married again worst mistake of my life I would rather stick pins in my eyes an do that again

Im So Glad Im Divorced An Single Ive only Been Married Once.an That Was Enough

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I Marc.

I would have stayed with him without getting married, but marriage confers a lot of legal rights, not to mention a tax reduction in the US. So, a judge and 12 guests later and we are happily married.

-Courtney "

One of my concerns. Ben lives with me in my house. Everything is in my name. I have three children, two grandchildren. My kids loath Ben with a passion.

If anything happened to me they would evict him as soon as as the house is willed to them.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Was married for a long time but now I'm settled looking after no 1 isn't so heard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I Marc.

I would have stayed with him without getting married, but marriage confers a lot of legal rights, not to mention a tax reduction in the US. So, a judge and 12 guests later and we are happily married.

-Courtney

One of my concerns. Ben lives with me in my house. Everything is in my name. I have three children, two grandchildren. My kids loath Ben with a passion.

If anything happened to me they would evict him as soon as as the house is willed to them. "

If you don't want to get married, then get a will drawn up. Do it right so there aren't any questions or doubt.

-Courtney

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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Being single is great...no interfering in laws to deal with any more esp my mother in law or should I say narcissistic mother in law

So glad to be out of the marriage. .an a lot happier

Marriage wasn't for me tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married once still married. Best thing I ever did. Won't do it again because I said I'd do it once and once only with the right person.

Unless he wants to renew our vows of course.

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By *inkswithpanCouple
over a year ago

lough

We are due to be married in just under 3 weeks, 1st for both of us. Very excited and still swinging happily xx

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Would not change our marriage for the world got married very young swinging as made our marriage very strong and happy

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By *rcticFoxxxWoman
over a year ago

Hereabouts

Yes. No. Maybe.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I think it's unlikely that I would get married again.

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By *retty FolliesCouple (FF)
over a year ago

south


"I think it's unlikely that I would get married again. "

well you have to get divorced first if you did want to...bigamy is a crime!

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Yes, married my "childhood sweetheart" in 2005 after 13 years & 1 child together. I asked him - he said yes but reluctantly. Had a great wedding I. Scotland with a princess dress followed by a big party a week later. Went on to have another child in 2006. Sadly he left in Feb 2012 & our divorce was finalised in April 2014.

Would I do it again? With the right person yes I would. But finding someone to take on my stroppy 14 yr old & 9 yr old sons is a big ask & I like my current situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not yet. He'd better get his butt in gear though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.. No.. And No..

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Yes...no.....doubt it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been married, have no desire to either. Iv seen so many family and friends get married only to end up divorcing. It's put me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not yet. He'd better get his butt in gear though "

you can ask him today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont believe in marriage and only see it as a waste of money and unnecessary pressure! Sorry to be morbid!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"No.. No.. And No.. "

That a no then was just waiting for you to ask to. Gutted xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been married and never will be. It's worth jack all anyhow. Because i say certain words in a certain place in front of some stranger who barely knows me doesn't change how i feel about a person or make the relationship more solid.

I couldn't have a church wedding as i don't believe so would be having one 'just because' and is pretty two faced and frankly..who the hell gave the registry office authority to tell me if my relationship is official or not? Their ruling means jack to me so no....

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

First marriage 43 years this year no swinging and no I would not marry again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're both legally still married to other people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, no and will be again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married for 10 years. Happily for 5. We've lived completely separate lives for 3. Just put house up for sale. Never again!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I am single, there is to much temptation out there as variety is the spice of life

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"No. I am single, there is to much temptation out there as variety is the spice of life "

You can have both Shag... as long as you're patient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was, now divorced. Never again!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was but now divorced, honestly haven't got a clue if I would again or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I married when I was 20, I was married for 15 years (technically I still am as trying to sort through the divorce!!), I did say I would never remarry again but times have changed and I would without a doubt

G x

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Yes, no and if he came with 200million quid in his bank account then maybe

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No and never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not yet. He'd better get his butt in gear though

you can ask him today "

Haha I would but I'm waiting for the bling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

married 12 years ago, left 7 years ago,cant afford to divorce him, but i will as soon as i can!

If i met someone i wanted to be with, then yes, i'd marry them...and i'd do it in las vegas again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been married. We were both military so even though we were married we only lived together in the same house for 6 months.. And it was that 6 months that ended a 9 year marriage.

Would never do it again. Ever!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes happily together 8 years married 4 next week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. I am single, there is to much temptation out there as variety is the spice of life

You can have both Shag... as long as you're patient"
lol and that is right, both is possible to have. I got plenty of patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been married, wouldn't do it again, but never say never! I'm happy living in my own bubble, suits me down to the ground

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married for 35 years this year and it just keeps getting better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been married and got divorced i can say ill never marry again done it once.and.thats enough for me.but each to there own

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I'm writing this to say;

(In a gentle way)

"- Thankyou, but no".....

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By *amantha45Woman
over a year ago

blackpool

been married 14 years hubby left me for another woman so never again going to enjoy my self now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been with the Mrs since I was 17, celebrating 25 years together this July

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bin there twice

first for 4years

Second 22years

never again

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